₦airaland Forum

khia:
White people told you that you are a simple minded ape who doesn't know up from down and you believe them just because they are White. I can't bother my self with you fools.

Just to enlighten your dumbass, intelligence isn't based on skin color or race.

No white idiot can tell me that as they are fools within them just as well.

You have to understand something about the African perspective vs the Black american perspective. Step out of yourself and your usual emotions and Look at things from a 3rd person perspective.

The black american looks around and sees white purple oppressing her and can point and say "that is my oppressor". So the brain rationalizes white = evil.

The black African looks around and can only see fellow Black Africans, including their leaders, acting like visionless idiots.

Our struggles are different.
Your focus is on racial inclusivity i.e let "black people" have a day too. You see white as evil.

Where as with ours, we black Nigerians for example have been having a say since 1960 and our greed and backwardness has held us from going anywhere. Here we see that evil has no color. And that in fact, our brand of evil is even more chaotic as we do not value accountability. And this is a fact.

Whether you want to admit it out not, there are certain elements of good governance you have learnt from your white neighbors. Certain sustainable behaviors from white culture that you have picked up... Bad treatment aside.

It is from these different perspectives that this argument will continue in eternitum.

Tozara:
Lol. What?

Your land? They belong in Europe? Didn’t they conquer the land, populate it, develop it, and transform it into the greatest geographical entity in human history? Have they not earned all the right to call it theirs? Or isn’t it America you’re talking about?

White men of mostly Northern European ancestry (predominantly English by both culture and ethnicity) founded the United States of America, built it with their sweat and blood (and with black slaves SOLD TO THEM BY BLACK PEOPLE IN AFRICA—-in an era when the world had different moral sentiments, and when such things were not as reprehensible as they are today—-and these slaves contributed almost nothing to the culture, the science, the technology, and the literature; the fundamental things that form the national character of a people and the aesthetic wealth of a civilization).

How is the land not their own?

My grandfather’s farm in my home town belongs to my dad, and, by extension, to me as well. Our lineage has cultivated it for five generations. A new comer cannever lay claim to any part of it—-except by expelling us and taking ownership through force of arms.

True. If the whites didn't do what they did, where would mexicans be running to today?
They know that the USA is a marvelous citadel.

I am only sexually attracted to black women so none of that is my business.

Tozara:
Black Americans say it’s slavery and Jim Crow.
Subsaharan black people blame conquest and colonialism
Black South Africans lay the blame at the feet of apartheid

Meanwhile, the Jews, THE MOST OPPRESSED, DISPLACED, AND PERSECUTED PEOPLE IN HUMAN HISTORY built a country from scratch, out of nothing, and despite being 0.3% of world population, are significantly OVERREPRESENTED in all domains of excellence. Despite the greatest horrors, the greatest hardship, the most back-breaking persecution, these people became a super-race.

But blacks are the only ones who give useless excuses for their backwardness, blaming everyone but themselves.

Yet, their average IQ is an embrassing 85, while the average Jewish IQ is at 115.

We are equal nonetheless. Our glories are just buried in the past.

There is truth in this sha.
Pride aside, I have said this in the past.

The greater black population act like the bitches of the world.
Ever wanting, yet never producing. Always blaming. Prioritizing short-term enjoyment over long-term accomplishments.

Nggs121:
And you have no fvcking brain.

I see people like you and I spit on the floor. I don't need to read any book to know that the Aryan race has furthered civilization a lot

just admit you are a white troll.

Then go research about the moors and how they taught white people things.
A lot has been lost with the burning of the great library by that aryan gay Alexander the Less.

This is why women want to marry.
Any woman you marry there, you are basically telling her "Take my house".

Because if they split, the courts will kick him out of that house if he marries some woman and gives her children.

Craig24:
It's a culture.

We dislike distant marriages.

My both parents are from

One Town: UMUOJI;
One LGA: IDEMILI NORTH
One State: Anambra.

Good thing is I can visit my maternal home, spend hours there n still return to my paternal home at night in a hour on foot or 20 minute by transport.

Village mindset.
What does village proximity have to do with your marriage after you 2 wed and start your life?

She looks dusty. She can have herself. No contest

gregyboy:
Not in man's eyes, not in our traditional gods eyes

I dont know the God you serve bro but i believe you shouldn't be the judge for your God

You said you would rather see her cheat with a man.
Fornication is fornication.

Bump o

crackhaus:
There was a time in my life I would have said NO to this, even found it a turn on.

It was for the above reason that I once dated a bi-sexual upcoming model back then, very sexy PH girl. I was simply interested in her lifestyle and I used to wish I would catch her cheating on me with one of her friends
Too bad I never did, or perhaps she was too smart about it... Lol

These days, I consider cheating to be cheating. As long as a person is having sex with another human being regardless of gender, it's still cheating.

But I must admit that even now, the impact I would feel when it's a man would be much more than if it were a woman.

True talk.

gregyboy:
Cheat is cheat lesbianism shouldn't be econraged and it is a demonic act

Imagine catching your daughter's with another lady on bed....


I will consider it worse than cheat, i prefer cheating with a guy than committing such abomination

I spit

Oga calm down. It's all the same in God's eyes.

Body harness.

If men applied all the scams that women applied on their bodies, they will look like passable shemales.

blacknp:
Like you said only a stupid person would imagine such rubbish that the ruling Party APC & main opposition PDP will not be the major political parties come 2 years 7 months from now, one has to be realistic, not living in one’s own illusive imagination, is it APGA that will be the main party then?

They can "exist" but Only a foolish AND stupid person will side with either.
The sacrifices of those dead will have been for naught.

Nigeria needs a full new party, far removed from the norm.

The moment it was clear you should no longer sleep with her, that should have meant automatic divorce.
You should have demoted her to baby mama right there.

Divorce is actually supported in the Bible for this exact situation you are in dude.

If Nigerians are not stupid, there should be nothing like APC or PDP come 2023.
But sadly...Nigerians are fools. They will forget again when someone presses small N4000 inside their hand come election time.

Is it that you feel like a loser of you are single?

Na BDSM sure pass for op.

Women wey go tear hin left yansh with strap-on na who OP dey find.

Beckysexy:
I wanna meet this man so bad!!!!!!

God Why are women like this?

Madam tell us exactly, WHY do you want to meet him?

Are there not single men around you that you should be even more excited to meet?

ZIINI:
Akata women are somehow arrogant
Was talking to one early April
She won't chat without typing the word Fuçk
You can just fúck them ,you can't wife them

I'll start off by saying that this only applies to some.

A lot of them swear too much. If it's not fck it's sht.
Naturally any children you raise with her will pick up on these nasty ways of speaking.
You can't caution most of them about anything, like swearing and using that nasty N word. They will say you can't control them.
They also wouldn't hesitate to call you out of your name at the slightest disagreement.

In short, respect is something you are going to have to really seek out if you are looking for a partner in the AA population as they are used to chaos and irreverence. Because of the situation in the US locking up lots of black men unfortunately, a lot of them do not have fathers so a lot don't have a sense of home structure, logic or discipline.
There are some good ones, but that arrogance is sadly the majority.

So honestly, na just with Bleep mind some of us dey use look them.
Can't start getting emotionally invested in someone that has decided with every element of her being to be a tout and to not be corrected.
Collect the pussy if it is good (which it usually is) and keep it moving.

Funny thing is, that same crazy person will now be wondering why no man wants to put a ring on it.
You go just dey laugh.

Juliusmalema:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2018/08/nigerias-problem-not-restructuring-osinbajo/

.....which can only happen with restructuring.
The United States of Nigeria is how you run something with so many different groups of people.

The reason America works is because the State has independent power, and is not begging the federal bottleneck of a government for everything.
States should be able to create their own power plants for example, without federal wahala.

And they can do it in such a way that it lines up with their own state constituents. E.g, the northern states can sharia up themselves however they want and put an end once and for all to this thing of trying to push it on federal.

This is the type of girl who can only cum when you rough and slap her /spit on her face.
Dem plenty.
Nothing wrong with it sha. All na kink.

Terryishere:
There is also truth in the things Akatawoman said.

Like?

That it is our culture to shit in the streets?

If so then you would also have to agree that gang-banging , laziness, street-shitting and OOW kids is also your culture.

The argument in general is stupid. Hence why I laugh and match the energy.

Difference between myself and sis is, I actually ADMIT that nigeria has problems. I can have issues and still see a thing that is bad and call it bad, including my own bad thing.
She here trying to make it look like she is some sort of black savior who came from the heavens. FOHWATS

Terryishere:
I see you are at it again. You said you don't like Black Americans coming to NLand spewing rubbish on your people yet you don't find it a problem when your people come to the US and spew your hatefull prejudices, whitewashed ignorance onto my people in MY country.

NIGERIANS are neck and neck with the whites when it comes to arrogance and hypocrisy.

I agree. I do go over board sometimes. But meh.
There is truth to the things I say.

AkataWoman:
I’ve seen and heard several things from Nigerian men about akatas. It’s usually that we’re good for sex only or if they’re in a relationship it comes down to them not having their stuff together enough to date Nigerian women. I was shown a video where several married to/dating said they were surprised at how attentive and loving we are to our mates. They believe it’s because so many of us grow up without fathers that we love having a man in our lives.

Why can’t you just admit your stereotypes about black American women was just WRONG! I believe it comes from growing up in a backward culture that believes because we aren’t circumcised or have virginity checks done on us we must be promiscuous.

Ok. So you’re being told this while growing up in Africa. I get it. (The funny thing is that at the same time in America black American women are viewed as the least promiscuous). But once you’re here and see how hardworking and loyal (often to men who don’t deserve it) we are, why continue to try to stereotype us even as you date us? I think some of it is the Nigerian stubborn pride. You MUST be culturally superior to akatas.

At what point will you find it okay to say: We had them all wrong?

You're missing the point.
IT has nothing to do with circumsision or any of that stuff.
Nobody even in Nigeria cares about that rubbish.

It comes down to these things:

- Respect. e.g A lot of AA think it's funny to call their men out their name. To the Nigerian, this is not funny.
- Understanding: From memories of home, to culture, to shared understanding of the pidgin language...there are some things a Nigerian can only enjoy with a fellow Nigerian.
- Future HOME plans. A lot of Nigerians fully intend on being able to back and forth to Nigeria. And some even have long term wishes of being able to move back permanently in the future as things get better. Having a Nigerian spouse with the same potential future wishes increases the chance of that wish becoming a reality.

@AkataWoman
Artificial arguments aside...

In truth, I fully understand why the world is the way it is, both for AA and Nigerians.
I just don't care much for an AA coming over here to spew rubbish about my people.

If you want to have intelligent conversations, I will have that with you.

But if you just wanna come here and shit on Nigerians with unintelligent arguments while trying to have a sense of superiority, you'll get that same energy right back...with TWICE the logical and factual accuracy.

I can decide to match your ignorance if I want to.

PS: many forums like LSA talk about africans and AA dating african men. I see threads there all the time.
It is only the "bitter birds" who spew vitriol about it. And they are a pariah even to their own society.

Everybody loves everybody in a normal setting.

AkataWoman:
Oh yeah, since you’re so intelligent and smart, why is your country a literal shithole STILL? Why no free education if you value education so much? Why no plumbing or electricity?

WHY CRY OUT TO STUPID AIN’T SHIT BAs TO HELP SAVE YOU FROM SARS? Why can’t you fight your own battles?

BAs don’t @ Nigerian news sites to cover our stories. You guys are lazy cowards who want others to fight your battles for you.

Because we have shit colonial minded military leaders who we will be dealing with and expelling within the next 4 years tops so we can build for us.
At least that's our problem. You will never and can never expel your own supposed oppressors. Meaning you will whine and bitch forever about yours. Sad.

Who cried out to you about SARS? Go and ask those people those questions.
Primarily Nigerians home and abroad joined hands to fight that said same evil leadership back home for a better future for our country.
Look at this idiot blowing smoke up her own ass like as if she is that important. What did you do? Pleeeeaase

Stop coming here to rap nonsense. You're pulling my ire.

AkataWoman:
That’s right! I forgot. Nigerians are too illiterate to keep accurate statistics. It’s the very reason you were banned from the US in the first place.

Are you disputing the percentage of educated BAs in Nigeria is higher than the percentage of educated Nigerians?

Cute. A picture of one obviously mentally ill person in San Francisco is not the same as a culture that thinks shitting outdoors is a normal practice. I’m sure that shit was cleaned up off the street before the person could put their phone away. Unlike Nigeria where open sewers are normal.

Oh so you admit that it is only SOME (i.e mental) people that shit in the streets in your country.
Yet you are pushing for a narrative that ALL Nigerians shit in the streets as a "culture".
I have never seen anyone taking a dump publicly in all the time I have spent in Nigeria.
I do see people take dumps in the street in Detroit, Atlanta, and obviously San Francisco. I could as well name that one of your "cultures".

But I'm not that daft. I leave such unintelligent summations to you.

You prove your lack of intellectual integrity with every word you type.

AkataWoman:
Are you trying to compare .0001% of the Nigerian population in the US with 100% of the US population? In what world does that make sense? You’re usually only allowed in for the purpose of getting an education. So why wouldn’t you have a larger percentage (not number) of educated people in the US

Let’s compare the opposite: 100% of BAs in Nigeria are educated compared to 2% of the Nigerians.

What would it look like if the floodgates were open to all of Nigerians-the vast majority of whom are ILLITERATE and criminal minded?

The fact that you’re losers who’ve been sitting in Nigeria for billions of years before black Americans reached America but STILL haven’t developed to the point of consistent electricity tells the world all we need to know about your slow, uneducated, backwards & primitive asses.

Stop shitting outdoors. Stop behaving like animals. Only then can you talk about BAs.

If black Americans were to write a post about dating Nigerians, there would be just one: DON’T do it.

Damn shame you’re too lazy and stupid to create a habitable country and must LEECH off the hard work of others.

Post facts or shut up.
I will not waste my time arguing with an slowpoke who just makes up numbers.
You lack the academic habit of citing facts for your arguments, and you expect anyone here to take you seriously.

Before I even wade through the rest of your diarrhea of a post, first provide facts that say only 2% of Nigerians in Nigeria are educated.
Failing the provision of FACTS to back up your numbers, leave in shame!

PS: Go wipe the ass of this guy shitting in the streets in San Francisco
https://s.hdnux.com/photos/40/33/73/8503006/3/rawImage.jpg

AkataWoman:
Oh yeah, where are black American women meeting all of these Nigerian men to get wet over

You’re banned from the US for being such lowlifes, there are only a few of you in the US. Then narrow that number down to Nigerian men within a certain dating age. Then most Nigerians live in poor black communities where they create African bubbles.

Most black Americans live in middle class America.

So how are “all of these” BA women meeting Nigerian men to get wet over? When? Where? Statistically the crossing of paths are few and far between.

See what a liar you are!

Here to meet a Nigerian man Who can’t even get a visa to the US? I’m barely on this site but from the very first post many Nigerians men were sending me messages. I’ve not entertained even one. You guys are not appealing.

The lies and delusion.

LOL I'm not going to argue with your thirsty ass.
Just gonna drop facts. Your made-up, uneducated opinions don't matter.
Be sure to shut the door on your way out after this school session. Again, we don't want you....

We are just generally better than you given the same opportunities:
https://www.ozy.com/around-the-world/the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-may-surprise-you/86885/
https://medium.com/@joecarleton/why-nigerian-immigrants-are-the-most-successful-ethnic-group-in-the-u-s-23a7ea5a0832

In the graphs below, note how it treats black immigrants as a unit and not just Nigerian immigrants, because if it did, our averages would be even way better. But even as that aggregate, we are still better than you.

Uneducated black American like you coming here to talk nonsense :
https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2015/04/ST_2015-04-09_black-immigrants-12.png

Broke-ass, no opportunity-taking black american coming here to say Nigerians in US are "poor"
https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2015/04/ST_2015-04-09_black-immigrants-13.png

More than 1-in-4 of you ain't shit. You are the most poor in a land filled with so many opportunities. So much so that an outsider, who has to fight and suffer years of indignities before even being ALLOWED to work legally...comes in, starts from zero, and overtakes you. Ask yourself why. Don't say "It's because I'm black", because our skin is the same color. Mumu.
https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2015/04/ST_2015-04-09_black-immigrants-15.png

You should have checked the FACTS before coming to show yourself a fool here.
But then again, your type don't care about facts but instead prefer emotional outbursts, lies, complaining, and still referring to yourselves with the name "nigger" used by racist white scum to define you. Martin Luther King would slap you today if he could..