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Wedon:
Did They force him at gun point to cheat on her?

Does he even realize the gravity of what he has done

Men sha . . . Please tell the guy that there is God ooom

I know OP is a kind woman and will forgive him. But he needs to learn that his actions have consequences, and be prepared to live with them.

bukatyne:
Please keep quiet.

Please I am begging

You were just saying women are weaker because they do not take rresponsibility for their actions.

Are men weaker here too?

I wished Satan slapped anyone who roped him into What he has no idea about.

The devil made the husband chike the best friend; made the bestie agree; made them pick a arena for f.ucking; made thehhusband remove his clothes; made the husband sleep with the bestie; made them continue till the OP caught them

I am very sure the jealous and wicked people sent the Devil to the husband ba?

Please

Please

Sophyrocks:
A big FALSE at the bolded. Fa fa fa fooooulll! Look at nairaland for instance. You wanna tell me these men around here are not verbally abusive? Men having so much time in the hands trading words with women all day and believing thats how to put dwn a woman, a.k.a put her in her place? You dnt see men jumping at comments and trading insults verbally abusive? so you dnt read stories in this section from women complaining of how their husbands put them down with words. Even a man whom you were praising earlier in a thread did the exact same thing to his wife when she did nothing to him. most men who are abusive start out verbal before graduating to the physical. Please, its soooo easy for peeps to come here and point fingers at women when it comes to the mouth forgeting that males are just the same.

bukatyne:
Is difference and weakness same? Was not even going to that argument; I was telling you the correct thing in the Bible.

You have still not answered my question and it is fallacy to think women are more verbally abusive.

What should the wife of an abusive man do? Beat him?

mulanbaba:
i hear what everyone is saying and yes its the first time he cheated thats why i am breaking apart, so much because i wasnt expecting it and that its with my best friend so, its a double sword on me. its weighing me down. i havent told my family because they dont like him so they will use this to make me leave him. Maybe i will forgive him someday i dont know. i am currently seeing a counsellor so yeah i hope to snap out of this two.

as for my best friend i cut her out already maybe one day i will ask her why,but for now i am more concerned about myself and healing. he is very remorseful but i dont know if its because he was caught or not!!

he asked his friend to plead on his behalf instead his friend is now propositioning me and suggesting divorce lawyer for me and that he will help me financially!!! so now i see how easy to be betrayed by a friend thats why i havent told folks to come and escalate things. I am just hurting and needs like mind to say my feelings to cos i clearly cant talk with his friend since he doesnt have my hubbys interest at heart two. SMH. Humans are really deceitful indeed

bukatyne:
You never answered my question posed to you:

We hear you that verbal abuse should be met with physical abuse...

What happens when the man is verbally abusive (or will you claim that men do not verbally abuse?)

FYI: Women are not the weaker of the species; they are weaker vessels. Vessels in KJV of the Bible means earthly bodies. Women are weaker physically than men.

moca:
Some folks understood me perfectly well

Next world,try beinng a woman

Dheartless:
which full grown man will be happy that he was forced against his will by ladies holding guns.
forced to get naked in front of them
forced to drink an unknown substance
your p*nis forced to get hard against your will
forced to have sex with strangers holding guns (while still in fear "that they might pull the trigger" )


and the most annoying part is:
your sperm taken away against your will[

moca:
Just yesterday,i found myself somewhere where people were busy doing hair.
Bc of the heat,I went to one isolated place there and was feeling myself.
[size=5pt]People won't see me unless u look very well.
3 small boys of like 15yrs made one suspicious moves. They opened one big door ...[/size]

FrancisTony:
At emboldened, men can actually bleed if excessive handjob is done.

If they continued, there's a point spérm would sieze to come out, and there would be blood from his penìs.

EfemenaXY:
Go jor! I don't need yo be present to know picture what must have happened. It's not rocket science na

But on a more serious note, yes, the girl shown in that despicable video was raped. I don't understand Yoruba but I do know she was pleading with them. Furthermore, she was held down by two of those bástárds while the third guy had his way with her.

edwife:
Say it,we all adults here as far as i know...

EfemenaXY:
But that's just it. He did consent. To the point that he "came" not once, but three times?

EfemenaXY:
And I still maintain he wasn't jor.

You can't enjoy yourself immensely then turnaround and claim rape simply because you feel guilty afterwards. He wasn't even held down physically, against his will.

The guy is a clown.

edwife:
Obviously raping a woman is way different from raping a man.

But in this case,he was raped.He couldn't even get it up upon the fact that three of them kept touching him,they had to give him something to drink.

He can't bleed because he is not the one with a hole,he can only sustain bruises if the lady is dry-some men sustain bruises when a female is not shaved,yep i have been told so.

EfemenaXY:
I don't do pórn.

Besides, na lie I talk?

EfemenaXY:
Oh puuuhhleezzz!

A man can't get ráped by a womanzl! What nonsense.

~ 1. Did he cry and scream out from pain and terror while they were riding him? I don't think so!

~ 2. Did he bleed from the act? Or at the very least sustain some bruises? I don't think so!

~ 3. And finally, what was the expression on his face when he éjácúlátéd? Was it not of pleasure? Followed no doubt by heavenly groans and an aarrgghh?

Kinky guy having had his fantasy / dream órgy claiming ràpe. Mtcheew.

EfemenaXY:
Oh puuuhhleezzz!

A man can't get ráped by a womanzl! What nonsense.

~ Did he cry and scream out from pain and terror while they were riding him? I don't think so!

~ Did he bleed from the act? Or at the very least sustain some bruises? I don't think so!

~ And finally, what was the expression on his face when he éjácúlátéd? Was it not of pleasure? Followed no doubt by heavenly groans and an aarrgghh?

Kinky guy having had his fantasy / dream órgy claiming ràpe. Mtcheew.

chibic:
I'm not like you woman. You sounded childish and that's why I qouted you. Mind you, only a frustrated soul will come on nairaland to hide under a man's name just to bash men every now and then.

Abusive mothers? So women do abuse their children?

lilmax:
that moment when all what the op described is true

chibic:
please do not wish me that, @psychiatrist, freecoacoa.

I said that because women tend to believe that a man doesn't love them if he doesn't get hurt whenever they misbehaves. Its really sad.

He has shown remorse and hev been apologising but my pain is just so deep right now. i hev asked him why and he doesnt hev any reasons because i had even suggested we explore swinging to spice our sex life which he said a big NO. So i am so confused cos i know i am a good looking woman who doesnt look older than 23 and i work out so am very toned and i do get attention a lot from other men still[b]. so why did he do it?[/b]

No one is recognising that i am deeply hurt, i am depressed, i cant even clean my house or bath my kids and myself. i am in this deep dark hole and i have contemplated suicide

Dheartless:
you are the man

we need more men who don't care about doing everything possible, including disrespecting himself by allowing someone to abuse him whether physically or verbally, ( just because that person is a female).

by the way, it is clear who is immature, if you know what I mean?

lastly I admire your calmness and maturity

lavatoz:
People have given opinions that are divergent with yours so you feel alone and it hurts Your picture was so immature and it gives me the impression your pained. Sorry but I'm not those kind of women you can break easily. I'm not your girlfriend your just being jovial to hide your pain.

lavatoz:
I've already given my opinion. After all it's a forum, isn't it? I sense it hurts you a lot. Better way to end your misery: go hang yourself

bukatyne:
His post was very explicit.

freecocoa:
Na wa o, you and this kind funny questions this beautiful night.

I'm pointing out the error in trying to use physical abuse as a justification for verbal abuse.


Let's continue later, my eyes are heavy.