₦airaland Forum

FrancisTony:
Ihuomadinihu,

Just ignore him. He's frustrated and depressed. Nairaland is the only place they brag to keep their lonely and boring existence lively.

If you doubt, i'll show you a thread created by one of their disciple. Female boss gave him sack letter.

teemy:
@nickibarb If you let women talk lead you to expect being badly treated in you matrimonial home you will find yourself acting in ways that would sha lead those actions to appear even if they had no reason to happen in the first place.

dinachi:
@Op pls be careful of evil advice from here as a lot of poor women from poor wretched homes and destitute husbands will be on your case here trying to discourage you and destroy your marriage. It is called jealousy! Pls stop giving information about your home to the public. It is not wise. You are a great lady already with a great husband and a great marriage, be thankful to God and submit to your husband and I promise you will continue to enjoy your home. Gods grace.

johnydon22:
Hhmmmmm bro, she is just mad, i think you should be persistent in you pleadings and explanations.. eventually she will calm down and listen to you... but dont let her do anything rash..

meanwhile i wouldn't like to be in your shoe now tho, you should have deleted the pics a year ago, what dah heck is it still doing in your phone till now abi u self-service with it? and ur girl friend didnt even see it all these while until now

Basildvalour:
Yes, I will keep her....She hesitated and she agreed to do it because she was under duress.


She might die and d husband still be killed if she didn't and it would be double loss for the family. What about the kids

elantraceey:
If only everyone could read and follow these, marriages will definitely be till death do us path .


The point i love most is forgiveness , [size=18pt]when you can't forgive a person , you never truly loved that person[/size] .

Dheartless:
see as one mumu dey mention people way nor even give am attention

chival:
I neither have the time nor the inclination to descend to your level. Have a blast down there!

mrssho:
So I am not sure why you felt the need to drag your mother in law into this. Your husband who is an adult assured you he will take care of his kids which is the right thing to do and I would think you would be happy with this because it means they would bond afterall its just for 1 day. If it was for 1 month then I would see why you would be worried. Unless you dont trust him to take care of his own kids. I dont think anyone would accuse you of abandoning them. I think this matter could have been avoided totally

wasmilebags:
nonso did wat any man wud don to b sure he is ok as a man and to ve ask the girl to abort that also ok too atleast he respected there relationship and also respect his wife and as for the wife all I can say is when ever any tin happen to us the first tin that com to our mind is not good enough we need to rethink b4 we act on any tin

ERCROSS:
broh.. Pls, how did u come to discover that the bolded was a lie from ur ex...
Coz v been noticing this is d best lie they can cum up with to draw sympathy from guys

bukatyne:
A disgrace?

Hmm!

bigfrancis21:
Well, I only kept a fraction of my memories, especially series of events preceding my birth. My soul and the soul that was to be my mother on earth planned some portions of our lives together, then she left first. I knew I was going to be her first child. The feeling of time in the afterlife is hard to imagine, seems like time is frozen. While back there, it didn't seem long before it was my turn to go (the time interval between my mother's going and my turn to go seems to be like a few seconds in the afterlife but which translates to 24 years in earth time - 24 years after my mother had been long born on earth and she was already pregnant with the body (vessel) I was going to inhabit. The baby's birth was nigh and I needed to fuse with the body just before it is born else it would be born stillborn or lifeless (no soul). However, my parents slated their marriage quite late just as at when the baby's birth (my birth) was due, I didn't want to be born out of wedlock, and I held off pushing (labour) until two weeks later. I was effectively born 2 weeks late. My mom also told me this me severally, that I was born late. At 4 years old, I remember thinking to myself that I was happy to have held pushing until later to avoid being born out of wedlock). Just before I left, I knew I was going to forget, just like other people, a great portion of my origins and back home it is considered a great feat to be able to remember where you come from while on earth. I remember telling myself severally that I was not going to forget, that I was going to remember where I came from. Next, I mentally pinned the events around me to my memory, which I still remember to this day. I remember and know my life purpose on earth and I have been doing it ever since. Read up about the crystal children. I am among the first batch to incarnate on earth.

My life was planned, with certain events to happen at pre-destined times, meanwhile allowing me much room for free-will to experiment and learn. I know how long I am staying on this earth. My current life is quite short. I won't be for long on earth. Everything in my life up till now has happened as I saw on some screen-like preview of the life of the human body I was going to incarnate into. I pinned some of the scenes into my memory and when I came across those points in my life, it has been deja vu for me, and I remember I have seen that scene before. The awkward thing is 70 earth years on earth is barely 5 minutes of scene preview in the afterlife. Just as we watch a 2-hour movie of a character's entire life story from childhood to death summarized under 2 hours, so it is in the afterlife. Before we embark for earth, we all have previews of the life we are going to live on earth, certain landmarks of that life at certain points in life and what the outcome and lessons would generally be like. This explains the reason we have deja vus, for when we come across those points in life, our subconscious mind remembers seeing the scene back in the afterlife, though as an observer not the actual experiencer.

Also, when I am around babies or children, they often stare at me continuously, wave or want me to carry them. Severally I have seen my aura, which is crystal-goldish in colour (indicative of high soul growth), and children and babies naturally see auras around human beings, but lose that ability as they come off age. Could they be seeing my aura, which took me some degree of practice to see, which attracts them to me? This just happened to me yesterday, when a mother (hispanic) with a baby sat next to me, next her baby turned to look at me an kept staring over the next 5 minutes, her mom was surprised. Next, she beamed uup in smiles, made loving gestures at me and wanted me to carry her. I wholeheartedly wanted to carry the baby, rock her in the air, tease and play with her like I always do to such babies when I was in Nigeria, but I wouldn't. This is America, not Nigeria.

I often see the big picture in all that I do. There is incredible peace and contentment in knowing and remembering where you come from and knowing your place in the universe. In such peace, there is no fear.

The so-called christian concept of 'salvation' and 'heaven' is in its entirety a hoax, when in actuality, the afterlife is where we all proceed from to live momentarily on earth, to which we shall all return to. Life is a cycle of learning and improvment, and we incarnate on earth severally until we have learned all that we need to learn, and thus ends the cycle of rebirth.

It will come as a huge shock to so many people reading this post to learn that they had existed in the afterlife. Life doesn't start at birth. You existed before you chose to be born on earth. It is something you will never be told in so-called religions, which have misplaced priorities today, emphasizing material acquisition over spiritual and transcendental awakening and knowledge. It is common sense, the soul is immortal. It doesn't die. It isn't suddenly immortal from this your lifetime after you die. It has always been immortal right from its inception from the creator. The human body dies, and decays forever but the soul never dies. It is immortal and transcends the physical limitations of the body and the earth. We are all spiritual beings inhabiting earthly bodies, and not human bodies that just happened to have a soul by chance. We all have our reasons and purpose for coming to earth. I don't expect some to believe me anyway. The veil of forgetfulness suddenly clears away upon death, and returning souls to the afterlife suddenly remember they have always been in the afterlife, only leaving for a moment for a visit on earth.

In the end, all life journeys sum up under the lesson of love, which encompasses several qualities, which are learned one or twice at a time per lifetime, till the comprehensive universal concept of love is learned and imbibed. For some people, they are here to learn forgiveness, for some it is kindness, for some they are just rounding up their journey on earth.

There is really a lot more to this life and earth than the human eyes can phantom. You would need to look beyond religion to find it.

lastpage:
Good Post.... but l have a few "issues" to raise.

1.) You said "that child" should not be brought into the house! Except "madam" permits, ......which is like asking Jesus to marry devil!

Questions:
*Was it the child's fault to be born by a married man called Nonso? NO.
* Does that child not have a right, l mean 100% right to be in HIS FATHER"S HOUSE? YES!
* Do we realize that just as Glory (wife) has a right in her husband's house, so does that Child has right in his Father's (Nonso) house? TRUE!!
*Are we aware that the law has abolished the word "illegal / Bastard" Child? TRUE!
A child, simply because he was born out of wedlock, is still no less than any other child born within wedlock!
*Do you know that such Child does not need anyone's permission, to "be with" ...and to enjoy the "full care and presence" of his Father (Nonso)? TRUE
*Should the Child be PUNISHED for the indiscretion of his father? NO
*Is it right to suffer that innocent child, from that early age, for the transgression of an adult(s)? NOT RIGHT

As for the Nonso and his wife, there are "moral" issues to be raised but they are just "moral" ....and not legal, therefore not binding!
*Does Nonso not have a right to fuflil his marital desires of having children?
*If one spouse is barren/infertile and incapable of having children, does that mean the other spouse MUST suffer the same fate, through no fault of theirs?
*Since Nonso was able to withstand all the insults, pressures and shame of marrying an "ex-victim" in a community that views such with dishonor, do we not think Glory (wife) should have shown the same level of "solidarity" with Nonso, whe he also mis-step?
*Should Glory not even be happy that finally, their lineage will not be "cut-off" permanently, as her husband now has a heir? But l guess like all women, pettiness, jealousy and spite would set-in once their initial problem is over, just ;like Sarah in the Bible made a U-turn about haggai her maid which she "recommended" to Abraham, when she was childless only to wickedly mock and thrash her once she had her own son!
Women sha!

What is good for the Geese, should be good enough for the Gander


Finally, if l were Nonso, l will simply say good riddance to bad rubbish! I will legally divorce the Glory and marry the lady that bore thee child for me.
That way, we would be able to give that Child (and probably other siblings of his that may come later), the deserved love of BOTH parents that they deserve.
Glory can go and marry one of her rapist! Who be the loser?

Wisdom is for the wise but the foolish one with its own hand, destroys her home.


Lastpage!

bigfrancis21:
All these attributes qualify me. I am an old soul on my last incarnation process. I remember my life selection process, choosing to come to earth to be born to my current parents, choosing my life circumstances and environment that best fit my life goals, etc. I can go on and on, my life history is quite a big one.

bukatyne:
Does she have an immediate younger one?

FrancisTony:
That's how trolls behave.

His moniker says it all.

gidzbobby:
thank you sir, you are right cus I have pleaded with her to let go but I dunno wah holds her back when she's about to take an action. sometimes when he is in need of money or when it's time to pay the rents for the house, he behaves so well. I think that's wah he uses against my mum.

gidzbobby:
am into supply of printed polo shirts and bed spreads, its sumfin I choose to do after my 1st year in school (yabatech)... with little gain am supporting her too. am also considering shifting to part-time so as to have enough time to support her financially.

Addietunes:
The verse i'm about to show you is a very common verse in the bible, but only a free thinker can sense the error in it. So I urge you to please clear your mind before reading and focus on the words.


Here is the verse:

Acts 1:8King James Version (KJV)

8 But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth.

Now according to this verse, Jesus was talking to his disciples to preach the gospel throughout the earth, but if u checked the sentence very well he said "unto the uttermost part of the earth". That word "uttermost" or in other versions "ends" refers to a location. From those words I believe Jesus was trying to let us know that the earth has an end (not end as in the destruction of the world but as a location). I also believe that for something to have an end it has to have an edge. So Jesus is trying to tell us that the earth has an edge, but the earth as we know it has no end because it is spherical in shape ( a great discovery of science by the way). So according to that verse, Jesus is claiming that the earth is flat. Now I ask how can Jesus the son of God claim that the earth his father (which is himself according to some bible verses) created was flat. This simply means that, the verse was not spoken by a God but by man, because during the dark ages, people believed the earth was flat in nature. Hence Jesus Christ is a myth.

I wonder what our bible scholars have to say about that.