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Ishilove:
People taking their friends for granted, according to you is a "woman's behaviour". So men don't disrespect their friends too? Are you listening to yourself?

Noah9:
I want to thank everyone for their advice and I really appreciate everyone involvement about the thread I created 2week ago. Here is the link.
https://www.nairaland.com/6933724/regretted-actions-please-me

Great people of this forum, honestly things have never been better ever since that incident and I wish our minds are like show glass so that y'all would see how sorry I am inside of me. I messed up and I'm really sorry.

5 days after I created that post above, My wife traveled with my daughter to her parents house to stay without telling me. Since that incident my wife haven't said a word to me, Not a single word. Sometimes I wonder if she's the same woman I married. I'm frustrated, incoherent and I'm losing my mind.

I've been good to her, I provide 85% for my family while she bring just 15% yet I don't complain, I'm romantic and good looking, since we married I don't keep female friends not to talk of cheating. Yet She denied me sex over 2 months without any reasons, that was why I acted that way and I'm so sorry.

On Tuesday here, My friend and I traveled to her parents house, they did not even welcome us well, I don't know what she must have told her parents but I explained myself, knelt down and asked for forgiveness.

She refused to come home with me, her parents were just starring at me like I'm some demon, I requested for my daughter but she refused to release her and I've already paid my daughter's school fees for the term. Her parents said they would register my daughter in a new school, that my wife need some space for now.

Please don't call me a weak man, I'm family oriented, I don't want broken home, if she needed some space that's not a problem, I can give her all the space in the world but let her come home. It's not proper raising a child in a broken home...I'm really losing my mind.

I faced query today at work because I traveled without informing my Boss which I know he won't allow me and I know how much would be deducted from my salary. what I'm going through now I can't wish my enemies and I wish I could turn back the hands of time. I messed up.

Beloveth Pls I need advice.

Iyaebe:
Only a foolish woman denies her husband sex for no conc and genuine reasons, you should have ignored her and also refuse her when she starts showing interest, I so much hate it when a woman messes up a good man for no reasons especially if he takes care of her needs. Why are you even begging? Stop those nonsense apologies and act like a man,sometimes I like some of the teachings of the redpill, I hate weak men and they can never attract me.You've already apologized to her,stop going to her parents house to act like a simplyton,please read some of the redpill nuggets and apply it but don't add bitterness to it,it will help you act and reason like a real man.Moderator lalasticlala move to front page let nairalanders see my comment and know that I'm not biased and I have wisdom and very sensible too,let them also know that I'm just entertaining them with most of my comments.

Nonexisting:
No, I disagree. She tried because you and I know that in this country, there's little or no potential in a boy who claims to be a footballer because the society we live in misjudge them to be riffraffs. So for her to have stayed with him shows she is one of the rare ones. I believe there are still good women but I'll rather not take the risk to meet them than risk everything only to meet the bad ones.

Ishilove:
I don't understand this story. Op sees the girl in question as a sister, but he got mad when she went on a date with another man. Since you don't have any intimate dealings with her why are you now upset that she is being intimate with other men? Were you catching feelings??

Abi na me no read the story well?

rollykotex:
Thank you so much

techmo:
What's the business of a teeth with politics and governance if not idleness, pettiness and childish tantrums

Kollins11:
Nigerians need a man like Tinubu who is intellectual, versatile and very suited for the job. Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights. Are we not proud of Lagos State??

Please Nigerians let us vote for Tinubu, he's still young and healthy. He's just 69 yrs old.

pretydiva:
Is the person that made the statement still alive? Just checking o. I come in peace

Mabel45:
I don't block my exes, infact I don't block people, instead we view status and pass, in same way I don't want to block him too. And I don't like this his pestering attitude.

SonOfEl:
If men had accused all Nigerian women for engaging into paternity fraud and for being prostitutes because of one lady's atrocious behavior, how would you feel?

The problem with your type is that you allow emotions get into your head thereby clouding your reasoning

jesvic91:
NFF should go to Genot Rohr's house and sack that man again

ednut1:
so i no fit send am to friends wey wan japa ni

ednut1:
Drop the story and quit all these signify interest o

Veetee:
Good day everyone
I am trying to sell my car, Toyota Camry (muzzle)2011. But buyers refuse because of custom papers, please where and what is the cost of getting custom papers.

Seunelvis:
Baba, I still dey trenches in Abj, Nigeria . I got the admission this last December but the scholarship didn't work, if not I should be in UK cos we are supposed to resume on 24th of January . But we go again this year. Just get cheap schools in UK and most of them don't require you to pay all at ones. I don't know if student loan is available to international students in UK. E go be, I just know this is my last year in this country. Check Hertfordshire University and University of Kent, UK, with 2m you will leave this country; £2000 for CAS and £450 for Visa then get proof of funds. Yeah 2m will take you to UK with this two schools, then you pay the rest in instalments.

Morningblues:
Because gay couples are a normal part of life…… you got a problem with it? Then don’t watch their movies.
As simple as that and There's Africa Magic Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo. Stick to that.


It’s called inclusivity and representation. It doesn’t only apply to gay people, just say you’re homophobic. There are Asian Americans, people with disabilities, black people, etc.

kayuseful:
Do you have to sit ielts to gain admission to UK schools?
No
Except perhaps you didn't pass English in waec, in which case, it's justifiable

sugarbeesmith:
you need spiritual counselling and deliverance at all. But you haven't really stated the reason why u want to leave him.

zimdante:
Yes yes yes, thank the gods that i am here on nairaland , na me be okala mmadu okala mmou( half man half spirit), i have heard all you said , you come to the right place.

The solution is simple, you have to retake or re enter another blood convenant with your new lover, so as to nolify and render impotent the initial one.
When this is done you can bleep the shit out of his lover boy head.

Peradventure you fell out of love with him, repeat the process, yes my sister you cannot bleep without blood convenant, it is what it is, thank you.

Rayjnr:
I no understand, u can't still make love to another person,. As in ur towtow no go wet for another preek?

Truvelisback:
Why do u want to break the covenant and dump him? How would u feel, if he was the one doing this to u? Did he maltreat u?

cococandy:
It’s her body she doesn’t owe it to anyone

I encourage a healthy sexual relationship that’s pleasurable to both partners. Not one where it’s a chore or a duty to be performed for sake of the man.

Savage101:
No mind am so we way don day for like 4months no sex waytin make we do ?

cococandy:
Coming from men who ask women what they bring to the table when they can’t go a few weeks without trying to get between a woman’s leg.

I was reading some comments on that thread where the wife was denying her husband sex. It was really amusing to see how heated some men got from the idea of not having sex for a few weeks. Some likened it to torture. Some said the woman deserves to die for being wicked. I don’t think there was any of kind of I’ll word that wasn’t used to describe that lady.

Ah ah. So our body is worth that much yet they have the nerve to ask what women bring to the table. Smh

Ishilove:
So what will you say about people who can go up to a year without sex?? Toh