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When you're hurting its almost impossible to be civilized, but hold your peace and your own will come. Heartbreaks suck, but sometyms, its inevitable. Better this way than after 4 kids. Atleast he's out, making way for a better person to come in.

^^Tis gud you're
offering a shoulder to cry on.

NYgirl
so sorry for ur pain. . .He will get what he has coming to him. Though I know some peeps here will ask for his side of the story, but there's no escuse to treat a human so callously.

Mrning all, esp. Snowdrops. Lol

^^
Dyt, u seem 2 be in a LDR. But distance doesn't really matter when a heart is commited. You have to keep communication lines very open 'tho. Since you're online most times, I'm guessing you have good internet connection. So in addition to talking on the phone, you can also skype, chat and of course squeeze in visits when possible. . . .

@snowdrops.
hey snowy. I'm about hitting the sack right now. Its a cold night where I'm at, but I'm loving the serenity around me. Nanyt, muah!

@dyt
i love that song. But I think Nicole was sounding like Rihanna. Just my observation tho.

Dyt, all you've been talking about is love and couples. Hmmmn,

Nods in approval as 'rival' Dyt is smacked by Jackpot. Lol.
@snowdrops
Hw r u 2day, snowy!

^^u seem to be pwetty's guardian angel! Plz, I nid one too o!

@pwetty
But why are you so sceptical? You really don't believe a good guy can be noticed?

@snowdrops.
Ok. Will send you a mail.

^^^hmmmn! I'll be reporting someone to their BF very soon!

^^naughty you. Lol.

^^
Alright, then. Take gud care, k? Nanyt!

@boboyekini
What did Snowdrops do to you?
@pweetie
Whats a fallacy? R u in any way insinuating that this was preplanned?
Gurl, Snowdrops didnt even know I existed till today!

@Dyt.
Thanx gurl. Btw, whatchu up to 2nyt? R U a vampire or sum'n? Snowdrops offered a pint of lager. That's all you'l be getting from him. Take the beer or I'l drag you into the sun, missy! I don't play when it comes to Snowdrops! Lol.

@Snowdrops
Glad Dyt found you atlast! Nah, you haven't encountered Aameyah because I don't really post that much. I've been around though, silently watching! Lol.
So now that you are here, care to put a physical description to that name? What do you look like? What makes you tick?

@ Dyt
You're a darlyn. And BTW, I've been seeing you too. And while you can be naughty, I get good vibes from you! Lol.

@Ms. Potato
Yes, and I don't blame you for liking him. Dude strikes me as a very likeable guy!
@roki
Snowdrops isn't one of the 'populars' but he's around alright!

@dyt
Do that please. I don't think he knows about this!

Try and ask him 'whats up'. Then you can take it from there. At this point, the worst you can do is to waste one more minute of your life on an unproductive relationship. A minute that coulda been spent meeting the right guy.

As humans, alot of times our love is based on conditions. For women, such conditions may be that we need our love to be reciprocated. We need a faithful man who can treat us right; a good, responsible man who cares for his woman and family.
For men, most of them want a woman that is physically pleasing to their eye, who respects them and lets them be the man in all ramifications.
If these conditions are not met, love is threatened. What then is unconditional love? Are we, as humans capable of loving our partners unconditionally?
Man, would you still love your woman if she were to transform into a nagging, rude, saggy busted woman tomorrow?
Woman, would you still love your man if he changes into an irresponsible, loudmouthed, pot-bellied man tomorrow?
Are we even capable of unconditional love?
Hmmmnn. . . .

As humans, alot of times our love is based on conditions. For women, such conditions may be that we need our love to be reciprocated. We need a faithful man who can treat us right; a good, responsible man who cares for his woman and family.
For men, most of them want a woman that is physically pleasing to their eye, who respects them and lets them be the man in all ramifications.
If these conditions are not met, love is threatened. What then is unconditional love? Are we, as humans capable of loving our partners unconditionally?
Man, would you still love your woman if she were to transform into a nagging, rude, saggy busted woman tomorrow?
Woman, would you still love your man if he changes into an irresponsible, loudmouthed, pot-bellied man tomorrow?
Are we even capable of unconditional love?
Hmmmnn. . . .

I think a proper investigation by the police is necessary at this point. I'm leaning towards the man but I'l keep an objective mind till there's an objective report, an investigation by someone who doesn't have vested interest/stake in the relationship.

peeps should learn from this! Heavy g, hope you've learnt your lesson.

hmmn,

Shy-One, Heavy g, Adonisgold, Tashanja, kandiikane, Ileke-IdI, Cantell, 190, SA Lady, Bhusayor.
PLS one of y'all tel me dis diva chik aint serious, i got issues bt dis chik made me break out in merry lafta!
Thank you DIVALISHIS!

@SHY-ONE
I lyk ur advise.

small weekend bag packed.
, 2 be or not 2 be. What if i go through with it and i discova i cant let go of my boyfrnd?
I kno il lose it someday, but i do want to hav an experienc wit someone i lov.