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DukeNija:
Utter gibberish! I kept seeing my aunt, my mom, my dad, my neighbor Jesus Christ! Are they all in this relationship with you?
He made the right decision to walk away because it’s obvious he’ll have to deal with more than an indecisive and emotionally dependent wife. Aunt wants him to thank her for taking you, her own niece to the market to buy wedding items? Really? You should thank your aunt not him!
I congratulate the young man for saving himself from an entitled and overly intrusive family.

GboyegaD:
You are the one I should ask if you are ready for marriage. I wonder how you allowed people get into your head. You said he argued with your aunt, and you were pained. Should he keep quiet if he's not okay with whatever the cause of the argument was because he wants a marriage?

I don't even understand how your aunt was pissed that he didn't call to thank her for taking you to the market to buy the engagement clothes. Was he the one who suggested you approach your aunt to help you? If he is not, then he doesn't owe her that obligation. If he chooses to say thank you, so be it and if he doesn't, no big deal.

Lastly, your parent's (mom in particular) reservation indirectly beclouded your thought and you suggesting you put the wedding on hold gave him the opportunity to think through the entire thing. Perhaps, you guys were going on a fast lane and that statement made him think and also, have conversation with his folks who might have felt with this much troubles from external influences before the wedding, he should just save his head.

Like the Yorubas will say, "Oju to ma ba ni kale, kin ti a ti owuro se pin" implying, whatever would last long doesn't stress you from inception. You both are lucky in your ways and you both should see it as each party is right with his/her decision.

I just needed to add this, in your next relationship (whether he comes back or a new relationship), remember you both are the prize and treat each other that way. If he doesn't treat you like a prize or you can't treat him as one, please, be quick to move. Don't be carried away by the people of the world who have no place in your home. Imagine some telling you to do thanksgiving when you were the one who put the wedding on hold should tell you they are like dance instructors who teaches you to dance but will never borrow you their legs to do the dance.

To those quoting me, did you notice the guy's mum didn't bother pacifying her family? Doesn't that speaks volume?

NwaNimo1:
all I see is 'Hungry Uchins'

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Racoon:
https://www.thecable.ng/keyamo-tinubu-not-president-he-doesnt-need-to-issue-statements-on-his-whereabouts/amp

mangood74:
Lai efcc will be your retirement home after may 29th

pocohantas:
Always an Igbo woman.
I would never understand why underage help is thing in Igboland or among Igbo families.

Even the enlightened/educated ones are not left out.

If you want a help, get an adult that can match your strength and madness. Not innocent kids you end up abusing physically and sexually.

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The excuse that their husbands would sleep with a grown-up maid doesn’t fly. It is not a crime for him to sleep with an adult, but it is crime all over the world the second you contract a child to work for you. It is CHILD ABUSE and should be frowned upon by well-meaning Nigerians.

Nbote:
Wait ooo, is it that certificate forgery is no longer a crime in this country??

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

floret23:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/10/03/labour-party-reacts-to-alleged-attack-on-peter-obis-supporter-in-lagos/?amp=1

chuose:
When Igbos leave Lagos you will feel it.

proof.
65% of containers go to the SE

When christmas comes & they leave, Lagos is empty

Your eyes go soon clear , tribal bigot

FreeStuffsNG:
Deputy Gov’s son, viral video in Lagos ‘Obedients’ rally, false – Deputy gov’s aide

…As Hamzat orders arrest, prosecution of impersonator.

By Olasunkanmi Akoni


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/10/deputy-govs-son-viral-video-in-lagos-obidients-rally-false-deputy-govs-aide/

DrBrainstorm:
The illicit drug market is worth hundreds of billion dollars, tonnes of kilos still make it through the borders of the almighty US regularly even with a strong agency like the DEA. So yes, they most likely were not detected.

Islie:
https://leadership.ng/widow-of-deceased-nscdc-cgs-first-outrider-gets-automatic-job/

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nifemi25:
Congratulations to you both

JackDaAlienz:
I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family.
Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys.
My uncle warned my dad not yo try it.
I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes.
For some reason he didn't adopt again.

Fast foward to 20 years later
That my father's friend is living in hell,
He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim.
They even beat him up and steal his money.

Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption.
Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling
It's a huge mess.
This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all

Lurdmax10:
https://dailynigerian.com/tinubu-london-resting/

VeryWickedGoat:
His replacement will report for duty first thing tomorrow morning.

firstking01:
If you never played monkey post you never played ball...esp five aside...

ObamaMessi:
Do you think it's ok for parents to share same
bed room with their kids?

I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.

I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.

JackDaAlienz:
Omo we busted village yesterday, we are in my grandmas place.
After lunch, i was shocked when my grandma told my dad to go outside and buy recharge card for her.
See man wey dey form hard man for house
Dem dey send to go buy recharge card

I couldn't help but hold my laughter when my dad went out to buy recharge card

E really shock me, my dad is a Big man ohh
As well respected thats why im wondering why his mother (my grandma) still send him on errands

Veryfied:
The court scammed you.
They weren't supposed to collect any percentage of anything.


Anyways, how did you play the ball in your court because if I were you, I'd collect the 80% available in his account and make him pay the remaining 20% ASAP.

Latestreport1:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/09/i-ll-be-a-stepping-stone-for-igbo-presidency-says-atiku/amp/

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CjD8jH5Dmug/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

airminem:
RIP

nwekeugochukwu:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CjC7hVBrd_u/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

emnite:
You only pointed at victims house well you're just the leader Bros na you dey bring jobs for them that's why you always flaunt cash online cause you've always got lionshare

Kingozymandias:
Those of us who have known about this man from watching the man who saw tomorrow documentary growing up are not surprised .

Nostradamus is the only legit man who accurately predicted the future that ever lived all the rest are fake

IrepChrist:
My testimony is a proof that every sin starts from the mind. While I was serving some years ago, it's was a rural community In northern Nigeria. There was this corper colleague that must have had sexual escapades with some fellow male corpers.

That faithful weekend everyone in the lodge had either travelled home or gone to town for the weekend. I was left with this lady. Around midnight she knocked my door and said she couldn't sleep alone. Sincerely I believed her because it was a quiet compound and the grave of the man who owns the house was there and everywhere was dark.

She came in and we shared the bed together. No one would ever believe me that we never had sex not even a romance.

The truth is my mind was not there and not that I was perfect... Afterwards everything went back to normal.



1 Corinthians 6:8
Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body.

I couldn't run that night but God saved me.

virginprincess:
No,but it is very difficult for a guy and a girl to sleep on the same bed without anything happening.

etokhana:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2022/09/23/wike-frustrated-pdp-zoning-policy-says-atiku-spokesman/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

duro4chang:
It is just to make the child creative the curriculum is ok.

naptu2:
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