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Don’t you have a lawyer? How much will they charge you that you don’t want to pay? Hire a lawyer now and stop communicating with her directly. She will use false evidence to wreck you if care is not taken.

Gather money also for a DNA test. ThaT woman is capable of anything.

If you give in to blackmail once, you will always be at the mercy of your blackmailer. Hire a lawyer ASAP.

This thread is too funny.

Hope some Nairaland babes can see their lives outside.

Guys are avoiding you because of billing.

I remember one cute babe that I met online. I’d already decided I wouldn’t date her when I discovered she was a young corper. I just wanted to friendzone her.

We’d not even texted for long when she asked for my financial assistance. Omo! I was so disappointed.

Immediately after she asked, I switched off from even friendzone. She probably still sees my WhatsApp status. Na once a year we dey talk.

That beggy beggy attitude puts guys off. You see nice guy and you think you can quickly bill him. The guy would find it quite irritating.

dhiqson:
She chats fine
Replies quick
Understands sarcasm
Isn't easily irritated
Me: you've got no ass right?
She: probably

Mehn. No ass? No, no, no. That’s a deal breaker.

Akpabio set a precedent by challenging the reps with exposure. Now people have taken it a step further with walking out on them.

PrinceOfLagos:
MKO abiola betrayed obafemi Awolowo from reaching his political goal so it's nothing new


Tinubu kept quiet because of his selfish 2023 interest when the Fulanis invaded ibarapa community , killing people , raping women, grabbing and destroying farmlands until Sunday Igboho came to the rescue only to be betrayed by the same people he fought for.

Yet the Yoruba sees Igbo as their problem

I’m surprised you have not accused a Yoruba man of betraying nnamdi Kanu in Kenya.

I believe compliance is the issue. The present regulations are more than sufficient to prevent building collapse. But everyone in civil service has price.

ahnie:
Op, you're not alone on what you're experiencing,neither are you delusional.there are community of women like you in same shoes,but they're afraid to speak up.


Here's the sad news, there's nothing you can do about it.even if you express your concerns to your husband,you either live with it or stray out collect like 2 knacks.




Shalom.

If you want to encourage her to cheat, do it with your full chest. No dey disguise

Eyinju112:
Y’all keep scaring me when you say your husband now looks like your brother to you after few years of marriage.... is that how it happens? I’m getting scared...

I can’t imagine him seeing me as a sister after marriage

That you on your DP?

Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol

Hmmmmmmmm.

What was your former username?

ezugegere:
I don't have to like it. I don't have to do everything to please my wife, and she knows and accepts that. No matter how self-cleansing you think the vagina is, infection is still very common among ladies, not because they're promiscuous most times but because the chemistry of that region can very easily change. I don't play with what goes into my mouth.

I see your point bro

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM ABOBI IF U GO JAZZ IN DER, MAKE SURE SEY U CARRY UR OWN KALA. JUST DOG AM 4 UR BAG.. ANY MANCHI WEY JUNZ U BLAST EM LEG 1ST B4 PEOPLE GO BEGIN ASK WEITIN HAPPEN. WTF MAN

PH boys no get joy

Business development associate…

Why can’t they just call it “marketer”?

Feminists won’t like this. A viral argument point has been destroyed.

Let me order 2 cartons for starters. Palema007 how far?

thebosstrevor1:
The point isn't only about design but also about risking the lives of people.

And like I said you cannot tell if the building is stable from this picture. You have no idea how they distributed the load

thebosstrevor1:
Design and building does not work by motivational speeches.

That building if it is real is tasteless, no top notch designer and architect will design and build that nonsense, it will ruin his or her reputation.

What part of “design is highly subjective” do you not understand?

Beauty is whatever the designer and client call it. You might love ornate designs, other would call it ugly. You might love minimalist designs and others would call it scanty and unimaginative. You might love a blend of styles and someone would say it’s a confused design.

No matter how ugly a design is, people will always have their customers. Case in Point: Yeezy.

Kobojunkie:
A human being was violated and what you came here to do is sing us a dirge of sorts of how it all has to do with you and your ego?

Get over yourself.. if you don't love her, leave her alone so she can find someone who can love her without putting chains on her.

Quite an unhinged response. Everything is a battle of the sexes for you.

You probably smoked misandry-flavoured igbo before typing this nonsense.

thebosstrevor1:
So you believe that an architect in his right sense will design and build something like that??

Every department has students who are top of the class and those who just managed to pass. Both sets will graduate.

In design, people can actually do whatever they like as long as it is stable and habitable. The beauty of the design however is highly subjective.

This thing that looks funny to you might look fabulous to both the designer and the owner.

Anaerobi:
Look vividly, you will notice the main building and the one at the top is different... The one at the top isn't in the plan... We are still getting over yesterday's building collapse.

Bro, you literally have no idea what the foundation was like or how they distributed the load during construction.

All you’re seeing is two distinct styles and it’s causing confusion. What if the foundation was designed to support 40 storeys? How would you know from the picture?

This is a design issue. I’d rather look at it as a joke. But as for its stability, there is absolutely no way to determine that by looking at this picture.

Anaerobi:
Just imagine the risk people take.

What risk?

You have no idea what the foundation and the structural design looks like. You just saw two different styles of architecture in one building and assumed they were built separately.

It’s an illusion.

Two different styles in the same building. And they were most probably built together not separately.

As long as the foundation and frameworks were designed to carry that number of floors, there’s no problem. Don’t let the building confuse you

Depends on who she is.

A cash gift from a girlfriend is always a risk. Accept with caution.

ogkrakkid:
U dey doubt am? Thomas. Ehn?

Lol.

My name is not Thomas sir.

Polygamy in the mud.

A friend of mine once argued that polygamous families can be truly happy. That the wives could actually love each other as long as the husband has money. I laughed.

Is it not women again?

This babe said “f*ck that sh!t” and walked away. It is hard to accommodate a new wife.

Anyway, the man stays winning.

Used her how?

Please don’t come and tell me one spiritual mumbo jumbo

The police did the right thing for once.

Only emergency rescue professionals should be at the site

SILENTandSMART2:
Lmao just talk say you wan beat woman wetin be nah because of the word "never beat a woman "


I can never beat my wife but other girls family female members fit chop slap once in a while, what matters is the type of man you are, this is not my first time of sayin' this no woman can raise his hand to hit me cus of my top notch orientation , is it my voice, appearance or the way i speak... So it's man upbringing issue this, if a man was brought up among females or get inside or probably naturally weak ........ A female that will wanna shout on me talkless of hitting me must be posessed spiritually by devil ...

Talk say your wife go dey chop beating steady if she misbehave no dey disguise under the word " they say we should not beat a girl no matter what " Peace out....

This response of yours betrays your double digit IQ. I can’t waste my time educating someone like you who is loud, empty, and wilfully ignorant.

younglleo:
absolutely correct my brother!

That foolish gentleman behaviour dey ginger woman to misbehave. When a woman knows you’re one of those chivalrous “don’t-hit-a-woman-no-matter-what” types, you will suffer disgrace. Look at the product of a gentleman. He has unwittingly raised a man who hátès women. Problem upon problem.

This is the result of being a gentleman “NO MATTER WHAT”.

You see all those föolish guys who say don’t hit a woman NO MATTER WHAT, they don’t know how that statement creates more toxic women by the day.

This is broad daylight and they even recorded themselves.

Yet some people say soldiers didn’t kill anyone at lekki toll gate at night, where the lights were switched off and toll gate cameras were removed!

There is nothing this government and its security agencies cannot do.

Foundation failed.

Was it too much load?
Poor design?
Incorrect soil test results?

Many questions.

Knowing Nigeria, some contractors will get away with sharp practices once they grease a few strategic palms.

Wedding you mean.

Depends on the guests and venue and also if the girl’s family is not looking to fleece you.

Some people can get married with 1 million. Others need more.

Odewaleadesoye:
What should we call them boss?

What they really are: scam artists.