₦airaland Forum

overall90:
someone said this on instagram...

you have three pot holes and you bought only two drinks, that is how problem starts

Tamasaba:
No one knows the truth except the accused and the accuser. So this man of God is wrong to say this. However, the court decides who is telling the truth or otherwise on earth.

fuckerstard:
Bail will never be free, Nigeria will never get better no be curse.

Na fact.

Cioccolata:
[color=#008080]I totally concur. The senators hovering over him are after career boast which equals more political votes.
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joseph1832:
Whether it was consensual or not, if Busola was 17 years old at the time, Biodun Fatoyinbo raped her, statutory rape that is.

ikorodureporta:
Where's the poem??

CGMedia:
Governor of Lagos State, Babajide Sanwo-Olu, has denied withdrawing $470 million from the state treasury to sponsor Federal Government's AFCON delegation to Egypt, Igbere TV reports.

Igbere TV reports that Sanwo-Olu, Senate President, Ahmad Lawan; Speaker of the House of Representatives, Femi Gbajabiamila and a host of others, had on Saturday stormed Egypt to watch the Super Eagles play Cameroon at the ongoing African Cup of Nations (AFCON).

The match, which was monitored closely by Igbere TV, ended with a 3:2 win, with Nigeria qualifying for the next round.

The Lagos State chapter of the People's Democratic Party, PDP, had alleged that Governor Sanwo-Olu personally sponsored the trip with Lagos government money, on behalf of the federal government.

Reacting, however, the governor in a statement issued to Igbere TV by his Deputy Chief Press Secretary, Gboyega Akosile, described the story as “fake news.”

He said the governor only flew to Egypt as a delegate of the federal government, while calling on the PDP’s spokesman to “always fact-check before putting pen on paper.”

Full Statement,



http://igberetvnews.com/823046/afcon-2019-sanwo-olu-speaks-on-funding-fgs-delegation-to-egypt/

69MissedCalls:
Chai. Village people. You see why as a black man you no suppose tell anybody when you wan travel. Even to space

Onyi22:
Watin the mumu Mike dy even play self, Na only to dy fall fall him sabi, abeg make them removed am so that another player go take over ,
Lazy Nigeria player....

Islie:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/338764-exclusive-buhari-osinbajos-aides-stripped-of-salaries-privileges.html

hardtoget:
Benue State Governor Samuel Ortom has hailed the suspension of Ruga settlements plan by the Federal Government as victory for all peace- loving Nigerians.

The Governor, who spoke through his Chief Press Secretary Terver Akase, stated the rejection of the Ruga settlement model was not personal but rather a struggle by Nigerians against impunity and injustice.

Ortom commended President Muhammadu Buhari for heeding to the call of Nigerians.
Read Also: Buhari suspends `Ruga’ programme, backs NEC’s livestock plan
He said the decision to suspend the proposal shows that Buhari has heard the voices of majority of Nigerians on the matter.
He stated that truth has prevailed on the issue, quoting John 8: 32 “you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.”

Governor Ortom urged the federal government to take a step further to encourage pastoralists and other livestock owners to embrace ranching as the best model of animal husbandry



Read more here https://thickmatch.com/ruga-suspension-victory-nigeria-ortom/

naptu2:
Following a point of order raised by Senator Uba Sani (APC/Kaduna), the Senate President, Senator Ahmed Lawan has set up a committee to investigate allegations of assault against Senator Elisha Abbo.

https://mobile.twitter.com/SPNigeria/status/1146353984761991168

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

miltonchux:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MALE READER:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

blackpanthar:
this MAN IS SO INTELLIGENT AND WISE.... see how he craftily avoided taking sides.

blackpanthar:
this MAN IS SO INTELLIGENT AND WISE.... see how he craftily avoided taking sides.

ijustdey:
https://www.thecable.ng/extra-fayemis-aide-appoints-62-personal-assistants

SageMK:
The answer to this is psychological manipulation.

It's the very same technique used in transforming both children and adults into becoming suicide bombers.

The abusers manipulate the emotions of their victims.
For rape victims, shame & denial/disbelief is at It's core.

There's no room for rationale thinking in questioning why victims didn't resist or didn't say anything earlier.

LifestyleTonite:
Former Nollywood actress, Steph-Nora Okeke has become the first celebrity to find the rape allegation leveled against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, by Timi Dakolo’s wife, Busola Dakolo, as shady.

In a post she shared on social media, Steph-Nora Okeke wondered how a lady who claimed to have been raped multiple times was still very close to the alleged perpetrator for many years.

She shared on Facebook:



She also spoke on how she exited Nollywood because of a near rape incident.



She concluded by stating that she feels the rape allegation against the COZA pastor is being used by Busola Dakolo as a cover up for something.



https://www.kemifilani.com/2019/07/actress-steph-nora-okeke-becomes-first-celebrity-to-doubt-busola-dakolo-rape-allegation.html

tactius:
Why it takes time for some women to report rape...

Tolexander:
everybody is just taking side in this allegation,

As for me, I’m indifferent cos both are wrong

TonyeBarcanista:
Written by TonyeBarcanista

I have been following the alleged rape incident between Mrs Bisola Dakolo, the wife of musician Timi Dakolo, and Pastor Biodun, the Senior Pastor at COZA, where Mrs Dakolo alleged that Pastor Biodun had multiple canal knowledge of her without her consent as a then 17 years old teenager, an incident that allegedly happened some 20 years ago.

I have watched the pronouncements of some social media jurists and popular figures, including some politicians, musicians, influencers and actors, with most pronouncing judgement against the accused (Pastor Biodun) and a few others "standing with the accused".

May I add my voice to this subject...

1. Does Being A Philanderer Makes One A Rapist?

A couple of people, including Mr Timi Dakolo, the husband of Bisola, have accused Pastor Biodun to be a man that engage in inappropriate relationship with several female members of his COZA church, while that remains an unproven allegation, some commentators pronounced the pastor as "guilty" of rape because of his too many "womanising scandals", while some others narrated his philandering days in Ilorin, Kwara state, where he allegedly had multiple romps with several ladies of loosed virtues. While the allegations/testimony may be true, half truth or completely untrue, it still does not help the allegation of Mrs Bisola.

Rape is non-consented sexual relations and it is a criminal offence. Having multiple sexual partners is not a crime under the law irrespective of moral or spiritual opinion.

2. Bisola Dakolo Herself Was Accused of Having Sexual Relations With COZA Clerics

On May 30, a certain female with Instagram handle @elenapipper informed Mr Timi Dakolo that his own wife, Bisola, who incidentally is the accused of Pastor Biodun, was involved in illicit sexual relationship with Pastors of COZA church and some of her choir colleagues. While the claim of Elena remains an allegation, I believe that "2+2" should be put together by social media jurists if their intent is to give social media justice. I am yet to see the response of Timi and Bisola to that allegation and in all honesty, I expect the Dakolos to sue Elena for defamation/libel so as to prove their innocence- just like several social media jurists have challenged Pastor Biodun to do.

3. The Media Is Not The Appropriate Place To Lodge Criminal Complaint

I have said it umpteenth time that the media, be it traditional media or social media, is not a police station to lodge criminal complaints. The traditional media is interested in selling papers while the social media is highly interested in cashing out on trending issues. Popular faces and celebrities are interested in jumping on trending issues so as to stay relevant while influencers are interested in swaying perception. Majority of these commentators and social media jurists aren't interested in vindicating the innocent and to bring the real guilty party to JUSTICE. I heard of a planned protest at COZA Church by some so-called CSOs, but that again is just to sway public opinion and not necessarily see to that JUSTICE is done.

However, the appropriate thing for Bisola Dakolo to do is to first go to the Police station nearest to her, report the case, get her witnesses and other evidence, assist the Police in their investigation and ensure that the accused is charged appropriately to establish his innocence or guilt and get justice, which can only be dispensed by the court.

4. My Position On The Rape Allegation By Bisola Against Pastor Biodun

Rape is a crime against humanity and a robbery of ones dignity, it is a serious crime that should be treated as an offence worse than armed robbery- because the victim is robbed mentally, emotionally and psychologically.

However, rape accusation is one that should be properly lodged at the Police station and investigated by the appropriate police officer, and if found to be true, the perpetrator be punished. But if otherwise, the accuser be punished. As such, I neither agree with the accuser (Bisola) nor the accused (Pastor Biodun) just yet, but proper investigation be done.


Convulsively, we should allow wisdom be our guide in making judgement! May justice be done!


TonyeBarcanista can be reached via gmail at TonyeBarcanista@gmail.com

https://www.thebreakingtimes.com/rape-allegation-between-bisola-pastor-biodun-and-social-media-jurists-tonyebarcanista/

LifestyleTonite:
Actress Stella Damasus's husband, Daniel Ademinokan has reacted to the rape allegation leveled by Busola Dakolo against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo.

In a series of tweets, Daniel Ademinokan stated that he and his actress wife also had an encounter with the man.

Stella Damasus's husband shared:
Just tell us he raped you and your wife too.

https://www.purplefeel.com/2019/06/stella-damasuss-husband-opens-up-on-encounter-biodun-fatoyinbo.html?m=1

advocatebaba:
How old are u now minus how old you were when u were raped. The answer will give us reason why u kept quite for a long time or for a short time.

This woman get sense, she know say some women now are trending on social media, she too wanna trend lol. we have hear you, take your case to the court. Believe some of this story at your peril.

jesvic91:
I live with three rules
1. Fear women


2. Fear women



3. Fear the only creature that have met Satan face-to-face

Bestboy11513:
PH girls...

manny4u:
The write up is true but you can't take it away from the Togolese and beninouse, they are more skilled and give less headaches in completing their tasks compared to Nigerians.