I usually do not chime in on issues between a married couple, but I would in this instance. I do not condone cheating spouse...I hate and despise, deplore and detest such act, however, if the groom knew he did not want to go through with the marriage, he would have bolted way before he said, "I do" rather than wait till at the reception. At least legally, it's on record now that he is married and the only way to undo that is by annulment. Anyways, that's all I have to add to this marital squabble!

Crystalqueen:
Some people are so wicked. If u knew she was cheating on u, u should have cancelled the wedding before the day or at least before the church ceremony, not disgracing the lady after the church wedding... Just imagine, all that jollof rice wasted... U for just save the money use do beta thing

stop siding with the lady!!! She got what she deserved !!

Gabson001:
I give her two wks.. She go invite that guy to her wedding

ARE U ARE BARCELONA FAN ?

luminouz:
As in eh,she just went offkey/off point/offhandle

lolzzz!!!

Tyche:


You are neither here nor there nwata nwanyi

lol

bluefilm:
I still maintain that this man is very heartless.

I don't support revenge against women.

No matter what a woman does to you as a man, even if she shot and killed your own mom right there in your presence, it still doesn't warrant you to revenge on her.

She's a woman for crying out loud.

Women are always emotional so its not really her fault that her actions offended you.

She deserves nothing but your total love and support at any given time.

That way, you can be sure to bring out the best in her.

And you will be calling yourself a man.. You've eaten vegetable and they've eaten u finish in short they've finished u

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So he knew she was cheating but proceeded with the wedding plans just to humiliate her?


But why was he behaving like a mad man, calling a non existent driver?

The bride bleeped up following him upandan. Infact I wouldn't be surprised if it was the silly bridesmaid packing her gown that gisted the groom everything.

But then, why cheat? People in serious relationships ought not to cheat. To what end exactly

meat we u steal chop dey sweet pass normal one

SageMK:
I applaud the guy really.

I don't understand why people are sympathizing with the bride and calling the guy wicked and all that. I mean he is the one hurting here. It was supposed to be his day.

Look at him all dressed up in that suit for Pete's sake.

Who cares if she was embarrassed and disgraced?
Who cares about the jollof rice wasted? (the guests lol)

This doesn't compare to the agony & pain he would've experience if her cover wasn't blown. She would've bore him bastards to raise as his own. So who fúcking cares?

That groom is an arse.

junkiesneverdie:
Wait a minute let me get this straight so you knew she's being cheating on your black ass! and you waited until the wedding day to call it a quit!..guy you be Mugu

Read the write up. He knew she has been cheating. But he played along just to disgrace her on the wedding day. It's more like a pay back for her cheating. Some ladies are something else. Why would she be cheating when she knew she will marry the guy?

This is the clear picture of Nigerians

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
2 years Germany work visa in less than a month? Too good to be true bro.

na scammer na. u suppose knw the easiest germany visa to get is student visa then apply 4 residence when you have gotten it. work visa under a month?? how e happn.

frankyychiji:
That groom is an arse.

and the bride is an arse fvcker

SmellySperm:
I need a girlfriend as loyal like the bride's maid... she's a wife material and no one is noticing her!

SmellySperm:
I need a girlfriend as loyal like the bride's maid... she's a wife material and no one is noticing her!

She no get choice.
Her sister is the second born and she needs her elder sister to get married so that she can marry ASAP.
It’s traditional for elder sister to get married before junior sister in their tribe.
Na why she dey carry wedding gown upandan �
Which kind friend get time for disgrace these days
Friends go don drop cloth for ground japa
Anyways. Stay away from ARIZONA, Na him make me dey talk about person wey I no even sabi him papa

Crystalqueen:
Some people are so wicked. If u knew she was cheating on u, u should have cancelled the wedding before the day or at least before the church ceremony, not disgracing the lady after the church wedding... Just imagine, all that jollof rice wasted... U for just save the money use do beta thing

I hate cheating fellas. Some ladies are something else. Some ladies have been engaged but Still go about frolicking around and following other men all about. If a lady still want to frolic and flirt around, the best thing to do is never to accept any marriage proposal from a serious man. This will give her the freedom to fvck about and no one will question her.

But the moment she makes up her mind to settle down with a serious man, she should throw off all those promiscuous attitudes of fvcking about. You can't eat your cake and have it. It's either you are ready for marriage or you are not. No room for infidelity of any sort.

bukatyne:


Part of the Lord's prayer...

Forgive our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.

He would not find mercy, it is quite simple.

Remember the story of Joseph and Mary in the Bible? Mary was pregnant with Jesus when he had not touched her and they were engaged to be married.

Joseph thought and slept over the best way to end the engagement without bringing shame to Mary and the Bible counted it as righteousness.

Should he have ended the marriage rites at the point he knew? Depends on his principles and situation.

But the lady did nit have Mercy on him when she was cheating abi? Cheating is more than sex with another person. It is more than fucking. It is a sacrilege. If I am not good enough for you, please tell me and leave me. Dont be with me and sleep with another man. It is sacrilege!

Akuruoulo:


Divorce-church marriage-court - compensation ?
Are u a comedian ?

I am sure you are single.
I am married, so you should listen to me. Once you sign your marriage register in the Church, you are a married man. Reception na ceremony..
All these noise can only be if he walked before signing the marriage register, but if he backed out at the reception as the report indicated, then I will presume that he already finished with the church which includes signing of the marriage register.
He is married and only the High Court of Justice can separate them

crowley:

na scammer na. u suppose knw the easiest germany visa to get is student visa then apply 4 residence when you have gotten it. work visa under a month?? how e happn.

Abi naw.For this buhari regime person wan scam person I pray jo one falls for such

RealityShot:
if he walks away without saying or doing anything...

Same you "ladies" will complain!

Its not about "you ladies", i viewed it from an objective perspective, it could be the other way. Its about how some people reason.

Somebody who can do something like this is already a mad man

This one can stab or poison somebody oo

Dude funny Sha

if you gf or boyfriend cheats on you, ABEG RUN AND RUN far away. You will save yourself a lifetime of headache, marriage is not moin moin at all. Once a cheater ,once a cheater. If he/she did it once, still run away. I do not blame the guy at all.

Mcslize:


I hate cheating fellas. Some ladies are something else. Some ladies have been engaged but Still go about frolicking around and following other men all about. If a lady still want to frolic and flirt around, the best thing to do is never to accept any marriage proposal from a serious man. This will give her the freedom to fvck about and no one will question her.

But the moment she makes up her mind to settle down with a serious man, she should throw off all those promiscuous attitudes of fvcking about. You can't eat your cake and have it. It's either you are ready for marriage or you are not. No room for infedility of any sort.

Seems d rate of cheating sky rocketed since buhari became d President

What if... just what if the lady is found to be actually innocent later on, what will the guy do?

After all, it would not be the first time humans would lie against a fellow being. People can spread fake rumours about a non-existent infidelity for a myriad of reasons -mischief, envy, jealousy, revenge, bad blood. What if the guy had been sold fake information about his woman's infidelity, and she did not commit the crime she is being accused of. The man has reacted this way publicly, disgracing her. What if he finds out tomorrow that he had been misinformed, what would he then do?

Bottom line? The groom should have privately tackled this issue and if he found her guilty as reported, he should have done away with her privately. That should have saved his own face and that of everyone involved in this tragedy.

Lifestone:

I am sure you are single.
I am married, so you should listen to me. Once you sign your marriage register in the Church, you are a married man. Reception na ceremony..
All these noise can only be if he walked before signing the marriage register, but if he backed out at the reception as the report indicated, then I will presume that he already finished with the church which includes signing of the marriage register.
He is married and only the High Court of Justice can separate them

SIR I UNDERSTOOD U FULLY .
NA U WEY NO understand ME .

Akuruoulo:


u be woman?

Why u ask?

nicepoker101:
The thing pain nairaland ladies. See how they are wallowing in serious pains

lol u wicked hahah

RealityShot:
you clearly have not been cheated on in your short life.


Wait till you get cheated on by someone you love. Then comment again.


THE PAIN has no equal, I swear!

See pot calling kettle black! >

Fyzt:
This is simply a stage play for the gullible

I think you're the only person thinking outside the box. Thumbs up!

No matter what a woman does to you as a man, even if she shot and killed your own mom right there in your presence, it still doesn't warrant you to revenge on her[/quote]

Which kind yarn be this?? Shot and killed my mum. Then i wld still pet her. I go kill u, kill your family, kill your soul and spirit join.

I don talk am

Ryan03:
Lol, and na the idiot sponsor the wedding o brother wey mumu

In Yoruba weddings it's the bride who does the hosting

Akuruoulo:


SIR I UNDERSTOOD U FULLY .
NA U WEY NO understand ME .

I dey listen make I understand you bro