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slimjohn2k5:
My brother, I dey reason am.
You fit Don forget ur fuckup but madam not dey forget.
Mk person not come dey go wash pant

Nothing wrong with washing pant here aka doing laundry and adding your babes clothes.
There is washing machine for that.

The real issue is that you are broke yet thinking any food business is shamey

You don't need 7 verses to overcome poverty. You only need ONE:

2 Thessalonians 3:10 – “For even when we were with you, we would give you this command: If anyone is not willing to work, let him not eat.“

khia:
Hey Buff, I just heard about the FBI busting 33 Nigerians for scamming 17 million US dollars from 100 people thru romance scams as usual, in Texas. Are you one of the love scammers?

They can never catch me

virginprincess:
Nawa o, that number 5 shows that men don't really know what they want

Aim for inter-dependence, not independence.
The latter just leads to unneccessary chest beating when you should both be apologizing to each other.

Vinnie2000:
Lol, A Guy keeping himself Chaste b4 Marriage?

Hahahaha..

No Way! Even so, How many Ladies will respect him?
Our Naija Girls are nowadays like Bad Guys! Infact Women naturally likes Bold and Sexually Experienced Guys! Guys that can Fvckk like madt!

You yourself sef know nah!
They don't want Learners! So ur Son will be Cheated on!

So Forget it, Virginity is a Female connected Virtue! Never for Men!

You dey mind the woman?
Awon equality gang. They never address the actual reality of things. Their cognitive dissonance is telling how they switch their arguments to what suits them and flip it back even it no longer does.

Even virgin woman will straight up tell you that she doesn't want a virgin man. Will insult you if you are sef. Women only desire and want to Bleep men who CAN Bleep other women.

There is a reason why it is only the female body that has telling signs of virginity. In fact, it's a whole physiological ceremony involving blood.
Virginity is a female virtue, but a point of ridicule for a male... borne from the understanding that he has conquered no female yet. Women want conquerors with more life experience than her who can lead her there, not demure anxious guys (every virgin male is eager and anxious, forget).

pansophist:
Saying that virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage is like saying that an educated hardworking man doesn't guarantee sucess. Well yea, it doesn't, but it's an indication. And I'll rather pick a virgin, than one would compare sex with every other man she has slept with.

I've seen "virgins" in their mid late 20s who have quite the exquisite collection of vibrators and dildos, including gadgets that Bleep both holes at the same time while vibrating. This same person is there saying she is a virgin waiting for her husband... expecting vibrating penis . If that is what she has been training her sexual expectations on all these years, bruh, it's better she were having normal sex with actual human beings.

It's like a guy who trains his sexuality on porn for several decades or whatever and then expects the same exact sensation when he finally started trying to smash normal human flesh women.

Wanton Sex is overrated...


Yes, I'm an old man. Leave me alone.

Juliusmomoh:
Wrong

What if you want to travel abroad and they ask for your court wedding certificate?

Simply file as single.

The redness is suspect.

Only thing you can do is get tested.

You welcomed this spirit into your home by your first actions.
Why are you now the one complaining?

Put aside all the "woe is me", "me me me" childishness.
It is not just a flesh and blood thing.

Go to your wife.
Confess your sins to one another.
Forgive each other (the spirit you invited into your marriage will hate this as it goes against its ultimate goal!)
Then both of you, in unison, combine forces in prayer to rebuke and cast out that spirit from your marriage.
Then love on each other.

A new day will dawn in your marriage as a result.

It's really not that better out there. Fix what you got.

DrGill:
Jesus died for all of our sins
Why restitution?

This shows you lack the one thing that will ultimately keep you out of heaven: LOVE.

Kobojunkie:
Where is this war in Heaven you speak of mentioned?

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%2012%3A7-17&version=KJV

Thankfulness is just good manners, being that every good thing you are enjoying came from him. Hell is literally just a place without God... hence why it is the worst place in existence. In one of many near death experiences, someone said God described hell as "a place very real, but best not dwelled on".

Earth is a social experiment to determine if the random people generated by God's creation algorithm have what it takes to live peacefully in heaven.

This experiment began after the war in heaven. There is a lot of space vacant in heaven after 1/3 of it was expelled. God wants to populate it with free beings who naturally are attuned to harmonic and kingdom living...not those that have the propensity to become the rascals that instigated that war.

this one is still alive?

Witen:
Don't worry about jobs. The private sector are already doing it. Just give us constant electricity. That all the masses are asking for.

This is it.
focus on INFRASTRUCTURE and stop stupidly banning people's means of livelihood because of ego!
That's the base expectation of any government.

Create societal infrastructure, and get out of the way.

This is all any government needs to do to create jobs.
Only entrepreneurs create jobs, not governments.

They would know this, if they knew what they were talking about.

Create societal infrastructure, and get out of the way.

This is all any government needs to do to create jobs.

liver and kidney don dey scarce for market.

If you fart too much eat more fibre.

She is just trying to be a sneaky pervert and introduce you to some pre-strapon things.

"Afterall, it wasn't that bad when I put the enema in your ass".
Na so nonsense dey start.

mrnigeria0:
I am not comfortable providing my bvn number for NIN registration. is there any other way i can do the registration without my bvn number

I have been hearing some yahoo boy shouting saying they need NIN number. from there they would get your bvn number and the rest is history

Honestly, this is a legitimate INFOSEC concern, given that naija is the way it is.
That and all the information you put down is enough for an typical minded Nigerian idiot to opportunistically use to ruin you.

You cannot fully trust that this information is not being skimmed by bastards.
I'm sorry.

BetterHalf1:
Hello house,
I have been at the talking stage with this guy, lately he has been asking questions about finances and he wants to know how much I am earning; I get scared to tell him about my monthly salary. I fear he might leave me if I don’t earn up to his financial expectations. What should I do?

Earn up to his financial expectations.

We don't like broke girls who subtract instead of add.

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MrHerrain:
I saw a random tweet on Twitter, I commented and because it didn't buy the bimbo's idea, she blocked me

This is someone I don't even know from anywhere. It was just a random tweet I saw on a thread so why you block someone who doesn't even know you from anywhere or gives a Bleep about your existence dead or alive.
Not just Twitter, you'll find her type on WhatsApp too. 9ja girls, blocking someone on social media doesn't add or removes anything, it's worse when the said person doesn't even know you. It's worst when there's nothing meaningful or gainful in your tweets or Whatsapp status.

E be like say the ting pain you.

You are putting way too much energy into someone who treated you like gum stepped on in the street.

robosky02:
See them

Who sleeps with such tight clothes.
Na so dia Toto go just dey smell anyhow

Give that shit some air.

Let's be real here...

Stop comparing yourself with white people who wear tattoos.

Black people are judged internationally by a different metric ...partly due to the lack of respect Africans generate for ourselves at home.
Nobody can point anywhere in Africa and go "That is a truly great and sensible country run by blacks".
The best working country in Africa is south Africa, and that is because white people are there to maintain that rating.
Black africans FAIL all blacks around the world by not creating a civil reference of respect for them.

We no dey try.
And we keep stupidly voting for stupid old fools who are not interested in trying.
Own it so we can do better.

So you can't really afford to be projecting "trashy vibe" to others.
You have not built up enough "respect currency" to spend on that rubbish.
Make the currency first in quantum before you try to throw it around like others are doing.

BanjiRaymond:
Robert Arthur Kardashian has

For attention.
He is not as popular as Kim hence the psychological need for more attention.

Kim is the popular one in the family and appreciates her body as is so she doesn't feel the need to damage it to grasp for more attention.

khia:
This is the first time that I have come.across this thread Buff, but I would like to ask you Two questions

1. How tall are you?

2. What tribe do you belong to?

1. Why? This would break my anonymity
2. Not Igbo.

MarjieJ57:
It wasn't you that stated that black are less intelligent. I have read on this forum plenty of times that Nigerians truly feel they are inferior to whites. With that kind of mindset blacks will never leave poverty. Black Americans do have the arrogance to believe they are not inferior; but in the end most of us end up being that way. Even if individual blacks are able to raise themselves out of poverty they look to share their wealth with other races. Many time in the end they lose their identity.

I know I answer with simplistic thoughts; and sometime I get a thought in my head and write that thought down to the wrong question or at the wrong time, but I never really have a chance to have deep conversations with many people.

Hey no worries .
These things don't come up in daily discussion either because people oft times just get in their feelings and thus never actually go deep into these things.

This is a great Report I think you are in a good mindset to assimilate.
https://www.heritage.org/government-regulation/report/black-accountability-and-achievement

Keep on pushing.

MarjieJ57:
I'm not saying that anyone should get a free pass if they are a criminal. The problem that we have is that we can get killed for basically committing a misdemeanor crime while white serial murderers get treated with the utmost respect. Cops always seem to go straight to killing us as if we possess some superhuman strength. Of course if someone has a weapon, it's a cops call if he feels his life was in danger, but there was a time when cop used on only maim a person with a weapon, so we know that cop have at one time have been trained not to kill first.

I understand what you are saying and I am definitely not blind or a stranger to these occurrences. I'm a big black man living in America myself. My presence strikes fear in the hearts of police and purse-clutching white old ladies alike.

For example, I entered a diner with my laptop bag to eat and get some work done. There was a white cop there waiting for his dinner or something. The moment the idiot saw me he felt small, became afraid and tried to gain control of his white fear by coming to disturb me with his badge so he could feel big again. He patted me down.

Then said he needs to check what was in my bag. This is a diner where other people are coming and going without harassment. Understanding the psychology of the idiot, I smiled put the bag on a nearby table and told him to go ahead. He said I should open the bag myself (I knew what he was trying to do).

I told him "Officer, that could cause a misunderstanding because I don't want you to think I'm reaching for something and then something unfortunate happens. Let's all make it home tonight. I think it's best if you check the bag yourself if you really want to. Also don't mind if I record you while you do so".
Clear calm logic that makes sense to his primitive brain and considered his safety (his main concern), because he too does not want to get shot if I do happen to have something in the bag.

He could also see he wasn't going to get an EMOTIONAL response out of me like he wanted so he got bored and left. I asked for his name and badge number before he left and we wished each other well on our way.

I say all that to say, I'm not ignorant of living black in America, but wisdom will never fail me in my interactions with anybody here, neither can anyone stop me from continuing to succeed.

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As to blacks getting killed for crimes more, I agree it sucks and much is being changed as we move into GenZ. Understand also that white people Also get killed by police... They just don't make the news when they do because it does not boost ratings. There is a mechanism to everything.

Police training is lacking. Too many unqualified people with no liver and just a month or 2 of training are giving guns and a badge. It starts from there. Any loser can be a cop today.

And you also have to get into the wider perspective and deeper psychology here... The reason they are afraid is because the US is a gun crazy country. In Texas, they just signed a law that people don't even need background check or gun license anymore to buy gun. You can buy a Smith & Wesson along with your grocery shopping now.
That's why police in other countries like UK are more calm and seemingly heroic... Because they know it won't pass knife the other person has and they are trained martial artists. The USA is far dangerous for police and unfortunately also has less training. These issues will be addressed.

But on your part; going through this life without wisdom is a deadly thing. Work on the micro and in time the macro will shift.
But we cannot afford to keep sabotaging that macro shift by supporting degenerate behavior amongst ourselves just because the perpetrator is black. That will always set us back as it validates that "See? I told you they are all criminals that love criminals" stereotype. Publically call out black folk for misbehaving so the world knows that indeed, there is also a voice within the black community that cries out for internal accountability.

This fosters respect because the current way BA go about things, it simply comes across to other communities as juvenile whining. Hence the lack of deep allies for most things. BA just get shallow allyship from those who have the time for all that virtue signalling BS. But deep down they don't care because general BA behavior today does not communicate to others what MLK's movement communicated back then..."We are Accountable".

Sonoyom:
The most important thing is that he proposed and she will definitely be his wife very soon.
Let me ask who was the first guy to knee during marriage proposal?

The father of all simps

Notice how it’s only cow fuckers from the north that love this.
We cannot continue to remain in the same country with such degenerates.
Let Nigeria split.