₦airaland Forum

AkataWoman:
Give me a break. This is not a California thing. Educated, successful black Americans are spread throughout the entire country. The problem is that immigrants like Nobody are so poor that they’re forced to live in poor neighborhood and only see one type of black.

The US Census shows that 80% of black Americans are middle class and higher socioeconomically. There are not many ghettos in the US. The majority of black Americans do not live in ghettoes.

Nigerians, on the other hand, who shit I’m public streets and have no electricity or plumbing shouldn’t be talking shit about anybody. You’re poverty is otherworldly. You’re uneducated; the majority of you are illiterate because your families can’t afford the $5/year school fees. Any group of people who have more elementary school kids selling wares on the sides of roads than in school should not be talking shit about anybody.

And for the record, black American women aren’t attracted to African men, much less chasing and bringing them around the 10 kids we have by 20 different men.

Nigerians have no right to talk about anybody.

Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother out here. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you.

I stopped reading 10% of the OP because it was clearly written from a perspective of brainless solipsism.
Such whiny trash.

"It doesn't matter if I'm a trash human being, respeeect and cherish meeeeeee! "

You only get the behavior you are worth. Nothing more, nothing less.
You are also not too big to be put in friend zone by a man.
Friendzone has equal opportunity seating. Enjoy it.

tobechi74:
So, what should we do

If somehow these 2 types of people are still in the meat market,

A single mother better have a banging body.
and An old man better have money.

Read title.

The ONE redeeming factor you should at least have given your life situation.

Truvel:
Guy, I Know. I Said So Dat Let It Be A Good Record Dat She Had Done Her Best 4 Him But He Is D One Not Ready To Become A Man. It Would Be A Good Record 4 Her. So Dat 2moro, He Won't Go Abt Start Telling People Dat She Dumped Him Because Of His Present State.

Why should she give a damn what other people think?

I personally do not paint a girl bad for leaving a guy based purely on what HE said.
I know and have seen some very useless, ungrateful and irresponsible fellows out there who don't deserve good women.

Truvel:
For Good 7months? He Should Av Atleast Meet Dem In D Office. Anyway, If Dat's D Case Open A Business 4 Him Or Something He Could Sell Or Get A Job 4 Him. If He Doesn't Want Just Leave Him To His Fate.

No way.
Never help people "set up" anything that THEY THEMSELVES are not coming to you for help to setup.
Think of yourself as an investor. You probably should not invest in a business where the frontman does not even have the hussle to do fund raising.

i mean...it's already over.

You might as well take the money and go buy a serviced apt with out of it.

A man who does not do what needs to be done to provide for himself and who gets angry at people supporting his broke ass for suggesting ways for him to regain some financial independence....is a useless person. Quote me.

It is good this happened. You would not have seen how much a useless fellow this person is. I know their type very well.
Go make your own investments for yourself and your future family...of which he is clearly not to be a part of if you like yourself.

Very unwise.
If you want to ask someone for something, try to do it in private not by public humiliation.
Otherwise it then has the stink of manipulation and blackmail.

This social media generation no get sense.

It is not every woman that sleeps in your place that you must Bleep.
Stop reasoning like an animal.

xtremeidea:
Oh wow! I totally understand though, i am not so active too but play weekends when i am not working. I just usually use it as a way of relaxing after the Mon - Friday Lagos Hustle.

Cheers

No yawa man. What's your id though? I can try to transfer to you.
DM me.

xtremeidea:
I seem to be the only one in the Clan!

Even the creator has been offline for over 90 days!

Hey fam. I created the clan last year. I don't play much right now due to life priorities, but I'll be happy to pass on the baton of ownership to anyone who is currently an active division 2 player.

And then if at some point you ever stop playing too due to life, you can pass it on. Let's leave a clear Naija footprint where ever we step

tarantino1:
Kiddwaya is fat plus muscle combined. He doesn't have a purely muscular physique. If he should shed the fat you'll see how smaller he would be.

OP

Push ups barely offer enough resistance to develop size. Highest you'll get is some strength and definition before you're unable to get anymore gains. Then you'll have to use weighted push ups or bench press.

That depends on your weight.

Pushup is also not for just your arms. It is a full body exercise that also engaged your core, if you are doing it right.

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Can I put her undies in the washer/dryer? Ofcourse!
Can I hand wash her undies? That one is see-finish.
I have not had to handwash anything in decades, so perhaps this affects my mindset on the issue.

But I will do every if she is sick or situation calls for it. It would not be a daily affair.

Tattoos

beardlessdude:
please stop this behaviour.
I dont know why you are so obsessed over my homosexuality, I never made sexual advances towards you.

Please stop following me around.

You're right. I was being an asshole. My apologies.

beardlessdude:
after apologising to my roommate 8 months after for what I did to him and he said he has forgiven me, I tried to send him card but he said no need for that.

I promised to change my attitude and soften up my heart but I find it difficult to move on - my action keeps haunting me sometimes.

I believe he would likely be feeling the same way.

I wish I knew better and had not acted in that manner, I wish

What do you suggest I do please.

STOP BEING GAY.
This obsession over some other guy just comes from you wanting him to Bleep you hard.
He will not Bleep you.
Stop acting like a bitch that wants to be bleeped and so misbehaves so she can be angrily bleeped.

Stop being gay.

Luckydubby7:
https://thenationonlineng.net/fg-us-in-closed-door-meeting-over-visa-ban-issue/

Over SOME categories of Nigerians.
You already know what category they are negotiating for.
Themselves.

Please don't let things like this tarnish your destiny.

It is already clear that this will not be a true friendship given that encounter.
If you keep her around, you'll just be keeping her as competition to your actual straight relationship.

Friendship is not by force.
This is how girls keep some friends who keep trying to sabotage their relationship.
You cannot keep friendship with another girl who wants to be more than a friend.

Free her for your sake and hers.
You both can be acquintances. You don't have to keep malice or any of all that.
But a friend, according to the way women have girl friends, is likely not the best path.
Only the type of "friend" that comes from you friendzoning a guy, is possible here.

Odion2016:
Nigeria is like an Island surrounded by problems..Actually BBN is part of the issue..
Nigerians are dangerous set of people,,,doing fundraiser for erica,,can you beat that??...
In conclusion,,I think we deserve our leaders...!!

BBN is not an "issue".
They are simply a company making their money.

It is the person who does not have anything going on in their lives, yet spends all the time and little money they have on it, that are the country's problem.

Nigeria's problem will always be its general population.
Nothing else.

Guys, would you consider it cheating if you stumble on your girl getting intimate with another girl?

BigJoe19:
The way you simp guys see sex as a compensation after all the bullshit it's irritating sef

Agreed.
Pretty phucking pathetic.

It must be the end of that relationship right there as that is the height of see-finish.

saintvc:
She slapped you in public?? And you still had sex with her immediately she apologized.

Chances are she will do it again and again

It's a sex thing for some people.

The Bible actually has nothing against polygamy.
The same Bible too advised people not to even marry.
But if you dig deeper, you then begin to see that nuance and context matters.

But it never specifically forbids anything of that sort either way.

All that marriage stuff came from Paul's personal musings. From looking at his life and the stress of imprisonments and floggings and stonings here was going through at the time. Logically, it makes sense that he would advise those walking his path of persecution to either not marry at all or Marry only one wife if they want to be a gospel leader in those times.

E.g Peter was married and so had to be slower in his gospel movements into hostile territory than Paul who was single. Peter would have been even less effective if he had multiple wives.

The primary reasoning is to not complicate the lives of too many people if you were to be arrested.

Again, these are only ADVICE per the time the advice was given. Not everybody is a church leader, and these are not those times.... At least not yet again.

Polygamy is still a very solid option for Christians who have the means to make it work.