₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
She's right, most guys spend blindly on a girl and expect to trap her with his sacrifice. Some guys even force and beg their girls to accept their gestures, then complain when she changes, guys should learn to spend on girls that appreciate and value their sacrifice.

CSTRR:
I was complimenting one Igbo girl in the presence of her mother.
Told her I am going to marry her as a joke.

And the mother said "she go soon enter school o".
If you wan marry am, make you start to dey show am.

I just dey look am.

favour32:
Run!
Nor look back!

rawaan:
Please how does one verify the authenticity of COS? The employer didn’t send a PDF copy of it

TONYE001:
See people typing and posting whatever rubbish that occurs in their heads without minding its possible impacts on this man's family.

We also have this kind of people on Nairaland. It's honestly shameful that the world is here today. We've read reports of posts tossing people into depression or causing them to take their lives.

We've failed to realize that actions have consequences. This is especially true when we are not the ones in the spotlight.

Awfully shameful, I'd say.

donaldchidi:
I am here dear and am in Abuja...
I match all u said here so please I need ur digit

santos247:
Premium is expensive. If you can book self service or use assisted service.

Cyriloha:
How do I get ? That's what I'm asking
08065604047 whatspp please

Cyriloha:
How can I apply for American visa as a student please I need a guide line or relocate to America either ? Please help me out with a good agent and advise too

onilanre:
And they'll still pay for 3 years IHS

solosamste:
Caregiver work is good but the amount charged is far too expensive , however, Is it UK you'll like to go? I can help you with Canada's job permit plus accommodation for far less than that. DM on +2348034025251[WhatsApp only} if interested. This is real and legit.

phemmyfour:
It's more than 6M, you must be using online rate

Ayonimhofeoluwa:
But what.... Sir


Please expantiate

siofra:
So, are you 4'7 or 5'2

Aify3000:
seriously bro,

Maverick777:
I appreciate your maturity.
Now, as for being desperate, I'm not.. The child is bearing her(the mother) father's name not even the baby daddy's.
so if I'm to marry her, I would want to own the child, I'm the only father she knows.
as for someone doing that to me, I wouldn't abandon my child for 4 years no matter the circumstance.

VictorUSA1:
After the recently concluded UTME, my cousin brother was scammed for trying to upgrade his jamb score.He applied to ABU, and according to him the jamb score demanded as departmental cut-off was 250 but unfortunately he scored 198.A man introduced him to another man who he introduced to my cousin as a friend who help in upgrading jamb score, all he needs to do was to pay N20 000.

After he credited the so-called jamb upgrader,the man was no where to be found.The man isn't picking his call again and no jamb upgrade.He was scammed for nothing.

Be Warned!

Maverick777:
impotent is different from infertile.
the fact you couldn't distinguish between the two, shows you're not smart enough to have any sensible input.

as you were...

Oluwabucci:
how short are you man?

donofdons:
There is something fundamentally wrong with nigeria. I don’t know what it is, but even the devil will be scared of coming here. I have been to over 8 countries, and I have never seen a plane being towed on the road. Why did it come from and where are they taking it to�

Walatip222:
Good morning House, I need help.
I want to apply for UK study visa, but my current passport will expire in March, 2023.
Is it advisable to renew it or use it like that?

I have used it for visiting visa

Jman06:
Shey you too have noticed their double standards ba?

Yeye girls that cannot take what they dish out to guys on a daily. When you reciprocate their abuses on men they'll start calling mods and crying upandan. Some would say that you're bitter and all Whatnots.

InfinityFabric:
Marrying a single mother is like trying to fix the Nigerian issues caused politicians and masses alike since 1999. The guy is a certified SIMP with money.

Maverick777:
I'd make this as brief as possible.. This is my debut post here on NL.
I'm in my early 30's, currently work in the oil and gas sector and I'd say I'm an 8.5/10 guy in all ramifications.
Now to the issue, I met this lady sometime last year(JUNE) at a popular fast food here in delta, she was (and still is) the manager of the place. One of the cashiers was being rude to me, she intervened and I must say, I was immediately lovestruck! She's really not the, sweep-you-off-your-feet kinda girl, but she seemed pretty smart (I'm extremely Sapro-sexual).
Long story short, I gave her my card, she called, visited severally and after like 6months we got intimate and all.... Before all these, she already told me that she has a 4-year old daughter, which he had for a guy when she was still schooling, but later found out the guy had a family and she cut ties. She had the baby and he knows but she told him to stay away! And since then till now, there has been no communication whatsoever between them.
My dilemma is, I like her enough to wife her, taking in the kid is not an issue(I adore female kids) and they(MUM and DAUGHTER) both love me to bits, adore me and all. Overall I would say she's a 6.5/10 Lady.
Yesterday she suggested that why don't I adopt the kid legally, as I already changed her surname to mine, because I wanted to open accounts for her(THE KID), she said she had a dream that her baby daddy came to make amends, request for his daughter and serious issue broke out bla bla bla....
Now, I know ladies would always twist the narrative to suit themselves and all, and my gut feeling tells me there's more to that separation than she's telling!
I want to hear some expert advise concerning this before I take the next step, to be honest I'm a novice in this area(never had anything to do with a single mum before now).
Do I go ahead to adopt the kid legally??

Sensible inputs would be well appreciated.
I'd be glad if this hits Front Page

CC: SEUN
LALASTICLALA
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Uniquetani1:
Having a child is not a disease.
Changing the child's name to yours, is very fast abi you be kidnapper?
Just acknowledged the fact that she had a child and be good to her.
The child's father will always come back, unless he is dead.

Belafonte:
Marrying a single mother is like arriving at a party after everyone has left and cleaning up the mess they left behind

Zonefree:


Your madness started too early today, darling