andromida:



Is Onegig not a Babe or so I think.

Saga its not too late to get with the programme. You are always welcome.

rozzay: OP my sincere opinion, since u know ur husband will c dis don't u think he ll be further infuriated? If u feel u did nofin crious I don't c any reasons y u cannot employ ur graceful charms as his wife nd a woman. Dey say every man has a weakness u shuld know ur husband s own nd apply the tricks am sure it'll work. Nb- any man I don't know how to calm wen he s upset is def not my man

Missmossy: Jeeeez! You both are married,ooops....his actions are so unreasonable. Birthdays are special days to be celebrated,whatever happened between you too ought not to affect whatsoever actions he takes.

Eeyah,that must have hurt,you both are married anyway,he should make it up to you the right way it is well.

naijaboiy:

Expecting me to stand up and support her husband blindly right

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Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

ivyy: What was ur offence? In any case, that was pretty damn harsh. Why keep malice in marriage?

onegig: This thread just confirmed the romance section is filled with kids having mucus running down their noses.

@op
You need to tell him how his actions hurt you. He is just plain insensitive and childish.

No matter what the fight is, a simple happy birthday is the least thing he could have said to you. We even wish our enemies happy birthday on their facebook pages let alone your spouse.

Sagamite:

Na you train am?

This na your handiwork?

SirMethod1: Hope it's not an infidelity problem?

hayorbaami:

Finally bro. I was beginning to think the thread was a joke full of clowns. The silly comments and the likes they have amassed just left me speechless. Imagine one poster making a fuss over the word insensitive which aptly describes the man. And just like you said we wish exes who hurt us or even friends who have betrayed us happy birthday not to talk of one's spouse. Sometimes I don't think people understand what marriage is. Isn't it the height of insensitivity to ignore one's child on his or her birthday just because he misbehaved? Sometimes I think majority of nairaland men are just out to bully the womenfolk. I am saying this because I'm certain These comments would not have taken this dimension if the poster was a woman. All of a sudden everyone is interested in the other side of the story we obviously can not get (except the hubby comes around).

olumzzz:
All of una just dey jump into conclusions instead of asking the OP wat she really did. Maybe her husband caught r pants down wt anoda man, wu knws?
Abeg OP tell us wetin u do den we will knw if ur husband went 2 far or not.
#SHIKENA

ferdimako:
No be only tricks....u lavished N200,000 doing flashmecash to get N2M without his knowledge and it got stolen. I'm sorry will make it up and u get a beautiful birthday....una be jokers!

ednut1: so wat shud we do

Kc2swit: I utterly blame this poster for hanging her husband out here to dry. You cleverly mentioned his reaction without stating what propelled or elicited such from him. hence, whipping up the sentiments of some narrow-minded ,ill-experienced blokes to tag your husband various names. A wise woman builds her home, while the foolish one destroys it; and I cant see how these single ladies passing uninformed judgement against your husband will help you build your home.

DrGroove: I don't know why women still expect much from men of nowadays.Once a man is nice enough to marry you,don't expect even good morning from him again.if he doesn't say happy birthday, will u die?Marriage is for society respect,not for a man to be telling u happy birthday n giving bday gifts.If u have a job,cant u buy any gift for urself?Stop creating a big deal out of nothing. You apologised so ignore whatever reaction he is creating. Save ur emotions for ur kids.Emotions mean nothing to men.

Sweetlemon: What an insensitive husband!

I refuse to believe she did anything to warrant this. Except if she insulted his family or something like that.
Na wa o.

DrGroove: I don't know why women still expect much from men of nowadays.Once a man is nice enough to marry you,don't expect even good morning from him again.if he doesn't say happy birthday, will u die?Marriage is for society respect,not for a man to be telling u happy birthday n giving bday gifts.If u have a job,cant u buy any gift for urself?Stop creating a big deal out of nothing. You apologised so ignore whatever reaction he is creating. Save ur emotions for ur kids.Emotions mean nothing to men.

Kc2swit:
Can you even hear yourself? She didnt even do anything...really? Then why did she apologise? Why not mention what she did if its so insignificant to warrant the man's reaction? Do you even know that the bible approves outright divorce on certain grounds? Obviously a care-free single lady, anyways

naijaboiy: what kind of a man is that
He's taking things too far

XKZ:

But when you support the wife without hearing the husband's side of the story aren't you supporting the wife blindly?

and you know that is not possible right