₦airaland Forum

blinking001:
The fact that he slept with another woman outside of his marriage does not necessarily mean he cheated on his wife. Men don't cheat. They only exercise options. Sammy Okposo was only exercising his options. He never cheated on his wife. Women are the only gender that cheats.
I find it really surprising that he had to apologise to his wife and the public for a crime he never committed. Masculinity has gone to the dogs.

manmade:
I don't know why you guys like to over rate sex and consider it solely from the side of a lady , from the short description of the man it's obvious that he is not the sex starved type and in fact a guy like him has every golden opportunity of getting pretty girls to bed on regular basis if he so wish, so what's the fuse about spreading legs, sex is a two ways action as the lady spread legs the man is climbing legs too , no one is having advantage over the other.

TechSpecialist:
It's been 23 years bro.
Stop being too emotional

IboHausaYoruba:
Hmmn! The deed has been done, let's forget and forge ahead. May Allah continue to comfort Abiola's family.

blackaxe78:
Dogs don’t give birth to goats.

AdesewaAde:
If a married man makes you happy,stay with him,do whatever makes you happy,you own nobody any explanation.

Btw,I thought we all agreed to mind our businesses this year

shutupareyouGOD:
Pls did you get a court order to block his account…my bank is not helping matters

MaxInDHouse:
It's you who is saying "only JW" because Jesus actually said there will be false religionists claiming CHRISTIANS {Matthew 7:21-23} and false religious leaders misleading many! Matthew 24:11

That's why Jesus emphasized on IDENTIFYING MARK of his own group! John 13:34-35, 15:12

So whoever wants to debunk or dismiss Jesus' statement on IDENTIFYING MARK of his true disciples need to watch himself if he truly love JESUS because that name is heard both far and near but there is lots of contradictions making it difficult for anyone to know what Jesus really asked his disciples to keep doing as their assigned duty!

MaxInDHouse:
It's not about JW but what Jesus commanded that stands as the IDENTIFYING MARK of his group! Act 1:8

MaxInDHouse:
There are over 41,000 sects claiming Christians with contradicting teachings and conflicting doctrines in the name of denominations.
Each of them have practical application of their brand of Christianity.
Going to Church (worship centers) to pray, sing, dance, shout some slogans and pay some dues.
Anyone attending such centers can claim being a Christian since those worshiping there called the place "Church"
But when Jesus commissioned this movement he ordered his followers to carry out a task which inhabitants of Antioch noticed before they called Jesus' disciples "CHRISTIANS" {Act 11:26} So what are the "ACTS" as in "PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS" that you and your co-worshipers engage to prove that you're also one of the "CHRISTIANS"
Remember the group is called "CHRISTIANS" so you must be recognized with the group practicing what Jesus laid down before you can truly claim you belong to CHRIST.
There is no isolation in this case!

PoliteActivist:
Yes, I'm comming up with the scenarios because you are so emphatic. Unless you know the full story, don't be so emphatic. Some sisters stopped being sisters long ago - mortal enemies.

micflo28:
Better accept him but with conditions that he must not treat you the same way he treated your sister. It’s better you accept him than fall into the hands of this small broke boys using girls for ritual. See this as an advice from a brother. These evil days, choose your men carefully.

PoliteActivist:
You can't be so emphatic because you don't know the full story. Suppose, for whatever reason, the sister is enthusiastically for it? Or suppose the sister was evil towards her and it is pay back time

Kriss216:
This one never ready to become president

PoliteActivist:
So if the sister and the parents enthusiastically support it, and the girl and the ex want it, what exactly will be your basis?

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Timoleon:
As much as I do understand the message you are trying to pass, please avoid putting up stats if you won’t put up factual figures or at least copy the reference correctly.

Nigeria’s total population is estimated at about 209 million. I wonder where you found your almost 200 million unfortunate graduates.

Secondly, the document you are supposedly getting your info from estimates the Nigerian labour force to over 80million and not 35 million.

To put things into more perspective, the same document puts the BA/Bsc/Bed/Hnd demography as having the least unemployed percentage of 19% which is contrary to your claim that people without tertiary education are doin better. Never attended school? 36% unemployed, below primary school? 26.6% unemployed, primary school? 31% unemployed, junior secondary school? 31% unemployed, vocational and commercial? 26% unemployed, Senior Secondary school? 25% unemployed.

None of these support your claim that non graduates are doing better than graduates. What you could however argue is that a person does not have to be a graduate to make it in life. Also for the most part of it, what we call employment in this part of the world for majority of the labour force is tantamount to slavery. The minimum wage is still 30k/month and for secondary school leavers and lower, majority earn far below the minimum wage and this puts your concept of “gainfully employed “ into question.

cococandy:
Not you trying to justify horrendous behavior.

By your logic women deserve to beaten for following the patriarchy societal norm of men being providers? An expectation y’all created and forced onto women? Going as far as indoctrinating women to focus on supporting men’s dreams while aiming to tailor their lives accordingly? Who created this social order of men supposedly being the provider?

Now they deserve to be beaten for doing what you expect from them?

cococandy:
Imagine having this type of mentality at such a young age. Courtesy of the things they are taught and how they are raised

yinkkus:
Go and read up or study more "LGBTQI plus" especially in this case "transgender and intersex"; there is nothing like "gay man who is not contented with his anatomy" you should call it it's name "transgender" and that's how they feel, they feel the other gender and it's not voluntary. And it's a lie that all who went through such surgery can never have a good feeling.
If you say they are not many of such in the world, it's either you are ignorant or you are a sexist.