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Gang90:
The moment I step out of this house, that's the moment the moment I ask for my share of my late fathers property, the truth is, if they can have sex in my room why can't she wash it, I didn't say I hate her, I said she disgusts me, which right now she looks more disgusting to me,

No wonder nobody has even bothered to phuck you at this your grandfather age of 26.
I pity the woman that grees to go into your life.

Na your type dey slap and kill woman upon say she fried the wrong egg and boiled the other one.

OP You sound like a phucking diva and I detect hints of the GAE in your speech.
You can wash man's body fluid but not woman because it disgusts you?

Remember your place in that house or GTFO.
It's very simple.

I ran into Apostle Joshua Selman's messages on YouTube and honestly his sermons are my go-to now, especially in these times where one does not go physically to church.

The man carries a special anointing for saying things as they are and demystifying some behind the scenes stuff. I highly recommend you check him out.

Wash her clothes proudly if she does the same for you.

How can you be eating pussy yet washing paynt is such a big deal?

Thats nice.
More liver to the girls dem to be upfront about what they want.

The government needs to keep its hands out of certain things.

I think many of you will go far in life when you start seeing women as partners and not slaves.

If she lacks the wisdom to be a good responsible partner at this time, then sure, run her life. But do so with the understanding that she will soon grow into the shoe of a true partner one day.

Nurture and accommodate her growth, instead of seeing it as a threat.

Revelation

That is the only thing that can make you stop masturbation AND sexual sin.
Revelation of the spiritual trade-off that happens with the forces of darkness around you each time you do.

It's as bad as Adam/Eve trading their dominion on Earth to Satan.
It is exactly this with sin.
This is why we pray and nothing happens. We sold our authority. It's a terrible thing.

Think beyond the animal you ride. Your true self is your Spirit self, and many have uselessed their true self and walk in the animal facade that all is well.

Let's try to live in dominion and live like kings and queens again under God's authority, so that authority can in turn manifest in our lives and in our mastery of life. There are far more important things than sex.

Every farmer should have a gun.
Defend yourselves. You have no government.

You provide everything for yourself in Nigeria: water, electricity, security, etc.
Stop expecting that government to do anything to you.

Pay that phucking government no taxes also.

Dotar:
Please,kindly ignore any grammatical error.

I am a female military personnel dating a civilian in a distance relationship, I'm naturally clingy in a relationship, I love attention alot but my guy is always claiming busy at work ( well understood) but when he's off from work he doesn't give me a satisfied attention because is either he's sleeping,wants to prepare something to eat or already out chilling with a friend and whenever I call when he's out,he will tell me he's in a noisy place and can't talk till he gets home. so,most times I stay awake till 11 pm to get to speak with him before going to bed.

I always feel pretty lonely because I'm an introvert,I don't have friends.I really wish to keep another man to serve as a distraction but i find it difficult to because I love wholeheartedly and can only love one man at a time.

I cry everytime begging for his attention yet no changes,I feel ashamed that I can't have a grip over my emotions.

Right now,I am seriously fade up i dont know what to do any more, i have talked and talked but all fell on blocked ears, he doesnt even feel remorse whenever I complain,he rather defends himself and gives justifications for his actions and even blame me for being inconsiderate and that if I can't cope I should go because he's tired of my incessant complains.

I feel stucked in this relationship because i find it difficult to call it quit..i begged him to call it a quit but he said he can't do it,that I can go if that's what I want.

please advise me on what to do because I'm dying slowly.

The embolded is your answer.

You are the only one in that relationship.
He left it a long time ago.

This is basic human behavior for someone who is no longer interested in a relationship with you.
Sad to say, but I did that too in my younger immature days when I was done with a girl; instead of just being assertive and release her so she can go find someone else.

Also, really long distance is a relationship killer. Especially when there is no marriage between you yet.

1Sharon:
She rated herself a 5 WITH makeup so he called her average, she was honest about her looks.

She's sweet but just doesn't get it.

She's honest about her looks, but not her prospects, given the type of men she is saying she wants.

The men pursuing her are men who will love her, but she needs to understand that a combination of her looks, her oow child, and her baby daddy drama limits her market value. She doesn't get it because she thinks men care about the kind of things women care about when evaluating a mate. Hence she is over-evaluating her market value.

E.g for me, no matter how much money a girl has, she has to be cute to me, have a good attitude and not have children. Everything else na jara...not the major thing.

He told her the truth.
None of all that stuff matters if she has a child and looks like that.

She needs to humble herself and love who loves her.
I've seen her full body picture. She does not even have yansh, on top of the body she kept mentioning.

She is delusional.

When I see a girl always wearing tights underneath her clothes, I know that thing smells.

You have to give it room to breathe and also wear cotton or breathable materials.

There was this fine igbo girl recently I was runsing. I had to abort after we went out and she sat down in front of me and her pussy waft of air hit my face.

I suddenly developed an intense need to be somewhere else.

Polaris1:
Slide 2 fingers just under your balls.
Wiggle it around a bit.
Now put it to your nose.

Does it smell like Coco Channel?

Mine does.
Its called NOT being a disgusting pig.

There is no excuse for anyone to still be stinking like a latrine in this day and age.

I posted a thread here about this done years back.

mariahAngel:
Errrrrrrmmmmm...Instead of vibrators and "wraps", I think abstinence is the most effective to prevent cases such as these, don't you agree?

Trust me, it makes life much simpler!

That too, but that's too hard for everyone.
First of all, are you female? If you are I will understand

Patriarchy001:
Sad thing is, no man wants to be unfortunate!

No one will happily be paying school fees for a child who acts rude to him and will not appreciate his efforts after being brainwashed by his/her embittered mother

Call it "irresponsibility" - but it's a major factor in why a lot of men are "absentee" fathers. When two elephants are at war, the grass suffers.

Then that is not a man.
As a man, you do not do something to be "liked". You do it because that is what needs to be done.

You keep doing it because at the end of the day, that is your seed.
They may be small now, but Adulthood tends to shatter certain illusions.
That seed will eventually grow up one day and understand what is going on.
Then the manipulative woman will have no more tricks to play.

mariahAngel:
Just as single mothers have the right and choice to start over and live life to the fullest.

A single mother I know of remarried, leaving her son with her mother( the boy's grandmother). I initially felt she didn't do the right thing, but going by this thread and comments, I think she made the right decision.
Her son might grow up someday, meet some girl and decide that his mother is being too "clingy'
" You cannot ground a flight bird " after all.

The little boy missed his mother so much he became sick within a few days of not seeing or being with his mother. (I hope he's getting used to his new reality....it's a tough world)
Now, imagine her sacrificing her life for her son instead of taking the chance to rebuild her life, then he grows up and decides to be ungrateful...

Nairaland is truly an eye opening platform.

A lot of people had to grow up with their grand parents because of this.
And it's totally okay.

Mama needs to be able to compete in the harsh dating market.

Use vibrator until you marry or make sure home boy double wraps each time.
The potential to create life you are not ready for is not a thing to joke about.

Looks like OP wants to die alone.

Do chasing people who don't want to put in the effort to chase you too. This goes for both men and women.

khia:
Like I said Nigerian man, my problems aren't Nigerian problems. Stay in Nigeria and fix your own problems and there wouldn't be any need for you to run to the US dealings with our problems, it's really that simple.

Are you going to admit that your people also contribute to their problems?

Liposure:
i use to think AA women were more decent

They are only decent if they are either moderate or conservative. Unfortunately that's hard to find as most AA women are liberals.

If I hang with none African black women, they are either Caribbeans, or moderate/conservative AA.

khia:
Like I was saying, work on your own problems now that you recognize them, Black American problems should not be on you radar. Take care of your own back yard before you complain about your neighbor's.

Are you daft?
We have always recognized them. That is a point I make sure to tell you each time. No matter what white fools did, our own behavior is negatively affecting the speed of our recovery

But it is in your female and AA nature to refuse to simply take responsibility and admit, "Yes, besides the hwyte man, we AA contribute to some of our issues too and we could generally do better there and there".
Taking responsibility for a part played in a non-stellar situation is too much for the typical AA, so I'm not all that surprised.

Unfortunately your issues affect me too because I live in America.

khia:
How about you Nigerians rise up and stop your leaders from commiting these atrocities. You guys give your leaders to much power.

Again, like I have always said: We have issues amongst ourselves.

Our only difference is we admit that. You do not, because external blame that requires no change from you, is easier.
You have to admit you have a problem before you can work on said problem.

khia:
Come on now, I know you are in Georgia. Nigerians can't see themselves in us because they aren't living amongst the white savages. You call it placing blame but in reality it's making them accountable for the sins they have committed against us. The sooner you guys understand this the better it will be for you. As much as you refuse to believe it, these people aren't that much different from their ancestors, that same systemic racism still exist in the US

On the contrary, Nigerians are the worst at obsessing over whites. You long to breed with them, washing out your own bloodline. You don't make them accountable for anything including stealing your resources.

I have never seen the glorification of a white girl by any man like your Nigerian brothers, not even white men. Nigerian men worship the White man's nut sack that produces the white female. The pedestal they put these girls on is so high they worship them from below, it's disgusting!!!

I personally have no interest in white women.
White skin is not sexy to me. And we would have nothing in common.

If Nigerian men are into that, then Sounds like it's no different from your AA men over there who run after white girls as soon as they make a little money. Which makes it worse because according to you, your people have more reason to hate them. That's deep mental ish right there.

As to racism, of course it exists.
I have been singled out for a search before.
I am always happy when I see a racist idiot sued and then they or their racist institution lose money.

What I don't support out here, is where black folk do some dumb shit, face the consequences, and then start trying to cry racism. E.g there was a fat black guy who tried to give the police a car chase for 30 minutes. He crashed, got out his car to try and run, police tazed him. Being that he has big man problems, his heart couldn't take it so he died. AA were trying to use that as another hash tag.

The other AA guy who was drunk driving, fought police. Subdued both of the cops. TOOK THEIR TAZER and was running. Cops pursued, gave warnings, he turned around to try and shoot the cop with the TAZER until cop finally pumped his stupid ass with lead and he died. This one happened in ATL and your people were also trying to hashtag that as well.

I SMH at your people when they start getting overly extra like that as it sends a message of "we are a crime loving people and we support degenerate behavior". That is NOT how you communicate that you are sensible human beings and not animals. A preference for chaos over order.
Yes white people do it too, but people don't gather around to support their stupidity. They say "what a slowpoke" and keep it moving.

This is why the only AA in my circle for real are either Moderate or conservative. They actually THINK and see things beyond chaos and unintelligible emotion. I keep a wide berth from the rest for peace sake.

SIRTee15:
It's pertinent to note that black Africans in the pre colonial period who had regular contact with the rest of the world build advanced empjres that could rival civilisation of other race.
Ethiopians, Somali, arjuyan, Mali, Nubian had advanced civilisation.
Black moors travelled from Africa, conquered n ruled some region in europe for 800 yrs.
Somalis traded far and wide, they even had ambassadors to far countries like China.
Ancient Egyptians who build the pyramid were black...They painted themselves and the skin colour was dark.
Mali empire controlled the price of gold globally for 35 yrs. They build the famous Timbuktu university. Their men were adventurous, they constructed huge sailing ships and travelled across the ocean to America.

In the middle ages, there was no difference in GDP per capita btw African and European regions.

Let no one tell u the black man is intellectually inferior or defecient. That's a white man lie to entrench supremacy.
Black man's problem is in the mind not the brain.

I agree with this. It is a mind thing, not a brain thing. Inferior minds, but not inferior brains. The brain can only either be utilized to potential or not.
The mind is what blames and eschews taking full responsibility of where one is.

A lazy mind is simply an untrained mind.
Like I said before, I don't believe in IQ as a solid thing because IQ can also be affected by general culture.
If you are surrounded by a culture that is simply content being what it is, then the brain will not be used to its full potential.

Exposure to new information AND execution of said new information trains the mind.
If the culture was set up to value this, then the general "IQ reading" of the people in that culture will be higher.
That part of culture can change, and it MUST if Africa will move forward.

Until Africans truly educate themselves and kick out their current black leaders, nothing will change.

I like what I saw in Nigeria this year.
The people are waking up and the bastards in Abuja know that it is no longer business as usual. Only fools will care about APCPDP come 3 years from now.

This is the last tenure they have to loot

providencia:
our leaders sold our people as slaves. They are to be blamed. White are no longer here and they are now selling the future of africans yet unborn to the chinese. Who knows who they will sell the remnant to when the chinese leaves
"Be calming down"

THIS.
Everytime I look at Nigeria, I am enraged.
Enraged at us and the shit we allow and continue to allow.

Other people operate with their best interest... As they should honestly. Nobody owes you anything. They are only looking out for themselves. It's a dog eat dog world and I do not care what people did almost a century ago. I care about the current vector. What is the direction? What is the magnitude? So far, I am not impressed.

No one will look out for Africans until Africans start looking out for themselves. Starting from their BLACK leaders. Those bastards are the most pathetic kunts ever to slime the earth.

It is not the white man that told one woman to steak 20 billion usd without consequence in her time in power.
It is so embarrassing that even the thieving white man had to cease and return some of her stolen loot when she tried to stash them there. (Which of course just got stolen again by other black fools in leadership).

That is an example of the utter foolishness of the African black leadership today.

khia:
I have said many times that I'm Black and Native. You are correct about evil having no color but unfortunately most Nigerians can't see that truth and that's the reason they worship whites. My ancestors suffered here and yours suffered there, what's the difference? All Africans aren't suffering now just like All Blacks Americans aren't suffering now.

Most Nigerians do not "worship" whites. Again, we just don't think overly excessively/obsessively of them.

They have their own issues. We have ours. And we don't blame them for ours because if it was truly their fault, we would have been better since they left over 60 years ago. Things actually got worse... Meaning we have issues we must deal with amongst ourselves.

Blaming anyone for that means we rid ourselves of the power to fix it ourselves, seeing as the earlier limits we thought held us back have long been removed yet here we are... Out of people left to blame but ourselves

We see ourselves in you in a sense. A people getting too comfortable having someone to blame, until the thing is taken away and you realize "wait, we actually have a crap ton of issues amongst ourselves we need to deal with".

Btw I'm not in Nigeria.

I will be the first to say that IQ is bullshit.

It's yet another one of those linear scales created by white people that mean nothing.
Take for example the BMI. A bunch of skinny, hollow-boned white people got together and determined they were going to be the pinnacle of health to which to judge everyone else...while muscle-bound ethnicities look at them laughing.
Look at a black woman at 190 pounds and then look at a white woman at 190 pounds. Both of them same height.
Then you will know BMI is shit and only really applies to white people.

For IQ, what exactly is it testing?
One's ability to put 1 and 2 together and solve technical problems.
I'm an engineer so my IQ is high, but I'm not so daft as to think that everyone must be good at solving technical problems.
Some people are good with EQ (emotional Q) instead. More so than I can ever achieve. Some of us are fishes and some of us are monkeys, but if the only test we care about is how to climb a tree, then of course that is not what the fish was made to do.

khia:
There you go assuming shit about white people and their good hearted government without asking or researching.

Another enlightenment for you.....The American government is based off the democracy of my people, "The Native Americans", who's original government was based on democracy before those white savages brought their inhumane asses to Turtle Island (US), and killing millions of us.

Are you black or native American out both?
You claim to be black so of African descent. Let's stick to one path.

Anyway none of that takes away from the fact that
If your ancestor never got shipped, you would be in Africa going through the same perspective Africans have about evil having no color.

At least I can only speak for Nigeria.

Stop watching too much porn.
It dulls the mind