₦airaland Forum

vickydevoka:
When you marry n your money finishes. She will still leave. So what's the difference

Are you hoping for your money to finish or what?

Rexie96:
I dont think they all think like that, most of them knows how loaded some Nigerians are and how developed most part of Nigeria is. Do you know how many South Africans are in lagos ?

Most of Nigeria is not developed.

Lol..why do Nigerians love sedan cars?

vickydevoka:
You are writing rubbishh. Try and be a superstar and marry and see shege. If not for baby Mama X Ronaldo and wizkid career for don end. Baby mama is good for big names

Are you a big name?

Women also, don't agree to be baby mamas. Have a child in a stable relationship. You owe it to them.

Women have more to lose in sex, protect yourself.

So sad

Amumaigwe:
Shit-hole reasoning. Make excuse for your gender because all if you do the same business.

Oh you recognise that it's shithole reasoning 🤣..yet nigerian men say it to women all the time when they complain about their husband's cheating

Hearing yourself from another person POV makes you realise how silly you sound.

ValCon888:
I speak English fluently for Americana land yet nobody has come to praise me. Let us continue to worship oyinbo man with our enslaved mentality.

Way back in the 15th century, the Portuguese came to Nigeria, and had to learn the indigenous languages to conduct trade in brass, copper and ivory works.

In fact, Oba Esigie was the first Benin King to speak Portuguese. He learned it to foster relations between the Benin Empire and Portuguese Kingdom and heaven did not fall.

Oyinbo man learning our language is not an achievement.

Because we forget how great we once were, we can never know how great we can be.

Abegi.

Have you not seen the reaction of a Chinese or Indian person when they see a black person speaking mandarin or Hindi? Pride and excitement.

Africans react no differently when they see a foreigner learning their language because african languages are not that popular or easy to learn because there aren't alot of resources dedicated to them vs French or Portuguese.

Learning a new language is always an achievement.

When did you come to Nigeria?

Was he denying her sex at home?

Fearyourcreator:
The children fit no be his sef

Then let him do a DNA test, instead of making assumptions.

The fact is, men tend to translate how they feel about their woman onto their kids.

What's the hype with this fruit

Horrible lighting. It's giving me a headache.

gaby:
This already bears all the hallmarks of a relationship that won't end well.

Not once in your submission did you ever imply that "true love/feelings" from both sides were the rationale behind your quest.

It was either her immigration status or her ability or lack thereof to procreate.

This is a recipe for disaster, and the earlier you disembark from this journey, the better for you.

I'd also advise that you seek out help for your past trauma so you don't bring that into your future relationship.

You aren't ready for a union in the right sense of it, you are just trying to find someone as desperate as you to hitch on and use.

At this stage of their lives, it's probably about convenience and not love. Marriage never used to be about love. Love ain't enough.

Each of them have something that the other wants. So he should just go ahead. His concerns for children are valid, but he can just do medical tests.

You can settle down with both of them. You're polygamous in nature.

AKWATGOLD1:
Very right decision.
Just decided to be a baby father because woman problem are enormous to tackle.

Who is raising your child?

Who's naija wife is this?

Weknowbetter:
The father should have had a weapon to protect his home and daughters. You call your brother to rescue you?

I never knew Nigerians have the right to bear arms.

I could do with €700.

Defo fulani.

finallybusy:
Everybody go always say “friends.” The same happens here on Nairaland. Nobody dey do anything, na always friends. Mscheew.

Exactly. There is no friend anywhere, it's him.

Imagine thinking of ending any sort of provision for your kids.

What do your kids have to do with your wife's infidelity ?

Religion is only for the average person, I've said this before.


You don't see rich suicide bombers or child brides from rich families.

Funny enough she still looks quite modest.

lendahand:
look at who is talking. Was it not my estranged wife that gave me a deadly infection and itchy genitals that has healed since she left by Providence?? You women are disease banks.

Were you denying your wife sex at home? 🤡

😂

He didn't go overboard with the breast implants sha.

They pushing him into a corner lol

Human traffickking. Hope you don't want a maid.

just2endowed:
Yee through ussd alone.

Wow. Even thoough she doesn't have my online banking details?