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freecocoa:
No.

bennyrazz:
wives/women do have mood swings especially when it is their time of the month or when pregnant etc so as a man at times you just have to be patient or if you cannot,you are free to torture her emotionally. Trust me, no woman can stand emotional torture.

pussyphilia:
I am gonna train my girls to be stronger than men. From age 5 I will enroll them in good martial arts training centers. Any nigga that tries to mess with them will get the beating of his life.
I am dead serious!

freecocoa:
That can also be said but what a person calls 'insult' can actually turn out not to be an insult, insult is subjective but a slap isn't.

freecocoa:
Firstly, understand that I'm in no way supporting verbal abuse, all forms of abuse should be avoided, having said that, physical abuse is not justified because, more damage is done with physical abuse and a person who is physically abusive is often times also verbally abusive but the same can't be said for a verbally abusive person.

FrancisTony:
No.

Just reminding you not ALL women are weak or weaker vessel.

Equality isn't about having equal power.

ALL men are equal, does that mean if Floyd Maywhether punch, you'll reitaliate?

All women are equal, does that mean some women aren't stronger than some?.

There's gender inequality, does that mean there's no woman that can beat you? Abeg, deceive yourself.

cococandy:
Maybe you made a typo but you asked two different questions. But that's by the way.

No men and women don't have equal strength
What's with you and funny questions today.
On average men are physically stronger than women.

Ok ask me the color of the sky.
It Is blue

cococandy:
I've answered. Violence is not a response to verbal assault.

If you won't hit someone bigger or physically stronger than you or someone who can retaliate and defend themselves match for match with you when they insult you, then why hit someone else.

Men who hit women do that because they percieve they are weaker and seek to suppress them.
Women who hit men do so because they believe the men can't retaliate hence they hope toget away with the violence.

There's something wrong with such sick mindsets.

bennyrazz:
in as much as I don't support beating or caining a woman, I think everyone knows the fact that some women have caustic mouth. Just like someone suggested a little slap will do the magic by resetting their mendula oblangata. I think you can only try that in Africa especially Nigeria, do not try outside the shores of Africa. I wish men that beat their wives good luck until the day you kill her which I pray you do not. Repent fast fast. Overall, put yourself in the woman's shoe, how would you feel if it was you that was beaten? I agree that some men beat their wives mistakenly out of anger but I feel you can always overcome your anger by [b]taking a stroll when you wife begins to misbehave/rant. [/b]How would you feel if another man was beating your sister?

cococandy:

Gosh.
First he said equality isn't about equal power.
You thought he meant 'political-heirachy' power.
He said he meant strength.
Meaning equality isn't about equal physical strength and you're asking if he means men and women have equal strength.
Lol

freecocoa:
The solution is e[s]veryone should keep their hands to themselves[/s], and should your partner be verbally abusive, get them some help, therapy/counseling works.

cococandy:
see question

Oya go and slap everyone that insults you.

FrancisTony:
Equal power? I meant strength.

Men and women are equal.
Individuals are not equal.

Some men can't do tedious work some women are doing and vice versa.

freecocoa:
What we are discussing is, hitting a woman because you say she is verbally abusive, hence my saying that, physical abuse, is not justified because you were verbally abused.

freecocoa:
So people should go about maiming themselves to prove men and women are equal? That's really smart.

FrancisTony:
Equality isn't about having equal power.

ALL men are equal, does that mean if Floyd Maywhether punch, you'll reitaliate?

All women are equal, does that mean some women aren't stronger than some?.

There's gender inequality, does that mean there's no woman that can beat you? Abeg, deceive yourself.

freecocoa:
I have said times without number that, anyone who hits, shouldn't complain if hit back, I don't see it as hitting a woman, it is simply a case of two fighting and as such is not in the category of what's being discussed here.

Don't tell lies against me biko.

freecocoa:
Where did I say it's okay to hit a man?

freecocoa:
A rather insensitive and stup1d one.

cococandy:
How about they get a doctor to help the man with his drinking?
You know "AA programs", "help for addicts" kind of things?

The solution can't be for the wife to keep quiet and watch her husband drink his liver away. Believe it or not her talking is because she cares about him. Besides drunk people mess up the house when they drink; sometimes throwing up and throwing things. She's supposed to keep quiet and clean up all that mess everyday?

This analogy(should I call it that) is as lame as they come. The person wey think am no think am well.
It just goes further to buttress the point that no matter what a man is doing wrong, people like you will prescribe the wife to shut up and act like she doesn't feel it even if it kills her. If she does talk and he waxes violent, it is her fault. Sigh.

Now think of another story that will help your stance. This one removed points from your argument.

FrancisTony:
Lol, that's why his moniker is, "I must exhibit the five minutes madness".

lavatoz:
Yet they would say there are no comments in nairaland justifying wife beating. Well here is a link to one

freecocoa:
Yea right, like it's okay for a grown a$$ man to come home everyday drunk, na wa for una o.

I don't know what you people take women for. This post of yours is basically asking women to take whatever rubbish thrown at them to avoid beating, smh.

netsurf:
fear of some ladies here sef don catch me...i come forget wetin carry me come here...i open mouth, I no fit close am.

truth be told, some ladies here wouldn't last 2 weeks in a marriage.

lezz:
You had this coming!!!

Listen, lifeless one. i know you seek the relevance that has deluded you in reality in the virtual world of the internet where lovelorn and frustrated females like you take up permanent residence in the hope of making a meaning of your oblique existence.


Old hags like you who eat, sleep and breath in a forum usually have nothing going for them in reality.

you have successfully won the most domiciled nairaland rat without even trying.

your intellectual standing is as shallow as your village stream, your selfworth is so thin you actually choke on opposing views.

females like you are often always victim of gender identity crisis with a confusing overflow of testosterone.

i can guess it is that time of the month when you bleed once a month from your eternal injury causing the shortage of blood-flow to your brains. HOW ELSE COULD YOU BE THIS DUMB AND INSECURE ?


village slave without any heritage of morals, family culture or ethics.

A 21st century Jezebel who has all the desire for evil but lack feminine power to see it through.

when i bade you good bye it is because i have concluded that you aren't worth my keystrokes or my time.

you are not even a female, you are just one of the many bad examples of internet mothers will do well to point out to their daughters .

you quote EVERYBODY. Even those who did not mention you. how insecure can anyone be. you automated internet nuisance.

for 2 whole days you have not bathed, washed, cleaned your home or looked after your father

or husband. you have sat behind your screen with a grin from your mouth filled with reeking teeth and and a oozing body from stale sweat and kept typing your idiocy away.

women have achieved far more with a better skill of communication and true feminine grace and manners than your mgbeke and market woman approach.


at the very end the lasting impression you have left is a that of a low breed female from a backwater heritage who used her pepper and tomato proceed to acquire internet subscription to spew rubbish and force-feed people about an opinion you haven't finished understanding.

This is what i wanted to spare you when i bade you goodbye but you still had to quote me when i wasn't even talking with you.

you really are a disgrace-magnet. The gods' favourite.

now slowly climb into your coffin.

the world wont notice,
feminism and "your" culture wont care,
your family wont even blink.

HUMANITY IS BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU.

I believe i have literally e-murdered you. if you have an ounce of shame left in your drooling gaping azz, you will logout of nairaland and go look for your missing moral compass and fix your life together.

i can feel your shock with your gaping lips across this platform.

you just got a sting of the Troll. Now run along and do some weeping, dirty slutz like you don't bother me.

i shan't be giving you a glorified response any further. bye for real.

cococandy:
You don't know the breads again?

How about the one of nairalife who you were praising to be the real man for beating up his wife and sending her out in the rain.

Yimu