@topup

If you understand adam's story, you will see that whenever he dumps a girl, deep down he wished it was the girl that dumped him. Having broken his heart that badly, he has built a wall around himself subconciously, to dump any girl that gets close to that wall, before he gets dumped (it mustnt happen to him twice).

No matter the sense of accomplishment he gets when he dumps a girl, he keeps hoping it will take the pain away. but the memory lingers on, HE NEEDS TO FIND HIMSELF

he needs to find her

only then will he find himself, only then will he be that GUY, he was before he went to the restuarant.

and only then will that GUY be able to move on.


@POSTER

FIND HER, DUMP HER AND YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF

Nairalanders

Please help me decide which laptop should i choose for the same price;

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OR

Acer Aspire 4720
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@ poster

i feel pity for you after your story, i inevitably concluded that YOU R LOST. i guess it hasn't hit you yet, but when it does, i hope it won't be too late, cos you'll find yourself in the middle of nowhere ALONE,

Having said that, my advice for you is that for any lost person, GO BACK TO WHERE YOU STARTED FROM

You dont understand??

Find the one that broke your heart, and BREAK HER HEART
Sounds funny but thats the only way you can find yourself, look at it like this she did not only break your heart but she destroyed a world which you had so perfectly built.

find this girl, seduce her back (they never 4get their EX), make her fall madly in love with you , then destroy her world has she had destroyed yours (like in the restuarant). then and only then will you find your peace,

An eye for an eye, and the world will be at peace

@ oreofemi
dont mind nairalanders, dey don forget about you
my sister, which kind man u want bico?

[size=14pt]My answer is YES. Mostly, we try to deny it. But in reality, we all know its always about the MONEY.[/size]

OR why else will a young girl go out with someone as old as his father. Believe me it has nothing to do with love.

before u act on your feelings, put yourself in your friend's shoe.

how would you feeling if your friend says he loves your girlfriend?

dont do anything stupid.



if i was that your friend, i will kill you

welli:

not only in relationships.generally in life most good people dnt get what dey deserve

Exactly

[size=14pt]Like the saying goes "the good ones die young"[/size]

jediknight:

@ Poster,

Are u really dating this girl? Is she your girlfrnd or it's just some girl u like and toasting? First of all, I hate to burst your bubble but it seems she not into you the way you're into her. I think she just sees you like a friend. sad though because i know thats not the way u want it to be.

You really gotta move on or settle for less " accepting friendship when u actually want more" As per the calling thing. if you guys were really dating. i honestly think you'll actually call more often than u are at the moment and she'll definitely holla bck at you more often too. If u feel you've done stuff for her and she didn't show appreciation, u could and should tell her. but don't get it twisted, she ain't obliged to you in any way. I know it hurts bad when love don't love u back.

On the final note:
you could manage your emotions, move on and probably hookup with a flier girl
you could toast harder ( which also involves calling alot more) and hope she'll dig your vibe.


Its up to you; you're a grown guy and still do what u want to do no matter what we say in here. My advice is for u to do what'll make u happy!


Bless!

@jediknight
thanks, best advice so far

u saved me

ibkaye:

lol maybe they already tried to and that is why he decided to post this topic

@ibkaye
damnnn, u r good. good investigative work.
yes, we are getting closer to d bottom of this matter

@poster
all i can telll u is that, pls dont let your mother or your sisters or your aunties see this post, [size=14pt]u hear[/size]
if they do, they will all conspire to [size=14pt]KILL U[/size]
[size=14pt]yes[/size], they will probably poison u

@poster
i feel ur pain

But we all go into such relationships hoping that when we get to d bridge we will cross it,

but as it always happens d bridge is bigger than we expect. the truth is religion is a every important aspect of marriage, this we have to discuss immediately you know d relationship is becoming something more. if it is not address d problems that will arise is capable of destroying d whole marriage and will also cause a great problem for your offsprings.

For me, i will definitely end it[size=14pt][/size]. as it is, am not a strong person religiously. so my marriage will also be meant to strengthen my faith.

[size=18pt]HAPPY CUSTOMER, HAPPY BANK

I BELONG 2 D FAMILY

INTERCONTINENTAL 4 LIFE [/size]

hanen:

My take is that, your dumb. Sorry, nothing else could describe my feelings for your flawed logic.

SECONDED

@poster
the more i think about ur post, d more i get upset. not all of us guys dey drink, so make u speak for urself

jokes apart now!
@poster
first before u set out on your quest for a decent girl, u have 2 ask yourself some questions;

1. are u yourself a decent person?

2. what qualities do u think u possess to make u deserve a decent girl?

3. when u see a decent girl, will u know d difference?

4. when u get a decent girl WHAT ARE U GOING TO DO WITH HER?

But truth is, u don't really need a decent girl, cos dis days there r no guidelines or rules to distinguish a decent person (either male or female). WHAT U NEED IS A GIRL WHO WILL LOVE U FOR WHOM U ARE AND WILL ACCEPT U WITH ALL UR IMPERFECTNESS. decent or not, will not matter anymore.

Goodluck, Amigo!

OR from PLUTO

OR SATURN

OR JUPITER, u get d pict!

@poster

NO

NO

NOOOOOOO!

except she is from MARS

smarta:


n whenever i go 2 see her, she's like an angel without wings(guys! no blame me, dey call it love)

i can't really tell if she's faking it or not

darkey:

find out why?
der must b one. if she doesnt have one and u don't like it, tell her so. talk to her and if notin changes, move on. 2 people can't walk together except they agree

@darkey
Whenever i ask Y, she always says she's 2 busy, 2 much stress in campus, no free time ,
n she wants me 2 always call her

like i no pass tru campus, it doesnt take one minute 2 make a call!

n whenever i go 2 see her, she's like an angel without wings(guys! no blame me, dey call it love)

but truely, i think i've had enough

@solution
na wa ooooooooo, but thanx

@poster

in ur next post, please and please, take it easy wit the grammar

but to tell u the truth, its a fact we all have 2 accept in girls, its either we want girls wit beauty or we want girls wit brains, you cant have d two.

looking for a girl with beauty n brains at the same time, is like looking for a diamond in the rocks (sorry ladies!)

hollandis:

The best things in life are free and available to everyone

[quote][/quote]

@hollandis
thanx, i'v stopped calling her for 2 wks now, during which she called once n i didnt pick her call

Y?

lets just wait n see (play d game)

i believe a man should get married,
1. when he gets enough mony
2. when he has a good job
3. when he gets proper accomodation
4. and finally, when he finds a very good "baby machine "

thanx 4 all ur replies, i think i actually posted dis topic cos i couldnt take it anymore
if i ask her y, she neva gives a tangible reason
mayb we r not meant 4 each other

@

Usiola:

as long as she calls other guys, date someone who calls u

mayb i need 2 move on,

opokonwa:

Or going her own way, which is equally good riddance!

i v invested a lot of my tym n effort not 2 talk of $$$ into d relationship, but i guess i just failed 2 read d writing on the wall

Well, i dont expect ladies out there 2 undastand, somethings are just meant to b d way dey are, men and sports, is like dogs and bones, it cant b explained

WETIN DEY ni oooooooooooooo!
bi like say unas no dey watch WETIN DEY?
its da bomb. try keep a date with next epi Sundays 10.30pm on NTA

i tell u, u no go regret am