Music/Radio › Re: Headies Disqualification Of Portable Is Possibly Unfair, Do You Agree? by Advancedman(m): 6:57pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
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Family › Re: I Discovered That My Wife Has Been Cheating On Me: What Should I Do? by Advancedman(m): 10:37am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Lastborn0074: Please I need honest suggestions. My wife has had several male platonic friends ever since we met. She became friends with others through me. I trusted her because she's a very sociable person, so I wasn't bothered because I know a lot of ladies that have male friends too. She's been open to me about them.
Recently, something happened. A close female friend of hers (also married) started keeping her at arm's length. My wife didn't know what the problem was until information got to her that this friend of hers was going about telling people that she could no longer be friends with her because she's sleeping around with men indiscriminately.
My wife confronted her with this information, for which she denied. But the informant, who was also invited, insisted that she actually said it. Before this time, my wife would always complain that each time she visits her friend, she would knock on the door but nobody would respond. This happened repeatedly until her tenant told my wife in confidence that his landlady was always around each time she visits.
Recently, I discovered that my wife was actually having amorous relationship with her male friends. I have access to her messeinger and I have seen those amorous chats. She would delete the ones that could implicate her. A male friend of hers even sent her adult videos and she told him to send more, that she was enjoying it. This man went further to send her his masturbation video.
I confronted my wife with these and what people told me, but she denied. After putting much pressure on her, she said she was about to do it, not that she actually did it. I asked her the reason and she said that it was because of the hardship we were facing. Since her business collapsed, it's been very difficult to survive with our four children. I'm the only one fending for the family. Even after confronting her, I discovered that she's still into the act.
Given the above scenario, what should I do? Please I want only healthy comments that will help me make my decision. Thanks. Base on her claim about trying to be resourceful in the family pls Calm down and talk to her as a friend and offer to help then you can be sure of what happened, happening and going to happen at least you know her. |
Crime › Re: Protest Marches In Italy To Demand Justice For Nigerian Man Beaten To Death(pix) by Advancedman(m): 5:31pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Cameroonian Woman’s 3 Children Die After Eating The Poisoned Food She Prepared by Advancedman(m): 6:02pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
iamyemiakins: If you're getting uncomfortable and tired of your partner's lifestyle, simply divorce him/her and take a walk. It's as simple as that!
DJ, play me "Logba Logba by Orlando Owoh". Oil for your head. |
Health › Re: Heavily Pregnant Woman Spotted Smoking, Sparks Reactions (Video) by Advancedman(m): 8:00pm On Aug 05, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: How Do I Get her to leave my house? by Advancedman(m): 11:33am On Aug 05, 2022 |
Thinkam: Firstly she scammed me, thought she had huge boobs, but turns out she only wears big bra's those things are tiny just nipples.
She has her own apartment, but for the past 4days she has been living with me practically...
I hate sharing my personal space, I've tried using technicalities and innuendos to drive her out, but none seems to work Happy married life |
Politics › Re: Economic Crisis: Governors Advise FG To Pay Off Civil Servants Above 50 by Advancedman(m): 11:29am On Aug 05, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: How Do I Explain To My Friend That Fifteen Year Old Girls Are Children?! by Advancedman(m): 11:21am On Aug 05, 2022 |
meobizy: We first met during service year. He was twenty-three at the time, and I assumed it was a one-off thing. He never showed interest in females older than fifteen years of age and was quick to approach them whenever the chance appeared. The three girlfriends he dated in two years were eighteen, eighteen and nineteen years old respectively. I saw nothing wrong there until he told me they were the ones who made moves to secure his interest. Left to him he’ll rather date girls below eighteen. We lost contact eventually.
Last year we crossed paths again. He has two children with a grown woman, though they didn’t marry. He has all the time to chase any woman he wants. Unfortunately, he’s back to chasing romantic friendships with fifteen year old girls. Them swear for this person?! His Facebook profile is littered with underaged female friends.
I’ve tried to explain to him that he will face prison time if caught in developed nations. He doesn’t care and says Naija is a different ballgame. How do I tell this almost fifty year old man that children are forbidden? Mr salaye |
Car Talk › Re: Lagos Driver Forgets Where He Parked Vehicle After Getting Drunk by Advancedman(m): 12:42pm On Aug 04, 2022 |
havenz: Thanks for your little support but am not forcing or doing it for you, i have been doing it all my life, so do yourself a favor and shift one side, without you i must till visit them. Thanks. Still you be FOOL |
Education › Re: Female US Teacher Had Sex With Boy, 13, In Classroom & Even Moved Into His Home by Advancedman(m): 1:32am On Aug 04, 2022 |
Nonexisting: Na men are scum crew. They will claim to be feminists online but go behind closed doors to fucck tiny pricks of innocent school children. I hope they put ground pepper into her slack overused smelly pussy and keys to her jail thrown into the Atlantic ocean. Evil daughter of Delilah. The funny part is she was the one that went to report that the boy was threatening her, fear woman again I say fear woman. |
Politics › Re: FG Confirms Purchase Of N1.4 Billion Worth Of Vehicles For Niger Republic by Advancedman(m): 6:32pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: FG Confirms Purchase Of N1.4 Billion Worth Of Vehicles For Niger Republic by Advancedman(m): 6:30pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
Mokason288:  Nah BUhari fit Nigerian’s
Just imagine if it was Goodluck who used 1.4 billion to buy cars when ASUU is still on strike You still don't get it and this is not just immaturity but stupidity your sense of reasoning and judgement is in abyss. The person didn't matter but the office, nobody hate or dislikes who is in office for tribe, religion or regional affiliation but for the act he carries out in the office so stop this foolishness of shouting Jonathan's name. |
Business › Re: ₦22 Million Stolen From Customer’s Car Parked Inside Access Bank In Kaduna by Advancedman(m): 1:10pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
pansophist: Hopefully the bank compensates him since his car was parked inside their premises, under their watchful eyes. Vehicle parked at owners risk He could have personally request the cso on getting to the bank before entering, and he shouldn't have kept such ambiguous bags at the back of the seat with plane glass furthermore he could have befriend the security personnel on guard at the bank. The bank can only carried out investigation for self protection from future occurrence. The man may have been trail there from the previous banks he made withdrawals. Investigation will reveal the man confidentiality all through his journey that day. |
Politics › Re: How Lagosians Voted In The 2019 Presidential Election (Photo) by Advancedman(m): 9:35pm On Aug 02, 2022 |
ASAPFERG1: Ok Majority of lagos votes is going for tinubu next year Your mumu na exploded tank farm. |
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Romance › Re: Couple Got Married With Only 2 Guests, Bought Food At Nearby Eatery (Pix, Video) by Advancedman(m): 12:55pm On Aug 01, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Muslim-Muslim Ticket: Nigerians Have Thrown Away Competence, Capacity - APC by Advancedman(m): 9:08am On Aug 01, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: The Misconception About Votes From Northern Nigeria by Advancedman(m): 8:42am On Aug 01, 2022 |
[quote author=Omicron007 post=115258506][/quote]More wisdom and God's grace to you. |
Family › Re: I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible by Advancedman(m): 9:56am On Jul 31, 2022 |
HRHQueenPhil: I can't imagine what u are going through This is very wicked of the man I wld advise u don't leave ur marriage Every marriage has test and this is one of it Two solutions -get a good maid that can assist with looking after the child - u can start a business that helps u support ur man and leave d house so u won't constantly be in pain Remember to lift the child up in prayers and fasting so it shall be well with u as well Fasting for a pregnant woman I hail o.. |
Politics › Re: Malami Asks US To Extradite Azuka Jebose For Defaming Ned Nwoko by Advancedman(m): 9:29pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Alika Ogorchukwu Killed In Italy - Nigerian Embassy Reacts by Advancedman(m): 9:28pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
CoronaVirusRelo: Sad! Just look at the onlookers!
They all should be arrested!
So their was no African in that whole vicinity to rescue hommie!
This is so painful! Is he the only black man there? |
Career › Re: What Is Your Take On Thanking Your Boss After Receiving Your Salary? by Advancedman(m): 9:13pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
ashewoboy: A yes or a no.
Do you thank your boss after receiving your salary?
Use the comment section to tell us why you choose any of the above. what we practice here is Lord and slave or Taskmaster and slave system. Those thanks are not courtesy. |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Okereke & Clemson Cornel Missing — Actors Guild (Photo) by Advancedman(m): 6:23pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
Odewaleadesoye: Source: VANGUARD The two members were suspected of having been kidnapped, which has increased fear amongst members about the safety of actors filming in the country.
Why do people always use this phrase where there is general menace? Nobody is safe so don't throw our sympathy out of the window. |
Politics › Re: Idris Wase: No Government Has Touched Lives Of Ordinary Citizens Like APC by Advancedman(m): 3:38pm On Jul 29, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Primary School Teacher, Others Forfeit ₦120m, Cars To Nigerian Government by Advancedman(m): 11:27pm On Jul 28, 2022 |
Lama70: I learnt about this case around last year. She has a son outside the country, probably Malaysia who was wiring the money to her account for safekeeping.
Na wao!
Lucky to have escaped not going to jail. Greedy mother encouraging her son to make people cry so they can rejoice. I think that was the Benin woman you are referring to. |
Politics › Re: Senator Fadahunsi: We Have Required Number To Impeach Buhari by Advancedman(m): 8:12pm On Jul 27, 2022 |
Omoslim26: They would be praised as heroes if they can pull this through, although it looks like mission impossible. It's just because the threat is coming home to them #Abujaundersiege. |
Sports › Re: Buhari Approves Funds For Super Falcons After Protest Over Unpaid Bonus. by Advancedman(m): 8:05am On Jul 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Fact Check: Are Bishops, Pastors Who Attended Shettima's Unveiling Fake? by Advancedman(m): 8:02am On Jul 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: ASUU Strike: Nigerian Government Declares NLC Solidarity Protest Illegal by Advancedman(m): 7:43am On Jul 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Fact Check: Did Tinubu Change His Name From Yekini Amoda Ogunlere? by Advancedman(m): 7:39am On Jul 22, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Hausa/Fulani Youth Forum Protests Over Muslim-Muslim Ticket (Video) by Advancedman(m): 10:54pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
ABIODUN105: Tinubu can only win 2023 election through rigging Well done rigger. |
Politics › Re: Seyi Tinubu’s N340 Million Richard Mille Wristwatch Stuns Nigerians by Advancedman(m): 1:50pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
CandyOps: APC just dey cast themselves.
Presidential candidate - Na Escobar paddy Vice Presidential candidate - Boko Haram boss Promoter - Portable (1 million boys gang Lord)
I can only imagine how horrible the next 8 years of our lives would be if we let these cartel take over the reins of power
The vawhulence they'll unleash on the state treasury will be unmatched I celebrate APC for killing and burying themselves with their MM ticket. |