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Jasen1:
Good day all

Please I really need a good advise insults are welcome also

Please pardon any error in the post


It happened like this

She's a girl I met in 2012 via 2go, we became friends we talk, chat, and call each other, we've been just social media friends we never met each other physically till 2016 when we met in PH for the first time, it WI didn't stay together for more than 10minutes she left, we were still talking


Fast forward to this year I relocated to Abuja and she lives here also. We decided to date each other, she was staying with her sister here while I just rented an apartment, she visited me and passed the night in my house (yes we had sex) so from that day, she started complaining about her sister giving her troubles, always punishing her, she always quarrel with her, soany complain, she said she want to get an apartment, I said OK I will help her get one but first she needs to start working at least when I get the apartment for her she can be able to pay her bills she said OK, 2weeka after she told her that her sister had issues with her husband and she's packing out of the house that her sister is relocating to ph and her sister asked her to leave the house or stay with her husband

She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.

Now my problem is this, since she been here she sleep wake up eat morning afternoon and evening, she's not bothered about working anymore like she became so lazy to go out and look for work, I spend lots of money every week making sure we've enough to eat at home. But I'm really getting tired of everything


I don't know how to ask her to leave and again she don't have anywhere to go to, excepts her village or her sister place in Lagos, she has lots of friends here in Abuja but they're not good friends to her, I stopped her from associating with them, but this time if she want to go back to them, I don't mind, I really need space


Please note she's my girlfriend, we are both in our early 20's


I want the best way to ask her to leave that won't cause problem

Mostfavoured010:
Only insane electorate voted for that satanic party that paid salary and pensions in a week to election. they ran the state into lifetime debt, so they can afford to pay workers but delayed it till they need there votes. Satanic party

More defection will hit APC

APC & Tinubu will lost one of there strongholds on Thursday ....Oyetola right now ...am pains

Omeokachie:
Premature Ejaculation celebration

sarrki:
The campaign organisation of the PDP candidate in the ongoing governorship election in Osun State has just circulated the statement below suggesting it’s flagbearer is on the verge of victory.

Read full statement below.

The Ademola Adeleke Campaign Organisation has warned against the manipulation of the results of the governorship polls, affirming that the will of the people must be respected.

As results are been collated across the state, we demand utmost fair play and transparency from the electoral body.We are watching and monitoring closely. Under no circumstance should the collation process be manipulated.

Our agents and leaders are on their toes armed with relevant results and forms.The will of the people must be respected.We task INEC and security agencies to obey the directive of President Muhammad Buhari who had ordered that the Osun electoral process should never be manipulated by federal or any related agencies.

We call on local and international observers to take note of the ongoing process and assist the people of Osun state to realise the supremacy of their electoral will.

Our people should also be ever vigilant to protect their votes and their aspirations for better life.

Signed

Olawale Rasheed ,

Director of Media & Publicity, Ademola Adeleke Campaign Organisation.




https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/more-news/285697-dont-tamper-with-our-winning-results-pdp.html

Partnerbiz:
Na kwankwaso they wan give ticket?

nawtyme:
Nigerians are possessed. A party whose governor owed salaries for months, paid half salaries for months despite living a luxurious lifestyle is still being voted for?

How can right thinking human beings still vote for APC in Osun state? How can the state progress since the governor brought his stooge to replace him?

So you take 5000 naira today and live on half salary for 4 years? I just can't understand

neutralmind:
Adeleke is from Ede. That's his strong hold so a win in Ede is no news.

Next....

correctbae:
More

donsiqua:
I Need Serious Advice On The Path To Tow

I am currently confused right now on what to do. I need advice.

I got this job that pays 200k+ a month plus a decent accommodation. Iam very good at my job and I have been planning on opening my own. As a matter of fact I have planned to start buying the equipments needed for the company by October. Although if everything goes as planned the company would begin operation by middle of next year. I also have the intention of combining my job and running the company(it's no big deal). However I ran into this sure link of getting a very high paid job abroad. The link is legit and very sure, all I have to do is accept and I will leave ASAP but my problem here is that my parents wokldolet me step out of the country cause I'm their only son. I needed the abroad job as it would boost my income and enable me achieve what I had planned. If I should follow my initial plan the company would run on a small scale. However, with the fund from the away job I could get enough money to go into full business.

Iam thinking of defying them and go ahead with the abroad plan. But one mind is telling me to hold onto my initial plan.

Please what do I do?

Ps I have already been offered the job abroad all I have to do is to accept it. And I don't have much time left.

I need sincere inputs
Negative comments are welcomed too

amaniro:
three idiots

ebusnwaoma:
Cool FM OAP, Daddy Freeze, has also reacted to call out post Wizkid's babymama, Shola, released during the week which made major headlines.

In his video, Daddy Freeze who told Wizkid's babymama that she have taken postinor to prevent the pregnancy, further asked what she was expecting after she got pregnant for the singer. The OAP also told Shola that she stop comparing Wizkid to Davido, because he has no wealth to inherit.

According to Daddy Freeze, Wizkid is living off his sweat while Davido has something to hang on to if everything crashes.

https://lailasnews.com/you-should-have-used-postinor-daddy-freeze-tells-wizkids-babymama-shola/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmmNbU8EHMk

justtoodark:
look foolishness....why didnt he immediatly check it....??

nobody can scam you if you dont trust nobody....

PUSSYBBQGRILLS:
I'm still searching for the shade here.



Wetin "shade" mean sef

edurach:
Angel Christopher, a s*xy and curvy Nollywood actress, is not letting her guard down despite all the tantalizing offers she’s been getting from men who want to have a feel of her s*xy body.

Speaking with Inside Nollywood, the Delta State-based role interpreter, who has starred in over 20 movies, shared the embarrassing encounters she often faces because of her natural endowments.

“Nothing is new. People normally assume so many things about me. Some men just see me, and the next thing they do is ask me to marry them, without even knowing me. Others go as far as telling me that they would love to have s*x with me. Just like that!

“Some even ask if I am human being or mammy water, while others send me different snapshots of their manhood to prove they are capable and can handle me well in bed.

“I just read and laugh and when I am not in the mood to laugh, I block them through their social media handles. Case closed! In fact, men find my body irresistible,” she gushed.

With a strong belief that the man of her dreams would eventually locate her, Christopher, who doubles as a beautician, rejected the offer of being a second wife.

“Nothing is wrong with being a second wife, but I can’t settle for less neither am I meant to eat left over. The Bible made us to understand that it’s one man, one wife. So, why should I go dragging another woman’s husband when I can get mine?

“I am a jealous lover and I hate sharing. I want a man who is God fearing, understanding, tolerating, caring, calm and playful.

“I don’t mind if he is short, ugly or poor, because when you truly love someone, his or her looks won’t mean a thing to you,” she hinted.

https://newsnow.com.ng/men-find-my-body-irresistible-curvaceous-actress-angel-christopher-tells-her-fans/

agwom:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/i-left-because-apc-has-failed-nigerians-says-dogara.html

Dannyset:
Mr man, go and start preparing for tribunal cos you have just lost your constituency to APC come February next year.

osazeeblue01:
APC is evil

Sirjamo:
Dogara just signed his own political obituary, there is no way the miserable pdp would win anything in Bauchi

phemsie:
i go like date one of them and probably get the other one as jara

oyacastam:
Bemigho Reno Omokri who is an author and lawyer, has gone over the internet to give advise to women .

He wrote:

"Dear women,

Life is short and happiness is rare. If you find a guy you like, but he is too shy, then make the first move. It does not make you a LovePeddler. A LovePeddler is a woman that opens her legs to any man. A hero is a woman that opens her heart to the man she loves. It does not mean you lack self esteem. Don’t mistake low self esteem for humility. There is a difference. If you believe other people are better than you, you have low self esteem. If you believe you are better than other people, you have pride. If you know that no one is better than you, you have God! #RenosNuggets"

Is This True??

Gists via: https://www.gistvic.com/2018/09/if-you-like-guy-but-he-is-too-shy-make.html

google1:
Nigerians are great people with foolish leaders

boy16:


very funny

I wonder when Nairaland will improve on its Emojis

TechCapon:
A friend of mine joked that the screen was called "Liquid Retina" because the price will make you cry

shox:
Apple Don miss am this time around
Their devices after iPhone 8 are just too wack

These new phones are the definition of "expensive shit"

Cr7sBabe:
Nice family!
Everybody rich and everybody happy together. Unlike some family...they see person wey better for their family like this...them go use jazz kill am. If Adelekes wre like that...they won't b all rich today. Kudos. One love.

Meanwhile..Do agric. It pays.

StillX10:
The boss of all bosses has spoken

Osiomole's nightmare

APC worst distraction


Buhari's fear

Wilfredpat22:
Well I thought it was a Nigerian woman that was based in Nigeria, opened the thread and saw she is Abroad based.

Which oyinbo man will look at us when we are walking bleaching corpses used by Yahoo boys

gistfever:
Na wa ooh.... a lady has voiced out on social media to talk about her sweet sex experience with Mr. IBU.

John Okafor is a Nigerian actor and comedian popularly known as Mr. Ibu . Okafor is considered to be one of Nigeria’s most talented comic characters.

The lady really gave a thorough explanation of the experience, how sweet and gentle Mr. Ibu was in bed.

Gists via: https://www.gistvic.com/2018/09/na-wa-ooh-lady-talks-about-her-night.html


See below:

In2systemsTech:
Back up is good.... ask a policeman...



























meanwhile I have Brand new AllCall s1 phone (5000mAH, 2GB, 16 GB, 5.5", Android 8.1) @ 28,000naira and Brand new Homtom S16 phone (finger print, 3000mah, 2Gb 16GB, 5.5" @ 25500.... check my signature

haykes:
Ladies now values booth n boob than their entire life, I'm good on bed find out she must be local or international olosho

OtunbaLeXuS:
Lady who ‘jumped’ off Third Mainland Bridge: How I was blackmailed after defrauded of N75m by syndicate


●I made N31 from the deal, says Islamic cleric

from this story of a woman who attempted suicide about a cheating scandal...
https://www.nairaland.com/4555926/face-woman-parked-suv-jumped

to her post about the scandals...
https://www.nairaland.com/4557991/3rd-mainland-suicide-toyin-tkfashion



she has decided to come out and explain what really happened and how she was framed and defrauded...




https://newtelegraphonline.com/2018/09/lady-who-jumped-off-third-mainland-bridge-how-i-was-blackmailed-after-defrauded-of-n75m-by-syndicate/