₦airaland Forum

Meektunz:
As a guy, lets assume i sleep with a married woman and did a video of her naked on the bed and later thought of blackmailing her with the video by threatening to send it to her husband. What are the implications and will it work or not? What are the legal implications if she involues the police? Lastly if there are legal implications, what if i don't do it directly and decide to involve a third party to make me look innocent claiming i lost my phone at gun point. Before you think it is me, no guys. I equally saw the question in a facebook group i belong to.

skedy1:
@the bolded. Just listen to yourself.

This whole marriage thing sha

9182736455O1999:
Guy you dey loose guard o.

if you no wan do work abeg gimmie location.

TrollKiller:
When a man scams a woman to marry him by tricking her into thinking he is financially well off, it’s seen by women as SCAM. The woman leaves, no problem.

When a woman scams a man to marry her by changing her DOB, putting so much makeup that you won’t even know her real face and so on and the man leaves after seeing the truth, it is seen by women as ABANDONMENT

SAME CRIME

SAME GENDER

DOUBLE STANDARDS

toujurs:
Shut up, you are the one. You are a prostitute, An ashawo thats what you are. A very big shame on a worthless bitch like you. To even think your parents took you to school, only for you to become a sperm bank for men, makes it so bad. See the way boys are tossing you, any ow. Chai so sad You must really be hungry, i doubt a hardworking lady would be treated this, go and find work and do and stop opening your thighs for money, Am not saying you shouldn't have sex if you want to, have some self worth

Avviala:
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Was a side chick to my ex. After an abortion and heartbreaks, he ended it. I moved on and started dating someone else. Now he came back to apologize and all...and I went back. I feel guilty that I'm cheating on my boyfriend with the person that hurt me badly. But I love him and I don't love my boyfriend. I think my boyfriend knows I'm cheating on him. I don't know how to break up with him. I don't even know if I should break up with him and follow my ex. My ex shows me that he loves me and I feel more connected to him. My ex claims he has ended things with his girlfriend but I don't even know how true that is. Advice please.

Note : this is not my story. It's a friend. So your insults would not reach her.[/color]

artimisfowler:
And house help is a fowl language in your village abi? Nigerian mentality has made us lose the intended meaning of words, we twist everything.

I think breaking sentences apart will help eg. House = domestic, help = assist/assistant. So you can’t assist your spouse domestically? Or help your parents around the house? Anyone can be a house helper especially when it’s not their legal home. Next time make distinctions btw helper and maid, servant or slave, choice of words make a difference.

artimisfowler:
Be catching cruise with someone’s cousin e fit be yours tomorrow and hope sey you go post her photo and address?

WoundedLamb:
Lol... I've never read something more Nigerian than this. What evidence do you have to support this your statement? You authoritatively explained what the staged crime was meant to achieve, who staged it and who fell for it as if you were in a closed door meeting with the stakeholders, yet these are all assumptions that appeal to your line of thoughts.

This idea of calling out the entire herd (tribe, religion, gender, etc.) cause of one person's activity is so Nigerian. It makes zero sense. I'm very sure you already know this cause I perceive you to be smart. You really think Jussie as an individual had the job of the manipulating the laws of the United States of America? And who exactly is the leftist? You think the US government would execute such a poorly scripted show if they really wanted to pass any laws in favour of gay people? Jussie Smollett is a celebrity. In show business, media attention is singularly the most important element. He had a show coming up and there was also a rumour that the Empire team was going to remove him from the show. The most logical assumption here is that he needed the attention to either promote his own show or gain public support against the Empire team.

Celebrities go far and beyond to get attention and simply because this particular celebrity is gay, y'all have gathered to drag gay people to thier graves. We have 9,999 stories about straight people commiting crimes or coming up with attention seeking schemes and then we see that one story where the person is gay and suddenly, we believe it makes sense to cook up theories that tie his activities to all the gay people in the world? You are the same people that protested against stereotyping/profiling barely a year ago. How you really think Jussie Smollett's lifestyle is a yardstick to determine how gay people all the over world should be perceived baffles me. Imagine someone saying Buhari is straight so straight people aren't good leaders or that Okwy is a drug dealer so Igbos are drug dealers. Or you think the gay boy in Asaba was in a whatsapp group where the so-called community planned this attack?

Brother, taking the slightest opportunity to take a swipe at people who are different from you is not a very logical way to advance your perspective. Your statements promote discrimination against a group of people who may not even know who Jussie Smollett is and it's not an honorable thing to do. Call out the individual in question, leave his tribe, race, religion, sexuality, etc. That lifestyle hasn't gotten Nigeria anywhere.

WoundedLamb:
To get media attention? This one is hard for me to wrap my head around. This guy has had the spotlight since he was a kid. He was in the middle of a very successful show. What kind of attention was he seeking?

Sad.

Favfables1:
He's feeling less than a man because his wife slapped him and he didn't slap her back?? Really? So what if he slapped her back, how would he feel, more than a man?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
On this same nairaland I have seen cases of men coming with stories of the hell their wives are raising at home and what do you hear? People will be saying they can't comment without hearing the other side of the story. SMH.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
You do not have enough evidence to reinforce the bolded claim.
What is it that leads to the verbal abuse from him? Are we sure she is not sharp tongued like him? It is funny how "verbal abuse" suddenly became a crime, something men have lived with for eons. Well, I only responded to your post after seeing the same pattern in most of the advice given to the woman. I know nobody will give the man such nice advice of he got her, everyone will tell her to run for her life.

Kanto47:
E be like say de tin dey work o. E get ok one woman like dat for neighborhood wia dey run im mouth wit de husband anyhow, but de day de husband slap am small all de demons run comot im body and since dat day she no dey rant again lie lie. Madam u do well, im brain don dey correct now

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
If the husband slapped her would you give the same advice?

QuickStandard:
Hope if the table was turned, you will say this same rubbish

Bennysam:
To slap dey hungry me, can't you see that the man is avoiding her ? She should not go straight to the man for talk instead she apply tricks

Tallesty1:
This story no add up.

It's either the woman is lying or she's not a good story teller.

She started by telling us what a horrible man the husband is. I was already having doubts, wondering if she was actually telling the truth or if she was trying to make herself the victim.

Seems the later was the case because she kinda shot herself on the leg when she said that her husband always reports to her parents. He tells them everything she do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting.

What are these things she do wrong? She didn't say.

I could be wrong though but I think the OP has been abusing this man emotionally for a while now.

She got physical finally and slapped him which to her was too far. She realized it later I guess. She was hoping he would call a meeting as usual and she would be blamed as usual and everybody will go back to their house but he didn't and that scares her.

She's scared because there's something ominous behind the silence.

honeyhoney:
We finally caught the big python that is eating our fowl and justice was done to it immediately.


Pictures loading ....


Start booking your space before we got to promise land oooo

akoniyong:
why photoshop this innocent breed na.. send d original picture without filter lets observe from there

Lavisha:
Go back home bro.

That shitt is not for you.

2016 l, I got a 30k PA job in Opebi, Lagos.
The boss was an abusive rich brat, I quit after 2 weeks cos I just can't stand her bad mouthing all cos of a Job.

In 2017, I got a Job with Sumal Foods Ibadan as QC officer, makers of Biscuits and chewing Gums; never knew it was a fuckkin Indian Company.
The pay was 30k with 12hrs shifts, what broke the camel's back was I had to leave my Lagos to stay with a relative in Ibadan, it wasn't funny at all.
I lasted just 3 days ..

My dad disowned me cos of not wanting to do shitty jobs.

I kept on grinding for the right Job untill Dangote called!



Don't give up bro, you just need the right mentality.
Not everyone is fit for suffering, if you really think you belong to a better situation, Just hold on and keep grinding and praying, your turn will come.

If I can make it, you can too.

aderemielijah:
How did you manage to kill a big snake like this?

menix:
Hmm..

Even the bible no see this aspect of snake eating, the bible only say; enmity go dey btw we and snake, that if we see am, nah to crush their head but if them 1st see us, nah to bite our leg..

Who come introduce the chopping after the head crushing