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The heart of man is desperately wicked, who can know it..

This is not an issue of women not supporting women. It's an issue of humans being at the very wicked and covetous self. If a man who said his vows to his wife, who probably now has children can insult the sanctity of his marriage for another woman, why should another woman be castigated for having an affair with the said man. I think we need to stop putting the blame at the door step of the side chicks. Humans are just evil.

At the base level,there's really no similarity between the Hausa and Fulani. The only reason why you may mistake one for the other is because their history at a point got intertwined and they kinda adopted each other's culture.

No matter how we try to argue this out, she has a good point. You know the reasoning capacity of people why what they do.

Great point by Afikpo Chic.

OreMI22:
An international standard Theme park is needed for Enugu
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I thought i was the only one actually thinking of how great an Amusement park will do for Enugu. It will definitely put Enugu on the map. It's not just any kind but world class.

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

I'll tell you this as a guy...

Majority of guys who go into relationship with ladies do it mostly for sexual purposes. Once they get what they want, they're off. That's the plain truth.

However, even those that came in with sexual reasons in mind can remain in the relationships for other reasons beside sex and these reasons has a lot with what other things you have to offer as a lady. It could be monetary, it could be your behavior or even your culinary and homely skills. If you're lacking in any of these qualities then most guys will run after hitting it.

This looks pretty much like monthly allocation from the FG.

asuustrike2009:
You're missing. Bread and beans is delicious especially soft bread and hot beans to keep you warm this cold weather

You know, i always give things a benefit of the doubt. So, it's not like i haven't tried bread and beans. I', also not disputing the fact that it's not delicious. I just don't like the combo. It's kinda like hardware on hardware (homosexuality). Beans and Bread are too serious to go together.

debbycreamy:
I saw men in Bayelsa eating yam and rice with stew on it,

No biggie really. Though i do this only when i have left over rice and yam. I just mix them together and eat.

ibkayee:
Salt ke, is this a joke please?

Just water and sugar

Lol. Dey there make pant dey wear you. People drink garri with salt now and i grew up doing it. Though i've not done it for more than 10 years now.

ibkayee:
Lol I'm not a fan of milk to be fair so I' very selective with what I consume it with, it sounds weird to me

How do you drink your garri? what else do you add apart from Sugar or salt.

ALAYORMII:
You need to examine ur head if bread and beans is weird to you

You're Yoruba right?

ibkayee:
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Haba. I do this. I don't think it's that weird.

kennygee:
Indomie and bread.

Indomie and pap

Some people actually cut the bread down the middle and pour the indomie inside. Yuck!

Bread and Beans is so weird. It's just that it has become popular with Yoruba people and has been sorta normalized.

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Now i see the importance of nipples*. I think that's what makes the mammary gland a sexual object.

Sometimes, we just learn a particular way of doing things without asking the real reason. For example, i don't understand why people peel the skin of bean to make moi moi or why people don't use crayfish to cook stew.

Lai Mohammed and the federal government are just grasping at straws. For a government that have failed monumentally, it's only normal for them to look for something that will make it seem like they're working without realizing that they're compounding their woes.

Nobody reasons in this APC regime because if they do, i don't understand how you will say someone should not shoot movies and music video outside Nigeria without realizing that there are themes that will require for videos to be shot outside Nigeria. Even if for whatever reason they don't want to shoot in NIgeria, it's not anyone's business.

I don't understand exactly why people will rather remain intelligent. Let's assume that the presenter was right when he said that Igbos are not united. Let me ask "IS IT YOUR UNITY?" Why are other Nigerians so concerned about the unity of Ndigbo? Do they love Igbos so much? The idiot couldn't even get his facts right by telling us how Enugu people discriminated against Ebonyi and vice versa.

If you're not in support of Biafra especially if you're not Igbo, just have it at the back of your mind that it's not your business. if you're Igbo and you;re not in support of Biafra, it's your right not to be.

pazienza:
Everyone needs a partner, but partnership between SE and SS need not be built on vilification of Ndiigbo.

The Eyo Ita Saga was misrepresented in that opening article to create a villain of Ndiigbo that never existed, and I'd rather there be no such partnership than allow lies stand as truth to please Igbophobic entities.

If Eyo Ita was Igbo, the news would have been that Nnamdi Azikiwe used his federal might and connection to wrestle power from someone. But because Eyo Ita is a minority, the story just has to be that he wrestled power from a minority. These are thoughts that you just can't change just like how the 1966 coup was an Igbo coup. It's just what it is. If have to learn to allow it but not necessarily embrace such thoughts.

Slymonster:
The same ibusa that don't have light for years and thats where he is from..smh

So? Is his name federal government or Fashola?

Sanchez01:
Here is the crux, Enugu and Port Harcourt are not the same, just as regions are not the same. Does it not interest you to figure that Dickson was also not part of the meeting?

Besides, I believe you are educated enough to believe that all that was discussed is not really about 'recreating a pre-1967 region', far from it. Economic alliance and trade unions? Perhaps yes, but a part of suicide squad? Not the Delta I know.

So, if you understand the fact that it's just an economic alliance, why then did you make the statement about Okowa joining the group? Hasn't Delta attended these SS-SE economic integration meetings in the past?

Sanchez01:
Okowa, attending that meeting would have been suicidal for him. Delta state was never part of the Old Eastern Region, so I see no reason why they would deem it fit to include her in their quest.

Lol. I want to see what you will say when he shows up at the next meeting in port-hacourt. Suicide ko eastern region ni.

TheeDetective:
@Op, I don’t understand when people see fire and decide that until they put their hand in it and it burns them before they know that it was hot and dangerous. You have seen enough red flags to alert you that something is not right and yet you still insist to allow her remain with you. You should have carried out due diligence before she even step foot in your house and from your responses, it’s obvious you didn’t do much of that. Someone who hasn’t left her village before and is so bold to be going out of the house without your permission and that is not enough worry for you ba ok o siddon look. You do realise that safety should be your first priority concerning ANYONE that is not family that comes into your home especially when you have young children. Leave am there o until she will show you her true colors then you will know watsup. ENOUGH SAID

While i think he should have done his due diligence even before she stepped her foot into his house, i don't think anything he has said is unusual. There's really no bid deal for someone in the village speaking English. Like someone said, village means different things to different people and someone who finished SS3 can be said to be educated because secondary education is where people actually learn how to speak proper English.

It's also imperative to udnerstand the fact that the OP who has conversed with these maid before she started singing west life's song in supposed Queen English, so it may not even be that she speaks good english but just knows these songs. Even people from countries that don't speak english, sound good in the language when they're singing a song. So, like i said, these things should not raise a red flag. But the OP should still carry out some investigations.

hinohsend:
Do you want to act like you dont know the dude was booking space? SMH.

Where you lived in these places matter a lot. You're more likely to learn Yoruba and Hausa based on where you stayed in Lagos and Kaduna unlike in Enugu where you stay in a GRA. I'm sure people in GRA Ikeja are not as luucky as you in learning Yoruba.

Our problem has always been defense.

See as Brazil wan destroy our destiny. I'm not sure that aghahowa's waist will function normal after than game.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGC--XL-FiY

kuuljay:
GRA close to all saints church

When you were in Lagos where did you stay?

kuuljay:
middle belt

Ok. Where in Enugu do you stay?

madridguy:
Noted.

Is that all you can say? If it was an Igbo group now, you would have gone haywire.

kuuljay:
spent 7 years in Lagos 1994 to 2000 I can speak Yoruba very well, then I spent 6 years as an undergraduate in Zaria I can speak Hausa well,right now I have spent five years in Enugu and I can't speak no sh!t,mind you 95%communication in Enugu is Igbo. Even Chinese I believe is easier than igbo

My mother was born in Lagos but only understands, WA (come) and Oloribu. So, it's not just staying so long in a place but making a conscious effort to learn a language. You've not been able to learn Igbo because you've not made an effort to integrate properly and learn it.

Btw, where are you from?

So what has her being Igbo have to do with her being HIV| positive or spreading it? And what's the proof that she's Igbo anyways.

It's better early. her videos have not escalated that much. She can recall them somehow.