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Pls tell me about my academics, relationship and career

Pls tell me something about My academics,Relationship and life career. please?

Oga Sir,this is a very sensitive issue and issue of love here is a Big No.i have got to first commend you for your take on the matter and application of wisdom to this issue.But the steps you are going to take Is very very pivotal to the growth of your marriage and family.The devil has planted a big seed in your marriage and God has revealed that seed to you.if you nurture that seed,it will definitely destroy your home or remove that seed and avert upcoming calamities.it will very foolish not to involve both familes(yours and your wife's) in this situation.and you'll regret later if you ever raise that kid.forget love and apply more wisdom here.The man will definitely know he has a kid with your wife Either now or later.
Oga pls,call for a family meeting of both families and present the issue before them.Let the other man know he has a son,give him his child back.Go to God in prayer and ask for his guidance

Talk abt hating on wat u cant afford.Only a poor man who cant afford bicycle complains of a rich man owning on a car.wats with recent attacks on priv. Schools?na their fault your parents cant afford the Such fees? Many wrote jamb up to 5 times and you think if their parents had the money for them to go to priv,they would waste 5yrs of their life writing jamb? Many come up with laughable comments like "he couldnt compete with those in public schools thats why he joined private" how much can the hate get?.Compare him with the so called competitors in 5yrs time and see the difference.Nobodys talking abt facilities,no existence of cultism,Abstence of strike and most importantly Connection.You get to meet people who connect you in life.Stop hating on other peoples blessing and opportunities.If you got the money to give your child the best og Educations,give it to him,Period!
Btw,am a public product

Wat is it with make money bs!dude just graduated,and you want him to "make it over night".And you think meeting with personalities in/out of the country will not get him there?Nigerians and jealousy.Thats why we are backward as a nation?GEJ did his job by congratulating Buhari.In sane countries,he did his fundamental duty.But today he is being celebrated.You know wat a 5.0cgp is?you wey dey talk sef,wetin you grad with?

I will neva support dropping out esp wen the problem is not financially based.i know certificate/school may/not define your career path,but at least hold on to that.
At times when i look at myself,i cant help but be thankful to one of my lecturers advise.'if not anything,strive to hold your Bsc'.One can still school and do his thing.i hate it wen people compare themselves with others..for christ sake,you guys were created differently,therefore una destiny will never be the same.Go back to school&still do your thing.God will bless your hustle

Africans and hypocrisy.Esp Nigerians.When We are abused,we begin to rant but we are the biggest racists.Strahovski1 was racially abused by Creamish yesterday on a thread cos he was just bearing his mind without attacking anybody.On top of that,some peepz were defending her cos 'its a Nigerian Forum' and the useless my sister/brother sentiments.... We all need to embrace each otherband stop racism,ethnic/Religious Biogtry

you started with your friend then ended with my wife.hmmm

I have not used an iPhone before(plan on getting one soon) but my comparison of iPhones I have navigated through with android,Android beats it.
My HTC one m8 beats an iPhone 5s anytime any day.May/May not be in par with iPhone6,it's still a fantastic phone.Running on Android6,Great battery life,Easy access +a whooping 2gb ram(bearing in mind some Android phones boasts of around 5000mah worth of battery life+3gb ram),Great pic quality,ability to side load apps+be a boss of your phone by tweaking,Remodelling and having total access to your phone..The advantage is endless

i just dont know why i like and i think this mans administration is going to be wonderful but i was disappointed in this chat in two ways

1)Hes response to defying court orders in which i totally support prosecution of NK and Dauki
2)The inability of The Media in throwing questions about Firing of unarmed citizens.How can a group of professional and trained reputable journalists not ask the president on his thought of using live ammunitions on unarmed citizens during protests when water cannons,tear gases,rubber bullets and other methods of dispersing unlawful protests are available still beats me? where they intimidated?

People are jus jealous.Notin more noting else.I could remember that time she was banned,guys were jublating saying How woman go dey do all this..

The truth is,according to law,she must pay her taxes.But no for her blogging biz.Make una jus free the lady.haba

craziebone:
there is nothing that gives a man more joy than when he is the one who disvvvirgins her? Man pls speak for yourself! Not all men are obsessed with female blood! I actually think it serves the likes of you in middle east and north africa right when women decieve you and go for surgery to tighten their hymen again. Foolishhhh people!!

Dude,dont quote me typing rubbish.you are female killer in bed,oya carry your trophy go.you don win

SEX,SEX,SEX ..so overhyped.from movies to music videos,to posts online,everything.Guys cant satisfy a lady,last 5mins but everybody is claiming James Bond.One day,you go see Sex tire.Everybody is in a rush to satisfy their imaginations and fantasy.People go crazy cos of sex thinking without it,they cant survive.People date for years without sex in relationships and nobody dies.haba

This posts reeks of immaturity and inexperience and youth exuberance and not reality.Sex doesnt solve anything in a relationship.There are things that make up relationships and until you grow,you would understand.When A barren woman seeks for the fruit of the womb,tell me,its being satisfied for 100hrs and not being able to conceive or 2mins and conceive.What is very much important to her.if as a man,you cant give woman belle,is satisfaction and being a boss in bedroom more important that proving yourself to be a man important.as i said,you are just making noise and dont know what sex is.People lose their wives,and stay celibate for years.is their libido low or are they impotent.figure that answer by yourself.

OP,There is something called self-control.Nothing like ''RELIGION''..People have wives who turn out to tigers on bed,but they still cheat.its simply called lack of self control.Pre-marital sex,just like alcohol is an addiction.Once you engage in it,it takes a lot to have self control over.its no rocket science.This is becos,you will keep exploring.Contrasting and differentiating your spouse with your exes.claiming he/she doesnt satisfy you.Simple excuse to cheat outside.

lastly,Theres nothing that gives a man joy other than seeing that his wife gave him his womanliness.its like having your first child.you respect and cherish her forever. from experience.And dont justify your ignorance on pending issues when it comes to sex

cant wear same boxers after bathing.thats twice a day

Nothing will make me consider suicide,I mean nothing. That will be jumping from frying pan to fire,trust me you don't want that.I no fear God,no reach for my eternal soul.The thought gives me chills.
Ma share a story of my neighbour. Dude was washing car,just as guys do wash cars and warm it.He didn't know car was on reverse as him parents didn't put in neutral,He pressed the throttle to get the car warmed up,the car reversed and hit the gate and went outside.luckily,a man in his car coming saw what was happening and he hit the breaks.People outside saw what was happening and a guy hopped in and hit the breaks.Dude wasnt driving by then.I was in my verandah watching him live. after stopping the car,dude was in complete shock.So just like everybody was talking about the incident,he went upstairs and drank ota pia pia.He wanted to kill himself.His parents started shouting for help until a mechanic and family friend went and gave him Cocnut oil and palm oil to subdue the effect.Today,dude drives cars now,lives his life to the fullest and is eternally grateful.Mind you,he was the only son

What am I saying,if you have the fear of God,and the fear of the unknown, I can tell you,you would think twice.Thanx

DropShot:
We heard more than this before now.

Should Nwazuruke be arrested the zoo will fall

Should Jonathan lose, Nigeria will burn.

Should Kanu be arrested, the zoo will fall.

Release Kanu in 48 hours or we burn down the zoo.
Yet the zoo is still standing gidigba.

Yeebos and empty threats be like bread and butter.

Oga,it be like say you no know wetin suppose dey happen this country now,had it been Jonathan was bent on not accepting the result..Just dont type cos you want to,type with reason.thanx

Kalvan:
Your taste in music is disgusting;trashy, disgusting rap. You're also a simpleton. When did abuse become "drilling"? Black man with a blank mind.

so that i listen to drake its disgusting.thats my choice bro.i dont listen to anything other than hip hop and i hope you dont have any problem with that

"Black man with a black mind",huh? so you expect when you are jobless at probably age 25 or so,your parents should clap for you?He is only crying over nothing.Get a job,be a man and stop receiving the insults,simple.Thats life for you.Some learn the easy way,some dont.This is going to shape him for the good the moment he starts seeing good in what he perceives as Maltreatment..

i hate self pity and you trying to blame someone else for ya woes.i do believe strongly in INDEPENDENCE.The sooner you man up and become a man,the better
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Mehn,as i typed above,stop bitchying around and man up.stop crying and become a man.carter for ya self.find something doing.Hes trying to drill you and you are complaining..from what i deduced,you are probably the only son or what..youve to prove him wrong by becoming better.thats what he wants not coming online and crying..Work for your thing and if you are under his roof,as a grown up,giving him that room and space and know you are under his roof and hustle.on the point of being flogged and 'MALTREATED',many went through it as you went and didnt die.as i said, MAN UP
Drake *0 to 100*

Oh Lord, know yourself, know you're worth nigga
My actions been louder than my words nigga


Since my dad used to tell me he was comin' to the house to get me
He ain't show
Valuable lesson, man I had to grow up
That's why I never ask for help
I'll do it for you niggas and do it for myself

òk na

i dont believe in Coincidence..I believe the man was murdered.Either by opponents or within his party

NAWA oo,op,see as you carry this Guy matter for head like this..
Anyway,as I said in the other thread,he made a terrible mistake by not giving her belle and not seeing the hand writing on the wall.And as I also said,he's still going to lose if he tries to do anything
By the time,she will be going to the embassy to clarify her papers,being a person who is smart would make sure she wires her savings to Nigeria. And also remember that she can easily file for another country like Us who give visas easily.if she doesn't, she can easily find a god paying job in Nigeria.Either way,Oga which craft will still lose.She's got an upper hand here.Let us also know that investigations can also be carried out on who and who signed the documents.You know white people can keep records unlike here. This also can come into play.Remember as he said,he forged some couple of documents.
Had it been op listened to his friends maybe things would have been the same

but op,there is still a way.she is still your wife via introduction.You've got to stop living in regrets and self pity and have a plan.You need to stop begging her.Set up a date with her when she comes into the country.Find a way to give her Belle. Don't even think about living with her as a wife.You must put a baby inside her. at least If she no pay by money and affection na by kind

unless this is a movie,then you are in deep poo..
i no knw where to even start type..bottom line is shes a good woman,And in as much as things feel awkward,you did well by coming clean.you cant sacrifice a ladys future cos of your selfish interests-i dont think shes gona say a word..Bring her close,have a heart-heart talk.tell her you know how she feels and should pls,jus forget about you in entirety and move on..any move on her life could put you overboard

Buh peeps get mind oo

sunny4life:
In a nation of constant and epileptic changes, few things remain constant. The Nigerian flag is one. Green and white is the colour and Nigeria is the country. This has been the status quo since October 1, 1960 when the union jack was lowered.The Nigerian flag is a humble one. No star, spear or any of those shitty design. Just the white colour flanked by the green from the west to the east.The past 48 hours however appears to question the accuracy of my assertion. Its like the colour of the flag has changed and now has blue, white and red as colours. This looks confusing because I’ve been awake this entire year(except when I’m sleeping of course) and i dont remember France and Nigeria swapping flags like footballers do jerseys. The 8th National assembly I’m sure hasn’t passed a bill to that effect either. And I’m also pretty damn sure buhari’s change mantra didn’t include changing our flag or swapping it with France’s. More so France is not our colonial master so even if we are swapping flags it should be with Britain. So how did we get here?Misplaced PrioritiesNigerians are an interesting bunch with a knack for overdoing things. Especially things outside their reality. Call it crying more than the bereaved or to borrow from the Yoruba recital in praise of satan- “the bereaved shed tears, Nigerians shed blood”. What better analogy to explain this hypothesis than the overnight French citizens on Nigerian soil. From facebook to Twitter to whatsapp they are #PrayingForParis with their profile picture draped in french flags.Firstly, before you ask if i have a heart beating in my chest, i do. And like every sensible human being( except Donald trump)i sympathize with the French people but my sympathy is cautious and yours should be too. How logical is it for citizens of a third world/developing/less developed( pick your choice) country battling home grown terrorism since 2009 with a casualty of 10,000+ lives to suddenly discover their humanity especially when such humane gesture is missing on this home front?Boko haram attack: Eh! These people again, They should sha remain in the North and bomb their people. ( End of Story)Isis attacks Paris: #PrayForParis, picture wrapped with French flagsTo what end?Just to feel cool. Follow the trend.#PrayForParis #JeSuisCharlie#RipPaulWalker. These are noble efforts but when such gestures are mute when fellow Nigerians are involved, Stupidity is the word. I’ve also read with amusement, posts by some passionate folks urging Nigerians to boycott facebook for creating a theme with the French flag without ever reciprocating same to Nigeria. The thing is passion cannot and should not be substituted for logic and rationality. The trite question is why should facebook place premium on Nigerian lives when Nigerians and their government by extension dont give a Bleep, or a farthing about what happens to Nigerians within or outside the shores of the country?How can a fairly reasonable person not see that france has shown over the years, through word and deed how much they valuethe lives of their citizens and that this value is what has elicited support and sympathy from all over the world?Some few months ago many Nigerians( I saymany because there are conflicting figures) died in the mecca stampede and up till now no official government response to ascertainthe dead and notify their families. We don’t know their names, no one minute silence or befitting burial, no summoning of the Saudi Arabia ambassador for clarifications. The dead and their families are on their own because the government just doesn’t care. Juxtapose this to France that pays ransome to terrorists when their citizens are kidnapped. And you want facebook to change their wall to green and white for Nigeria. Are you kidding me?All have sinnedLike the bible says all have sinned and fall short the glory of God. In our response to the Paris attack we are all guilty of the sin of misplaced priority.To the overnight French citizens on Nigerian soil,emancipate yourself from mental slavery

THIS IS the best reasonable quote i have read in a long while..damn.10000likes for you.wanted,saying something similar,but ended up learning a lot more from you.thanx for these

drogba na new thing?check it.since that guy dey chelsea,Red hot strikers come to chelsea and become impotent
shevchenko,Crespo,Kalou,Costa,Falcao,Torress,Remy,Dem ba ba..if una get any other striker for mind,make una help me complete am..Him say na only him go be only striker wey go ever shine for chelsea.him juju from ivory coast na die

Eva-That stout but sexy Doctor..Damn,why you think say Hazard dey down for swansea game.n make the doctor come apply her majick finger..since mourinho demote am,she go swear for am.even chelsea players follow the lady say unless mourinho bring her back,we no go play anything

Marriage requires two things to work out;

1.Physical&spiritual discipline..
2.Maturity of the mind

from what i can deduce from your post,i dont think you are ready esp on no.1.why did i say so?
Marriage is all about two faces of a coin.The good side that requires the good life,frivolous lifestyle,Fancy clothes,Big Mansions.etc and bad side that involves the Hard life,temptations&trials,Difficulty in Child bearing,
etc.if you possess the two aforementioned,you would understand that her beauty or banging body or her sexyness is just an added plus.

You have to ask yourself,If this lady am going to marry have difficulties in child bearing,or she has accident that requires you sleeping in the hospital,causing you sleepless nights,feeling her pains or your meal and that big business contract,sacrificing your meal just to see her eat&vice versa.Is she ready to go to bed hungry just to see her kids eat,is she ready to sacrifice that multi million naira job just for you to be happy,Is she ready to give her all,is she reay to put and the kids first in whatever she does?

Let me give you an example;My parents dont have the best of marriages but my Mom sacrificed her going abroad to work and earn millions cos of her marriage and her kids.She has her own house but my Dads name is no1 on th land papers among other things.Ask yourself,is the lady ready to do all this things for me?if she changed her religion which is one of the most important things we Africans value an went against all odds,then she can do much more for you.
If the lady you are to marry is ready to go thru the good and bad times with you,then you are good to go but remember to pray to God.God to marriage seminars.it very important.

Remember,above all things,Your Happiness is no.1 not anybodies.Good luck.

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Many People Online are just Jobless,Lazy People who think Politics is all about na we we.What we should all seek about is true Federalism not coming online and bragging and chest beating."Make them just kill all the protesters","Make them just hang Nnamdi Kanu".why do you think the fed govt arent prosecuting him..
Secession of the country is not going to go don well with both parties..Nigeria will lose and so will biafra.The fed Gvt. should implement The national Confab reports so that things will go on well and everybody stays happy


We all should pray and avoid by any means anything that would bring about another War in this country cos 1967 and 2015 will never be the same..the sad truth is that it wouldnt be btw Nigeria vs Biafra but it would be exactly the same Scenario of Syria..

Many Think its just Naija vs Biafra but quickly forget that BH and possible Emancipation of Niger delta militants are also in the Picture and by the time it would all end.,this nation is going to break into many parts and everybody loses..Happy sunday y'all

lastpage:

Everything is not Federal Govt!

As a matter of fact, what the STATE (State Govt and Local Govt) takes from the National Cake, is bigger than what accrues to the Federal Govt, per state!

We are focusing too much attention on the Federal govt while neglecting the "Big Criminals"... who are the State Government and Local govt Chairmen who just collect and steal their allocations!

Imagine if all "Street Roads" which are the responsibility of Local govt, are tarred and well laid with Gutters?
Imagine if the State Government compliments this with Major Roads in the state, well tarred and supported with proper drainage?

You think if this is done, anyone will remember we even have or need a federal govt?

The point l am making is that until we Nigerians remove this "federal Govt" tribalism and bigotry from our mindset and start stoning these Governors and especially the LGA chairmen, until, then, we will just continue to suffer and go round in circles.


Lastpage!

oga,if you read my post very well,you would understand i didnt in anywhere say that Fed Govt. should take over State Govt duties

The Work of the fed Govt. is to build Federal Roads&major bridges like 2nd Niger bridge,Clean up Oil spillages..etc..This is there primary job.Am not going to start singing all about Electricity,jobs,Security ish..this is the basic works of the govt and its not what we are seeing..For me to travel from Enugu down to Anambra,i have to take a different route..And if one takes into Acct what people agitating for Biafra wants,they are asking for 3 things just like the Niger Deltans are asking for good roads,portable water,jobs among other things;
Equal opportunities at Federal Level,Rehabilitation of Major Roads&2nd Niger Bridge..its not like they are asking for presidency or Security or jobs in which we all know that an average igbo man doesnt depend on govt before he feeds..
Its Easy for us to criticise people and think they are acting crazy but until you fully understand what they go through,you would think twice.Niger Delta Regions are a perfect example

lastpage:

Everything is not Federal Govt!

As a matter of fact, what the STATE (State Govt and Local Govt) takes from the National Cake, is bigger than what accrues to the Federal Govt, per state!

We are focusing too much attention on the Federal govt while neglecting the "Big Criminals"... who are the State Government and Local govt Chairmen who just collect and steal their allocations!

Imagine if all "Street Roads" which are the responsibility of Local govt, are tarred and well laid with Gutters?
Imagine if the State Government compliments this with Major Roads in the state, well tarred and supported with proper drainage?

You think if this is done, anyone will remember we even have or need a federal govt?

The point l am making is that until we Nigerians remove this "federal Govt" tribalism and bigotry from our mindset and start stoning these Governors and especially the LGA chairmen, until, then, we will just continue to suffer and go round in circles.


Lastpage!

oga,if you read my post very well,you would understand i didnt in anywhere say that Fed Govt. should take over State Govt duties

The Work of the fed Govt. is to build Federal Roads&major bridges like 2nd Niger bridge,Clean up Oil spillages..etc..This is there primary job.Am not going to start singing all about Electricity,jobs,Security ish..this is the basic works of the govt and its not what we are seeing..For me to travel from Enugu down Anambra,i have to take a different root..