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where the fetus' screened? over 30% of miscarriages have no known cause even after screenings. after 2 you would be considered high risk and placed on bed rest and restricted diet for the durration of the pregnancy

im white and i never showed any symptoms of malaria, went for a routin blood test and found it and was told my load was extremly high and was put on an iv for treatment here in nigeria, the dr shocked i had no symptoms. malaria is used as a managment for chronic lyme (carried by ticks) in canada and parts of the us and mexico and was used to treat syphilis in europe and the us/canada untill penicillin came about. have heard of many people in the service comming home with malaria and not knowing about it till haveing their routine screenings. it sounds like she has had it for a good long while and is only showing late stage symptoms. check with dr without boarders, not an uncommon thing even with thier doctors.

your wife should be your next of kin untill either her death or your sons say 16 or 18th biirthday. do you want a 3 year old making medical or finiancial decisions when you are ill or near death?

the wedding comes first, it only happens the one time. you and your bf can plan a special weekend to make up for the differnt date

the practice of carrying babies in a yyawn, back board, sarong, binding board, or wrap has been going on for thousands of years all over the world. if the child is old enough to support its own head then so be it but for the first month or so a yyawn (the burgandy fabric pic) or a binding board is a better idea then a sarong or wrap

if you are in the country illegaly as in broke the law to do so they you must face whatever legal reprimand that faces you. jail, deportation, fines what not. you CANNOT expect for one moment that ANY sevice paid for by taxes of citizens and legal imigrants will aply to you. you CANNOT expect that any special privliges will be provided for you. illegals claim that the imigration process is too hard yet it is because of people like them that has made it so. the excuse that americans dont want those jobs is bs, there is no job that they do americans wont. there is no job mowing lawns that pays $10 an hour talk less about $40. recently a hospital in philidelphia had over 400 applicants for the position of janitor - sound like americans dont want this job?

you need to have a sklin scraping dont to find out waht it is

vvsjon:
Nice thoughts and I also think that, After entering cold water, your skin temperature will drop within 3 degrees of the water temperature within 2 minutes and your heart and brain temperature will start to drop in 10 to 15 minutes. The shock of this temperature change may cause heart failure and your death.

your body will shut down around 80 degrees f. ground water is 56 degrees f. (ice water 32 degrees f) blows your theory right there dont it. you have to sit in ice water for 10 min before you brain stem is affected by the cold not drink it. read a biology book please

self conscience

each relationship is different and in any break up either pary or even both can be to blame

go for the man not what he has.  the one you love may become rich while the confortable one may become a begger, which man to possessions- will make you happier in the long run. since you are considering both proposals (and assuming dating each) i will have to say you actualy love neither of them for if you did the decision would be obvious and would never have been in this predicament in the first place

there si a HUGE difference between liek and love. you are infatuated. love takes time and exists on so many levels and constantly chages through the reationship so a deffinition is not entirely possible theough buying yourself a good dictionary will no doubt help you a great deal

a person regardless of gender can wait any lenght of time for the one they love, min you love. most people here seem to confuse lust, like and love. you can wait a while for a like and not at all for a love. if you are asking this question then obviously you have never truely been in love

do you have any idea how many times she has men making passes at her all day every day. you over reacted. now if he continued to persue her beyond passing his number or was making lewd comments or trying to touch her then you could have confronted him but just passing a number is over reacting

your husband didnt even have the decency to tell you that you were not good enough for him, he made his new wife do it. he has no concern for your feelings which is painfuly obvious. you have two options. you can have self respect and move on with your life with dignity or you can wallow in your self pitty and take seconds from his new love.

if i were in your shoes i would tell him drop the business or you cause you dont need to put your life ot that of your child in danger. rival dealers think of nothing when it comes to hurting or killing the family of thier rivvals

when you are in a relationship with someone you have a duty to that person. if either of you have friends of the opposite gender you partrner must know who they are. if you or your wife has a friend of the oposite gender that you feel you must hide from your partner then you are having an inappropriate relationship with said friend. your wife had a secret relationship with another man - this is called an emotional affair. unfortunatly untill she understands what she did was wrong it will not end. remeber it also works in reverse. if you expect to know her goings on with other men she must know your s with other women. if you must keep it a secreat then it is wrong

an IUD is the safest and most effective method.  it it a t shaped piece inserved into your uterous.  some have birthcontrol medication in them similar to the pill and these last 5 years, others are made of copper and last indefinitly.  they carry the lowest risk of all birth control methods (the copper one) while the hormonal is the same as the pill.  they can be removed at any time and your fertility returns within days of its removal.  getting your tubes tied or blocked can be very dangerous and very difficult to reverse if you change your mind later.  you increase you risk of things like entopic pregnancy after tying your tubes as well as it is a severly invasive procedure that carryes the risks associated with gerneral naestesia.  if you you really wish to get surgery as a woman make sure you wont want kids later and remove as much of the falopian tubes as possible to decrease the liklyhood of complications, safer method would be to have the husband have his tubes tied - less invasive and easy to reverse and far less complications. so called "safe period" takes time and tests to accuratly determin when you ovulate but studies show over 80% of people who use this method are also called , parents

no, i cannot marry someone or associate with someone who had 4 abortions unless they were medicaly neccisary.

there may be a reason that he doesnt want to speak of. not everyone has a happy relationship with thier families and for all you know he may wish things were different. ask him once gently if he is willing to talk about it if not drop it. i co worker of mine hasnt spoken to his family since he was 17 - now in his 60 and is the sweetest most loving father and grandfather you could imagine. does everything in his power to make sure his kids have the relationship he never did. in some cultures this behavior is actual normal, your concern over htis is purly cultural and not biological. just be supportive of his decision. my husband doesnt speak to his brother but is very close to his other siblings - i dont push the matter

hlp with the mis-conceptions that condoms are 100% effective which they arnt, that all std can be prevented with condoms when really it is only about half, all std's have symptoms while only 80% of those infeced have any symptom regardless of std. that hiv is the only incurable/deadly std which its not (at least 4 others). that you can tell if a person has an std by just looking at them which you cant and on and on and on.

the somer people start to learn the dangers involved in being sexualy active the better. global adverage for lifetime number os sexual partners is 13 (includes one night stands and friends with benifits and is the total from the day you loose your virginity to the day you die) countries with sex education in school have thier adverage below 15 with few exceptions like france while countries who do not have said classes are well above again with very few exceptions.

prevelance of abortions is also significantly higher in places where there are no sex ed classes

ask your question, someone here may know the answer or be able to direct you to where to go

i understand the cultural obsession with children here and after being raised in a home with adoptive siblings i support adoption above all others. make sure whome ever you choose as a surrogate is someone you trust and have a very strong contract with because some countries allow the surragate to keep said child if they so choose to

you can only forgive those who ask to be forgiven though i am a firm beliver that adultry like some others is inexcusable

if your significant other is really good at picking perfect gifts then dont tell them, just hint. if your significant other is oblivious to hints or is one of those ones who gives you things like a sweater with kittens type gift then tell them

no privacy what so ever. when your neighbors fight watch how many people stand in thier windows to listen in