Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

Amunaotutheory:


I will tell you that the reason few Igbo men marry Yoruba women is because we don’t like to marry from other tribes. It is well documented. Where ever an Igbo man is, he usually goes back home to get a wife. Not saying there is anything wrong with Yoruba women, we prefer our women.

Amunaotutheory:
No mercy. That’s what you get when you leave over 30 million Igbo men to marry a shameless human from another tribe because he has money. Igbo men don’t behave like this, our girls must learn the hard way.

Quitam:
This is a step in the right direction. Infact, it's long overdue. Some people here will criticize this move but celebrate the sanctioning of mkpurumiri in the south east

havenz:
You will think North is holy, nonsense.

franchasng:
Nigeria is doomed as a nation.



You captured the scenario perfectly. Its really a shame, ordinary Fulani people that are not up to 10million disturbing the whole nation yet some idiots feel its alright in the name of politics

DubaiLandLord:
Nah wah o

Never knew the situation is this bad on the lag-IB way , I pass through the road today, very early in the morning.

The Govt. need to do something about this attack.

muzilala:


She has. In one of her videos, she said she was having sex with her occultic partner when she was into occultism and when she repented, she became a virgin again and became tight that the man was scared, and she’s still tight till today according to her.

wilcox:
Any defaulter should be sanctioned, we can't continue to disobey law and oder and expect our country to be better than it is.

bilms:
Ofcourse, no past president did achieve what gej achieved in term of failure, like taking Nigeria to highest level of unemployment rate in history(68%), worst security bridges(military), waste of innocent lives(bokoharam), hardship in its highest form(increased poverty rate as a result of bad policies, e.g,subsidy), high level of covered physical corruption(police pension committe,fuel subsidy thieves all covered by gej), abuse of power(pardon of a convict criminal, Alam, gej's godfather), raw tribalism and sectional promotion (asari,edwin,etc), falling education (asu) etc.

descartes400:


How was the 2 autopsies corrupted given they arrived at similar conclusion?

Did the parents of the alleged culprits and the school bribed the pathologist contracted by the parents of the deceased to corrupt the investigation (autopsy) on the corpse so as to arrived at a conclusion favorable to the alleged culprits?

Asgard73:
Nothing pass freedom dear.. they will never ever understand.

Aso drive house of that egocentric is an updated kirikiri.. where one man plays God.

Those still in that compound envy you so much.. and wish to taste this.

Enjoy ..

No human be God to another .

post=109039901:

3 Oloriburukus for life.
That same grave they bury innocent people will be their final destination las las.


Meanwhile,
As seen somewhere on cyberspace......

AmancalledGod:
Good morning friend's, please i really need an urgent answer to this, thou for now I'm still staying with my people (parent's) pls is it proper for a friend to carry a woman to your parent's house to sleep over obviously to have sex with the girl, when your parent's is not around. He has be begging me to allow him come over with the girl.

I have agreed shaa, but I'm still thinking of it if i could have a change of mind.

post=108940358:

[s]Slow and steady we will get to the land flowing with milk and honey.
It will end in praise.

Meanwhile,
We remembered during the lockdown all over the world last year that The American Government and some other countries were giving palliative to their tax-paying citizens,
We said the below.....
Palliative measures is all we ask for, for the poor among Nigerians and those that make their daily bread selling on a daily basis.

We wish the last 2 presidents before our darling Daddy were named Obama and Bush that left trillions of dollars in America treasury before they left and nothing like looting or theft was heard of.
That is the only way Donald could ever had something to fall back on to be able to share 2 trillion dollars for all Americans in this pandemic period.
But in our darling nation, the last 2 presidents and their cronies looted our national treasury dry and out.
The Excess Crude Account was looted dry.
Foreign reserves drawn down.
Federation Account, emptied.
And the economy was set on an irreversible path to recession.
And they say; don't talk about it.
Focus on the present and the future only.
How we miss Fela Anikulapo-Kuti. He would have said: "I go shout o, I go shout plenty o."
If we don't focus on the past, we are then liable to make the same mistakes.
"Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." (George Santayana).
Truth is bitter.
There was a country!
We will survive this deadly virus.
Together We will win this war.
We Rise!


All of us @[/color] are doing good and fine, to God be the glory.
We've been so busy with the festive seasons Barbecue Catering Chief Segliz.
Trust you are good also?
Stay safe bro.
God gat us all.
Miss you guys, you and Timekeeper especially.



Our Darling Nairaland.com kiddo,
Thanks for your mention once more tho.
Make all of una nairaland.com pikins dey convert una mentions and followerships to cash for next year.
Or else we go dey charge una before you mention dem [color=#006600]MANNA.
Make una no killi us with unsolicited mentions biko
Odikwa serious.[/s]

post=108940346:
[s]And Okonjo Warned us back then,
Some no listen.
Some just decided to suffer from amnesia.
When they were borrowing money at the time we made the highest revenue in the history of our darling nation,
They looted all the money dry and went to foreign countries to borrow money to pay the salaries of civil servants!!!

National treasury looted dry and out.
The Excess Crude Account was looted dry.
Foreign reserves drawn down.
Federation Account, emptied.
And the economy was set on an irreversible path to recession.

May Devil punish each and every politician that 'put' Nigeria in the ugly situation we are in right now and all their supporters.

May New year no sweet for dem all.
Iseeeeeee[/s]

Bobloco:
In the words of Mosdii

Nigerian girls are useless........all of them

dichvu:
Please i need advise

I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.

Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.

But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.

Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.

So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.

NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.

Jondelng:


Why dont you open your church since you know bible.
Like I said, no one teaches on the BiBle like Kumuyi. He takes all the verses word for word. If you did’nt know, now u know

iramure:
I was once a member of DLCM, I quit when I started noticing some strange things in thier mode of worship
Kumuyi is not the only one misleading people, all other big founders and other G.Os are all fraud.

efficiencie:


If I may ask, which GOD do you pray to? Nowadays there are countless gods, so when you say "God" you could mean anything. And secondly by whose standards do you determine what is good or not good?

Angelfrost:
The comments on this thread tho... Wetin dis guy do una na??!