oludashmi: Just calm down. Communicate with her even if it's by sms now that you suspect some changes, your communication should be more of sharing whatever burden she's carrying.

Then, you need to know how far she has gone with the posting the guy is helping her with. She probably may be going thru some stress and so much call at that moment can be annoying.

If all attempt to get her attention is futile, then you can tell her'she has changed'. But that shouldn't be your first point.

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SortCode: NYSC.....Breaking relationship since 1972

ebujany: Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA. Sorry to ask bros.r u employed?! Na wr beta dey most 9ija babes dey follow. After dm nack am finish free am she go get sense.sorry bro.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.

this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

PERFECT2: TRUE LIFE STORY :
I covered a traditional marriage last year @ Enugu State. D lady(bride) was still servin then. When it was time to compile her pixs,the groom told me that i'll wait till his wife comes back so that she'll make see the pixs i choosed. I was patient bc i had already colected 70% of the money i charged them b4 the wedin. After a month,i reminded d man of his pixs,he kept telin me dat he traveled & so many stories. After 2 months,he finally opened up to me to tell me that the same wife that gave him wine @ d traditional wedding has refused coming back home afta her youth service. He has tried to bring her back & even threatened the bride's family...all to no avail. That man(wealthy though) hasn't recovered emotionally till date. His Video & Pixs are still in my office. If this can happen 2 a rich man that truly luvs his wife,it can hapen 2 any single. Take heart @ OP.

SortCode: NYSC.....Breaking relationship since 1972

poshiphy: Awww, Jst give her some space. If she's a virgin, she passed tru university n still remained virgin, do u tink she will jst give in to dat ICT guy? As for her change of atitude it could be dat she met someone else entirely bt don't jump into conclusion. Av bin dere b4, no matter hw stressful camp can be, u still av some time to ursef like 4rm 7pm to the nxt morning. Btw dose times if she didn't contact u den she is rilly not into u. My advice is dat wen she comes home durring the two weeks break after her registration at PPA, visit her and av a chat with her. 4rm dere u get 2 knw weda to continue or let go. Wat will be wil surely be weda NYSC or no NYSC. And jst so you knw, not all girls are the same. @ NYSC breaking relationship since 1973...LMAO

ebujany: Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.

this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

oludashmi: Just calm down. Communicate with her even if it's by sms now that you suspect some changes, your communication should be more of sharing whatever burden she's carrying.

Then, you need to know how far she has gone with the posting the guy is helping her with. She probably may be going thru some stress and so much call at that moment can be annoying.

If all attempt to get her attention is futile, then you can tell her'she has changed'. But that shouldn't be your first point.

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onyichick: I dnt tink she has changed,if u hv served before u will knw how camp can be stressful especially wen u receive posting letter to ur ppa.it can be very stressful since u dnt knw ur way around.give d girl some time to sort herself out n stop giving urself high blood pressure.besides if she wanted to play a fast one on u she for no tell u abt d guy sef.bros jst calm down u hear.

onyichick: I dnt tink she has changed,if u hv served before u will knw how camp can be stressful especially wen u receive posting letter to ur ppa.it can be very stressful since u dnt knw ur way around.give d girl some time to sort herself out n stop giving urself high blood pressure.besides if she wanted to play a fast one on u she for no tell u abt d guy sef.bros jst calm down u hear.

yorex2011: Sorry bro.. Dunno why people behave like dis..... It will be well.. Just dont do anything rash that u might regret

emmykk: You are Crying over a lady.who told you that you were the only one enjoying her wet honey pot when she was with you before NYSC.dont tell me you are a woman wrapper ooooo.that is why when screwing a lady between her legs,do it well well so that when she leave you,you know you match the wet ground well well

Bro think of how to make money,beautiful girls for PH here na 3 for five naira

emmykk: You are Crying over a lady.who told you that you were the only one enjoying her wet honey pot when she was with you before NYSC.dont tell me you are a woman wrapper ooooo.that is why when screwing a lady between her legs,do it well well so that when she leave you,you know you match the wet ground well well

Bro think of how to make money,beautiful girls for PH here na 3 for five naira

francescainnoce: "You don't quench a fire from a stove with just the air from your mouth"
Think before you make any decision, every relationship stands to get tested at some point, some come comfortable; others not.
Trials come and go but those tried never.
Wisdom is what you need now and not advice from several people with different experiences, esp on a forum where some takes everything for a joke and others aim at destroying than building

Chubhie: Today you disappeared on a funeral pyre -- just into nothingness, as smoke. Don't ever get attached to anything. This attachment takes you away from your real being; you become focused on the thing to which you are attached. Your awareness gets lost in things, in money,sex, in people, in power. And there are a thousand and one things, the whole thick jungle around you, to be lost in. Remember, non attachment is the secret of finding yourself, then awareness can turn inwards because you don't have anything outside to catch hold of. It is free, and in this freedom you can know your self-nature. Welcome for I was once like you.

ebujany: Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.


this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

Ladycloud: gurlz sha....we no dey try...imagine!!