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alhaji, abeg no vex i will soon call u.

nutinikole:
niraland o!!
i gave it to him just like u said. i said im not a virgin can u imagine he looked at me for a few seconds and laughed! he laughed because he diddnt believe! can you imagine that? d-reloaded now you can see he is living in his own world! lol

he asked me why i was lying!! after finally convincing him he just looked at me in the eye and said it doesnt matter. even if i am or im not it doesnt matter. but he still didnt try to jump into bed with me! everyday we do the same thing over and over again he doesnt try anything extra even now he knows im not. what the hell is wrong with him i have come to the conclusion that on a subconscious level he still thinks im "good"and he doesnt want to "spoil" me. what do yall think?

eniway ive done my part and im happy it doesnst matter to him im so happy!!!!

There is nothing wrong with him. Just be grateful that you have a man who sees you as more than a sex object to hump at every available opportunity.
Dont throw what you have away simply because u want the fellow to fit ur own preconcieved ideas.
Good luck.

I just love this hymn!

Grace, grace, God's grace,
grace that will pardon and cleanse within;
grace, grace, God's grace,
grace that is greater than all our sin!

D-reloaded:
Wild Rose

Anyone got the video version? This was my best telenovela.

adeboo:
I just seem to agree with some guys here sha.
When they say that - girls born abroad are usually very arrogant and rude.
They feel having that passport is the way to get whatever.

Like someone rightly said, when the time comes, they will marry their red pali.

I say there are a few good ones among them though.

@ tkb let sleeping dogs lie.

No, 43 more years to the Hausa/Fulani hegemony . . .

MC Usman:
From time immemorial

This is false. Arabs did not conquer Jerusalem until 638 AD and even then were driven out by the crusaders in 1099 AD.
Ever since the land has been in control of the Turks (who by the way are not Arab), so where is the "time immemorial"?

The question people like Simmy shld be answering is WHEN did these arabs move into Palestine?

Your idea of resistance should be qualified with "a little".

Morenike09 dear, the "game" is not in playing a little hard to get . . . infact a girl who doesnt put up small resistance is sometimes viewed with a little suspicion.

morenike09:
like i said before, men view women as games. . .and you wonder why we "play" hard to get

Look, its a game. Better get over it.  

D-reloaded:
So it's better to go off chasing someone that supposedly ends up "not being worth it" at the end of the day?

Better to be empty handed than mismatched and miserable.

If you dont try how do u know if she was worth it or not in the end? The empty handed phase comes out as a learning experience, now more than ever you have a better idea of what u actually DONT want.

4 Play:
Never mind those,the thing I found is that because of the way gender relationships are,many women hold an exaggerated impression of their "worth".

Everyday,they are told by men,that they are "all that." At a certain point,many start to believe this(usually in their 20s).The problem is this same "pitch" is sold by men to pretty much every young woman.Many of these women do know that men do this to young women in general,problem is,at some point they start to believe that their own case is unique.Of course,they want to believe this and faced with the inevitable deluge of courting men,they cave in and start to believe a lot of what they are told.

Do i blame them?   The "pitch" is all part of the "chase".

D-reloaded:
As for your last comment, I see what you mean so don't you think that so such things wont happen more often, guys would have the common sense to try to understand the person they are "chasing", be friends first, get to know the person befpore THEN after they realize on their own said girl is "worthy of their hearts" they go on with the "chase", wouldnt that make more sense? Instead of wasting time on someone that just not be your match in the end?

all this is preaching. Perhaps that "be friends first" scenario worked in the 80s . . . . today there is no time to attempt to be friends first when you know that u're not the only one doing the "chasing". In a world where its who gets there first that wins, no one wants to sit down waiting for the "Friends" phase.

Did that several times in college and had empty hands to show for it.

4 Play:
That one is in our "manual" anyway.Its a core part of our emotional "shock absorber" after rejection.

I doubt it, more often that not its the "rejected" woman's desperate attempt to convince herself. 
Frankly if a woman who was worth it rejects u (i admit it will happen to almost every guy out there), most men i know are humble enough to admit that the girl was just out of their league anyway.
Its different from the other scenario u describe.

4 Play:
The point still stands though,many "winners" will discover that the girl wasn't all she was cracked up to be after she accepts.Its the cliche,"familiarity breeds contempt."

I concur.

4 Play:
Exactly.Many women are too keen to create a false impression.Look at them,everything about them is fake-hair,nails,eyelids,lips,e.t.c

the fake hair is the one that gets to me the most. Add to that fake airs.
The fake accessories can attract a man, only the inner character keeps him.

4 Play:
Maybe women are too keen to "put their best foot forward." When the men see the real person behind mask,they lose interest.

Nwando didnt really get my point, there is a difference between putting ur best foot forward and trying to paint a deliberately false impression.

THE BLOOD OF JESUS!!
Who is this person?

nwando:
morenike I fit borrow you my mountain of fire prayer booklets
they work!
before she knows it people will be eating rice,waving her bye bye and singing "it is well with my soul"

Oya Morenike sleep with Psalm 91 under ur pillow this night.

danity:
I'd rather be beaten by AC Milan with even 15 goals than to be beaten by 2 top english teams by a difference of 4 goals

where u saying this last yr?

Cassiel:
@4Him
Dude,i understand that you're only trying to defend your poor team,but you suck badly at it Just go to bed,ok?Its obvious you've got absolutely nothing of any degree of importance to say.

You're assuming anything you all have said so far make any shred of sense beyond the miserable bleating about a 0-0 draw.

danity:
So because AC Milan made the mistake of letting you guys win in San Siro - you all feel like as if the world belongs to you abi?
I don't know why you people just keep annoying me day by day.
You gayners amaze me with the level of your arrogance. Tottenham trashed you and so did Manchester United but you still have the mouth to yap about rubbish.

not your fault. Go correct the errors that allowed AC Milan to put 3 unreplied goals past ur hapless team first before coming to rubbish a historic win.

nwando:
Looks like you know him

For where? Just looking out for my aburo.

vampire:
morenike is not innocent.she deserves to be sucked! dry!

why now bros? Forgive and forget haba.

@ Charcoal . . . the day Man U or Chelsea defeats AC Milan at the San Siro then come accuse us of celebrating lame victories.

Even the mighty Inter Milan got humbled 2-0 by a Liverpool team that struggles to keep 4th place in the premiership.
I'm sure u'll agree with me that Man U are no match for Inter.

and i just get to see them on album covers

There doesnt seem to be any standout new gospel groups now in the mould of PCD and 4HIM.
Ever heard of the group Commissioned? I regard them as my best group of all time!