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BoredBerry:
AdvanceDNA wouldn't see this...

Btw... This thread isn't about the women, but the fathers and their relationships with their children

What’s your point exactly......u are fighting for women, that men should be blamed instead??

Bothe parties are involved in the sex, why should the women be free from blame??

BoredBerry:
Lol...

So the many threads and comments calling single mothers "baby mamas"... Negatively stereotyping them; loud, rude, likely to have sex with the father of their child(ren), desperate, etc... Blaming them for the actions of the man...

You saw nothing?

It's alright... You're not worth wasting my time and data on...

You haven't come across threads and comments shaming them, it's cool...

Baby mama, baby daddy... since when did these term become an insult... it’s not even a term invented in Nigeria so I don’t get what your issue is....u are just trying to bring issues where there are no issues...all I asked you is where is the proof where single mothers are shamed.... but all u have is “baby mama”

BoredBerry:
Typical... I didn't mention marriage, why do you keep bringing it up?

Did I suggest anywhere in my writeup that you should date a single mother? Most of you here are poor, young men who can't even feed themselves... I wouldn't curse any single mother with your kind...

Yes, on Nairaland... Y'all go about shaming them... You're not aware?

You are just talking trash...who’s shaming single mothers?? Someone comes here saying he wants to marry a single mother, people give their advice based on experience..u come here to call it shaming.... where are the threads where people shame them?? Please bring the evidence.

All I see in your comment is insult...yet you are trying to form considerate and caring for kids

MufasaLion:
I'm gonna move any offender to Mercury and the law-abiding humans to Mars (I will make it inhabitable more than Earth).

Lol—mercury...
Na condemning be your own...
So where is the place of forgiveness and second chances??...

BoredBerry:
Another stupid comment...

I didn't tell you to marry them... I didnt even tell you to like them...

My point is simple: most of you redpillers tend to focus on the single mothers, ignoring the children... While you shame and persecute her, you delibrately forget that the actions of the man leaves lasting scars on his children... Or the children do not matter, if they did... You would hold these deadbeat father's account... The way you love to point out the faults of single mothers, you would do the same with him...

You are just saying nonsense ...
Redpillers focus on single mother and neglect the child?? U people just drag redpillers into everything... anybody that is cautious about the relationship they going into is now a redpiller.

If I don’t want to marry a single woman what’s my business with the man who left her or her child.....U are talking as if people just go about shaming single mothers...

Na trash full your talk

U people like just guilt-tripping people for their choice...

Even these single mothers want men that are single without kids...does that not tell you nobody wants baggages of other people even those that have baggages of their own...

Let the owner of the child worry about their child abeg

Wait....are there no single women out there you can start your life with??

What’s all these baggage you want to start your life with??

Even the woman you are talking about prefers you without any baggage....hence her strategy of not telling you about her child

Be wise..go and look for single like you

Alligator??
16 pieces...
What manner of sorcery is this ??

Candidlady:
Really hate to ask this....

But since its you ama ask anyways.... The bull iknow would post receipt abi no receipt or you have trashed it?

U go like violence .....lol

illicit:
Dem don scam u

In kubwa here, that thing is 1200

Comrade...why you dey loud am naaa

everythinggirly:
Unintentionally cheat? Will you keep quiet?

Lol...Unintentional

AKWATGOLD1:
Why do they not block number plate at the back.

You go like violence

nigerianrevolut:
Ah! That reminds me sir. Can he take the NFF football fans club route during the Dubai World Cup this year?

Dubai is not US oooo...
If you no get valid work visa for Arab country na gobe be that ooo

Opsylo:
Why do you want to suffer your self,why can't you start something like business with that Amount,

It’s like you ddnt read the part where he said family contributed 500k out of the money..

That kind of money doesn’t sound like dash money ooo...they will expect returns ooo

nigerianrevolut:
Thank you for sharing your thoughts sir.

Could you please suggest any country he could try?

Na Dubai remain ooo...
But work visa has been crazy lately because of our reputation out there..

He can chill abit till things get better in Dubai that will be his best option

nigerianrevolut:
Please please and please I need serious answers. This is not a joke. Thank you in advance.

It’s not enough to travel to the good countries most people dream of going ..
.however if he has someone that can help him soft-land i.e accommodate him, feed him for a while, show him the ropes on how to get jobs, he might be able to pull it off with a visit or tourist visa...

but that’s not easily accessible in most countries now because of covid... na education most people dey use...and 1million can not runs education visa

Simplelion:
Na you perform the abortion huh, are you the doctor?

Sexually active girls and abortion na 5 and 6..

All those ones wey don born seff don do abortion tire before them decide to leave the one you met them with...
.all that “it’s my first time, he took my virginity and got me pregnant, and I’ve never had sex since then...na 1998 format...e don cast tey tey..

Simplelion:
Would you choose someone who has aborted 19times at the age of 19yrs for a married man over her?

Who told you the woman in question has not aborted plenty times??

Lgbtq lies...

Wait?? U have Nigerian parents.. as in Nigerian parents??...and you are angry they treat you like a child at 18?? Are you alright..??.

I’m older than you.. and my mum still treats me like I’m 12....

She packs food and soup inside cooler when I visit home...pack anti-malaria, paracetamol and vitamin C reminding how AA can have malaria every 2 minutes
and she will still come and visit the following week....

u dont know anything... u can never grow up in the eyes of a Nigerian parent ...better get used to it...


see this one ooo...ordinary 18...
U think say na UK you dey..

ivolt:
Don't be misled.
Not everyone is made for relationship or marriage.
Now that you have discovered who you are, find someone similar to you who
also is not interested in serious relationship.
With that person, you can be playing cat and mouse without guilt.

What you are currently doing is reprehensible.

That’s the thing...people like the op don’t date others like them....they understand what being hurt and jilted means...
they don’t want it to happen to them....they like to do the jilting and walking away after enjoying intimacy and before things gets serious in the relationship..

They want the feeling of being loved for a while...they just don’t want the serious commitment of relationship.... if you ask me, i’ll Say it’s small witchcraft mixed with a psychological problem deeply rooted in fear of being hurt ..


U are just using good English to qualify him that he’s not built for relationships....

scottyoloye:
Please, I want to know if I can use IELTS general training for masters application In Germany

Nope