slyfox35: Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.
We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.
Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years. Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).
My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.
Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!
His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.
On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.
I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)
I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.
This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.
What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”
Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?
I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?
my brother ur tale is sad but we can never divorce reality... u see bro as i speak to u I helped someone here I took as a brother and he banged me big time some Nairalanders have heard about it the ones I’m in contact with and bro I haven’t recovered ... good to help anyone and everyone unconditionally.. but for me I’d rather die than accommodate an unknown soldier again bro .. to know now in diz context should be relative because we don’t really anyone
Another Turkish lady narrates how an Ondo man impregnated and abandoned her; says an Igbo man is now taking care of her
Another Turkish lady has shared her experience with a Nigerian man who impregnated her and disappeared.
In an Instalive live chat with popular comedian Michael Blackson, the lady disclosed that she used to work with the 42-year-old Ondo man who owns a business in Turkey. However after she got pregnant, she said the Ondo man disappeared.
She also disclosed that the Nigerian man who travelled down to Germany afterwards, married his first baby mama same month he got her pregnant. The Turkish lady said she named her baby after an Igbo man who helped her out her condition.
the op and biatch are pathetic losers who are too lazy and slow in reasoning.. they are baggages to be dropped and picked up by scavengers who eat and sleep anywhere with anything..
adekolaelect: explanation for intensionally destroying someone hard earned properties in the name of fighting invisible virus .ask yourself how many testing Kitts ,Isolation centers and awareness had he provided for his state? Tell us what he has dished out for his people as palliative in his state to warrant his people to stay at home peacefully ? Tell us how positively the demolition of properties can contribute to the successful fighting of covid 19 in his state ?I can't blame you for supporting him ,the same thing affected you and your people fearing of establishing any good business in you region simply because of bitterness in whatever you do. Migrators always blame their host simply because of election but supporting their Governor of impunity by destroying people's ventures simply because of his ego of tyranny.
u are a lazy beggar !!! And I’m not ibo neither I’m a nepotistic bigot like you.. I see humans not colour ,tribe or race , perhaps it’s one of the numerous distinctive attributes that separates me from a VIP nuisance like u..
desiredhome: Oh I can see you are one of wiked wike's thugs, it's important you allow school to go through you not to go through school so you won't end up like your illiterate master.. When you see a lawyer you will know Sheers
lol I’d rather usain bolt through school than to spell like Amos and Obadiah in public.. modern day illiterate!!!! Shiorrrr
adekolaelect: Enjoy your wickedness till it last . I don't see where they cut off head because of its headache .Everything will become an history ,you just need small time.
borrow data and watch his explanations first so ignorance and poverty clouded emotions won’t make u exist amongst instead of living..
desiredhome: That is how you differentiate illiterate from literate.....when you put Agbero in position of power...wike is wiked is a disgrace....and he call himself a lawer
try and learn how to spell lawyer first then we can debate his qualifications with you ... see you on your graduation day..!
StreetFight: While Wike Nyesom of Rivers State demolished hotels without getting to Court. That's a take of two governors. Now, imagine Rivers miscreants and jobless militants comparing themselves to Omoloabis.
u are daft!!! I know u are young and that comes with quantum naivety but then respect ursef in public places we were all once like u but without bringing reproach to ourselves and families like u have demonstrated and displayed here .. garnering likes can be likened to covid as it were as death toll mounts anywhere they ignorantly play host..
Fasindo: Geneva convention also guarantees u free global movement carry ur bag Coman settle here in Switzerland and Brussels sharply..oponu
This is totally wrong.
Nigeria constitution guarantee each Nigeria to reside and stay anyway in Nigeria without being discriminated. The Almajiris has the right to stay anywhere in Nigeria, they should be sent back to Ondo. I know many Yorubas that stays and live in Gombe and Yola and nobody has ever threatened them or asked them to go back to Southwest.
Because of this North will not vote for a Yoruba president in 2023.
in the face of reality u and ur likes are the obnoxious mudane uncivil ignorant ones who wants to infect people and frustrate the efforts of the sane and concerned lots..
Waterypussy2: Arresting them and keeping them so close to each other without any iota of social distancing. This Wike must be an illiterate lawyer or just trying to oppress the good people of Rivers state
NwaNimo1: Igbo's a benevolence......it no be small ohh,
yes bro I will never forget the benevolence of Maria pure water in Benin agbor road until he confessed to killing his wife Maria for rituals and committed suicide on the same day he bought a Prado suv and goat twine to hang himself sadly his little brother at uwelu did same at okwai river months later..he also had similar benevolence building churches and sponsoring hail Mary’s program at noon at almost all radio stations.. growing up in Nigeria I was almost made to believe a rosary signifies a ritualistic alliance because people who bare them committed despicable atrocities
NwaEnugwuukwu: I thought FG says no interstate movement except essential goods, how did they managed to passed all the check points to reach Asaba without being caught.
because all the borders until delta was manned by camouflaged almajiris or ex
ochejoseph: In John 10:10 Christ said satan’s mission is to steal, kill and destroy. Since the year 2000, Bill and Melinda Gates have spent $5 billion feeding Africans and saving African lives. It thus betrays ingratitude for Africans to call them satanic agents. Can we not give them the benefit of the doubt? We have produced no evidence to substantiate these rumours, yet we are so prepared to forget all their good deeds and just label them anti Christ.
How can you say Bill and Melinda Gates are satanic agents when Christ said satan came to steal, kill and destroy? For years, they have been doing the opposite of that. It is particularly disappointing for politicians to make that claim. Can you do for your people what Bill Gates has done for them?
Sadly, misguided Africans insulted Bill and Melinda Gates when they expressed concern about deaths on the streets of Africa. But look at Kano. If we had taken their warnings seriously, Kano won’t be a #COVID19 hotspot today, despite having tens of thousands of mosques and hundreds of churches.
How can you have individuals who have not lifted a finger to help their people. Who have not shared palliatives out of their pocket. You have not done a giveaway.
Their only contribution to the #CoronaVirus fight is to insult Bill and Melinda Gates, who have spent more money on African’s health than their own governments Bill and Melinda Gates were not satanic agents when they provided anti malarial medicines to Nigeria, or when they provided food aid to the insurgency ravaged Northeast. Now they are satanic. Africa and ingratitude. What a shame!
Right now, there will be racist haters of Black Africans, approaching @BillGates and laughing at him, while saying ‘did we not tell you that no matter what you do, they will never be grateful?’. Africans. Without evidence, we have crucified a friend of Africa!
Swingate: When you sell your soul to the devil, this is what you get.
how much u dey pay? I want to know how u intend to take control of what u can’t hold... centurion Jokers I will take ur money and annihilate u to be famous person and Even behead all ur associates .. mutiny and rebelliousness is sweeter than pudding when u know the other is a nuisance ..,
Swingate: When you sell your soul to the devil, this is what you get.
how much u dey pay? I want to know how u intend to take control of what u can’t hold... centurion Jokers I will take ur money and annihilate u to be famous person and Even behead all ur associates .. mutiny and rebelliousness is sweeter than pudding when u know the other is a nuisance
quick to take donations in lump sums just to eat , lodge in hotels, buy exotic cars that they don’t need and stare at account balances that they don’t need and can’t use .. but all of a sudden don’t want to prevent diseases that kills the people they took an ambiguous oath to serve and protect??!!! The truth is they profit amidst disasters and chaos , just like terror and the likes are thriving businesses..