₦airaland Forum

Yustash001:
You can hardly see nairalanders bringing this kinda topic and saying it happens to them....it either happens to their friends or family.....back to the topic....@OP...your friend should try to grab...his mother inlaw in the wrist not the elbow....so that she won't escape....

Dnarvaez:
Its pretty sad that people tend to judge a person based on his/her behaviour or show of character. The fact that she walked in on you, unclad while you were taking your bath doesn't translate to an expression of her affection (that she's interested in you). And laughing doesn't means that either. Only time would tell if she has a motive behind her actions.

VictoriaBee:
I agree it's not bad and it's our nature to be passive but that doesn't mean our libido is low...

cococandy:
Why are you lying without compunction?

VictoriaBee:
I have never denied my biological makeup.
You should understand that all females are not the same; there are nymphomaniac who love sex.
Will you classify them in my category.
All MEN are not the same too - mutation can also alter gene - it's not about nature.
Same way some male are naturally born effiminate while others developed the behaviour. Same in masculine females.
What I have a grouse with your post, is you saying that women naturally possess low libido whereas, it's not so.
All men don't have equal testestorone.
All women don't have same level of oestrogen.

VictoriaBee:
Lol, Are you minding them?
Just because we don't smack lips, ogle lecherously, wink or whistle at any guy seductively and speak out about our feelings doesn't mean our hormone isn't raging.

cococandy:
That is what baffles me.

They not only understand how women feel, they also tell us the appropriate way to behave.

Women don't know what men go through but men know what women go through?

VictoriaBee:
Yet, you understood how we are wired. Keep deceiving yourself.

EfemenaXY:


Hold fast to your seat. We're just a stone's throw away from the red bra, red pants, red socks and red wigs advice.

troy20:
@5minsmadness nice one buddy.how we hate to be this perpetually h0rny with all these natural testeterone levels and all.but as they say you cant fight nature right? I think wives should know how important it is to pray for their husbands often.its not easy.

cococandy:
So in summary, men are perpetually h0rny, see sex in everything, get turned on by passing voices and shaking hands with random ladies etc etc

Pls where was this 'experiment' carried out?
@bold, you typed all that as what testosterone does to the body and you're annoyed some think of guys as walking dycks with no self control?

What other definition is suitable if truly that's how the average man feels because of his testosterone hormones?

Did none of the 'scientists' who carried out this experiment (if indeed it happened) figure out that the level of testosterone normal for a guy under which he functions normally without any overwhelming urges would affect a lady in a different way?

It's just like injecting a man with oestrogen hormones normal for my body and expecting it not to be too much for him. And when indeed he has magnified symptoms because it is too much for him, I try to make him believe that's how I feel everyday.

Even you know it doesn't make sense.
Since majority of guys have self control, I think we can say the testosterone isn't a livelong battle a man is living to fight.

EfemenaXY:
Na wa oh!

Una dey suffer sha. But I don't pity you lot.

biaka1994:
Thanks

mizzochocinco:
make sure your husband and cousin look alike so that if you fall pregnant no one will suspect you.

Since your husband doesnt find you attractive anymore let someone who still finds you attract enjoy abeg.

Body no be firewood. You are still young and you still have life in you. If you keep disturbing your husband they will tell you you nag. Dont be a nagging wife, resolves your problems in the arms of another and stop disturbing your husband over something he doesnt want to do.

fem29:
I also suggest you get a [size=15pt]rampant rabbit [/size]for times when you are really turned on. Sometimes we need to stop expecting our spouse to make us happy when they have shown they cannot and find our happiness outside of them. Empower yourself.

After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought tins would change but it's all d same. I keep begging n begging

cococandy:
Lol. Let me believe my eyes saw wrong.

Ok.

Women don't battle with sexual temptations? Laughable. How would you know since you're not a woman? Never mind. I don't want to take the thread a different place.

cococandy:
Mmm interesting.
What about the men who belong to the 'all men cheat' crew? They are the ones I find more interesting because you can't be bandying such phrases around and expect the ladies not to believe that all men don't cheat.
Last I checked many guys on this forum belong to that sect (even you. Don't make me go looking for posts pls). I even surprisingly find myself sometimes defending the male folk while they are busy tearing their own image down by endorsing all shades of cheating and making excuses for guys who cheat.

So what have you to say for yourself? Does having such opinions speak volumes about the guys' own relationship patterns?

He felt something cold touching his body. He searched with his hands and it felt like a cylinder with a hard skin impregnated with scales. He finally felt something trying to swallow his head. He touched it and discovered it was a big snake trying to swallow him up. The room wasn't dark. His head, down to his chest was inside the snake's mouth.

Caseless:
*kicks condom from his hand to the floor and matches it*

Why are u peeping?

coogar:
i can boldly say up to 80% of the nigerian married men must have been guilty of this. the problem is - many people think räpe has to be violent. clothes have to be torn, undies have to be ripped apart, etc but that's just a lame way of looking at it.

a man who refuses to eat his wifey's food is using emotional warfare to force her into sëx - that is rape. a man who refuses to give his wife money cos she refuses to have sex is also räpe if the wife later succumbs to his demand.

violence isn't the only tool necessary for räpe to take place. there are also
•threats
•coercion
•fear of duress or detention
•physchological oppression
•abuse of power

freecocoa:
I don't like to engage you because you are always looking for whom to insult, don't start with me biko as I'm not in that mood.

Does rape only have to be when the woman was beaten and bruised? So you don't know that making her have sex against her will by insisting, is rape?

freecocoa:
My boyfriend cannot have such mentality as I wouldn't continue dating someone who thinks that way, but believe it or not, I have seen such men with my two eyes, my dad has been called to judge cases bothering on the women refusing to have sex for one reason or the other.

I love to sit and talk with guys a lot, so I know what am saying.

freecocoa:
Ogbeni use ya head ya hear me so? So you don't know that being tired is reason enough not to have sex? A man who believes that's not an excuse is saying she shouldn't have an excuse and yea, there are men who reason that way.

Not everything should be spelt out for you at your age.

Btw, I like Tim, is he not a man?

freecocoa:
It is widespread my darling, when you have men walking about with the mindset that, a woman has no excuse to refuse sex when they want, rape is what you get.

thorpido:
You can't really know about these people's sexual life like you think.Do you know that the women themselves are conditioned to accept it?Tell me how many women will tell their friends their husbands wanted to sleep with them and they refused and not be rebuked by the women?It doesn't mean the men have to beat them before sleeping with them,sometimes the woman just has to lie down and open her legs......it's still rape.

freecocoa:
It is widespread my darling, when you have men walking about with the mindset that, a woman has no excuse to refuse sex when they want, rape is what you get.