penultimatee: What's this that I'm reading, is Human right group now a private campaign agency.abi they are image maker.misplace priority. In fact everybody has a price.can be bought over. BIG SHAME.
CAC should deregister such group immediately and sue them as well.
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you these trying times. We always wish you well, but seems you dont want it well for yourself.
We always feel pity choking and peppering you guys always. But as you know, we have no other choice. We will continue to press, compress, jam ,squeeze your necks till you eventually see the light and become batified .
Please incase of severe choking, stifling , suffocation or discomfort, aggrieveness, sombre, melancholy, sorrowfullness, agonize and you feel like relieving the pains. Kindly use the option below. Very small but manage it. It will do.
Find attached is a rope.
Yours tormentor, Lhordspy.
You have just come out clean for all to see what your BAT have underneath and to prove us right that anyone reasoning BAT is suicidal.
DukeNija: Utter gibberish! I kept seeing my aunt, my mom, my dad, my neighbor Jesus Christ! Are they all in this relationship with you? He made the right decision to walk away because it’s obvious he’ll have to deal with more than an indecisive and emotionally dependent wife. Aunt wants him to thank her for taking you, her own niece to the market to buy wedding items? Really? You should thank your aunt not him! I congratulate the young man for saving himself from an entitled and overly intrusive family.
GboyegaD: You are the one I should ask if you are ready for marriage. I wonder how you allowed people get into your head. You said he argued with your aunt, and you were pained. Should he keep quiet if he's not okay with whatever the cause of the argument was because he wants a marriage?
I don't even understand how your aunt was pissed that he didn't call to thank her for taking you to the market to buy the engagement clothes. Was he the one who suggested you approach your aunt to help you? If he is not, then he doesn't owe her that obligation. If he chooses to say thank you, so be it and if he doesn't, no big deal.
Lastly, your parent's (mom in particular) reservation indirectly beclouded your thought and you suggesting you put the wedding on hold gave him the opportunity to think through the entire thing. Perhaps, you guys were going on a fast lane and that statement made him think and also, have conversation with his folks who might have felt with this much troubles from external influences before the wedding, he should just save his head.
Like the Yorubas will say, "Oju to ma ba ni kale, kin ti a ti owuro se pin" implying, whatever would last long doesn't stress you from inception. You both are lucky in your ways and you both should see it as each party is right with his/her decision.
I just needed to add this, in your next relationship (whether he comes back or a new relationship), remember you both are the prize and treat each other that way. If he doesn't treat you like a prize or you can't treat him as one, please, be quick to move. Don't be carried away by the people of the world who have no place in your home. Imagine some telling you to do thanksgiving when you were the one who put the wedding on hold should tell you they are like dance instructors who teaches you to dance but will never borrow you their legs to do the dance.
To those quoting me, did you notice the guy's mum didn't bother pacifying her family? Doesn't that speaks volume?
pocohantas: Always an Igbo woman. I would never understand why underage help is thing in Igboland or among Igbo families.
Even the enlightened/educated ones are not left out.
If you want a help, get an adult that can match your strength and madness. Not innocent kids you end up abusing physically and sexually. The excuse that their husbands would sleep with a grown-up maid doesn’t fly. It is not a crime for him to sleep with an adult, but it is crime all over the world the second you contract a child to work for you. It is CHILD ABUSE and should be frowned upon by well-meaning Nigerians.
This purely the sole responsibilities of the government, there are thousands of hospitality and home management graduate out there so once you feel you have arrived attaining the affluent status to afford a maid you should proceed to the relevant agency and professionals to hire one, this should be the law and must be enforced anything short of this is either child labor/trafficking/hostage and as many charges that could be laid on such defaulters.
Nbote: Wait ooo, is it that certificate forgery is no longer a crime in this country??
So upon conviction the inec will just struck out her name? All relevant arm of legal agency prosecution should sue har in fact she mustn't go home from the court.
Rtk5: I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.
Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.
This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
Did you force married her that you didn't see this trait in her?
[quote author= post=117228621]Update: Suicidal Nigerian Lady Stable And Receiving Treatment At The Hospital - Family And Friends Say
The young Nigerian woman, Onwuzuruike Chidera, who posted suicidal notes on Facebook is currently receiving treatment at the hospital, Reports.
Chidera, who is said to be battling depression, had on Sunday, October 2, posted the notes on her Facebook wall, As Sighted By , Saying that "they are here to take her home"
Her friend, Chukwudi Iwuchukwu, confirmed the latest development on Monday.
"Thank you my sister Linda for taking up the story. Onwuzuruike Chdera is fine now and receiving treatment at the hospital." he wrote.
A Message Posted on her wall says she is stable and surrounded by family members and friends.
"Apologies for not being able to take all your calls. The latest is that she’s been having some health challenges. She’s stable now, with family members, colleagues and friends," the message read.
"Good evening to you all. Thanks for your show of love and concern. Family members and colleagues at work are with CHIDERA now. She is stable. Pls pray for her full recovery. God bless you all"
Meanwhile, in a Father's Day message to her Dad, Chidera, who graduated with First Class, revealed she was diagnosed of schizophrenia.
"When I was first diagnosed of schizophrenia, this man cried so much that I got scared. He went to the Holy Eucharist with me everyday and prayed for me for roughly one month," the message partly read.
"My father, God bless him, is the kind of father I won’t trade in him for another. I know people would want Dangote and Otedola to be their father and be less appreciative of the one God gave to them! That’s being ungrateful!
"I could still see my father’s smile on my graduation day! We have our squabbles and misunderstandings but he is still my father and will always be! He is “Nna Chidera First Class” I was the first to get it in my family. I did it for my Father who always wanted to be a lawyer as a child too! I might not be a Lawyer but I am thriving in my field and thanks to this man who believed that training me was not a waste. Fathers matter."
Lagos was quick to say they will prosecute impostor of Hamzat son yet they have not respond to this alleged criminal act of oshodi boys on an innocent Nigrian.
DrBrainstorm: The illicit drug market is worth hundreds of billion dollars, tonnes of kilos still make it through the borders of the almighty US regularly even with a strong agency like the DEA. So yes, they most likely were not detected.
Does it mean that all their wives are jobless and parasitics because I don't understand everytime they get automatic job, that means they were not being taking care of in the first place. Nigeria should take care of the wives of officers while in active service and beyond because they are partners with their husbands in serving the nation. Their family welfare must and should be prioritize.
JackDaAlienz: I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family. Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys. My uncle warned my dad not yo try it. I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes. For some reason he didn't adopt again.
Fast foward to 20 years later That my father's friend is living in hell, He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim. They even beat him up and steal his money.
Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption. Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling It's a huge mess. This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all
Ru Ru Ru Rubbish. If you were orphaned will say the same infact you are a giagantuos ignoramus.
ObamaMessi: Do you think it's ok for parents to share same bed room with their kids?
I was shocked to my bone marrow when a little girl of eight was telling me of what happens between her parents at night simply because she share the same room with them.
I can't explain but I can assure parents that sharing the same bed room with their kids is not too good.
Carry your yeye shock comot here. Na today you dey hear that kain thing, Who no know say na poverty and slight irresponsibility dey make parent share room with bikin
JackDaAlienz: Omo we busted village yesterday, we are in my grandmas place. After lunch, i was shocked when my grandma told my dad to go outside and buy recharge card for her. See man wey dey form hard man for house Dem dey send to go buy recharge card
I couldn't help but hold my laughter when my dad went out to buy recharge card
E really shock me, my dad is a Big man ohh As well respected thats why im wondering why his mother (my grandma) still send him on errands
You be full that well respected no mean anything to you?