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She won’t listen |
![]() It’s unfortunate you wasted your affection, time and money on her. Many of these girls are damaged by their incredible greed, their friends and the community of women that raised/mentored them. This is why as a man, you must raise your daughter to treasure her personal dignity. A good thing you saw the truth on time. You felt you saw someone who deserved better but you were wrong. She actually desired and deserved that abuser and that’s why she left you after experiencing the peace of mind and dignity you offered. A normal person would see the contrast and choose peace but a greedy damaged person will despise your peace and treat you bad. She will stop taking your calls. She will make sure you understand that she is irritated by your presence/attention. You should not pity her. She doesn’t want your pity. Move on and be grateful it was short lived. You should not cast your pearls before swine. They will trample on them and attack you. Ideally, abusive people should not be allowed to have partners. They should remain alone for their entire lives so they won’t procreate and perpetuate the cruelty in their blood. However, anyone foolish enough to embrace their cruelty deserves whatever they get. |
Protesters are the ones who would pay in blood. These power hungry soldiers are the scum of the earth. |
What you feel is the normal initial outrage at the unfairness of it all. But do not think on it. Just enjoy this life. It’s the only one we are granted by nature and it is limited. Enjoy your life, make memories and try to forget the pain of the past. Just make sure you treat women as they deserve. No better, no less. Do not let women get unmerited favours from you. They despise men who flatter them unnecessarily. |
Nairaland babes would block you if they could. But the truth remains, you cannot have your cake and eat it. If you intend to get married later in life, you should be aware that guys naturally avoid high mileage babes when it’s time for marriage. It is what it is. If you like, continue being “sexually liberated”. |
Lilpen3758:Reduce the weed bro |
![]() Nice story |
Pataricatering:You know that is not the case these days my dear. Your outrage cannot change society. Better take my advice and save your natural resource from high mileage. Even bad boys don’t want battered goods much less decent guys like me. Kisses |
I’d be surprised if the bank has a written policy that says pregnant women cannot be recruited. Well, they may. A bank naturally wants to milk you before paying you on your maternity leave. You have to disclose it. Shouldn’t a pregnancy test be part of the medicals? |
Which kind topic lala dey post for front page today? First that Toks thread about so called “real men” marrying single mothers and now this? If you want to marry later on, believe me, your body count matters. Women don’t be deceived. If you were “sexually liberated” in your 20’s and suddenly think your man won’t mind now that you want to settle down, you will be surprised. Men that genuinely don’t mind scandalous body counts are rare. Don’t think for a second you’d meet them as soon as you’re ready to settle down. Don’t deceive yourself. There are some things that are gendered in this age. A man may have a reputation for promiscuity and it won’t affect his chances of marrying but a woman with such a reputation has a scanty array of choices for marriage and they are often unpleasant men. That’s why women hide their body count. They innately know that it will affect their chances of bagging a suitable suitor. Men and women can be equal legally but there are some privileges that they cannot share equally. The “why”, in this context, is a matter for another day. But op, na wa for you o.
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![]() I’m angry |
Toks2008:And those who decide they do not want to marry single mothers are not REAL MEN? It’s about personal principles. And wouldn’t you agree with me that a real man should stick to his principles? Good thing the yardstick for masculinity doesn’t lie in your opinion. |
Why would he lie in the first place? Some lies are not worth it. Something that can be easily verified.Good thing he graduated. Law school next. |
![]() He say na real man go marry single mother. See talk. Fake man dey? But seriously, there is nothing wrong with a man refusing to raise another man’s child. You guys need to stop demonising it.A woman’s biological clock ticks fast. It is what it is. Not all women who desire to have children in marriage will have that opportunity. For some it will boil down to a choice between being a baby mama or not having kids at all. Some guys just won’t marry you no matter how good you feel you are. They advise us guys to stop going for beauty and to pick character. Perhaps it’s time for society to find a comparable advice to give young women so they end up with good partners as early as they want. |
Frank25:My brother, I feel it’s just natural. We that are easily satisfied with what we have. Wetin person dey find outside? |
siofra: ![]() This must be one of the unknown gun women trying to snatch us from our partners. But we cannot be moved. |
Kriss216:Aswear. And girlfriends and wives are not appreciating us enough, like they don’t see what their fellow women are doing to us. I mean! You will be strolling down the street one evening or drinking at a lounge with your wedding ring on your finger and one unknown gun-woman will just come and try to steal you from your wife! Like WTF! It’s not safe out there. Single ladies are on the prowl. Men dey try. |
Kriss216:My brother, the onslaught is overwhelming. You’ll be on your own and one daughter of eve will be bringing yansh to remove your focus from heavenly race. Men are in trouble. We are under attack. |
Nairaland babes are doing as if they don’t understand how the OP got there. Biologically, compared to men, the odds are eternally stacked against women as they cross the 30 year old mark. What’s more? In today’s society where women gain almost all the benefits of marriage and divorce, more men are reluctant to marry. There is no benefit for us that a girlfriend cannot give. As long as we have unjust laws demonising a man for losing his marriage and forcing him into huge financial loss, men will always be apprehensive and they will increasingly embrace the idea of having baby mamas. Women have made marriage a big financial risk for men. And as we know, a man in financial trouble is closer to depression than ever. He cannot be paid for his looks, his gender or for having sex. He is a man. And when he is forced to work only so a lazy ex wife can collect half his earning in the name of alimony or inflated child support, he will live a very sad life. The solution for women like OP is to marry younger men who may be only after the comfort she provides. That doubt will always be there and she must live with it. It will take a miracle for her to meet a man in her age bracket who fits her ideals, as even 30+ women struggle to marry the man of their dreams. |
justosee:What is wrong is if these fulani marauders continue to get away with this up north, they will venture down south in full force, and government will look the other way as usual. |
Buhari is concerned with igboho while his home state pays compulsory taxes to terrorists. Terrorists he has refused to label as so, even after they blew up train tracks and shot down a military aircraft. His concern is the audacity of igboho to demand a review of the dubious unity foisted on us by lugard and his girlfriend. |
Failure44:Discipline yourself now that you’re only 18. I’ve seen 30+ men in debts due to betting. It is not funny. The only way to stop is to stop. Delete the apps. Every time you want to install them or go to a bet shop, take a minute to think about it. People often say you should bet with your spare cash. But that is self deception. If you win with spare cash you would soon put in your main cash. Don’t tempt yourself. Luck is the worst thing to rely on when making financial plans. Remind yourself every time you feel the urge. In the end, only you can save yourself. |
MufasaLion:My brother. ![]() |
Pumpumking:
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Pumpumking:Mr Cork? Is that you? |
Sonnobax15: ![]() I don’t think anyone has a right to be this funny. Abeg no kee me.
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Iyaebe:Lies |
It’s simple preference. Some like it hot, some like it cold Some like it in the pot, 3 days old. By the way, I saw one yansh today ehn. Married men are trying sha. Your wives should be killing goat everyday to celebrate your faithfulness. Things are outside. My brother! Big big tins. |
Considering the mayhem in the world now, the origins of those in the list make it infamous. |
Many naija girls for don ignore the guy for DM. Or dem go use hookup and billing chase the bobo. Congratulations to them. They both took risks and it paid off. |
See response. Any small thing you’re quick to type broke boys, small boys, but you don’t realise how that reflects on you.You know the funny thing about women who are quick to call people “broke boys”? Ask them to who bought their phones, hair, internet subscription, favourite shoes; you could even ask them who paid most or all of their rent and the answer would be men. They cannot afford the phones with which they type that “broke boy” nonsense. You’d see a girl earning 50k (whose side hustle is fake sandals from china with 2 customers per week) using a $1000 phone. How? The math is simple. Na man. But she’s quick to broke-shame her mates, when in truth, without a man, she’d be using rubber band to hold her cheap phone together so the battery doesn’t fall out. Status is not sexually transmitted. We know classy babes (and those on an upward trajectory with dignity) when they type. We also know ratchets and social climbers when they vomit nonsense online. |
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