SA Lady:

^^^Something doesnt tie up, please help me out? What is wrong with those two embolded lines

You have a fiance, you are not ready to be married and you are having an affair. whats's going on

I DONT have a fiancee, just a girlfriend who's far away and havent seen in more than a year. We still talk on the phone, but  I wont be surprised if she's making her own plans bcoz she's now of marriageable age and I'm sure she has a lot of suitors.

My affair with this woman began on a public holiday as we had no loved ones nearby to spend the day with. She's the with the Fiance abroad.

What kind of useless post is this, who cares about some stupid memory some fat a+ss want to reminisscence about. If you love someone so much marry 'em and stop telling us of some goddam experience y'all had sometimes ago. Lets look ahead ahead jo

There is this guy i met while preparing for JAMB. He was such a cute boy, and a footballer. He was the first guy i ever kissed though we didn't go beyond that. When i entered Uni,we didn't see again. It's 8yrs now but i still remember him like y'day. I once went to the house they lived then but they told me they moved out since 2004. To make matters worst, i can't remember his surname so i can't search him on fb.

I totally miss that boy (he must be in his 30's now). He was soooo cute

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there was the lady i met her name was baby.me

she was the 1st lady i ever kissed, i went to her house in 2004 and they told me she moved out

she was a footballer and an okada rider, i missed her and remember her like yesterday

a footballer and okada rider? WoW! Was she gay? And the Butch kind of lesbian?

totorimi:

What kind of useless post is this, who cares about some silly memory some fat a+ss want to reminisscence about. If you love someone so much marry 'em and stop telling us of some goddam experience y'all had sometimes ago. Lets look ahead ahead jo

Hey, it's not by force to comment. If you don't like the thread, simply ignore it and look for another thread that will interest you. There are plenty threads here in nairaland. Pls respect others.

she waz pretty,knew her in 97,we sdatrted dating in 2000, both young,
young love,full oh hope n promises but unaware of reality,

wen reality struck,after 4 years it all fell apart, well, she dated my nxt door nieghbour back then in Uni

thats was the Kill, or we still see talk,still ahve a strong thing for each other , but


miss her sha

Mrs potato, thanx my dear. Right now, Im with this chinese chick [very beautiful and I would love to marry her] but, who knows what rocks the future's boat?

Ranoscky:

Mrs potato, thanx my dear. Right now, Im with this chinese chick [very beautiful and I would love to marry her] but, who knows what rocks the future's boat?

U are with a chinko

Lost mine 6 years ago. We dated for two years. Our relationship was blissful. One day, we had a misunderstanding and the relationship collapsed like a pack of cards. She is now a lawyer and she is still single.
I miss her alot.

If only one can turn back the hands of time. dammit! i'll go back to nursery school.
There, i fall in love with all sincerity, passion and honesty that doesn't exist in the world of today. we were kids, we were best of friends, we go to school together, eat together, play together lived almost together, got married over a hundred times in dramas. As we grew older, we became aware of our bodies, the passion we share before we could decide to "experiment" thats when we were in primary 4, her mother got transfered and we lost contact. up till date, i can vividly remember the moments we share, her smile, everything. just that i cant find her anymore  

hehehehehehee

wake up n wish the lost ones luck

This thread took my down the sweet memory lane. I actually met her in my 200level in Uni and she was just a fresh 100level student. I was seeing a gal in same room with her, so I met this very gal one of the days I came looking for the other gal i was seeing. Since the day i set my eyes on her i developed the feelings for her, not minding that i was seeing someone else in that room, thou it wasnt easy but at the end of day we started dating with the help of a few of her friends. I was actually her first boyfriend and I practically tot her everything. We dated for good 5years and we were seriously in love for that 5yrs. When I graduated, her family arranged someone to marry her and i was young then. But at the end of the day it didnt work out with the guy they arranged for her. Till date i still have strong feelings for her and its almost 6yrs now that we broke up, she just sent me sms last week after a very long time and i started thinkin about her lately. The truth is that this gal set a very high standard that no other gal has been able to match. I miss her so much

Mrs potato, Yes o, my dear. Specificaly, she is from Hong Kong [born-bred and lived all her life over there] but I call her chinese b'cos HK is 'stil' part of china.

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there was the lady i met her name was baby.me

she was the 1st lady i ever kissed, i went to her house in 2004 and they told me she moved out

she was a footballer and an okada rider, i missed her and remember her like yesterday 

she was mad ugly

Mind the way you type my name, Sunny-boy

Hmmn, I met this guy about 7 years ago & we're about the same age. When he first asked me out, i declined, but it was false, cos i was already in love too. He never tried asking me out again, but somehow we started dating. He's so romantic and caring, he had everything i've ever wanted in a guy, but we are too alike. He's proud and arrogant, i guess i am too. So, that's it. It had to stop. I decided to stop it, since 'i'm the lady here' and i had to get serious with a relationship. But since then, it's not being easy, we've been breaking up and making up. The new guy is the one suffering, because it's not like the feeling is there. I still see the former guy and recently, when i discovered that he's also dating another girl, i felt so jealous (i think selfishness was at work) and i've not even talked to the guy since then. I hate to say this, but i think i'm still in luv with him. I just have to summarize the story, there's more to it. In fact love is crazy.   So, can you see that my love life is more complicated than yours?

She was pretty and well behaved, almost perfect. She said no sex b4 marriage, I got Hot and left her for another lady that was ready to service my needs. Still think what could have been but feel I made the only decision available.

Hmmm, I haven't posted in several years, but this may just be the therapy I need, lol

Of course in the journey of life a girl meets a nice guy or two,
The first one that got away, he had a wild temper, but we could talk about everything. He was the kind of take charge guy. We had a lot in common--our parents travelled in the same circles, we both love the arts with a passion, but beyond that I couldn't get passed that temper--I didn't want to risk it.
I think about him every now and then, we both love Shania Twain's "You've got a way with me," so when the thoughts come I smile--he was there for me emotionally when I needed a friend, for that I'll always love him.

For the big fish that got away! "Bulldog," don't know how he earned that name, as he's such a gentle person. My older brother's friend, known him nothing less than 20 years. Grew up saying I would marry him. I had a crush on him from primary school till,  Once when I was old enough to speak my feelings I went to look for him, but he'd moved! I left the country, but somehow he found me through an email my brother had sent. We reconnected, before long we started dating--my dreams were coming true. Bull and I were perfect together, finish each other's sentence, know what the other is thinking, in all honesty we were soul mates--if such a thing does exist. He was the yin to my yang, we got engaged. Something went wrong somewhere, we couldn't be together.
It's been 5yrs since, we still talk, thankfully we're on different ends of the planet!  I'm married now with a family, and I wish him all the best with his life. But I still wonder what could have been

Was in my final year in school. we both had no one we were dating.
Was happy for once with a woman. It was total. everyone knew us.
Was so bad that her course mates thought I was a member of that class (u could hear the whipers )
We dated for 10months before we broke up
After 5years, she started calling me again and later asked me why i was not returning her calls? I made her realise that if i did, I was bringing back buried memories which was not good since she was involved with someone else.
We later hooked up and now she wants me to be her boyfriend again cos the fiance has travelled abroad to study.
She claims she does not want to date anyone cos she knows it won't lead anywhere but knows i would understand if she ends it when he comes back (if i do not make her pregnant or marry her b4 then).
Imagine

I don't have any stories to tell. Once Ur gone Ur gone. Those ''bump into'' senarios are the things that lead to feelings one lives to regret later.
It's safer for me & my new girl if I'm not indulging my nostalgic feelings about someone I'm not with anymore.

Sure we'l wonder bout this person & that person as they will wonder bout us too but there really is no need meditating on the longings.

Mine is that of a broken relationship.

I met a girl on my first day in campus and we became very good friends. We maintained our friendship for three years and we were so close that people thought we were dating. In final year however, i asked her out and so began our relationship. I loved her very much and would not do anything to hurt her. we shared our lives like two passionate people whose hearts were tied spiritually.

It was all rosy and cosy and for 2 years we did not have a single reason to quarrel. As soon as NYSC came calling however, things began to degenerate between us. We started having problems. All attempts to resolve issues failed as we were fighting about almost everything, almost on a daily basis. It got to the point that i couldn't take it anymore because my bad relationship cost me retention where i served as i was pouring my anger on my colleagues cos i could not pour it on her. I ended the relationship immediately after Youth Service. Although she came to her senses and begged for forgiveness but i could not bring myself to share my heart with a girl that would allow circumstances to make her resentful of someone she claimed to love.

We parted ways and lost contact for about a year. In that period, rebuilt my life, i found someone else, built up a relationship with her and got married. However, just before my marriage, our friends who we shared while in school urged us to make up and be friends; since we were friends before we became lovers. After much pressure, i conceded, with approval from my eventual wife of course (who i narrated the whole story to). I am happily married now and expecting my first child. We are still friends; albeit via phone calls and other electronic means of communication and have met only once since then. She's still single and uses every opportunity to express her sadness at losing me. I don't feel anything for her anymore other than friendship and i keep her at arms length, to me now, she is just a friend and everyone understands it. We found love and lost it in translation.

Me thinks: This is one hell of a girlie thread.

Me thinks: This is one hell of a girlie thread.

and what makes u think so?

Going through this thread has made me melancholic.

Which one do I talk about and which one do I leave out??

I think I just have to shut down for the day and go home.

ok

This thread brings back memories

Mine was back in 2004, there's this comp. training school i did my IT(as a lecturer) and she was one of the students. We became friends and most days she would stay till i close. Things got pretty intense and the management got word that we were dating and well, I lost my very first job. Yeah, silly me.

We lost contact for about 7 years, no thanks to nitel&them useless telco's then. .and the ONLY thing I remember vividly was our last kiss and her name. So some days back, i was checking out posts on my FB wall and a thought creep'd in. .so i decided to search for her (after failing on 4 previous attempts), lo and behold. . her profile picture appeared on my screen. . I just broke down in tears, I couldn't hold myself.

Hearing her (got her number from her profile) even made it worse, as she kept crying and didn't know what to say to me. .We're working in different states now, though we plan meeting when she's around.