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CareerRe: Life As A Consultant... by 4tunebest(f): 8:19pm On Mar 28, 2020
Marxxx:
Lucky guy... grin..the guy beside you
FamilyRe: I Have Been With Him For 5 Years, No Sign Of Marriage by 4tunebest(f): 9:49am On Mar 06, 2020
Ehn Ehn. Eeeyaaahh. Oma se ooo. S'omo reehuh S'obinrin reehuh Se graduate de le leyi shaaahuh??
FamilyRe: My Sister's Husband Is Lazy But He Helps Her With House Chores by 4tunebest(f): 5:46pm On Feb 12, 2020
No lazy husband helps with house chores. Learn to appreciate your brother in law for the little he's doing. At least he helps with the chores. What if he doesn't?
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by 4tunebest(f): 4:48pm On Feb 07, 2020
richforever123:
Good afternoon, Becuase of the plummeted rate of Treasury Bills I have been looking for an alternate investment so I approached Investment One.

I registered on investment one and before I transferred money I asked the person assigned to me (he's name is Oluwatobi Adesina) if there were any problems with my account so that when I transfer the account will be opened swiftly, he said no problem, after I transferred he started saying that I needed to send a valid utility bill which we resolved, he then said he will open the account which was 2 days ago, I called yesterday he said he will open the account before the close of work yesterday, I called today, he refused to pick and cut my call, is this how Investment One works, right now I am no longer interested in investing with a company that cannot keep to their word and plays hanky panky with my money, I have instructed him via text that I want my money back

Please house, can you advise me on a means or method which I can retrieve my money speedily, do I need to get a lawyer? Do I need to write to SEC?

Thanks for saving me the stress!

Thanks for sharing and saving me the stress!

Thanks for your swift response
FamilyRe: My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do by 4tunebest(f): 3:31pm On Feb 07, 2020
Honestly this girl here is my kind of woman.

Envisaged somethings about how the future will be with you and quietly...………………… cool without creating a scene or forming trouble. Talk about a girl with emotional maturity
Christianity EtcRe: Spiritual Tips About Time by 4tunebest(f): 6:58pm On Jan 30, 2020
annyplenty:
SPIRITUAL TIPS ABOUT TIME

-1. Time is important to both God and Man. However, the way God views time is much more different from Man.

-2. In recent years, Man has begun to see Time as money. This is so deceptive, and so designed, to the extent that man will commit the major part of his life pursuing money which He may not get.

God does not see Time as money. Time is much more than money. Time is life. It is a portion of God’s life that He has borrowed Man and God expects Man to use a great part of it to seek Him.

-3. Man’s life is a measure of how much time he has spent from birth till date. That is the reason it is called a life-time, and not money time.

-4. Time is the only resource God has given equally to every man. God has given every man access to 24 hours a day. A president or a king does not have more access to time than the poor man on the street.

-5. It is how man spends his time on earth that God will judge man for, after he dies. If you spend your lifetime pursuing the world and the things of the world and have no time for God, you will be judged accordingly.

-6. Different purposes have different times to be performed.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8
1 To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose. under the heaven:

2 A time to be born., and a time to die.; a time to plant., and a time to pluck up. that which is planted;

3 A time to kill., and a time to heal.; a time to break down., and a time to build up.;

-7. Doing a good thing at a wrong time can invalidate the good thing

-8. God is the one ultimately in control of time.

Daniel 2:21
21 And he changeth the times and the seasons.: he removeth kings, and setteth up kings: he giveth wisdom unto the wise, and knowledge to them that know understanding:

The scripture above clearly makes us to know that God is the one that changes times and seasons. Invariably He is One that singlehandedly determines when to change times and season.

-9. God changes times to fulfill His own grand plans on earth.
As there is time to every purpose, God changes times accordingly to suit His purpose. He brings out the moon, the stars, the sun, the rain, the winds, the snows and others at different times as part of His agenda to fulfill grand agenda.

-10. If you understand God’s times, you must know what to do.
1Chronicles_12:32
32 And of the children of Issachar, which were men that had understanding of the times., to know what Israel ought to do.; the heads of them were two hundred; and all their brethren were at their commandment.
From the scripture above, because the children of Issachar understand times, they understand the plans of God for those times and, as a result, know what to do.

-11. Any human God expects His children to understand times because by understanding times they will understand His agendas and will key themselves into His agenda.

For the teaching ‘Understanding The Time’ send a request to jesuscoming@yahoo.com or check JESUScoming later.

Jesus is coming. Stay ready in absolute repentance, watchfulness and holiness.

JESUScoming
Thanks for sharing this wisdom
FamilyRe: . by 4tunebest(f): 3:30pm On Jan 30, 2020
PrincessJoyy:
I dragged with him but he overpowered me, I also tried to seize his phone but failed he even threatened to vacate the house for me at that ungodly hour if I continue with my madness.
Later now some people will come on nairaland to complain of how they are suffering from domestic violence from their husband. They won't remember to tell us the full story and the role they played in provoking the man to loose his self control.

Likewise a man that lacks self control and resorts to violating his wife physically due to provocation from the wife is not worthy to be called a man.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adeboye Asks His "Son" To Sack His Secretary by 4tunebest(f): 1:30pm On Jan 29, 2020
1COR2:14
The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned

No time to waste time explaining
FamilyRe: Must read: Unintentionally, My Mother Is Killing Us, Pls Help by 4tunebest(f): 12:35pm On Jan 29, 2020
Mymynd4u:
Okay, I will now.. And I just did
I've responded. You are not under any obligation to respond to my mail, so I'll understand if you choose not to respond
HealthRe: Chinese Doctors 'Cure' Coronavirus Patient Using HIV Wonder Drugs by 4tunebest(f): 11:22am On Jan 29, 2020
The creator of the pencil has given access to the eraser. smiley
FamilyRe: Please Help Me Am An Orphan I Need A Job To Cater For My Child And Siblings by 4tunebest(f): 11:01am On Jan 29, 2020
[quote author=Chikaaaaaa post=86197223][/quote]phone number to reach you on?
FamilyRe: Must read: Unintentionally, My Mother Is Killing Us, Pls Help by 4tunebest(f): 10:49am On Jan 29, 2020
[quote author=Mymynd4u post=86034071][/quote]Can you send me a pm?
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by 4tunebest(f): 5:40am On Jan 29, 2020
collinsobinna:
When I say literally same bank. Your money in first bank Nigeria is same as you finding first bank in Brazil. Your account number is same. Money same. Just forms to fill bro.

I thought I wasted money traveling for holiday. Now I’m enjoying the benefits. I’m sure I’m not the first.

But my big mouth �
Thanks for sharing!
InvestmentRe: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by 4tunebest(f): 3:08pm On Jan 24, 2020
9jatriot:
Sometimes, because southerners have access to the internet and are more vocal, we tend to underestimate these Northerners. Like up to 3 investments mentioned in this thread that have had them mentioned n the last few pages. While we tend to focus on just Dangote, it would seem that they seem to have doing things while we just de speak big grammar for this side.
very apt and sooo true.
FamilyRe: I Don't Love My Wife Like Before, Advice Needed by 4tunebest(f): 7:53pm On Dec 30, 2019
juiicii:
will it be possible for the old love we had before wedding to come back..
Yes
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A NON VIRGIN Lady? by 4tunebest(f): 7:57pm On Dec 05, 2019
LoyalRccgMember:
Now, my quick question is, can you marry a Non virgin lady? as for me, I can't. because of the thought of seeing someone down there, disgusts me! you can say I'm the jealous type which I agree. as Someone like @Slawormir have said " it doesn't matter who have swim there before, it doesn't matter who is swimming together with you" like WTF? seriously bro?. please I need matured answers only. peace out!
By the time the reality of marriage hits you, this would be the least of your concerns grin
FamilyRe: Men Have Become More Randy, Intolerant And Abusive Than Before. by 4tunebest(f): 9:35pm On Nov 30, 2019
1StopRudeness:
Why do u ladies worry so much about what people say about you especially guys... people u don’t even know, people that don’t know u most of the time..the funniest part is your fellow women folk even say more horrible shiit..

Few men say they don’t like a divorcee or say some nasty shitt...u cry river.
some men say they don’t want non-virgins you start screaming discrimination, a man has some nasty opinion about ladies with cascade of abortion history, you start screaming double standards...at the end of the day, everyone is entitled to his or her preference and opinion about you..weda good or nasty...I feel the duty is on you not to let it bug you instead of crying and clamoring that they should not talk or they can’t have their nasty personal opinion...
You women always approach life like u want some automatic support and validation from the world..sooner or later, u’ll start tagging it as hate....
The fact is u can never have total control over how people see u, we all have different mentality and process things differently, some people are damaged and hurt psychologically, experiences have damaged their views about the world....no matter how good and perfect ur life may seem, married, great husband, have a house and car... someone will still have something nasty and horrible to say about you let alone when u are divorced, a prostitutee, barren, or worst, u have a sex tape online sucking sperrm from a d!c..

The world is naturally mean, it’s not a man thing....Develop a thick skin, enjoy ur life with the decisions you took and the consequences that follow....at the end of the day...the world owes you nothing..
FamilyRe: Will I Regret My Decision Later On In Life? by 4tunebest(f): 6:33am On Nov 23, 2019
Just wondering if Joseph would have fulfilled his destiny as the first Prime minister in the world if he had taken advantage of the situation and slept with Portiphar's wife.... just wondering
FamilyRe: He Who Finds A Wife Has Found A Good Thing.. by 4tunebest(f): 6:45pm On Nov 15, 2019
That statement is valid and true.
CareerRe: What Was Your Childhood Dream, did you achieve it? by 4tunebest(f): 12:55pm On Nov 02, 2019
To serve God and humanity. Currently living my dream smiley
FamilyRe: What Or Who Influences Your Critical Decisions? by 4tunebest(f): 9:49am On Sep 26, 2019
The fear of God does it for me
BusinessRe: 5 Banks In Nigeria With High Savings Interest Rates Account by 4tunebest(f): 2:14pm On Sep 17, 2019
First Bank pays the highest interest on savings account.
FamilyRe: . by 4tunebest(f): 10:24pm On Sep 10, 2019
Jennifer129:
It's not like I haven't tried. I promise I have tried and tried for months to fight back. Few days ago I was happy. The happiest I've been in a long time but then something just changed. Like something came inside of me and has refused to leave. This constant tiredness and sadness. I try not to think at all but my thoughts are yelling at me and I can't shut them up. It's not as easy as you think. It's a battle that can't be won cuz I already lost a long time ago.
You are destined to be great. Interestingly the greatness is closer than you think and will happen suddenly and unexpectedly. You can't see this fast approaching greatness 'cos you are human. It is glaring in the spirit realm hence spiritual forces have been assigned to ensure you are downcasted so as not to see or experience the pleasant surprises ahead of you. That is the spirit that has come inside of you and refused to leave.

Take it from someone speaking from practical experience, not head knowledge
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Abraham's hubby, Kolawole Ajeyemi and family surprise her on her Birthday by 4tunebest(f): 9:19pm On Sep 05, 2019
B'ekun ba pe d'ale kan, ayo nbo l'owuro.

weeping may endure for a night, joy cometh in the morning.

Toyin's morning is here.
My morning is here.
Your morning is here
Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Testimonies. See mine. Photo by 4tunebest(f): 8:41pm On Aug 30, 2019
butterfly777:
The media space is bombarded with bad contents every day. If it is not bad news, it may be about a braless somebody from Jupiter or whatever who is twerking about. As if good things are not happening.

This thread is to give glory to God for His goodness and also help other people's faith.

My Testimony.
Yesterday evening, I discovered that I was experiencing malaria symptoms. I had started having the sick feeling since about three 3 day before, but I thought it might be due to the changing weather, that it would go. But yesterday, the feeling had escalated and it became clear that it was malaria.

So what did I do? I just did the needful. Since I know that Jesus Christ has already taken all my sicknesses and diseases along when He took my sins ( Isaiah 53:3-5, Matthew 8:17, I Peter 2:24), and I also know how to get things from God, I just applied these scriptures. Sickness is too small when you follow the divine formular �.

I just commanded that every symtom of malaria, Leave my body in Jesus name. Of course it left! Praise God!
Now I am feeling well again. This is how I have been dealing with sickness and I have stayed out of sickness for about a year now. When symptoms come knocking on my body, I just command them to go away in Jesus name. God never fails�.

Before now, I used to be very sickly. Hardly would a month pass that I would not fall sick. But following the word of God, I have been enjoying good health.

Let me just briefly explain the simple concept so that you can also apply it for yourself. You don't need to continue in sickness when God has provided help. 'My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge'.

This is it:
1. Jesus Christ took our sicknesses and diseases also when He took our sicknesses. Since He has taken it, you and I should not suffer it anymore. ( Isaiah 53:4-5, Matthew 8:17, 2 Peter 2:24)

2. We should claim this anytime we need it by commanding the sickness, or asking God to heal us, or confessing our healing. Once we make those utterances, we should believe it is done immediately (Mark 11:23-24). The reason why many Christians who pray for healing and other things don't get it is because we want to wait for it to happen before we believe that God has done it.

What the Bible says is that immediately we say it, we should believe that it is done, and we will see it done. Believe first, before you can see it. Got it? If you believe you are healed, start doing what healed people do. Heal people don't lay on sick bed. Healed people don't complain about pain. Healed people don't sit on wheel chair. Get up and start acting well, because you are well.

That's the divine formular. Say it. Believe it is done. Act it line with your faith. Then it manifests. I have been enjoying this. This is why I am sharing it because I know many people are in sickness, yet they pray and pray, no healing. It's because they re not following the God given steps for receiving as I outlined above.

Do it and enjoy your God given healing.

I know this my testimony is very small when compared with some people's own. Pls come and Share your testimony. Many people need it for their faith and to glorify God.
Thank God for divine healing. Actually, speaking God's word to any situation is the quickest way to get results
FamilyRe: My Three And Half Year Old Son Inability To Speak Properly: Please Help by 4tunebest(f): 8:38pm On Aug 30, 2019
ahnie:
Fourthed.... grin
Babes it's been ages ... howdy?
Very well dear. How's zino and her bro?
FamilyRe: My Three And Half Year Old Son Inability To Speak Properly: Please Help by 4tunebest(f): 1:45pm On Aug 23, 2019
ahnie:
Seconded was also about telling him same!
Thirded! Was also about typing same. @ Op, have you checked if your son is tongue tied or not
FamilyRe: How Do I Handle This Issue (please Read)!!! by 4tunebest(f): 7:16am On May 09, 2019
Laeroy:
@mrAMG2, thanks for the advice my brother. THAT'S THE DILEMMA I'M IN BROTHER, DO I DO IT SOMETIMES AND NOT ALWAYS, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE TIMES I DON'T DO IT, WONT I BE PERCEIVED AS DECEPTIVE FROM INCEPTION
My dear, you are not wicked. You are only being realistic. People who haven't walked in same shoes under thesame conditions have no right to judge you, cos its easier said than done.

I have walked through these same shoes before; infact currently walking in same shoes, but from my experience, there is a mistake you're making which I want to point out.

You see, any scenario that happens in a matrimonial home, if not orchestrated by God, is allowed by God.
What does that mean? It means the solution lies in Him, not in any advice you receive here on NL. The good thing is that once you SINCERELY ask him to help you; the way and speed with which He'll step in, even you, will marvel.

Your responses are filled with 'Self'. Let go of self and submit to God's help. He is willing; just ask him, allow him and WAIT.

I am currently in the best place I've ever being in my marriage; enjoying my marriage more than I've ever done in the past. Is it because my experiences differ from yours? No. It is because instead of seeking for advice from mere mortals like myself(who might even be going through worse in their own lives), I asked the One who understood better than anyone els; and the way He spranged up, even I was surprised 'cos He did MUCH MORE than I asked for in that situation.

I hope you take a clue from this. I wish you all the best
FamilyRe: ......... by 4tunebest(f): 9:39pm On Apr 30, 2019
sparkle12345:
please i am pleading on behalf of my husband for any monthly paid job[driving or helping with work at a building site,construction place etc} that can put food on our family table, my husband is an ssce holder who was formerly doing well as a buisness man. for the past 4years MY HUSBAND BUISNESS CRUMBLED my husband has been idle without anything tangible to do,its been us eating from hand to mouth {begging from one family member to another, friends etc}which now becomes disturbance.... we have a son , and we are hurt that we cannot do more as parents for our child.
please anyone touched to assist us with a job (mostly for my husband )should not hesitate to reply and GOD ALMIGHTY WILL NOT CEASE TO BLESS YOU
send me a pm
FamilyRe: The Struggling Doesnt Last Forever, Don't Be Depressed by 4tunebest(f): 8:37pm On Apr 26, 2019
Luvlyna:
I used to feel sorry for guys who I felt some ladies left because they were probably still struggling and trying to find footing
Most times when I see some of my male colleagues or friends like that, I just advice them to leave girlfriend matter first and make money. I do not even understand the heartbreak and pain they feel until something similar happened to me, and I've never been more depressed than before.

Me and this guy were dating in 2017 while I was serving, we had issues and all my begging was almost in vain, even when he made plans for us to see at the end of that year, one issue came up and he just cancelled it, he even told me that I would not get a good job and I told him he wasn't God to determine my future.
So we separated. All through 2018, we barely communicated, not to talk of seeing. He stays in one of the oil producing states, while I came back to lag after service.
So I just channeled all my energy to looking for a job, every graduate trainee job or customer service job(I have experience), I put in my cv. I was being called for many. Some I won't pass the aptitude test. So I starting as a contract staff in the bank that was recently swallowed up by another. But because me and my brother was there, one had to leave, I opted to go because being a contract staff wasn't even the kind of job I wanted. I felt bad, but I didn't let it stop me.

I'm going to label some companies A, U and K
Along the way I got offer in U bank graduate trainee and I also got offer from A bank graduate trainee banking school. And even in the process of K consulting recruitment.
So the A bank after-training school offer looked bigger than the U, so I chose A. That was my greatest undoing. I could have just started my job in U and hopefully wait for K.

Training school in A bank was very difficult, you could be removed at anytime. Every day was a struggle and I wished I never chooses them, I have always been an arts student and being exposed to that amount of calculations was something else for me. I cried every day. During Xmas, this guy whom we barely spoke throughout the year until I started training school, invited me over to his place. Since we were in xmas break I decided to go see. I still loved him and cheating wasn't what caused our issue, it was just us not understanding ourselves, what we liked and didn't. And we hadn't met physically for long, I later got to understand that the very minute of issues can cause problem.

I went to meet him, and he was all so lovey dovey, started talking about the future, about how it was important for one's spouse to be working at least to contribute to the home, and that was his kind of woman he's looking for now. Fast forward to when training school resumed early January, I go bad news that I had been withdrawn due to me exceeding the number of carryover or resist one could have.
I cried, my career, my future taken away, after I ditched another career path for this, I felt naked. Everybody in the house tried consoling me. I still had one more interview with K, so I went for it on Val's day, they didn't even wait till I got home before regret mail was sent to me. I didn't make it. I slipped into depression. It wasn't easy, where will I start from. I gave one full year looking for job and I lost it.

In my sad and depressing state I summoned courage to send out my cv. The guy started acting like help, he wanted me to do a course in project management to increase my chances, he was helping out in the kind of interview questions to expect. Last month I went to see him, and I regret that decision to go see him.

He wasn't all so lovey dovey like when I was still in training school. He reminded not once about how I intend to finish his money. The day I left his house we were almost not on talking terms.
It has not been easy. Now I have started to learn how to sell things online while I still submit CVs and contact people that I'm still looking for work.

Now I have know how it feels when you're looked down upon when you are still struggling, but the good thing is that no one struggles forever.

Thanks for enduring this long post guys
I went through worse. In the end, God is faithful if we do not lose hope in Him. 1Cor 10:13. The verse my heavenly father gave me that saw me through the trying times.

I learnt from my own experience that it is true that whoever has Christ has EVERYTHING. It is only a matter of time for things to fall in their rightful place.

Reminds me of the song:
At the centre of it all its you that I see, Its you that I see.
There is power in your name,
Miracles happen in your name...

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