₦airaland Forum

MufasaLion:
Exactly. So it's good to make a decision that you can live with it's regret, hence the reason I ain't judging him because he knows what's best for himself.

But that’s the thing.. if you analyze this decision you will realize it’s an unchangeable one.. a decision made at youth, made when poor, perhaps when unhappy...

unchangeable scenarios are the scenarios that comes with regret people can’t live with..

because usually, hope that a change for the better will come is what keeps us going...

Why do people commit suicide??
They’ve reached a point where they feel their life or situation has no change or remedy...

MufasaLion:
Even those that have kids do have regrets!

Of course....having kids doesn’t automatically make a person’s life perfect...regret can come from any decision or situation that didn’t go as we planned..

MufasaLion:
Not everyone wants kids. Why is it difficult you to understand?

Lol...I understand it..it’s not difficult...
u are the one that doesn’t understand that every decision, opinion, desire or mentality stem out or is driven by a premise...

There’s always a psychological reason behind these decision. Sometimes, the person may not even know about it, because it has been hidden in the past or subconscious as coping mechanism of the mind..

It could be fear of failure
Childhood pain caused by parent
Abandonment fear..
Self-esteem issues..

The list is almost endless..

Nigga doesn’t want to be responsible for anyone but himself...

He’s just afraid to fail...

If he becomes very rich, he will later regret his actions..

Jeon:
WHY DIRECTING THE QUESTION TO ME
WHY NOT ASK HER
?



no be matter of para..I just dy tell you about how people [Including I] VIEW SAINT VALENTINE DAY




pity yourself

I directed it to you becos you supported her in her hunt for a Val on nairaland...besides..na you say “anyone can be your Val”....

U still dey vex...??
Okay I no pity you ooo..

Jeon:
anyone can be ur Val


started what? HARVESTING HEADS AND ORGANS


keep crying ur tears are delicious


Must you guys tag everything to relationship?
Even my mom,child, friend or neighbor can be my Val and we can also celebrate it anywhere..

it originated as a Christian feast day honoring one early Christian martyrs named
Saint Valentine but people like you turned it into a day of celebrating immortalities because you spend on someone and it must be ur girlfriend



lol my guy go ywan for ur girlfriend wer be hungry chicken.. .

since January I don dy plan how me and my love one's go hang out at Wonderland and the gifts to share..



it's too early to swear for urself

If you know you can do Val with your family
Why come on a public forum looking for Val with strangers...??

Any ways ..No vex..e be like say u don dey para..
.na pity I get for ur gender...

Jeon:
ANYONE CAN BE A VAL..


IT NOT A MUST FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO BE THERE.

Anyone cannot your be Val...

U people have started..becos of feb 14..

Long throat will not put you people inside trouble.... una no see how them dey kill girls for street abi??

Let your boyfriend be your Val...if you don’t have boyfriend, stay at home..

Must you spend someone else’s money..?? Can’t you girls just hang out with yourselves, eat, and have fun together??

Anyone can be your Val kee you there..

Cantonese:
May I respectfully ask if there is a difference in the Islam practiced in the north and the south of this country?

You call it “ordinary hijab” and yet you ask that the school should be closed. What makes it “ordinary” anymore if the Muslims are causing trouble over it?

I ask because I find more religious tolerance in the south than in the north. And there is complete peace.

Talk with sense.

Churches and Christians are the first targets for killings in the north.

Be reasonable and tell yourself the truth.

Can Christian students in the north attend Islamic schools with their heads open? Or even with berets that only cover a portion of their heads.

Can Christians riot in a Muslim school over rules?

Clearly we see BAPTIST HIGH SCHOOL with a cross at the top. It is a Christian school. If you as a Moslem choose to send your child there, be prepared to abide by their rules. Apparently Muslim parents want to take advantage of the religious inclination of the governor to stir up crisis’.

Some have said that the school is a state sponsored one. It still does not remove the fact that it is a Christian school. If you are not pleased, simply withdraw your child and send to an Islamic one.

They will not say the truth...no christain can open head in their muslim school...

These people are always strategic about their moves..look...it won’t end with hijab...

They will ask for Islamic studies..
Soon they will mandate christain schools to have mosque where muslim student can pray.

ybalogs:
Do you even know the meaning of Hijab?? You don't want your ladies walking naked yet you abhor Hijab? How is wearing Hijab a threat to anything? Let's be objective and stop talking out of hatred for a particular religion. Hatred won't get us anywhere.

The schools have reiterated their stand...hijabs are not rejected because it’s a muslim attire...it’s rejected because it alters and defeats the essence of uniformity among the students...

There will be no control over it...because students can cover their entire body. Use to waist level or shoulder level.....

Later they will use this same right to force schools to teach Islamic studies...

u can’t force people to play the way you want in their house...if you don’t want to play go elsewhere..

MrBrownJay1:
if that xtian religion was indeed a religion of peace, then they would allow ANYONE (regardless of the way they dress), to attend!

Luke 6:37
“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

How is this verse of the Bible related with the issue?? Who is judging who, who is condemning who..??

Schools use uniform for a reason....it’s the rule.
Why will some sets of students be allowed to alter the school’s uniform by adding either a head to toe, waist or shoulder level hijab...

The result won’t be controllable...because u can’t dictate what kind of hijab a student will be allowed to wear since it’s their religion that controls it....

Will they stop it at hijab...or they will also force the school to teach their children Islamic studies....

They should carry their children to a school that supports their religious dress codes and stop all this blackmail..

Macolapablo:
Good afternoon comrades. Please, forgive me if I am in the wrong section.

I made an Erroneous Transfer on the 6th of January from my Gtbank account to another Gtbank account. I went to the bank to complain and I was given a form to fill. Infact, I was told the account has been blocked so there's no way the owner can withdraw the money. I was expecting the customer care official to move my money back since it has been verified that I did the transfer truely.

The funniest reply I got was that I should go and pray to God to touch the owner of the account. ABEG, WETIN CONCERN GOD with transfer? Please, any idea how I can get my money back?. Your advice will be appreciated. It's just 30k

Just move your money back?? You are funny..
That’s not how it works...
you may be lying
You may pay the money and decide you don’t want pay again??
Since you did the transfer on your own and not in the bank...the best they can do for you is get the customer’s consent to be sure your story is true before moving the cash

Nigerian youth don turn contract killers finish!!!


She did abortion for you? So you told her to terminate the life in her womb for you??


Diaris God ooooo, this blood you people are shearing, diaris God ooooo

Gospel2Day:
She raised valid points.
Please, let's stop this hostility we mete out to our females.
I know they have their faults and excesses, but we males are not without our own faults and foibles too.
My question is If you employ a maid, visit prostitutes and employ extra lessons teacher for your kids, calculate how much you will be spending monthly as their salaries.
Do those three jobs that people engage in to make ends meet deserve remuneration?
If you pay your wife the same amount you pay your maid and the lesson teacher and the oloshos you sin with every month, will you still accuse your wife of bringing NOTHING to the table?
You want a woman to do the duties of a maid, a lesson teacher and a mistress who helps you quench your urge to merge with the opposite sex and who carries your babies, often with the risks of dying during childbirth FOR FREE, non gratis, simply because she is a wife.
But you will gladly pay for such services as long as those who render such services are not legally married to you.
What every woman needs to bring to the table is her readiness to keep and manage your home businesses, to cook, clean, carry your babies, care for your babies and copulate with you and be your companion.
She can then secure a job or you help her to set up a small business that frees her to perform her homely duties well.
Pressuring your wife to work from 7 am to 7 pm like you do will expose your home front and your children to serious societal ills and social dysfunctions.
I know a lady that used to be abandoned by parents and granny. A lesbian neighbour began to have lesbian sex with her EVERYDAY from age 5 till when she turned 15, when they moved away from the place.
So, let's STOP harrasing our females. They're our grannies, mothers, wives, sisters, cousins, nieces and daughters.
We should rather love, care for them and protect them. But we should not spoil them by always granting their entitlement mentality.
The simple solution is: LEAVE WOMEN ALONE UNTIL YOU HAVE ENOUGH TO CATER FOR THEM AND THEIR CHILDREN.
No man who cannot control himself, who always needs to fornicate with women to quench his urge for sex should complain when the women demand that he provides for their financial needs.
Shalom.

So someone can’t disagree with a woman without it being harassment and hostility...

Where do you people come from seff??

KiNg0G:
just this year alone have had sex 13 times.

meaning my body count is 13 already just for January alone.

girlfriend left to school last 2 weeks, and I picked it up with side chicks and friends with benefits from where I stopped.



The thing is I would really love to practice semen retention, but I can't go without sex with a lady for 48 hour's max.


please how do this monks do it?

13 body count in January alone...??
My brother...how will you truly settle down when your body is already used to jumping around the place



Semen retention kii you dia..

yinkkus:
First and foremost get this right, I emphasized gay sex to tell you what gay simply is, we call them gay simply because of their act and emphasized they are not necessarily transgender.
You said transgender people are not part of those who suffer wrong sex allocation at birth, you are absolutely wrong! go and do your research carefully before you discuss issues.
And don't get it wrong, I didn't say intersex and transgender are the same, I have read beyond that to mix them up , I only said they have a thing in common in that they don't conform to their allocated sex at birth.
And I say once again go and do your research carefully and come back with your argument.
Intersex/hermaphrodites are not the only ones with biological issues, you are absolutely wrong! you've not read well, go and read deeply.
The inner feelings you said is inside their head is enhanced by biological effect.
The hormone and brain structures have been discovered to be some of the distinctive features between transgender and cisgender individuals (those who conform to their gender).
I have no business with that if you say transgender are usually gay, all I know is transgender is different from gay, transgender can also be bisexual, (e.g Bob Risky sleeping with Tonto Dikeh and also sleeping with Daddy Freeze).
It's majorly about the non - conforming feeling even without sexual attraction or act., don't be too forward.
An individual can be disturbed within because he/she is not comfortable or conforming with his/her gender as a result of one issue or the other and that's what he/she we love to address first, not necessarily because of sex or sexual attraction, the issue of sex may come next.
Try and develop a mind of science rather than dirty mind, mind of hatred (sexist) or being a prude.
You may be heterosexual, but when you are not calm and not inquisitive and hostile to other (minority) group as result of their sex difference, then you are a sexist.
We shouldn't pass premature or wrong judgement, there was a time society were hostile to albinos, dwarfs and twins until knowledge, science and sense found them.
Not that I condone some acts but how can I stop easily an act that is pushed from within, all I need to show is love and understanding, and if you are a pastor, you can perform your miracle either through laying of hands, handkerchief or olive oil if it's possible not by condemnation especially when the action is not voluntary.

I am not hostile towards anyone..the problem with you people is like u don’t like to hear criticism and the truth...
.if anything, I feel pity for transgenders....it’s a life of pain and discomfort that could have been averted by dealing the issues from within...because the dysphoria or non identification with their biological gender is all in their head....

Finally...go and look at the meaning of sexist.
Our topic here is transgenders...and my point is that they don’t need to all the stress they are putting themselves through....

so stop saying nonsense in a confident way. I am no sexist...

Mosdii... over to you

yommen:
She should go empty-handed? Lies! He should thank his stars say no be sane country him dey. He'll lose lots more due to divorce.

You jump into conclusion....
How did u arrive at going empty-handed from returning a house worth billions...who said anything about going empty handed

duro4chang:
Make him return the toto himself don bleep nau.

What is this one saying??
Return Toto??
Atiku can’t return Toto just as she can’t return his penis...

All read is gifted me, give me, given to me...
what did you buy with your money...??

Everything is sexually transmitted...now u are leaving him, u want to be straffing another man inside the house he bought.... is like witchcraft is worrying you...

Gerrard59:
You're comparing yourself - a citizen of the world's poverty capital - to a German or Italian?

You lots are comedians.

the nigga

don’t be condescending, the comparison there is the same t4 visa issues to every student..

If they don’t expect us to work...why give us work permit and now make life hell by saying you must have a year’s up keep....to me, it’s plain ridiculous...

Ekeeyhandsome:
Lol this is ridiculous..
First, u need to tell us which part in igboland, hopefully someone from there will give us an insight about the traditions there.

I am igbo from Anambra nd this is my first time hearing about this whole nonsense..

This is the first time you are hearing an Igbo family is exploiting the man that wants to marry their daughter?? Na so!!

My brother married an Igbo woman ...

After collecting 1million naira bride price, and all the usual yam, oil, holandis and the so on..
they told my brother to paint their house, buy new sowing machine for the tailor mum, give the brothers and sisters money in envelop.

That ddnt even pain us.. what was irritating was they came to their own daughters wedding like an invited outsider....

They didn't cook anything or arrange drinks for their guest, yet they nearly invited the whole village, including Catholic Church members in that area...see crowd like judgement day....

They asked for everything, I mean everything...

.from water to coke, to toothpick, and serviette paper ...and still add the effrontery to complain that my mum could not transfer cooler of food to them to serve themselves

On the traditional wedding day, one guy came to stop the wedding saying he took care of the girl when the father was sick and incapacitated ... that he will collect a whole goat before the ceremony will continue...we begged him to collect the cash equivalent and he demanded for 18k....

I have never seen anything like that before.. it was horrible..

osuofia2:
PUT 100 NAIRA IN EACH OF THE ENVELOPE

My nigga

Invictuse:
Are your undergrad here not the ones into yahoo so will then be difference btw them n those going abroad. All those caught with Invictus were they illiterate ??

How can u say all undergrads going abroad for masters and PhD are into yahoo....


Since we have been entering without the so called POF....how many crime have these masters and PhD student committed in the UK..

Invictuse:
Any countries that truly care about the welfare of it country will not grant Nigeria easy access to their country. It is what SA is suffering today doing brother's keeper n allowing all sort of riffraff into their country.

Nobody told them before they buckle up.

So our graduates going for masters and PhD are riffraffs??

Mrshape:
Thanks this woman shock me today o. I come day think say them send am come

They pay them per vaccination....
Very small money...

So she dey look say una don pour sand inside her garri

DrFunmisticGlow:
yeah right. She's happy for now.
Rihanna's baby daddy hasn't dropped his other shoe yet. Even Beyonce wasn't spared.

Very soon some white girls will start coming out, claiming to be pregnant for him.

But I didn't lie. It is better to be single than settle for a guy below you that will still fuckup anyways

It doesn't have to be a billionaire, anyone one my level and above will do.

Western celebrity marriages don’t last on a normal day. It has nothing to do with dating higher or lower level....
By the way...What do you even mean by low level... is the guy a beggar on the street, or a plate washer in a restaurant...they are both musicians, age mates, so becos he’s not as rich as Rihana makes him lower...
Na medical degree make you this superficial?

ednut1:
i was referring to their mindset. Na borrow many of us borrow like you said.

Thank God you know say na borrow...and heaven has not fall since our people don dey enter..

so my point is, at least for the student visa category ...i just feel it’s ridiculous to expect someone to have money for a whole year’s upkeep...

Sometimes, the stiffer the rules the more you will attract people willing to do anything to bypass them...na the yahoo boys wey dem no want in the first place dem go open doors for.

ednut1:
a country like malaysia that opened doors for us that year what happened. Yahoo and drug baron Nigerians flooded the place. A student with tuition or upkeep money is a dangerous or risky person. He may turn to crime to survive. Many of these countries only want Nigerians that are useful to them which is fine

Listen to urself?? How many Nigerian actually have their whole upkeep money for a year with them when entering the uk... virtually none.
99% borrows the money and return it after visa approval...

So since many Nigerians graduates have been entering the UK without tuition, working to pay and survive ....what has happened.?? Did UK become like Malaysia..

Faisyl:
Reading.... It's never easy, but with God we will win this fight against terrorism.

There’s no winning this fight...
Religion has rigged the fight against us....

The whole north is directly and indirectly in support of the molesting and killing of anyone they tag as infidels...they are among the military, they are among the government...

na the Muslim way

If they don’t want Africans in their country, they should just say so..the discrimination is too much...

For student visa...other countries in Europe, Australia, and the like are not asked for anything like proof of funds....

Proof of funds for a while year...it’s ridiculous.... as if those other Europeans students don’t come and work when they get to the UK to pay for their upkeep and even tuition...

As if that’s not enough..they even angry we borrow the money to keep in our accounts for 28days.... let them just say they don’t want Africans