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Lies all lies

Well if the roles were reversed and the man was the one buying a car for his mother when his wife is trekking and jumping danfo on the dailies... Most women will not let us hear word. They ll call the man all sorts of names, and tell him to go and marry his mother since she's more important to him.... Double standards everywhere. When a woman does something.. She's being a strong woman, she's standing up to patriarchy, she's acting within her rights as a woman. When a man does the same thing, they wail like an unfed toddler.

Op it's nice you have seen the light but No matter how many editions of the kamasutra a man reads he will never be able to give his wife the maximum satisfaction if she is ignorant on how her body works. What works for woman A may not work for woman B. What guys do is to try a variety of tricks and see what works which in itself is exhausting. Telling a guy to make a woman cum without her participation is like driving in the dark without headlights... If u re lucky and careful enough u can reach ur desired destination or u crash into a tree by the road side. Women have to understand themselves, know what their body likes, needs and be able to actively communicate these desires to their men for a more favourable outcome. As a woman nobody can know ur body better than you so if you re ignorant about (and can't communicate) what works for you, how then do you expect your man to know what you like? It's either the woman actively engages her man on how to help her achieve maximum satisfaction or she manages whatever tasteless meagre experience she gets.

There should be a law banning the disconnection of light on basis of unpaid light bills. Discos should install prepaid meters in every house if they re serious about getting their power dues. But because they know it will block loop holes for them to overbill users and embezzle from Nigerians, they won't do it

The day feminists will start clamouring for more inclusion in the armed forces and more postings to war zones, more responsibility in relationships and workplace, abolishment of bride price etc that's when we ll take them serious. Else they re just a bunch of jokers.

I love the fact that you can download almost any movie or series with telegram by searching for it and checking out the channels that come up, also save files. I use it to send between my laptop and my phones. No need for USB cables or any other medium. I created a group removed every person so that I am the only one there. That's where I send my files. Telegram also has a saved messages feature where u can forward messages and save files

Why on earth will u see a witch and want to date her? Are u a wizard?

Interesting

Apt

It is only a fool that says there is no God... God is the greatest.

Op I am reading ur story and I am wondering why one of u has to convert to the other. I have seen Muslim women marry Christian men and they both retain their individual religious beliefs and practice freely. I feel the issue is from u because as it seems she is making more effort for the relationship to survive than you. Have you gone to meet the father with some Muslim friends that can vouch for u and he chased u away?
If you love her as you claim then you have to fight for your relationship

It's not covid19.. It's natural death

No it doesn't

lefulefu:
maybe such nigerian ladies u saw are those who were born and bred in the US.I am curious though to see such a union though cos given the way we know naija ladies tend to act i wonder wich akata guy would stand for such .imagine hassling the akata guy for money or picking up fights with him if he cheats or telling him to drop money for her to go to the groceries or give her money for new wrapper,,money to do her hair etc . which akata man fit handle such

Luvvie Ajayi... She was born in Nigeria.. Very successful... New York Best Selling Author.. Rolls with Oprah Winfrey, kerry Washington, Gabrielle Union n the likes.. Has an AA fine specimen of a husband. Like I said there re always exceptions.
However people tend to feel less entitled or tolerate more than they normally would when they re with someone who is higher up the social (food) chain. So don't expect a Nigerian woman with a AA guy to show herself like she would if she's with a home bred brother.

lefulefu:
i have never seen a marriage union with a black american man and a nigerian woman ..na how that marriage go look naija ladies wey dey carry entitlement mentality and akata men wey no dey dey faithful to their spouse .i am just trying to imagine how the marriage union will look like

I have seen beautiful marriages btw Nigerian women and AA men... And not just any how Nigerian woman... New York best selling author Nigerian woman.... Doesn't mean that op is wrong but there re always exceptions

Ask aquaman

Very myopic post

Nice

Tetrahedron:
Are UFOs real?: Yes they are

Are they from space: UFOs are NOT from outer space, they are spiritual entities that bible scholars believe are part of the fallen angels( Gen 6)

Why are they here?: Dont believe “the lie”, during the reign of the coming world “leader” the whole world will be deceived and we believe that the appearance of these entities are part of a bigger story soon to be unveiled.

Go and read the book of Enoch... The fallen where bound and cast deep until the day of judgment
However those re UFOs and proof that we are not alone in this universe.

But if u re wedding in a Catholic, Anglican or some churches. The certificate u re given is the same as one given at a registry. Also if ur Church is not recognised you can go the to registry after the wedding ceremony to sort of regularise ur marriage and obtain the standard certificate. However if u don't want to do three marriage events, She can choose between the church and the court. While u guys do the trad..
Most women who re thrown out of their late husbands property re usually weak minded and not educated on their rights and the legal standing they have in the marriage. Instead of fighting for court marriage women should be more concerned about who is the husbands documented next of kin. Because even with a court marriage a weak minded woman and one with no knowledge of the law can be thrown out of her late husbands property.

Wahwei

Op avoid those women if u know what's good for u. Some times when God begins to bless us, the devil sends detractors and distractions that u may not be able to resist to pull u back to ur days of slavery . Those girls have only one mission, pull him back to square one. The demonic world does not need to know ur Instagram handle to know when u re progressing and they can send three agents or more to one guy to increase their odds of success. Anybody who can't stay with u in the days of ur sowing, should not be near u in the days of harvest.

What does Wilkes decision have to do with Igbos? Igbos are not the ones deporting anyone. Rivers State is in the South South not South East.. So wetin be una problem?

Sometimes people need to turn you down for you to develop and maximise your potentials. Disappoints and failures are necessary to bring out the best in you. So failure is good because you have to try something in other to fail at it. So keep trying and failing. That's the only guaranteed formula to success.

#keepFailing

Well mine is the all the girls I have dated are born in January or September. I have purposely tried to date someone who is born in a different month and it doesn't work. But once I meet a girl born in any of these months, we click like magnets. Funny thing is I am also born in September.

lefulefu:
ohh u have seen the video?
look alike or u mean her doppelganger?

Look alike cos the resemblance is close but u can still spot the physical differences if u know Rihanna well. Her name is lavish styles.

At $3.3bn he is the richest rapper in the world

lefulefu:
someone sent the video to me.she was giving a white guy a Mouth Gig and smiling at the camera.dont know why some ppl like bashing kim k when there some american ladies who do worse.rihanna does porn.

That's a look alike and not Rihanna

Op weldone o... Now I cannot shit in peace again

Guys save urself stress... Marry a woman that is brilliant n has sense. So ur kids ll inherit some sense from one or both of u. Looking at this video it's obvious whose brain the boy inherited.

Every marriage has.. "had I known"... There is no married person who has not at one point in their marriage wished they married someone else. Thats because no one is perfect. There is no right or wrong decision.. You make a decision and then put in the effort to make it the right decision. There will always be that moment of of sadness and possible regrets but there ll also be moments of joy. You can't have one without the other.

Develop personal relationships with each of your kids.. Make out time to take each of them out, have an outing with the child and have a conversation with the Child. Make them open up to you, you can tell stories about your upbringing, how you respected and treated your parents well. Kids generally follow the examples we set so you have to treat them the way you want them to treat you. Tell your child how you love them always, play and find out what's going on their their lives. You have to work on having a relationship with your wife. Treat her how you want her to treat you. Make her see how much you love her, don't just tell her. Abandoning 5 kids with her for days will only sow hatred and lack of respect, learn to assert your position in the house without having to resort to arguments and let all of them see how hard you work to make them comfortable. Love your wife and don't insult her in front of the kids. Whenever you go out and buy stuff for everyone, even when u have an argument. Let your "daddy is back home" be filled with good and happy memories. Be active in your kids lives, become friends with them, so that they can tell u anything and they can form their individual opinion of you. Protect and stand up for your kids and they ll protect and standup for you.. They grow up too fast. Lastly, I don't know your religion but you have to get closer to God and bring God into your home. Have daily devotions and pray together as a family. Goodluck