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vfactor:
Hehehehehe. Cheap publicity! Talk of cheap publicity What's cheaper than creating an empty thread where u couldn't even upload 1mb of pix (whether real or virtual).with a deceptive caption? How cheap do u want cheap to be, before it becomes cheap to u.

vfactor:
Are u better than those who have posted theirs And how is a prewedding picture intimate?


Just say u don't have anything to do this morning??

bukatyne:
I hope modern men also farm and trek miles?

Whatever.

gidjah:
bros respect us self, I dey vex o, I already settled her !! ;Dbros respect us self, I dey vex o, I already settled her !!

gidjah:
no ms, my eyes are pretty where they should be, but they are buldgy o see that you do not belong yo d class of the kind of women who see doing simple house chores as solely for women, your husband's should help with this ,help with that, you ladies. should wake up and and accept realities, if married (favored women)are complaining about house chores ,then whose work should that be?,stop been lazy, women, your mum did this things ,our parents in the village,are they complaining, while they where raising u up they did most of this things. but you come o the cities only to become champions over your men. coco you better be a good lady ,laziness and sluggishness will never help you , there's a place for women, that
is where you should sought for. this yanky way of living won't help u .

gidjah:
I had to steal into your profile to be sure about who is making a quote or issue out of what i said. sister coco, your blood too dey hot, you don't not fit into the class of women that would want to be personally responsible for her husband's home keep (or rather matrimony), you look like those that belong to them class washing machine, them cooks, them gardeners ,them house keepers, them baby sitters, and them drivers for mummy and the kids too !and more them and more them them as more needs arises. your super long finger nails would never allow you to think of washing your husbands clothes or even undies ,na so una go dey form until una husband's impregnate the house maids or even the relatives you brought home to come and do your job for you. this op ain't living in 3bedroom ,she is newly married, with a lil baby, she is complaining that d house chores are too rigorous,by the time the second and third child comes,what would be of her ?instead of you ladies to help her out with reasonable advice,some of you are asking her to fold her hands and sit with her phone just like her husband is doing!isn't that ridiculous? She is not even a working mum pks ,she seem to be a full house wife.

[size=18pt]No one has ever seen someone and start hitting or beating them. It is the verbal abuse when couldn't be contained anymore that will lead to physical abuse.
-Chigozie7(m)[/size]

njokusboy:
Verbal abuse is equal to physical abuse...
Since I was a child, i'd always preferred getting whipped to getting verbally violated especially from my mum....
The only difference between the two is the perpetrators..... stronger people would prefer physical abuse while weaker people would prefer verbal abuse, the reason why weaker people don't resort to physical abuse is because they know they'd get beat up, they'd beat you up if they could...
So it depends on which suits you

freecocoa:
If we are having a logical discussion, we should try to be very reasonable, we can't leave out "may" because that is a fact.

There are people who will not hurt over certain words said to them, and there are some that will, infact, there are degrees of verbal abuse, just like physical abuse too, but the difference is before a person can reach their breaking point with verbal abuse, they reach it faster with physical abuse.

I most certainly can bear being verbally abused but the moment you raise a hand against me, be prepared for what will follow and I can say the same for many people.

Walk into the streets, call a few people "idiots", walk up to another group and slap them, I can even guarantee that, you can get away with calling names than when you physically abuse people, the first person you even slap is where your experiment for that day, ends.

Verbal abuse is very bad no doubt, but to put verbal abuse on the same scale as physical abuse is wrong.

freecocoa:
Same way a person remembers words that were said and cry, so can a person also remember blows and slaps and also cry, it's all in the mind but with physical scars to go with it, in cases of physical abuse.

I don't think you should compare dashing a foot against a stone, with deadly blows given to one by another person, they aren't in the same category.

freecocoa:
They both are bad but I believe physical abuse is worse.

While verbal abuse MAY have the said effects on its victim, physical abuse definitely will leave it's victim with more (psychological and physical)pain.

Again, it's highly unlikely that, a physically abusive person will not be verbally abusive, infact, i'd like to think some words will be said before the beat down, so add up both and you have your answer.

Ishilove:
I have not liked your response on several issues, but that is not the issue here. The issue here is that the contenders don't report and the mods act on the reports that they are given.

I don't follow this section, so how I have suddenly become 'knowledgable' of 'my ladies' baiting is a puzzle unto me.

Mr 5minsmadness, next time use the fvcking report button to report baiting and deliberate provocation. I am not omnipresent so I sure as heck cannot possibly know that 'this monicker' has being baiting dinachi.

Ishilove:
Bikonu, I don't have energy for you people's gender wars. Joy insulted dinachi, I hid it, dinachi responded, I hid it. Joy replied, I hid it, dinachi fired back, I hid it etc etc etc etc

I hid the back and forth between the two of them, and stated that if anyone mentions rotten puccy again they will be banned. Did I mention dinachi and ban in the same sentence? Or is 'anyone' dinachi's middlename?

https://www.nairaland.com/2403739/wife-accuses-me-wrongly#35127959

https://www.nairaland.com/2403739/wife-accuses-me-wrongly#35132438

Joy1706:
YOU ARE NOT BRUTALLY FRANK. YOU ARE BRUTALLY STOOPID!!!!

bigfrancis21:
It is very much possible for a man to die and choose his own child's family to re-incarnate into as soon as possible, especially if the bond and love shared between the man and that particular child was very tight. With such earthly bond shared, the man may want to rejoin with his son as soon as possible on earth rather than wait till his son completes his life and crosses over for possible future lives that could be shared together.

bigfrancis21:
Sure. Go ahead.

bigfrancis21:
Sent. I sent both of them.

Kimoni:
Sticks and stones may break my bones....

troy20:
you see eh, a man who has had encounters with women would never say he doesnt see how verbal/emotional abuse isnt as equally damaging as physical abuse.

captianfreeman:
she never like it right from time. but is becoming worst by the day. As for being religious,? the woman is too religious., more than the man.

Gracie100:
My mum has been keeping this secret from her family members but now,she's about to tell them,

Cutehector:
There is no natural remedy for his drunkenness... Ur mum shouldn't act weak in this, instead she should control him. Nw d next time he gets drunk and comes bak knockn late at night, he should sleep outside dr till mornin. The tables need to be turned!

captianfreeman:
Help ! .... his wife hate sex with so. much passion. sometimes , they do it just six times in a whole year. How can he make her interested in the act.?

YourMain:
Lol right. They created a drug and forgot to make a antidote that could generate billions. Oh yeah. That makes total sense. It came from Africa. Even if it was a political stunt it was designed to reduce the population of black people.

Most pedophiles don't just fall in love with a child. They usually rape the child. So we can't just live and let live.