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sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

wentroublecomes:
Just tell me you're an atheist and I'll free you jeje.
Even if you're passing through difficult time doesn't mean you'll speak ill of God who created you.

wentroublecomes:
How do I drag God into the matter?
Someone that call himself an enemy of God. Think about that.
Also, even if I love sex and women, I can never be dumb like OP. Maybe such tins can happen to u sha

JustStupidity:
People that killed Sylvester are his fellow kids. So they're innocent, they don't know anything. And for the fact that you can spare and pamper Terrorist, then you've no other option than to spare them

wentroublecomes:
I can see why you're so dumb. U called urself an enemy of God and you think God won't make you suffer for that. That's why God is punishing u.
Be a friend to God and ask for him to restore back Ur brain to u. Our God is merciful. He'll forgive you and give u back your brain.

ngoziwrites:
So the man that opened his own legs under two minutes should be praised?

You place too much emphasis on sex. Grow up. He gets in in a year or under 1 minute. That doesn't change a thing.

And u must be terribly blind. What part of my write up says I want him to decide whether he wants me or not in 2 months.

I am sure you are a 200 level kid somewhere. Read in between the lines next time.

And don't come here to dump your frustrations over a thread that you cannot comprehend.

Now follow the fools ahead. Run along!

MartinsD12:
Don't say you are not asking him to marry you , it's entirely not true , if you not asking him to marry you why raise the question of him getting married in a year or two , I read the post before putting out my opinion , am just being honest enough , if you don't want him to marry you then let him take his time , do the dating , have fun that's all , but marriage is not something anyone can force on any body.

NovesaTillie:
Are you gay?

You sound gay.
Waste of pinis.

Come let's spend some time together.
I give you 2 months you'll be talking about getting married.

ngoziwrites:
So, I met this great guy online. After 2 weeks, we met in person and everything was perfect.

It's almost 2 months since we have been together.

He asked me out while we were together and I gladly said yes. (I have met a lot of players�). So while we were together, a discussion popped up and he said he can't discuss anything related to marriage until after 6 months. I pretended not to hear.


I don't know his financial capacity but I know he is doing okay. He controls the family business. They sell trucks, trailers and all. He is also a landlord in one of his father's houses at Festac. We stayed at a hotel. 25k per night. He paid for 2 night and I paid for one night. But during these times, we went to his house.

He said he didn't want me to come to see his place because it's the first time. And he said the house is very hot too.


Our communication is great but he doesn't look like he wants marriage soon. He has said things like marriage is hard work. He has also said in 10 years time, people will hardly be getting married.

Then one night, we were talking and he said I "see my wife as my responsibility"
I will take care of her and of cos, I am okay but I will still be very very rich, so I can't bring in any woman to suffer now" .. That's what I am sure I heard but I was scared to ask him to explain further or repeat himself.

He is actually okay, he has two cars but importantly, he has sense and he is very hard-working. But he is very principled and we have actually had several instances where he doesn't pick my calls at night. It happens often but I am starting to trust him, because sometimes I call by 5am and he picks and says he slept off. Sometimes we would be chatting on WhatsApp and after I call him 20 minutes later, he won't respond. He is not married!

So, I currently earn 450k monthly and I have been able to save something meaningful, so I can start a good business before getting married or after. I haven't stated because I don't know which one yet. I started a restaurant business when I was 23 but it failed.

If I ask him and he says 1 year, of course, I can wait. I will be 26 years next year April.

We will seeing for the 2nd time next week. I plan to ask him when he sees himself getting married but I am scared and the way he carries himself makes me reluctant to ask such.

About two weeks ago, I wanted to even surprise him with gifts. I asked for his account number and office/home address. (He picked me up the last time I traveled to see him, so I don't know the address". Well, he didn't give me these details. He said when it's time I will have them.


Two days ago, he said a friend's younger brother is getting married. He laughed and said people just dey marry. He has once asked me "You dey find husband?" jokingly-

I would like to settle before 27. Is it bad that I am thinking this way? If he says he is looking to get married in 2-3 years, i think it's a bit far. 2023 is still fine. But the problem is he doesn't really sound like marriage is on his mind. He will be 32 next year April too.

We vibe a lot. But he says I love you sparingly. Sometimes I say it and he doesn't respond, he will say tomorrow I will tell u or no, I told u yesterday.

But we are really really cool. I like him a lot and he likes me but I think I like him more. He gives me attention, I don't have to ask.

If I was 23, I won't have a problem waiting 3-4 years. But since I am ready mentally, financially, I am looking for someone who wants it within 6 months to 1 year. I can still try to do 2 years if I get someone great.

CSTRR:
It's when you compare the potential of the company.

Mobile apps in America are selling for billions of dollars.

They just don't rate us.

It is like when you give a child N10 in 5 places after collecting N1000 note from him.

angelfallz:
Not everything is about money.

Zooposki:
Africans selling themselves to the west. SMH for the weak Black man.

Blaqstick:
Hasiba police will soon carry her
She no cover her head.

Ayobiggie59:
Medical personnel in the house pls come to my aid.

For about two days I've been having headaches, fever, and body pains.....i took ibucap on sat evening and I was ok on Sunday morning as if nothing happened to me d previous day.

On Sunday evening d pain started again and I took another dose of ibucap and after 3 hours d pain drastically reduced.

This morning I took a dose of ibucap and I was alright throughout d time I was at work.

Now, this evening d pain has started again. Pains all over my body. I've taken d ibucap again but I want permanent solution pls.

B4 u say go to the hospital, I'm not financially buoyant at this time at all. Pls doctors and pharmacists in d house, what do u think I'm suffering from, and prescribe d drug I can buy to use pls.

God bless you.

Krak:
I think because Sniper is arguably the most popular insecticide in Nigeria, fake and substandard ones have started popping up

rosebase:
Where can i get this nopest and how much is it

Krak:
So what do we use now instead of Sniper?

koolaid87:
Yet, its people's choice when it comes to suicide

Krak:
One drop of your fake Nigerian Sniper will kill a scorpion instantly. I know this because I have done it several times.

Infact that your fake Nigerian Sniper will keep killing any scorpion that comes into that environment for at least four days. I know this because I once lived inside a compound infested with scorpions.

So, Nigerian Sniper is not fake.

lomprico:
Naim e dey kill heart broken lovers all the time they take it?

phorget:
If fake sniper fit dey kee human being anyhow I wonder waiting original one go come do o

Ikem11:
Even though he did wrong am still proud of him as human for realising such a mistake he did. Not every man will feel guilty for such act.

He should make peace with God and his mind and never indulge in it again

rosebase:
How do i get this

MummyD2020:
Zuze