justdogitto: Whoever posted this was there when she saw the husband with the supposed side chick st spar...The person was also there to confirm the speed at which she was driving and the person was also there when the husband dropped the supposed side chick...The person was also there to confirm the death...
MrBrownJay1: OP change your title to "supposedly cheating husband" as much as it is not a sign of cheating if your husband drives with a lady (it could have been his sister/mother or simply a colleague), her reaction is the reason why she is where she is....thus BOTH should be blamed!
Talking about blame has negate your initial valid point has no proof of assertion of whom the man is with at the spar. Mind you jealous partners especially female Can drive away a man's destiny helper. I know this firsthand even as a kid.
Mindlog: And you think the side chick will gather liver to marry the man? She will certainly disappear from the man's life as friends and family will strongly advise her not to. You think if the man already have children with the late wife, the children will not make the life of the side chick (now promoted to a wife) a living hell?
Madam na una GENDER O she will force marry the man Sharp Sharp as consolation.
God1000: UK government should just sell everything and send us the money since their families are untraceable.
Nigerians and Africans still living in foreign countries should learn from this before its too late, we're all gonna croak someday and leave everything behind.
There is nothing to learn they rather leave their estate in good and sane hand than throw them away to devourer.
This reminds me of Abacha's loot that is still unknown.
Personally I don't think I will buy any property or save huge amount of money in another country.
Meanwhile I'm over the moon that Russia is losing badly in Ukraine, dictator Putin has finally made Russia a laughingstock, Russia will be ranked number 10 in the next global military power
He is an ARROGANT FOOL, THAT IS BECAUSE THEY HAVE TAKEN US FOR A RIDE TOO LONG. AS A LEADER AND AN ASPIRING LEADER HE SHOULD BE DILIGENT TO KNOW THAT THE NAME ABACHA IS GENOCIDE.
Corridon: Government should look into this. Maybe some corrupt officers are using that area to make money.
It's not maybe it is what it is. Broad daylight robbery by our law enforcement agents, it's in all one way within most CDAs. The federal,State and Local Government bad eggs feed fat on this wickedness. Where they are placed on some road is not even within the view of oncoming vehicle like Charley Boy Bustop. And they operate this illegality close to their station. Another one is Alausa Secretariat they manually control that Traffic lights.
Pandalytics: My husband met me when I was doing ‘hookup’ – Lady shares how she met her husband
A Nigerian lady has revealed the circumstances under which she and her husband met before they tied the knot.
A follower had asked her how she met her boyfriend, and in response, she informed the person that the man in her life is now her husband.
She said that he sought her services when she was working as a hookup girl and from there they started dating.
After courting for sometime, he proposed and they eventually walked down the aisle as a couple.
The young woman shared a video-reeel showing variety of photos ranging from their wedding day images, to the ones they snapped on dates and even on vacations.
Private life is not for public space. Did you get the approval from your husband, family, friends and associates especially your loved ones before bringing such private secret online. Their permission matters.
Tinubuwins2023e: Ipob are so dumb they will never understand the narrative but just because of the name Abacha and Buhari, they will start to cry. Instead of them to call down and digest what he stated and the literary meaning of what he meant, they will not but just comment based to hate and bigotry. Tinubu and Shettima is the goal and no going back
Pls explain Abacha's hospitality because shettima didn't. please
SergeantTitus: Nobody is asking you to come back. Just try see your family and go back . Some of them won't even come for their parents burial . I find it weird dissociating yourself from your family for 25 30 40 years.
Chioma4eva: I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
jeromestarks: When different sperm is too much, you might have children whose left hand is taller than the right one because he is made of two fathers; short and tall fathers.
extol1: This was what happened to one of the pastor in redeemed church in jos, last month. He came back from church convention and just for him to rest before he attend sunday house fellowship, that is how he died in his room. It was after 4 days that they knew he had died after series of searching
You said after four days, but in this case someone who said 2 weeks now four years later the community no try at all if hasn't specified his time of being away is a different story yet his phones were not going through, the police even told them to wait longer after the first wait, so in his form to the estate or community no next of kin. This is sheer recklessness and irresponsibility on the part of the community and police because if he was to be a criminal he could have operated for that number of years and the community would have continued just like that if not for snake invasion of the neighbor's compound.
I had my own share too, though it's long but I need your advice.
The episode started when the Suffocating and comprehensive ASUU strike is becoming more elongated.
My mum discussed with her boss if I can be working with them depending when ASUU will call off their strike.
Fortunately, they affirmed to my mum's request and I was employed to work as a secretary.
Note: They are both husband and wife running the organization.
My role is to write receipt for all payments entering the organization account, write and ensure all the payments of the day are updated before the next day.
As a result of the nature of my work, this give me access to the boss office as I may need some things to take there. Even if other staff want to access the office, they will inform me first, then I will collect the key and give them whatever they need in the office.
Things was going smoothly until a fateful Friday I was accused of stealing.
The scenario happened like this.
As the secretary of the organization, I do resume work by 7:30am and close by 5:pm.
Apart from the cleaners that tidy the compound. In most cases, I'm the last person that leaves the office. And whenever I'm leaving, I collect the key to the office and park the bags of the boss and his wife into their car, check whether they bought something and ensure everything is placed in their car.
That fateful day, as usual, His wife wasn't around, then I look for the husband to collect the office key and he told me that the office is opened. With no further delay, I moved into the office and carried their bags. As I was going, he stopped me and check the bag. He claimed that inside the bag, where he packed money, the money has been rough handled and the nylon bag that housed the money was found tore.
Then pandemonium began. He insisted that a person has accessed the money and I was the only person that has the privilege to enter the office. I was troubled and confused. My perplexity was so high that I don't even know what to say.
I tried to explain to the best of my knowledge. I tried my best to exonerate myself that I knew nothing about the money. I told everyone that I met the office opened and I ain't aware that the office was opened. Most times, if I see the office ain't closed. I will close it because it's close to my office. But on this day no one to bear me withness. Every odds look against me. We left there around to 5:30pm that day.
I even told my boss that he should count the money that I don't perceive anyone entering the office. But he kept saying that he didn't know the amount he put there and he can't give the precise amount that has been stolen.
Beforehand, I noticed that the environment is full of jealousy. The staff jealous themselves. They envy each other and there are lots of faction within the organization. To be on a safer side. I didn't join any caucus or faction. I play my role diligently and discharge my duty responsibly. I don't do favouritism as I make myself to be honest in all things. There are many evil things that I'm aware of that goes underground but I don't interfer in it or report it except the bosses know by themselves. With my altitude, well with this I thought, I was loved by the boss and his wife.
When I got home, I wept profusely because no one to bear me withness, everyone seems I'm the thief.
I explained to my mum what happened because she has left earlier. She pacified me and said. If I'm not guilty of the stealing, nothing will happen to me and they should use whatever they want to use to look for their money.
On Monday we resume back to work. What happened on Friday kept pondering my heart, the wound hasn't been healed yet another mysterious thing happened again.
My own office is at the front of the boss office. My table and chair are placed there but it doesn't look privately. It looks like a reception before entering the main office. I got to my office next day to find that #3,600 has been smuggled into my drawer.
Chaiii! No one to bear me withness again about the money I saw. All things look like I was the one that stole the money, and just hiding under the guise of innocency.
I was extremely perplexed, different thought were ruminating my mind. One thought said if you give them the money they will say you are lying that you just kept it there. Another thought said, who knows, perhaps they are putting you under integrity test. Well! I carried the money, luckily the wife was around and I explained how I saw the money and handed it over to her.
When the husband came, she told him exactly what I reported to her and the husband responded, he might be the money they stole on Friday. He continues, definitely the thieves has returned the money as a result of their actions on Friday.
The matter dies there and no one ever made reference to it again until today when the boss (he) asked me to prepare a bill for a customer. I've done that already and also listening to him and the customer while they were conversing. In a nut shell. I heard the customer telling him that he wants another bills too. Therefore I was preparing that too, unknowingly as I was preparing it, I have covered the first bills with lot of books on my table. As the boss arrived, he requested for the first bill he asked me to prepare. Unfortunately, it's no where to be found again, �♂️. I tried to explain to him that I was also preparing other bills the woman mentioned. I think that was the only mistake I made thinking that would make the work faster for the woman to collect the bills.
All of a sudden, I noticed that he has been seethe with anger. He shouted at me that I don't have regards for him, he said, he asked me to do something but I'm doing otherwise. Before I could utter any statement to clear myself out. Everything has already scatter, he remained deaf to whatever I wanted to say. He insisted that I'm not working with them again, he chased me out like a dog that I have to go back to take my phone.
Amongst all the turbulence, I kept begging him. I prostrated on the floor to show that I'm sorry. But he didn't even looked at me.
For the sake of my mother. I don't want to do anything that would affect her relationship with her bosses, I would have said. I'm not working again and not even bother to beg.
To cut it short. His wife signaled to me to meet an erderly man close to the place, possibly he might listen to his pleas. I did as instructed by his wife, "God bless that woman" The erderly man followed me but another thing bursted. He said apart from this, that he can't employ somebody that he doesn't trust. He made it known to the erderly man that I'm not trustworthy using the past money that was stolen as a case of study.
That moment, tears began to roll down from my face. I didn't know what to say in the midst of everyone. Everyone was just saying, please forgive him, he will change, he won't do that again. I looked at myself and said this is humiliation of the highest order. If I take any step, it might affect my mum too and lead to the termination of her appointment. I don't want her to be traumatized.
I remained calm and crying bitterly. Well! he accepted the elderly man plea for me and they concluded that this is yellow card, that if I do anything bad again, they will resort by giving me red card. Since ASUU is still on strike now and there's no way I can say I'm leaving there without having implication on my mum employment. Who knows, what will happen next that might get me roped and I will be given red card couple with humiliation. I want men with wisdom to advice me on how I can justify my resignation peacefully. I don't want anything to backfire on my mum. I don't want her to be traumatized and I don't want them to transfer their aggression on her.
I just want to leave there peacefully because I can't see myself working there again. Even all these things was written with my unbalanced emotions. I know I have been traumatized and accused falsely but I believe I will bounce back strongly and soon or sooner God will revealed the perpetrator in Jesus name.���.
I will be glad if this can be moved to front page.
Labor market is another life that is not in any university syllabus moreso now you know what your parents go through to train you. Now you are exposed to the wicked wide world or anyhow you want to call it #www
SocialJustice: I don't get, a sissy boy kills himself because he is called what he is? Is that not what he is, a man that wants to be f*cked by his fellow man and behaves like a girl, is that not a sissy boy?
This world needs to stop shielding people from the consequences of their actions. If you do not like being addressed as what you are, then be something you are confident and proud of.
Rozross: Paul is pained, he should go reconcile with his wife. He’s been talking too much lately. He’s right though but he needs to make peace with himself.
The Arise TV Early morning show Crew, Rufia Oseni, Reuben Abati and Tundun Abiola have described Governor Hope Uzodimma's statement about Igbo Presidency as absurd and unfortunate.
Hope Uzodimma had asked Igbos to forget about 2023 election unless they make peace with Nigeria.
He said National Truth but he should have said it within his regional elders and state Men.
Back to the matter, He is just one of our numerous infant calling themselves leader even as a father such statement shouldn't have crossed his mind on a global atmosphere most especially during this electioneering period.
iLoveYouToo: Foolish people everywhere. Someone that’s worked for over 20 years can’t afford a trip to the US. Is she the sole reason ASUU is on strike?
I wonder when we’ll stop majoring in minor things.
The former VC employed thousands of people to settle his political allies, hoping to get a senatorial seat but failed; you want her to regularize people employed indiscriminately with no positions to fill??
…Even HODs are entitled to these vacations
Sensitivity matters at every stage of life yet her position and the crucial challenge at this particular time speaks volume, HR, and managerial skill is not joke o. When you occupied certain position your life cease to be yours henceforth. It's like models, sport men/women and artistes. Above all empathy is key.
Because they have been destroyed in place of training, they are brought down instead of up, they are made liability than asset, they are taught injustice instead of justice, consumption etc. I always ask this question since I was very young ' when a lady bring back gift from a man the usual comment of her fellow female is The guy love you" when nature says gift blind the mind and pervert reasoning.
Fashola, Ambode and Sanwo Olu commissioned and embarked on groundbreaking projects because of Tinubu's income generating ingenuity, smarts and leadership capabilities.
Lagos state generates more revenue than 33 states in Nigeria combined.
God Bless Asiwaju Tinubu, the great Jagaban of Africa.
Ambode paid debt and never borrow a dime, can you beat that?
BluntCrazeMan: Once projects are done with, there must be some events (no matter how little) that would follow, in order to let the public know that the project is ready to be used. That is called commissioning. It must not be a big party.
I disagree, commissioning is not an event it's part of the whole project maybe you have been used to our praise singing and people worship that you are such a brainwashed.
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