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qbd2:
Hmm. I don't really see it as something bad. Tis maybe naturally what a woman does. And yes as another nl said, dey can just geta washing machine. Twill reduce d stress so d wife won't have to complain.
As per m$en ego, no man will want to wash his own or both of them's clothes when there's a woman at home.
I won't even wash my own clothes with hand talkless of washing both mine nd someone elses own. Ill surely get tired myself. But say, if there's no washinbg machine, d husband might as well voluntarily wash sone of his clothes himself so he doesn't work his wife to death.

loshybab:
most 21st century women nw think washing clothes for their hubbies is an act f domestic slavery....wts ur take NLanders?

benson81:
Pls 4. Members I want any 1 to ans this 4 me.my cousin who is a very senior staff wit a multinnational company.We learnt he joined Amorc,Freemasons and ogboni.But for some years now he is in conflict with family members,Friends,colleagues,he drinks heavily,smokes heavily,womanizes,he sometimes talks to himself,He said recently he no longer believes in Christ.What are the causes of his current state?

Precioussilas10:
We learn everyday and sometimes we don't know when the knowledge we acquire will be useful..one day your son may walk up to you and tell you about his interest of joining this order,what will you tell him?..I presume you will just say its devilish without substantiating your claims.This will only heighten his curiosity because you didn't present your reasons.

freecocoa:
I understand this, I just would like to know how you concluded on the dangerous and not dangerous kinds of knowledge.

Precioussilas10:
Because I desire to enlighten myself about this so called cult doesn't mean I want to jump into their bandwagon and what happened to that popular saying "knowledge is power"..well they say ignorance is bliss so i'm not tripping.pls take down my pix and act maturedly.Thanks

betadaz:
Please OP beware! My late uncle was a member. They succeeded in disconnecting him spiritually from the family covenant with God and he eventually died a miserable man. His family in disarray right now. While alive, he always believed in abstract things, trying to analyze some mystery of life and death, riches, fear, healing etc. Referring us to medieval philosophy and reassuring himself of longevity and invincibility. He used to give one journal The Rosicrucian Digest, which never explained anything but running round a topic and say nothing at the end. The only thing I picked from him was that he hardly lied or conspired against anybody. I used to see a stainless bowl of water placed on a small table in his room. A strange looking ring which I never touched, different candles. I once met him meditating. Things that unfolded after his death suggests AMORC is a secret cult. His members wanted to burn his corpse saying it was his last wish, but my Dad resisted.

bukatyne:
A man interested in keeping his vows

Not everyman lacks integrity and self control.

freecocoa:
Any small thing they start quoting the bible, as if that one is less confusing, I seriously don't understand how people let themselves be brain washed to the point of being scared to ask questions/seek further knowledge.

It's a pity.

PassingShot:
They have spares at the LG HQ. It is not in order to keep the two there initially.

ifoundmyperfect:
That is no longer a woman. But a lunatic!
Why would any sane guy go for a lunatic?

ifoundmyperfect:
Haba!
Nothing in this world justifies hitting a woman. Its one of the highest level of cowardice... This thing called love has created a lot of problems for people... They become delusional.. Don't blame her... She was in love!

gofyourself:
Tell me how i should show it for u and i will. Now answer my question because your post says exactly that unless u dont know how to express yourself in english.

5minsmadness:
Have you ever wondered why the same man that beat us wife won't go out to talk rubbish with another man?

It's because he knows he might get beat up!

So he does the smart thing by being polite or avoiding inciting or potentially violent situations with other men.

Women should take a hint from this

slap1:
Most ladies have no modicum of respect for womanhood! Once they see an artist, they gladly throw their legs apart and answer baby mama like it's some unique, envious position. Rubbish! Respect yourself and you'll respected.

slap1:
Most ladies have no modicum of respect for womanhood! Once they see an artist, they gladly throw their legs apart and answer baby mama like it's some unique, envious position. Rubbish! Respect yourself and you'll respected.

Godmother:
Nothing should make a man hit a woman
. If the guy saw she was irresponsible he should have just left her and taken responsibility for his kid shikena.

Why stay with someone you don't love anymore and transfer your frustrations and aggressions on them?

gofyourself:
what do u mean? That woman should keep silent when beating by a man?

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

quivah:
l[b] let women act like women.. calm and collected
and men act like men .. strong and protective[/b]


domestic violence will be on the low side...
women don't be market women and not expect to hang with touts!! we are all humans, talk like one

men don't be touts and not expect to hang with market women!

it takes two to make a relationship work...

I know there are some exceptional cases where the man hits his wife at the slightest excuse tho.. but most domestic violence root from one party acting crazy initially while the other (after several cooling off) turns back in full force.. in this case let all party the blamed and advised! it takes two to work.. you can't act like a beast towards your partner and except him/her to always turn back to you as an Angel..in truth, he/she might an angel but your constant beastly acts had rub off on him/her, and he/she returns a little taste of your act to you.. the sad part tho: he/she releases the venom in 7folds..

third law of newton; to every action, there's equal and opposite reaction!


I don't support domestic violence of any sort...!!!! at the same time, I will ensure i act as humanly as possible.. and not cry wolf I got slapped after I night have tongue lashed or even slapped a man.. that's hypocrisy!.

let teach both men and women to cool off!! stop the double standards!

@op its really a terrible case.... if she wants to leave, I will advise her to .. no one deserves that.. equally no one deserves any kinda abuse!! make or female

quivah:
l[b]et women act like women.. calm and collected
and men act like men .. strong and protective[/b]


domestic violence will be on the low side...
women don't be market women and not expect to hang with touts!! we are all humans, talk like one

men don't be touts and not expect to hang with market women!

it takes two to make a relationship work...

I know there are some exceptional cases where the man hits his wife at the slightest excuse tho.. but most domestic violence root from one party acting crazy initially while the other (after several cooling off) turns back in full force.. in this case let all party the blamed and advised! it takes two to work.. you can't act like a beast towards your partner and except him/her to always turn back to you as an Angel..in truth, he/she might an angel but your constant beastly acts had rub off on him/her, and he/she returns a little taste of your act to you.. the sad part tho: he/she releases the venom in 7folds..

third law of newton; to every action, there's equal and opposite reaction!


I don't support domestic violence of any sort...!!!! at the same time, I will ensure i act as humanly as possible.. and not cry wolf I got slapped after I night have tongue lashed or even slapped a man.. that's hypocrisy!.

let teach both men and women to cool off!! stop the double standards!

@op its really a terrible case.... if she wants to leave, I will advise her to .. no one deserves that.. equally no one deserves any kinda abuse!! make or female

jauntty:
[size=16pt]Let him/her who is without SIN cast the first stone. I don't support Infidelity but this idea of "disgracing" people online is simply uncalled for. This is Family issue and there are better ways of resolving it.

All those supporting this idea should wait until they get caught in the Act too. [/size]

jaybee3:
Use wisdom abegi

Just put Mr and Mrs