Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

rokiatu: He is an insensitive husband period. If he was really in for peace he would have even just let it go for the sake of her birthday.

Trust me people this lady didn't commit any serious crime to warrant such.....she probably did something we all have done some point in our marriages/relationships , maybe she pissed him off, say something offensive, didn't do something he wanted or so on......I'm no supporting her action am only saying that shes human, we all makes mistake and marriage is...tying a bond with someone to piss off each other for the rest of your lives. How you handle it is what sets your marriage apart. And this young man or old man is not handling it very well.

A little advice to @ You the wife, this thread is uncalled for....yes I say so. I mean whats the essence of this thread? How is what we're writing here gonna help you in anyway? and you said that hes on nairaland as well this thread could even gets him more angry. What you should have done is tell him about how you feel about what he did.......even if that means a day later because I know when some people gets angry pride gets in the way.........and that's individual differences even me my heart is not near here.......no marriage is perfect me and my husband fight sometimes..........and a lot of irrelevant fights but we always make up.... we dont go a day without making it better. And this is a result of team work, sometimes I try to swallow my pride and patch things up even if hes wrong and sometimes mostly he does because i have quicker temper, and big heart so he try to put his down a bit so we can be balance. Someone has to come down a bit one way or the other, it don't matter who.


And you the hubby, You have conscious, and I am pretty sure it must have told you the right thing to do by now. Be a man and make things right you still have time to make this lady feel special......it was her birthday for God sake I mean you could have atleast put aside your anger for the sake of this one day.

oloriB: My hubby & yours should become friends. Mine would intentionally say words that would hurt u deep, when you react he is ready to keep malice for days. Some men are malicious in nature, they grew up in such environment so don't expect anything less. Big secret if you are tempted to talk back or say ur mind just shut up. It works for me.

aflyingbird:
wtf r u on abt?? dere's nothing wrong with mstik sayin op's husband is insensitive. wat he did is downright insensitive to his wife. what's wrong with using d word? she didn't call him any names, just dat his action is insensiitive n she's right. ignoring ur wife n not wishing her a happy birthday is 2 much

Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

jnrbayano:

Keep calm and reason deep.

The Op "lamented" that her hubby is "emotionally mean" out of heartbreak. She has already evaluated the situation and come out with that adjective.

Now she wants you to advice her on how to ameliorate her hurt and possibly win her hubby back (reverse her hubby's emotionally mean status she has already given him)

She doesn't want you to begin another judgement/appraisal of the hubby and the situation, if she did, she wouldn't have called the hubby "emotionally mean". She would have told you the story as it happened (what offence she committed against the hubby and how hubby snubbed her and her birthday) and requires you to now judge the situation for her.

I don't expect you to agree with me, but issues about other people's marriages require wisdom to handle it well and not exuberance.

Czechrep: Hi Nairalanders, my hubby is emotionally mean

We had an issue 2 days to my birthday, i apologised, but he ignored me, my birthday came, from beginning to end, he never uttered " Happy birthday"

You can imagine how i felt, people all over were calling me to wish me, but he didnt, even cancelled the dinner we were supposed to have, i feel so heart broken!!!

One would think i did something so atrocious , meanwhile i didnt,marriage is so difficult

dayuuummm !!!

adorable29:

To the men talking out of point and the women wanting to score cheap points with the men. Can't you see her response? She said she was sorry. Should she start rolling on the floor begging or what?


I strongly believe if it was a man that posted this, some men on here will advice the op to even send the wife packing! Bloody hypocritical naija men! Always wanting to intimidate the women!

OliverPin: LOL* you go sabi scatter marriage gan. See as you conclude without knowing the root of the matter. I salute you ma.

ednut1: so wat shud we do

bigx: You didnt notice the trait before accepting him as your husband?

Sagamite:

Shut up! Did they not teach you that a man is always to blame for anything that happens in a relationship?

What era do you think this is? You don't know it is the 21st century?

Useless fake man. You are so immature.

andromida, abeg come and give this guy, that dared to stand up against women, your expert "Real Man" training so that one more man can be converted to a debilitating mugu.

MzMariah: I want to apologize to you na

Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys

If you wouldnt tell us what this issue is, then we cant possibly help you.

You dont have to cheat or steal to piss your boo off.
I once threw a girl out of my house for messing during my morning devotion. That biitch had no respect for God.


So if you tell us what that issue was, then I can tap into the mind of your husband (who sounds like a really nice guy) and tell you what it was you did that annoyed him and teach you how to correct your ways and seek his forgiveness.


NOTE:: Never keep your boo angry for too long. Thats when cheating is most likely to happen.

Czechrep: Guys what could i possibly do that would warrant such meanness? Its so petty and i wouldnt ever bother to mention it, he visits nairaland and would probably see this and write back, Fyi i ddint cheat or steal or even commit any offense.thanks y'all for your comments, Whatever will be will be, i didnt ask for any gifts or money, i just felt " Happy Birthday " would have meant alot, cheers guys

Tallesty1: Issues get level madam so what really happened?


It is funny how people think that saying "sorry" would make you automaticaly 4get everything they did to you. Maybe he has taken enough, or maybe he know what you are after. You know some women automaticaly become nice and angelic when they need something from you. It doesn't work on everybody. Only a woman wrapper can be bought so easily. I'm not trying to be mean too but chances are the reason you apologised is because your birthday is around the conner. You Need That Gift Badly.

rane06: tunde that's mean

OliverPin: Even when the woman is wrong? Meanwhile, I only said mstik shouldn't push blames without knowing the full story. I didn't even answer the Question so abeg find ur own lane

Sagamite:

The woman is what?
You have the audacity to say a woman is wrong in a relationship issue?
You need deliverance from the demons possessing you.
You need to learn that when you hear an issue between couples, for you to show you are a REAL MAN, you need to always take the woman's side.
A real man knows men are always the ones wrong. They are only right when they do what a woman wants and the woman is happy.
Saying a woman is wrong is soooooo immature.

onegig: This thread just confirmed the romance section is filled with kids having mucus running down their noses.

@op
You need to tell him how his actions hurt you. He is just plaini insensitive and very childish.

No matter what the fight is a simple happy birthday is the least thing he could have said. We even wish our enemies happy birthday on their facebook pages let alone your spouse.