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Well op if u re looking for who to point fingers at... Point it at your fellow women..

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It all boils down to money and power. Whenever you hear this kind of talk just know that the woman's family is wealthier than the man. If the man is richer, she won't even think about it... Infact she ll quarrel with anybody who is telling her not to adopt his name.

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bigmodo:
I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her. We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.

Congrats... You can have ur kids through IVF and they ll be just fine, no SS.

COOL10:
If erection indicates consent,then pussy wetness means consent.
If erection indicates consent, then hard nipples mean consent.
If erection indicates consent,then eventual moans mean consent.
If erection means consent,then thrusting back of her hips means consent.

I hate double standards. Let's keep this energy

Loud it...

The only thing that stops racism is respect and people won't respect you if you don't have anything to offer. If you see an Arabian you ll immediately think "He's rich, Arab Money.. etc" and that automatically makes you respect him even if the Arabian is not.
Same goes for when you see whites, Chinese, Jews, etc there is something respectable these races are know for. What respectable thing are blacks known for?

TheGodlessGod:
that's why the population is important. Blacks dominated states are now voting black people that will represent their interest.

go and check those statistics... The blacks don't go out to vote. Look at the minor elections like elections for mayor and city /state representatives, councillors etc. Those little elections is where their fate is determined and note the big presidential or gubernatorial ones. Apart from political power there re other forms like financial, Academic, Technological etc.. The Jews control the banks, the Chinese control the industrial economy, the Indians control the Technological Sector etc. You can only see the blacks dominate in Entertainment and Sports. And this dominance is just in participation, they don't own anything. The sports companies re still owned by the whites. The entertainment companies make money from endorsements from corporations owned by the whites. If a black man makes money, rather than invest and help build the community he ll buy expensive cars, jewellery to show off. The blacks make money but can't keep it. How many blacks get educated? Almost half of the male population ends up in jail, while a host of female population are twerking on Instagram.

The problem is not whites outnumbering blacks, the problem is that blacks re not respected because collectively they don't have power and money. The whites hold the power and make the laws, therefore the blacks will never be respected until the power dynamics changes.

rosy1992:
Sex doesn't guarantee happy marriage.

Yes... the same way reading your books doesn't guarantee that you ll come first in class. But if you want to come first in class, then you must read your books very well.

Op I think you have to learn to zig while she zags. Happiness comes from within, stop complaining to your wife. Focus on making urself happy, Get a good wine, pour urself a glass, listen and dance to good music, start a new workout regimen, take yourself shopping, get new clothes and shoes for yourself. Don't bother about her, apologise for any wrong doing and put it behind you. You wife enjoys the attention you give her by begging and pleading continously. Subconsciously she likes to see you suffering, so stop giving her that satisfaction. The only thing she ll have over you is sex so learn to channel that anger and frustration you get whenever she turns you down into a workout or something that when you do it you ll get tired, exhausted and go to sleep. Be nice, friendly and accessible to her but don't let her attitude, actions or countenance influence you. When she sees that she's not getting that satisfaction of seeing you suffer, she ll either change for the best or for the worst. If she changes for the worst it ll only be a while before she ll be removed from your life because your energies are opposite so both of you can't exist in the same space. So put out good vibes and good energy. Dig up old unaccomplished dreams, now is the time to learn how to play a music instrument, join a club, become a chef, get a ps5.. And play with your kids Etc..

Rogosa:
Hi everyone,
I have been having issue with this for a while. I don't know if it is proper to call your wife's elder sister "Aunty" or "Sister so and so" even though you are much older than her.
Can one call such by her name without putting the respective adjective or suffix?

Mature mind pls.

1. You can use the exact same name and title ur wife's uses to address her since ur wife is the younger one I am guessing she already has a title or pet name she calls her or
2. you call her by her kids names..ie : mummy Mike.
3. Also If she's the first daughter there are pet names reserved for first daughters such as Adanne in igboland, Or
4. If she's working in a profession that gives her a title eg Dr. Prof. Engr. Rev. Etc, you can address her by such too.
5. You can even call her a traditional chieftaincy title that connotes love, reverence and/or respect as a pet name.

There could be softwares that these scammers have access to that can give them any information down to the account balance of the target. Was it not few years ago that someone here created an app that could tell you the name, bank and owners phone number of any account number entered into it. But one thing they ll never have is access due to OTP except they have ur atm card.
I remember an incident from years ago when Access was Intercontinental Bank, My guy was in his room on a Saturday and started getting a series of debit alert from someone shopping on jumia with his atm card but yet the card was physically with him. My guy call customer care tire that day.. It was crazy.

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Well if the roles were reversed and the man was the one buying a car for his mother when his wife is trekking and jumping danfo on the dailies... Most women will not let us hear word. They ll call the man all sorts of names, and tell him to go and marry his mother since she's more important to him.... Double standards everywhere. When a woman does something.. She's being a strong woman, she's standing up to patriarchy, she's acting within her rights as a woman. When a man does the same thing, they wail like an unfed toddler.

Op it's nice you have seen the light but No matter how many editions of the kamasutra a man reads he will never be able to give his wife the maximum satisfaction if she is ignorant on how her body works. What works for woman A may not work for woman B. What guys do is to try a variety of tricks and see what works which in itself is exhausting. Telling a guy to make a woman cum without her participation is like driving in the dark without headlights... If u re lucky and careful enough u can reach ur desired destination or u crash into a tree by the road side. Women have to understand themselves, know what their body likes, needs and be able to actively communicate these desires to their men for a more favourable outcome. As a woman nobody can know ur body better than you so if you re ignorant about (and can't communicate) what works for you, how then do you expect your man to know what you like? It's either the woman actively engages her man on how to help her achieve maximum satisfaction or she manages whatever tasteless meagre experience she gets.

There should be a law banning the disconnection of light on basis of unpaid light bills. Discos should install prepaid meters in every house if they re serious about getting their power dues. But because they know it will block loop holes for them to overbill users and embezzle from Nigerians, they won't do it

The day feminists will start clamouring for more inclusion in the armed forces and more postings to war zones, more responsibility in relationships and workplace, abolishment of bride price etc that's when we ll take them serious. Else they re just a bunch of jokers.

I love the fact that you can download almost any movie or series with telegram by searching for it and checking out the channels that come up, also save files. I use it to send between my laptop and my phones. No need for USB cables or any other medium. I created a group removed every person so that I am the only one there. That's where I send my files. Telegram also has a saved messages feature where u can forward messages and save files

Why on earth will u see a witch and want to date her? Are u a wizard?

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It is only a fool that says there is no God... God is the greatest.

Op I am reading ur story and I am wondering why one of u has to convert to the other. I have seen Muslim women marry Christian men and they both retain their individual religious beliefs and practice freely. I feel the issue is from u because as it seems she is making more effort for the relationship to survive than you. Have you gone to meet the father with some Muslim friends that can vouch for u and he chased u away?
If you love her as you claim then you have to fight for your relationship

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lefulefu:
maybe such nigerian ladies u saw are those who were born and bred in the US.I am curious though to see such a union though cos given the way we know naija ladies tend to act i wonder wich akata guy would stand for such .imagine hassling the akata guy for money or picking up fights with him if he cheats or telling him to drop money for her to go to the groceries or give her money for new wrapper,,money to do her hair etc . which akata man fit handle such

Luvvie Ajayi... She was born in Nigeria.. Very successful... New York Best Selling Author.. Rolls with Oprah Winfrey, kerry Washington, Gabrielle Union n the likes.. Has an AA fine specimen of a husband. Like I said there re always exceptions.
However people tend to feel less entitled or tolerate more than they normally would when they re with someone who is higher up the social (food) chain. So don't expect a Nigerian woman with a AA guy to show herself like she would if she's with a home bred brother.

lefulefu:
i have never seen a marriage union with a black american man and a nigerian woman ..na how that marriage go look naija ladies wey dey carry entitlement mentality and akata men wey no dey dey faithful to their spouse .i am just trying to imagine how the marriage union will look like

I have seen beautiful marriages btw Nigerian women and AA men... And not just any how Nigerian woman... New York best selling author Nigerian woman.... Doesn't mean that op is wrong but there re always exceptions

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