Politics › Re: Disquiet In APC Over Buhari’s Non-participation In Tinubu’s Campaign by Advancedman(m): 9:29pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Governor Sanwo-Olu Meets IGP Over Killing Of Bolanle Raheem by Advancedman(m): 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: Why Do Nigerians Become Less Religious When They Travel Abroad? by Advancedman(m): 11:06pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
ayandee: Exactly. Here, you will understand true christanity. People seek God here just to be intimate with Him, nothing more. The sermons do not speak of the preacher's accomplishments. The focus is on the Bible. Even the prayer is not rhetoric. They pray like they are conversing with God.
No mention of tithe or offering. The donations box is at the back of the church hall. If you want to give, you go there and give as you are led. No compulsion. You can even get receipts for your donations for tax purposes. Every quarter, the church will include the quarterly financial statements in the newsletter showing total income and expenditure. The church system is transparent and in spite of not making annuncements for tithes and offering, the year end reports of the church show they had a surplus. The only thing I miss is the Naija church dance. Yoruba church vibe or another party inside church Naija I hail o. |
Family › Re: Marriage List Requirements For A Bride In Imo State (Photo) by Advancedman(m): 11:44am On Dec 28, 2022 |
anjilgreat: Left for me alone, I and my husband will give my daughter's hand in marriage free. No matter the amount of money paid by the groom as bride price, it can never be equivalent to the money invested in her even at nursery school level alone.
The exorbitant bride price paid by the groom is the reason why most men nowadays maltreat their wives because they feel the women are now their properties. We have to change this this mind set Money is never an exchange for value not to talk of a human life especially one's beloved daughter. For me it's exclusively value and free hand in marriage nothing like list or bride price of any kind. |
Fashion › Re: Would Fashion Design Be Relevant In A Few Years? by Advancedman(m): 1:26pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
cokeryusuf09: My observation about most young people is that when they tend to choose an occupation, they mostly go for fashion design.
If I walk around my area, I can see not less than 4 or more shops selling cloth or learning fashion design.
Is it that lucrative or maybe they don't know what to choose?
My opinion is that sometimes if youth don't know what to choose, can't they choose to solve problems in their environment. If they lack passion or are clueless about what to choose.
They can look at their community and search for an occupation that they need but few or none exist in the community.
An example is a community, that needs a plumber that fixes sewage, but they hire people from other communities.
I think youth can use this idea to earn a living. Na FOOL dey ask this kind idiotic question or just wan carry curse. |
Family › Re: He Found Out His Wife Is A Hermaphrodite On Their Honeymoon! What Is Your Take? by Advancedman(m): 7:52pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
[quote author= post=119305723]Our True Life Story Series.
Hello Nairalanders, He found out his wife is a hermaphrodite on their honeymoon?! What is your take on this?[/quote]Tell my family part put me off. The point is discuss the solution and fix it. |
Travel › Re: What Exactly Does One Enjoy In Nigeria As A Rich Person? by Advancedman(m): 6:11pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Gerrard59: While discussing with some buddies yesterday, we touched on the topic “moving back to Nigeria”. I argued that Nigeria is not safe. Sure, there are places that are pretty “safe”. However, my notion of safety is when other people elsewhere can go about their normal activities without fear. For instance, I don’t consider a place safe if one part of the area keeps suffering repeated attacks from Fulani herdsmen (like Southern Kaduna and Plateau). I don’t have to be the affected party, but others who go about their normal activities should feel safe doing them. The other guy countered that, with money, one could enjoy Nigeria. “Live in Maitama, run Lister generator and live quietly.” Also, you get to be in a place where almost everyone looks like you.
Upon hearing “…with money, one can enjoy Nigeria”, I asked him to list five things/ways one can enjoy Nigeria as long as the person has money. Surprisingly, he could not mention one thing/way. I thought it wise to throw it to the house, especially for those who are anti-Japa or those who have stayed abroad for a long time and currently reside in Nigeria.
As someone with money, what exactly does the person enjoy in Nigeria? What are the differences compared to his/her counterpart in say, Namibia or Canada/UK that also has money? How do you enjoy Nigeria provided the money is available?
P.S. I understand that the notion of “enjoyment” is largely subjective. Some enjoy going to parties, while others enjoy travelling around or even reading a book while in a park. But I believe there are some universal notions of enjoyment. Intimidating and oppressing others perceived lower to your class, acting larger than life and playing god over others considered below you. |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-Olu Mourns Bolanle Raheem, Condoles Family by Advancedman(m): 6:04pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: I Won't Leave Much Wealth For My Kids - Jason Njoku by Advancedman(m): 2:23pm On Dec 24, 2022 |
TMSMedia: Inherited Wealth Is A Burden, I Won't Leave Much Wealth For My Kids - iRoko TV Boss
iRoko TV boss, Jason Njoku has said that inherited wealth is mostly a burden to those it is bequeathed to, IGBERETV reports.
Taking to his Twitter handle, Jason stated that his job and that of his wife, Mary, to their kids is done after giving them an education as he has no intention of leaving much wealth for them. He said it is important to enjoy one's wealth while young instead of saving it up for old age.
He wrote;
https://twitter.com/JasonNjoku/status/1606203651424280577?s=19[/quote]It's never a burden but responsibilities and while training your children if you have set them on diligent foundation by a firm upbringing as any other child without wealth privilege, but if your teenage don't do chores because you hired domestic staff for them it will surely end up a burden. |
Sports › Re: Argentina's Central Bank Is Considering A Lionel Messi Bank Note by Advancedman(m): 9:19am On Dec 22, 2022 |
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Education › Re: Professors Oladiji, Ogunsola & Olatunji-Bello (Photo) by Advancedman(m): 8:05pm On Dec 20, 2022 |
[quote author=fergie001 post=119293253][/quote]The kind of female trend to promote. |
Sports › Re: Deep Life Lesson From Messi's World Cup Win by Advancedman(m): 12:31pm On Dec 19, 2022 |
Reporting34: Ronaldo only needed Football to be the GOAT.
Messi needed FIFA, VAR, referees, penalties, fixing, corruption, rigging, etc. to stand in the same category's level
Maradona played hard to won his own trophy while, pesino was always aided by soft penalty in every matches in this world cup,
The French were denied a clear penalty in the 87 mins. Even Argentina's 3rd goal had the assistant referee saying offsides, while the referee over-ruled it. congratulations to FIFA because your boy have now finally has it as you always wish him to get it, it's okay
Anyway It's Indeed a fight to finished, and it seems it has already been destined for this Messi's, to gets to lift the world cup trophy!
Congratulations to Argentina!!
Congratulations to Messi!!
Kudos to Kylian Mbappe too.
Moral lesson: trust me, our dreams are valid; let's keep hope alive. Nigeria can be great again obidatti is POssible by 2023## God bless you. |
TV/Movies › Re: Ebuka Reacts As Nigerians Kick Against Airing BB Titans During 2022 Election by Advancedman(m): 9:02am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Odewaleadesoye: DAILY POST That is the perfect time to Air the show. The moment of truth that will dawn on our reality as a people, and for parents to know whether to still keep their labour for their children or give all to charity. |
Family › Re: Why The Government Should Review Traditional Marriage Lists by Advancedman(m): 12:06pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
Mophasa: I’ve been seeing some marriage lists with insane requirements running into millions of naira on the internet lately and there’s something that actually interests me about it.
In the generations of our ancestors when this lists were curated, 99% of the brides then were virgins and have never known any man, in fact it was a taboo traditionally to give out a non virgin wvman as a bide then.
Over the years civilization have changed alot of things where wvmen feel they’re now more powerful and have grown beyond being accountable to their families and can literally do whatever they like with their lives and bodies.
At this point, I think it’s fraudulent for families to keep insisting that non virgin wvmen should keep enjoying the same traditional marriage benefits as older generational virtuous wvmen that kept their virginity for their husbands.
The government and traditional leaders need to look into this critical issues, non virgin wvmen should be given out in marriage for a token or for free, while virgin wvmen should keep enjoying the full traditional marriage rites of previous generations.
These is the only way we can hold our wvmen accountable and also encourage them to become like the biblical virtuous wvmen like Esther and Rebecca.
As a man, I will feel cheated if I have to pay millions of naira to marry a non virgin wvmen, exactly the same amount of money and expenses that my father paid for my mum as a young fresh virgin wvmen in the early 90s.
I know some persons will disagree with me but! Your emphasis is on being a virgin well that is not or less the issues but the economical and monetary issues as well as status issues too. Then female have a confined placement but now there is no restrictions so for me in the first place where does this obnoxious list emanate from? From the Bible days there is nothing like that in fact it is when a virgin is raped that the man pays, hence the language then was given in marriage but now it's selling in marriage. |
Family › Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by Advancedman(m): 1:44pm On Dec 04, 2022 |
sisisioge: Since the DNA confirms her as the mother, there could only be any of this explanations:
1. The husband is chimera and so the child inherited the DNA of the husband's twin. There's been recent findings that support this.
2. The Aunty played away from home knowingly or unknowingly. Things are happening in this life.
3. There was a tampering of sample at some point. Maybe at collection or in the lab. Sh.it happens.
Dont throw stone yet, aunty might be innocent. Great. |
Family › Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by Advancedman(m): 1:43pm On Dec 04, 2022 |
ibechris: They must have changed the baby in the hospital.
Anything can happen in Nigeria. But she claimed the baby is hers. |
Family › Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by Advancedman(m): 1:42pm On Dec 04, 2022 |
Pierocash: It is either the baby was swapped, or she was drugged and raped which she never was aware,or she is telling lies If the baby was swap she can't be the mother either. |
Family › Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by Advancedman(m): 1:41pm On Dec 04, 2022 |
peepydelano: Their next agenda is to rubbish the DNA tests so they can enjoy hoeing around in peace, it won’t ever work. She never talk truth . Or the baby was swapped at birth but I no trust that gender at all. She said the child is hers so what happened yet she hasn't done a confirmation DNA test to prove the first test. |
Politics › Re: Why Senators Wives Opposed Bill To Stop Underage Marriage, Rejected Gender Bill by Advancedman(m): 5:46pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Woman Sponsors Boyfriend’s UK Trip With Stolen Funds by Advancedman(m): 1:53pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
HarlequinLekex: The boyfriend wey go delete her contact after landing in UK. Wise up na!!! Almost everybody dey look for stepping stone nowadays. Give us the full gist since you know the whole event from start to finish. |
Crime › Re: Woman Sponsors Boyfriend’s UK Trip With Stolen Funds by Advancedman(m): 1:52pm On Dec 02, 2022 |
Candidlady:

This is really sad... idont know why ladies from that region fall so easily for men...
Poor lady must have been jazzed/hexed... never trust any of em men from that part.. heard a story of one Muslim dude from ogun state called Angelfrost who used love charm on one of his girlfriends Yoooooruba demons indeed
Are you ok? Did you read the part that said she pleaded not guilty?
Wicked beings |
Politics › Re: Solomon Dalung: Aisha Buhari Now Wears Dress Meant For 3 People by Advancedman(m): 11:08am On Dec 02, 2022 |
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Family › Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Advancedman(m): 8:53pm On Dec 01, 2022 |
FreeStuffsNG: This is an authentic Yoruba marriage rite list given to the groom's family. That dowry will be returned officially to prove that they are not selling their daughter and not in debt in the event the groom's family fail to keep their word to take care of their bride. check my signature for free stuffs! Why asked in the first place? For me it's inappropriate because the price to asked is life for life, tagging any monetary price on anyone is abominable to me. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Malawi Cabinet Members ‘roll Out’ Ads To Thank The President Over $88m IMF Loan by Advancedman(m): 11:24pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Thortp: Africa and backwardness It is finished for Africans with their slavery DNA. Congratulating someone who just destroyed your existence on this earth hmm. |
Politics › Re: Vote Buying: APC Harvests Over 10m Voters’ Bank Accounts – CUPP by Advancedman(m): 9:56pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
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Celebrities › Re: Happy 30th Birthday To Davido by Advancedman(m): 9:42am On Nov 21, 2022 |
officialwdhtv: Birthday: Davido Turns 30 Today!
Happy 30th birthday to Davido. RIP IFY |
Romance › Re: My Parents Don't Want Me To Marry My Baby Dad Because He's A Mechanic - Lady by Advancedman(m): 9:41am On Nov 21, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Stops Giving Tithes In Church, Uses The Money To Build House For A Widow by Advancedman(m): 6:40pm On Nov 19, 2022 |
advanceDNA: U stopped giving tithe only to use the money for something else and showing it off like Pharisees and scribes Jesus warned u not be behave like......sigh!!!! This is a different matter. |
Family › Re: My Mother Wants Me To Rent My Own House by Advancedman(m): 3:33pm On Nov 18, 2022 |
Greattestman: This issue has been eating me up for so long and i don't know what to do. My mother began pressurizing me to rent my own house and leave her alone.
It was unprecedented and i don't expect that from her. I'm barely 20 and I teach in a private school. I also do home lessons so my monthly income ranges from 25k to 30k or thereabout.
This money will not be enough for me to rent a house, buy my food and take care of myself. I have tried to explain but she refused to understand with me. She told her friends to advice me to leave; that I'm matured enough to live alone.
I'm pressed and I need your advice. Praise God for your mum she want you a king unlike those that will bury you physically and spiritually. |
Politics › Re: Naira Redesign: Dollar May Crash To N200 – Abdulrasheed Bawa by Advancedman(m): 3:48pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: I Now Know Who Is Who: Wike Apologises To Oshiomhole Over Obaseki's Re-Election by Advancedman(m): 3:41pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
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