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RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
MarjieJ57:
I guess my point was that people in that land were black for thousands of years compared to blacks in America only been here really less than 400 years and have been slaves most of that time. I understand that you all were colonized by the British, so you all have your own inferiority complexes. But one thing I refuse to believe is that white are smarter than blacks. I feel that black have had other priorities for their lives other than capitalism or whatever it takes to be successful in life. And there are some truly dumb people in the world; but I don't believe that blacks are dumber than whites.
That's a massive over-simplification.
Never said they are. Maybe someone else did.
There is a thing called conditioning though.

Black people, have prioritized other things besides scientific invention and discovery over the millenniums. This reduced the speed at which we could better defend ourselves against opposition that came from the shores.

There is no value in looking at these things emotionally. It has nothing to do with inferiority complex either. Develop an ability to be able to take yourself and your interests out of a thing and see it as it is. You have to give props to who props is due. Few of them came on ships and subdued an entire continent. Regardless of how this offended us, That's fucking gangster.

I laugh when BA try to make it seem like we were all pasifists in Africa until the big bad white devil came and brought evil to the land. That's that Wakanda fantasy. We were raiding each other's villages and taking what we wanted from each other, burning down villages, taking slaves and sacrificing each other to blood-thirsty demons (This still happens today). One of The biggest benefactors of the slave trade were the Africans that sold their conquests to white men.

In fact, slavery is still alive and well in some parts of Africa today. That is basic conquest mindset. It was the language of the world back then, and it still is now though to a less open degree the higher the Civilization.

If we could have done to white people what white people did to us, and if they had resources we wanted, we quite certainly would have done the same. Just as well, If we were not so weak and technologically backward, we would have beat them upon them attempting what they did. But we were chucking spears while they were shooting bullets. To the victor went the spoils. Hard fact is: Stay mad or get better.
But we have still refused to get better. Unwise.

If you play video games, Civilization 6 is a good one to reference. They won the game. We didn't advance in our defense tree fast enough because we prioritized other less crucial and useless things while the rest of the world was moving forward.

This same tendency to not prioritize the right things as a wider racial pattern is what has continued till this day. Call it what you want but if the issue isn't a lack of intelligence, It is definitely a lack of wisdom.... and that is far worse.

Wisdom is the principal thing.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
MarjieJ57:
Nigga please, I can see your coon ass liking white cops asshole the minute he stops for for a fake broken tail light, so he racist cops can search your car for drugs or better yet identity theft. I can't remember but around 6 to 8 Nigerians just got arrested for stealing $600,000 from Washington State unemployment fund during the pandemic.
You're missing the whole point.
If they got arrested for being crooks, then that's what they deserve and more.
I won't side with them just "because they are nigerian". But most BA do not have the ability to think past skin when judging what is right and what is wrong. Very rarely if ever do you see BA see a black person committing crime and go "He's wrong for that. He should face the consequences of his actions". No public rebuke of black criminality. Yet you wonder why other communities see you a certain way. You cannot create a respectable community in the eyes of others if you cannot even show accountability amongst your community.

A lot of BA are unable to process cause and effect. Everything is an endless cycle of reactions based on their race card.
Then will proceed to side with criminals just because the criminal is black...not seeing how that works against them in the bigger picture.
I grew up both here in the US and back home in Nigeria so don't think I'm some foreigner talking out his ass.

I see you are reading through every post chronologically (its a big thread) but you will see that I do not afford anyone the right to misbehave, regardless of skin color or origin. It is the constant siding with degenerate behavior (and protesting the consequences of said behavior ) that annoys me with majority BA....because I know this brings us no respect!
PoliticsNaija Which Way? by 2buffagain(op):
I am tired of APCPDP.

Clearly these people would rather see the country bleed than make the right moves to move this geographic zombie/contraption currently called Nigeria forward.

I love what I saw during the EndSars protest.
That unity. That organization. I've never seen it before in Nigeria. Assuming Nigeria does not split, there has to be a new party. Something in the same spirit of that EndSars movement.

For once, I saw Nigerians coming together as one to achieve something. I saw Nigerians talking into more than just individual greed, and seeing themselves as a whole unit to force the hand of evil rulers who once thought themselves to be autocrats.

If we're going to do that again and leave these relics of APC and PDP in the past, we need to already be mobilizing around a new party free from all the old colonial minded relics.

The 2 viable options I see are voting for a new everything e.g Sowore/ Mogalu/etc OR the split of Nigeria.
NEITHER APC NOR PDP Shall stain these lands again.
It shall not be well with whoever votes for APCPDP again come 2023.
You must get sense by force.
PoliticsRe: House PDP Caucus Threatens Legal Action Against FG Over Twitter Ban by 2buffagain(m): 9:56pm On Jun 06, 2021
PataAlhajaKeji:
PDP should shut the fucck up!

Buhari is the country's chief executive officer and C-in-C of the armed forces ...

A group of Americans in Twitter's headquarters in California shouldn't belittle and undermine the president's power without getting spanked.

Twitter should tender an unreserved apology to the president with a promise to always delete tweets that compromise the sovereignity and territorial integrity of Nigeria.

The hunch-back, ashewo-fuckin', demented, IPOBic albino based in the U.K should also be permanently banned from Twitter.

Without doing the aforementioned, the ban remains.

PDP and Jack Dorsey can fucck themselves in the anus. Awọn werey!
Belittle keh? Is it not their platform?
But one thing every despot will soon know is that they can never own the internet.

It was built to supersede governments, as much as Bitcoin was built to supercede banks. If you fight the future simply because you are too busy to control it, you will soon be history. You are too small and too mortal to pick a fight with the inevitable.
PoliticsRe: House PDP Caucus Threatens Legal Action Against FG Over Twitter Ban by 2buffagain(m): 5:31pm On Jun 06, 2021
blinking001:
Oh please! Even thieves wants to have a say too. PDP should stop antagonising the polity already. They destroyed every hope the Nigerian people had for a prosperous nation. They destroyed everything. They stole our collective wealth for their own private use. Spits on them, they should hide their faces in shame
And APC is no different. Do you see why we need something else? A new party powered by the same spirit of unity that demanded for the end of SARS?

I am honestly looking forward to 2023.
It shall not be okay for whoever even attempts to vote for APC or PDP again. These colonial relics must be allowed to rest.

A new thing dawns...
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 5:08pm On Jun 06, 2021
MarjieJ57:
OMG! I have never been so free until I became a conservative! I've lost most of my family, but I have never been so at Peace with myself. I no longer have the energy to be angry anymore. Conservatism has nothing to do with politics. Trump is racist, but his racism is based on blacks not doing for themselves which I think is the cause of most non black racism. Biden is an undercover racist until his senility allow a slip or two, lol!

Conservatism allows you to focus on education, job fulfillment, hobbies, travel and eventually family fulfillment if your lucky despite your background.
I wish more of our cousins here in the US get to that point.

Thank you for being real and confessing how hard out here it is for black conservatives in the US... With the persecution coming from other black Americans.

Respect can never come about from constant whining. Simply build...
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
MarjieJ57:
You are fighting for a better Nigeria? Nigeria has been around for thousands of years. How long does it take for you to get you shit together? America is only 250 years old. Black Americans have only been totally free since the 60s. The only blacks that are currently oppressed in the USA are the ones that want to be oppress.
Lol my dear, at least do a little googling about the history of something before you start making claims like "Nigeria has been around for thousands of years".

Nigeria has only been around for 61 years now.

Nigeria is younger than the colonial minded fools that still run the area and kill who oppose them.
Their clock is running out and some are dying off already. Whatever Nigeria becomes after this brief moment in time, will be Great as the younger more forward generation takes the country into their hands.

Just this week, the ancient necrotic fool of a President, Buhari (who is so daft that he runs back to the UK for health checkups, instead of building the medical infrastructure of his country) banned Nigerians from using Twitter.

These are the fools currently in power. But the time is just around the corner that they will be unseated... The right way. And even that time comes, even I would not mind going back home.

The US has been good and easy to build in for me (despite the complaint of some), but it is not my home. Home will soon be ready.
Jokes EtcRe: If This Guy Refuses To Pay After Eating, What Will You Do? (Photo) by 2buffagain(m): 1:15am On Jun 03, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Fight him and deal with him, is he mad grin
I like how girls dey get unnecessary liver because they think all men do that "I don't hit women" nonsense.

You might meet the wrong man one dey who does not send all those rules women make to avoid accountability. Na then you go no say jungle no be only for animal.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 5:02pm On Jun 02, 2021
MarjieJ57:
No, Nigeria looks worse!
Nigeria IS worse of course.

Which is why one wonders why some of you don't even finish high school which is free to you here in the US.
It is because of the very same bad situation in Nigeria that when we come here, we kill it and take full advantage of the working infrastructure, which a lot of you here overlook and instead rather complain to thy kingdom come rather than build yourselves up.
Yes there were previous attempts like the black wallstreets, but never give up. Israel has been torn down and cast into slavery many times in history from Egypt to Germany...yet still she stands. And in fact, spurred by the tough history, was motivated to advance quite faster than other civilizations in certain things.

When you are done, ask yourself why every country in this world run by black people is a shitshow.
Or, if the USA is all you know about, why even every city run by black people (Detroit?) BECOMES a decrepit shitshow.
Don't say racism. Try harder.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:59pm On Jun 02, 2021
Graysons:
Being scammers is not bad tho,it shows that we are smarter and do not lives on tress or bath naked like the western media portraits.
And lastly, not everyone wants to go to America,the U.S is not heaven you know. undecided
I'm confused. Doesn't everyone bath naked? huh
Christianity EtcRe: Joshua Selman Is Quickly Becoming My Fav by 2buffagain(op): 3:49pm On Jun 01, 2021
donnie:
You're already seeing some of it. Unexplainable circumstances and troubles that contradict your pastors' white Jesus lies and motivational speeches.
Do please elaborate.
I'm probably not paying attention to what is happening.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
heisenberg33:
Good and interesting points you raise. I agree with nearly all you posted and I always have these discussions with by AA friends. I always tell them that when you are confronted by the police, the first aim should be to stay alive. Therefore, the onus is on you to not aggravate the situation. This is wisdom and everyone needs to imbibe it. You may try your best not to aggravate the situation but still get gunned down, but at least you stood a better chance tempering things down than the alternative.

But just to play devil's advocate a little. Part of the reason AAs react like that to the police may be because of the frustrations they have had to deal with historically in the hands of the cops in their own country. Just like you, I believe there are good cops and bad racist cops and these guys have been on the receiving end of bad racist cops for centuries. You and I may be able to handle the situation better because we are immigrants so such injustice may be easier to stomach when you know you are not really from the place. By not being from the place I mean we are either 1st or 2nd generation immigrants. It may be more painful for them to stomach this being that the US is their land and they have a history of being treated like 2nd class citizens. This frustration could becloud good judgement and lead to the person not handling a situation with the police with wisdom. Still, I understand what you mean by the way you handle an issue could stave-off escalation and you do not want to give the police or anyone with a gun for that matter a reason to shoot you. I always say even if a 3 year old toddler comes with a gun and tells me to kneel down, I will obey him. I will not take him forgranted because he is a 3 year old. I will follow all his instructions because I am trying to get out alive from that situation. Now if I have my gun with me, it is a different thing but me without my gun vs a 3year old with one, the odds are stacked against me unfortunately. Recognizing this is wisdom.

In summary, when you feel that the system is against you because there was a time it really was, that could potentially becloud your judgement in a stand-off with the police because you think you are being witch-hunted. What do you think about this?
My apologies for missing this bro.

I Definitely see both sides. But like you said, I'm pushing for the side that sees me getting home alive.
Because I honestly have nothing I'm trying to prove to anyone. I believe in spiritual battle while remaining calm in the physical.

Even if the police comes at you with negative energy, you beat that with positive energy.
As long as you don't come under his anointing, you can bring him under yours.
But if you succumb to the spirit in him, or YOU YOURSELF already have that same low spirit, then that spirit will have a swell time orchestrating whatever event it wants to orchestrate. This is the reality of most serious things in life. It's not always purely a flesh and blood matter.

Whenever police stop me, I don't just reach for things in my car either. When they ask me for something I tell them calmly, "I'm going to grab my wallet/documents/wuteva from xyz. Is that okay?". This makes them feel in control. Things like that that show I am not a threat. Because I bet you they are already running through a whole lot of scenarios in their head.
Christianity EtcRe: Joshua Selman Is Quickly Becoming My Fav by 2buffagain(op): 2:47pm On Jun 01, 2021
donnie:
You Christians are funny. Favourite?

Youb don't know what's coming. It will make all these liars confess.
What is coming that you feel we don't know? smiley
PoliticsRe: Buhari Seeks Confirmation Of Farouk Yahaya As Chief Of Army Staff by 2buffagain(m): 2:44pm On Jun 01, 2021
Na only aboki this man dey promote to high position for that country?

Anyway if Nigeria survives till 2023, there will be a change to all this.
I lost hope in Nigeria as a unit the day Buhari won a second time.

I relegated the entire country as being fools to let that happen.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:17pm On May 31, 2021
khiaa:
Yeah, you would marry Candace Owens if the white man didn't own her. She's not a good person, she's a liar and a hypocrite. She's a woman without morals who will sell her soul to Satan if the price was right, wait, she already did with Trump. grin

You don't want that kind of woman Buff, you'll have to watch your back constantly for daggers. You need a ride or die woman who'll have your back always.grin grin

I was just joking with you about the above posts, except for Candace. But seriously Buff, you need to stop looking at labels and look at the heart.
I agree with somethings Candace says, but not everything.
Anyone who creates a platform to talk about one thing, must continue to twist everything to talk about that one thing in order to keep their audience. Hence why I do not care much for these sorts of personalities. Candace Owen, Derrick Jaxn, Kevin Samuel....all those people are just trying to make money. They don't believe half the stuff they say.

A black conservative, or rather a black moderate, processes each thing and comes to the best logical conclusion about said thing without joining a bandwagon. That's what I ask from whoever I decide to bless with a ring.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
khiaa:
Congratulations on your marriage, how long have you and your beautiful wife been married?

You see 2buffagain, Black American women are beautiful and make wonderful wives, you just have to get rid of the bigotry that blinds you in order to appreciate us. cheesy
I'll marry a black American conservative.
I will not stand for degeneracy in my house.
On these core matters, we will be of one mind.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
khiaa:
Regardless if they are DemocRATS or RePUBiCans, they are individuals and do not all think alike, we are not robots. Contrary to your belief, unlike yourself, some black conservatives are against the brutality of black Americans by the white race soldiers. It's funny how you overlooked the info I posted about the warning of white supremacists infiltrating law enforcement by the FBI.

The only time Black RePUBiCans (I won't even say Conservatives) are not respected is when they disrespect themselves. What do I mean by that? Those die hard RePUBiCans (like yourself) who will turn a blind eye to injustice and the evils being committed on Black citizens and minorities in this God forsaken country and choosing greed over self preservation. You are an newbie to this country you will never understand the soul crushing atrocities of Black Americans and Native Americans.

Black RePUBiCans remind me of those 3 monkeys, **See No Evil** Hear No Evil** And **Speak No Evil** These are the things you will do to remain the pets of your White Daddies. You will not speak against them. White RePUBiCans love you guys (only politically) because you speak the Hatred and degradation against Black people that they long to say but dare not to, **UNTIL** your RePUBiCan GOD was elected and gave all of the white racists and black coons in the US the signal to stop hiding and come out and show their true demonic selves.

That's what I hate about Black RePUBiCS, you stood by this wicked man and supported him knowing he is evil, simply because he supports your capitalism. I am proud of the many Black Conservatives who denounced Trump, left the RePUBiCan Party, regretted voting for him and didn't vote for him again, not to say they won't continue to support the party but they didn't support the party under Trump.

Damn, you made me write another essay. grin
Leave me alone Buff grin
Babe who said anything about republican or democrat?
I could care less about Trump.

I'm talking about black conservatives.
Black Conservatives will always be conservatives, no matter whether they side with the rats or the pubes on the political stage. grin
Trump is openly racist. Biden is undercover racist. It makes no difference. All that matters is what you build for your family and your community, not what the government will give you.

The Martin Luther King you guys talk about, was a conservative minded person.
He wanted a world where his blackness did not stop him from having the sole power to create the life we want, and the result of that struggle is the freedom BA have today. There were actual challenges those days.

Unfortunately with the fatherlessness of many BA families (due to racist police activities) and other oppressions (Jim crow, etc), the result so far has been a weakened demographic (by no fault of their own)...severely handicapped. You will never hear me say these things did not happen; they did and it sucked. But what you will always hear me say is to echo what the Spirit of God is also saying on that matter: "For how long will you continue to circle this mountain?". The years the locust and the cankerworms have eaten will be restored, IF you give yourself to self-reflection and set aside limiting beliefs of dependency and a false sense of right-to-misbehave.

In today's America, a conservative minded person is truly free and has done away with the unhelpful mind of a slave. This person believes that only they can create the life they want and that they have the sole power to do so.
This is true today. And because they also believe it, this is what manifests in their life. NOBODY gets anything in this life unless they believe it.
Many have become so comfortable with the victim mentality that they cannot even see themselves as victors and act accordingly. And then ofcourse next comes the hatred of those who look like them but DON'T act like victims because this invalidates the logic behind their chosen form of existence...Viz-a-viz the general hatred of the black conservative within the BA community.

A black conservative person does not care about skin color. We see white people as our equals, not superiors you have to constantly ask something from. If you want something now, create it. There is not a white man on earth that can stop me from achieving what I want to achieve in life. There is more than enough for everybody. We don't do scarcity mindset. No "The man" holding us back. That mindset is a relic of the past best cast aside to move forward. Which is why I think ALL black people (not just BA) need therapy.

As conservatives, Racism is wrong so we stand against it, no matter the skin color.
Degenerate behavior is wrong, so we speak against it, no matter the skin color.
Deliberate acts of stupidity are wrong, and we are sincere and non-nepotic enough to call them out for what they are, no matter the skin color.

Is that not the goal ? The world everyone says they want to live in? So let's simply live it, hold people accountable for their actions, and build forward.
We WILL NOT give you a pass to misbehave just because you are black. Never gonna happen. cheesy Grow up from this perpetual adolescence and understand that actions in life have consequences.
This general BA misbehavior is why even the creator of BLM, as soon as she collected money from the movement, it is inside a peaceful white neighbourhood she went to go and buy multiple houses. Even she knows whats up. Dem no need tell person! cheesy

MLK would be rolling in his grave today at what is going on.
Your forefathers fought for human rights.
You are here fighting for the right for a black girl to KILL another black girl, in broad daylight, while her father is there egging her on (who strangely enough BA ignore), in front of police....and expecting the police to not intervene.
How far the branches have fallen from the tree.

Now comes the question I ask every un-straight-forward BA regarding that event: if it was your daughter or family member who was about to be stabbed by that girl, what would be your stance on how it played out? DO NOT continue to hype up that event in your backward creeds until you answer that question in a straight and non-snakey manner.

Also, what is the alternative to capitalism? Socialism? I don't want to have that argument here.
But all I can say is, what is currently going on in the US with people not wanting to work because the government is giving them money, is but a taste of what happens when socialism runs rampant across the land. Hyperinflation is next, BET $300!
Socialism has been the fall of many civilizations since the beginning of time. Some people do not read, nor do they know the history of past civilizations, nor do they have a basic understanding of macro economics. They just want to open their freshly-smoked-weed-stinking mouth and join every bandwagon without thinking...because "activity".

But that one is another thread entirely.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 5:03am On May 27, 2021
khiaa:
I'll make this short, no drawn out essay.

I'm tired of going in circles with you, you're just a white supremacists in black skin all because someone called you a booty scratcher.

You behave just like the white supremacists, internally they feel inferior to everyone so they drag and drag others down to make themselves feel superior.

You showed your lack of intellect when you stated that all Black Americans think alike, that's 40 million people who you couldn't possibly know to make such an unjustified, asinine, assumption.

Boy just stop. undecided
My full statement:
Every BA thinks the same way and there is very little variance and if there is, that black person is often ostracized in the black community and sometimes has to lie about their beliefs for peace to reign. E.g Black conservatives basically have to hide to exist peacefully in the BA community
Please lie now and tell me that Black conservatives are not the most internally disrespected subgroup within the black American community... undecided
Black American Conservatives are the quiet minority who rather focus, hold themselves accountable, and build wealth...than yell incoherently in support of bad behavior just because the misbehaver's skin color is black. My type of people!
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
LikeAking:
Abeg rest.

Dem pass us.
Who is "us"?

Dude, stop projecting your mediocrity outwards.
Own it for yourself.

Sillyness is sillyness, whether Nigerian, African or Black american. I speak against all sillyness.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 9:46pm On May 26, 2021
LikeAking:
The Op should never create a useless thread like this again.

Ewtin we come gain for this nonsense.

Lets talk about the solution to the African problem. You will hardly see such threads on NL.

We love to talk about hate.


The truth is simple.

No doubt AA will look down on Africans - We are inferior to some of them.
So relationships with AA wont work.

Life is like that.

Move on.
YOU are inferior to some of them.
PoliticsRe: Sagamite Destroying Daft Malami And Presidency's Arguments On Open Grazing! by 2buffagain(m): 7:31pm On May 25, 2021
maak400:
The problem with southern Nigeria is that the governors and leaders in the south have a slave mentality, they are forever seeing themselves as second class citizens to the north.

Until the southern leaders put aside their selfish interest and completely unite and work together to achieve true federalism, the north will always dominate the south politically and lord it over them.
The real problem is that old bleeps who still have colonial mindset are still the ones in power.
A young educated leader has no such self esteem issue regarding the north.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
khiaa:
2buff, I shake my head at you. angry You have upgraded from the nigger that you dispise, to the nigger coon that I dispise. What you posted was complete lies, from the part about that racist cop who didn't see you as a nigger because of your accent (I laugh in Italian grin) to the extremely gigantic Sasquatch (according to you) 16 year old girl who called the police because 2 grown women came to her home threatening and attacking her and she feared for her life.

The police were already there when your hero came and gunned down that little girl after he was there less than 5 minutes. He never yelled to her to put the knife down, that's a lie. The cops who were already there were shocked at his behavior.

Stop lying to these people that racist cops respect Africans because that's a bold lie and you know it. That accent of yours doesn't change the color of your skin, furthermore you are very ignorant to say that the people who have been beaten, murdered and harassed by these race soldiers brought it onto themselves because they are the "usual niggers" who wasn't taught to respect cops like you almighty Nigerians were.

The afro Hispanic military lieutenant who responded accordingly to protocol to the police when pulled over was abused and had his life threatened by your precious racist cops, both of them yelling different orders to him made him afraid to get out of the car.

He told them he feared for his life and the one cop said "You should be". All of this because of a tag they didn't see on his window. If that lieutenant would have gotten out of that car they would have murdered him in cold blood like they always do. They fired that racist cop but sadly he'll be hired at the next police department.

FYI, in 2006 the FBI warned that white supremacists were infiltrating local and state law enforcement and are a threat to black people and minorities in America. Nothing was done and now the whole world is seeing the results. Google for yourself.

You truly disappoint me. sad
This is a long post but read it to the end completely to comprehend what you are no doubt already itching to respond to.

Firstly, I never said there were no racist police. They can see me how they want. But what I will never give them is ammunition to act a certain way against me. They use easy psych tricks to get you riled up so you can respond a certain way and so they have ammunition to do their evil. The work to weed these guys out is ongoing. National and global pressures have been put on the US to see that changed.

The days of police just going to you and beating/shooting you just because you are black are no more because they know they won't get away with it. Kudos to BA for enforcing that progress in american society. But they might if you have given them ammunition. Racist cops are like demons in that way. If they Forget themselves and cause you emotional distress by arresting you falsely, you can sue and make them bleed from their pocket... As long as you do not do anything stupid while they are harassing you, which BA typically tend to do. BA also do not typically believe they can sue police for reckless behavior sure to the blending in their mind if the past and the present. Now moving on...

The 2 cases you bring up, upon analysis, you see where the individual gave ammunition for a racist cop to do what they did.
I know the usual statement is "well white people do worse and they don't get shot/" and I totally agree. A good example is the Capitol riots. That was large scale. But beyond that, there are white people who do get shot by police. They just don't make national news. It all depends on the officers involved and their individual biases...but none of their biases matter if you do not provide them any ammunition.

Let's put white people aside for a second and look at the other minority groups. Have you ever wondered why even they pull back from you?
It is not because they hate you. It is because the widely accepted way of thinking within your community goes against sound logical assessment. Every BA thinks the same way and there is very little variance and if there is, that black person is often ostracized in the black community and sometimes has to lie about their beliefs for peace to reign. E.g Black conservatives basically have to hide to exist peacefully in the BA community. Nobody can tell you this straight up except Africans, because you people counter and shutdown every chance at dialog by simply screaming that the other person is racist. You have no access to that default action when speaking with an African who calls you out on your BS.

Now put aside your feels and let's look at some of these cases whiles considering ALL aspects of the cases, not just what our feels want to latch onto to validate our own biases. This is not a right wrong thing. This is just to lay all the bits out and see issues from all sides and put our solipsism away for a moment.

The Black Army officer:
It was disrespectful what they did to him.
And the aggressive police deserved to lose his job as he did. In Naija, those policemen would be killed if they did that to a soldier.
The cop was obviously a racist piece of shite.

Where the army officer gave them ammunition though was...along with the tags issue...continuing to drive for 1.5miles (~2.4KM), with police behind him signalling him to pull over, in a black SUV with tinted windows, at night. It was not "just over some tags" as you earlier stated. That would be you being intellectually disingenuous just to buttress the point you want to make.

All these factors would heighten the blood of any police officer and put them on alert. In the process of being on alert, the stupid cops among them over-do and before they know it, they have shown the world their true self as a racist, heartless bastard who should not be in the job. You could also tell the junior police did not like the way the racist pig was escalating the thing afterwards.
Obviously if it was him taking charge, it would not have been that way, because not all police are racist scum. There are variances in personalities among law enforcement and these scum will be weeded out from leadership to beat cop.

Personally I would have parked, turned on my inner light and handled the interaction... not drive for a whole 1.5 miles with police lights behind me. Everything in me knows that will lead to a problem. But clearly, a lot of BA are lacking that thing inside them that gives them the right moves per situation. I believe that thing is called Wisdom.

Mahkia Bryant (The one you called a Sasquatch. Your words grin)
How can you have watched that video and tell me the police was in the wrong? huh
This post is already getting too long. Knowing BA, I know many did not actually watch the video and just jumped on the bandwagon.
I will post the video of what happened again which shows her clearly about to stab another girl with the knife. She would not have been shot if she was just fighting with the girl. When a knife is involved, that is lethal assault! We can talk again after you watch it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8GEJkMjtEA
A lesson in wisdom: When the police get on the scene, your beef/drama does not matter. STOP and continue later. You are NOT going to stab someone when police is there telling you to stop/get down. It is unfortunate what happened, but anyone who is a lethal threat to ANOTHER person will be stopped lethally. It irks me that you people have made it a "racist" thing...ignoring the fact that a black life was also on the line that was saved by the police.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
heisenberg33:
I was curious and decided to check the word "Akata" in the dictionary and according to the urban dictionary it says it is a Yoruba word. Do you have any proof or reference that the word was coined by the people of the South East? I am trying to learn here.
Ata means "outside" in Yoruba.
Akata simple refers to one who has been so far away that is now an outsider.
Same way an indian americans is called a "Desi".

The name itself is not offensive. It is entirely possible to have different meanings in both yoruba and igbo land as they ARE 2 different languages and cultures.

Our cousins are angry at akata, but are okay with nigger(what racist white people named them). Priorities tongue
The name is not the problem, the observations of culture and behavior is where it's at.
We can call them something else, but that in itself does not solve the differences.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 6:41pm On May 24, 2021
drnoel:
So U are republican? So sad
Can you expound upon this?
In targeted arguments, why do you feel democrats are better than republicans?
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
BSdetector:
When the white pig cop pulls you over it won't stop you from being a nigger in his eyes whether you're a PhD or MSc holder.....black americans have been through generations of systematic racism and oppression that fvcked with their psych and mental well-being, their fore fathers where sold into slavery by their fellow blacks(most likely my forefathers and your's), even today alot of black men are jailed for offences that are absolutely minor, stuff that most white people would be let off for, this doesn't mean that black people shouldn't take responsibility for themselves but threads like this are disgraceful, disgusting and utterly stupid....and I can't understand why the mods and seun osewa have failed to do their fvckin jobs by deleting threads like this...... it's empty chestbeating and pride like this that invites hate and problems for nigerians living abroad and we all know the tribe that does that the most but they cry marginalization the most....fvckin dolts.

Black americans have their issues, but opening condescending threads with white supremacist talking points is simply stupid. Any African American reading this thread should know that the Yoruba people of nigeria don't stand for the ignorance and stupidity displayed on this thread......in fact akata is an Igbo word coined by the south eastern people of nigeria to degrade african american women, the igbos are a colorist self hating group of wannabe coon Jews who worship white people, they're highly clannish and racist known for their 0su caste system that discriminate even their own.
Honestly speaking...it's not as bad as it was back then. Some of you are living too much in the past.

We Nigerians know how to comport ourselves when we deal with police.
The good book says "A soft tongue turneth away wrath". This is not merely a flesh and blood thing.
We are wise and know how to treat authority figures with respect. You lot? Not so much!

The same attitudes mentioned in this thread about the majority of you, are the same attitudes that typically lead to you catching LEO bullets and then complaining afterwards. If you hear a Nigerian in the states getting killed by police, it would be the type of Nigerian who comes to the US and starts acting like your people, hoping to feel among.

I have been stopped by white cops and even the few that I could tell were looking for a reason to hate me, became so pacified by the time I had shown them respect and maintained an aura of lightness through out the interaction. And we are already making a name for ourselves because I had a cop come over to me once with an attitude. Just from him hearing my voice/accent and my warm reception of him, he knew this was not "the usual nigger" and he dropped his guard and elevated his vibes to match my level of peace and tranquility.

Some of you have this spirit you carry around that subconsciously makes you act/speak in ways that unsettle and rile up others around you...confirming their biases. Only deliverance and therapy can free you of it.
A stop is a tense situation. Keep that in mind and understand that the person wearing uniform is as nervous as you, even though they might not show it. Also, LISTEN when police is asking you to do basic things.

The recent one was one large teenage black girl who got gunned down by police split second before she could stab another black girl...In police presence...after police yelled multiple times that she stop. Of-course your people started making all that BLM noise again DESPITE the fact that the cop saved the other black female from being stabbed by taking out the black female aggressor. The man is a hero in my book, but emotional folk who lack sense will disagree.

No respect for order, law enforcement and common sense. You feel your "nigga moments" supersedes all ramifications for your actions.
We don't have these problem when in your country as it exists today. If you see us shouting BLM with you, it's just because we are supporting you. A good number of you would not survive an encounter with a Nigerian police officer (olokpa) with your attitude and arrogance. We grew up with respect for authority, and so we know how to handle people wisely.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:12pm On May 23, 2021
Me20211983:
Black Lives Matter movement was celebrated worldwide. Fact.
African American civil rights movement that our people risked their lives for to help everyone gain civil rights and immigration rights, including Africans. Fact.

You say a lot of nothing. Paying homage to African American civil rights movement did not insult others. The ones starting those insults were on your people. Tell them to pipe down they stupid b4 coming for us jealously. Your spirit not profit from this mental sickness.
...to help everyone gain civil rights and immigration rights....IN THE US.

You are so much in your feelings that you are not getting the simple point I am making.
BA did great for all groups IN THE US. They are not however saviors of all blacks IN THE WORLD as you earlier noted.

The US is not THE WORLD. It is only a region in said world. This is the solipsism/arrogance I keep calling you out on.

Also, Black lives matter movement being celebrated around the world is the world supporting BA, not necessarily the other way round.
The world witnessed the murder of a BA man and came together to support a movement so such doesn't happen again with the usual impunity. This pressure contributed to governmental actions taken to better the situation. The accurate way to look at that is that the world helped YOU. Another reason for you to have more humility before making some of these claims of global black saviorship.

Peace to you.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
khiaa:
Ok, I gotcha. smiley How have you been Buff one?
Been good babe. Happy the world is beginning to get back to normal.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
khiaa:
Just stop it, that's getting so old. African booty scratcher was a term created by Jews in the 1940s specifically Walt Disney. No black American saw any Africans back then and hardly do now. That term was learned from watching cartoons and kids would call each other that, not to be mean but out of fun.

Nobody took that to heart, I still hear Black American kids playing and calling themselves that yet Africans are so sensitive but think it's ok to call us Akatas and Slaves.

PS. Name one Black community in the US that established freedoms without the input from Black Americans? Name one Black community in the US that could even migrate to the US without the input of Black Americans? When conversations turn emotional people tend to lose all logical thinking.
Again, I'm not talking about freedoms in the US.
You misunderstand me.

She said BA saved black communities around the world. That was what I said was false and arrogant. America is not the world. It is but a single region in said world. Americans always seem to forget this.

BA did strive for equality in America, and I love and respect them for that. But don't start claiming world savior for black people across the whole world out of some unbacked arrogance. Various black people around the world fought for their own freedoms, independent of BA efforts.
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m):
Me20211983:
As a Jamaican-American woman, methinks this is just jealousy. There are bad tips I could give about why beautiful black women should avoid Nigerian men. But I won’t because I wan stoop as low as you to stereotype other blacks. Why listen to lies put out by whites in the media about blacks in America? I almost thought this was a colonizer talking. Your white worship is so sad. Also, all you do is copy African American and Jamaican men. All of the slang you use like “red-pill” comes from black cultures outside of Nigeria. Methink you hate what you can’t get. Let that bad energy go. You destroying your success holding jealousy in your heart. Set traps for others and you will fall in them.

Me glad I not meet any Nigerians like this in real life. It’s sad because a lot of “akata women” only want to see Nigeria and other African countries win. They celebrate when anything good happens for people that look like them in other countries. They excited to visit and make friends. They getting stomped on, and locked up protesting for the rights of all blacks around the world. Black women in America stepping up to do that for our men and community everywhere. Even those with soul sickness who white in blackface.

I thought it One love, but I guess no.
Calm down.
America is not "The world". This is part of the arrogance and Black american solipsism we are talking about.
A lot of black people exist in the world and have established their various freedoms by themselves independent of BA efforts.

Also, You mean the very same people who called us african booty scratchers?
RomanceRe: Is It Normal That I Prefer BJ To Actual Sex? by 2buffagain(m): 12:53am On May 14, 2021
Pene is hard work sha.
When it gets to that point of back pain wahala, you will just want head. You can't come and kill yourself over nonsense just to prove something to Eve.
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Chair lady. Are you sure it's only bra fitting that is happening in this Toto runs you have going on?

Talk true o, because I sure say girls go still show Regardless as long as cash involve. Babes dey hung.
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