Bluntintrovert1:


I totally understand. He never loved you or he did loved you but something happened along the line. I understand your heartbreak, but brace up. Cry if you need to, it's almost inevitable. But be strong girl, try and delete everything about him both in your phone and head memory. Try and make friends or always be around friends to ease your thought. Don't even think of getting into another relationship immediately. Give yourself some space to get back to normal and with time, you would be bouncing back like nothing happened.

StayPositive.

Thanks dear

tunize:
The ex in question is she married or in same city with u guys if no, nor fear but if yes put ur guy in line and b observant. Jst use wisdom for the issue shall.

This girl got pregnant for another man while they were still dating. despite the fact that she messed up, mister lover boy( that's my guy) still stalk her, disturbs her while she was pregnant and up till now

Bluntintrovert1:


So sorry sis, I totally understand your pains. Well, it would advisable to move on. Let me also correct an impression, not all men are the same actually. I know a guy that's everything close to an Angel. Just pray to God and the right man would come knocking.

Thanks dear. I just confronted him not quite long and he doesn't even feel remorseful like he doesn't give a fvck

Back to this thread ...After being together for 2yrs+..
Now I finally realized this my guy doesn't love me as he claims. He is such a perfect cheat. I checked his messages online ,oh boy I saw terrible things ...this asslicker of a guy flirts with almost all his female contacts and I get to see some of his fuckmates. Gosh I am so heartbroken I couldn't sleep thruout last night cos I am pained. To make it worse he still communicate with his ex..it's so obvious he still care and loves her.
I can swear that ever since we started dating I have never had anyone except him,even when I had toasters and advances,I never considered them.i sticked with him wen he lost his job and was broke,I helped him , gave him all my best in everything. not knowing he has been playing with my feelings . But WHY..why are Men like this?? And I have always been a good girl o. I don't double date. With his innocent looks and very God fearing type, I never expected this.
He just made me believe all men are the same. I can never trust any man in my life not even my husband.
Such is life.
I move.

so so touching

I am so bored right now... need a friend

Donald3d:


I am about to go very raw, kindly permit me, I haven't gone this raw here before, but you need help, so here it is.
I hope this doesn't change people's perspectives about me sha , we Nigerians like been mute about sex. Its an important ingredient in marriage, no matter how spiritual you are.

The best way to solve any problem is identifying the source or root of the problem and eliminate it .

From what you have said, she enjoys pre-intimacy , I would have loved to ask what type of pre-initmacy to help find a solution, but I also understand she is your wife and you can't be too explicit because this is a public forum.

Anyway, as I said earlier, let's tackle the source of the problem, which is FEAR, she is afraid, very afraid, so we need to eliminate the fear.

She is also pressured because you are "reporting" her to people, keep this between both of you Sir, please stop involving other people, fear and pressure is a very dangerous combination.

Please don't give her any sedatives, you really don't need it.

The issue with her fear is closely related to why lubricant aren't even working, the internal muscles of her privates would contract making it tighter because she is afraid, her natural lubrication won't also be discharged because her fear is making her mind "switch" it off, coupled with the fact that you are also scared of inflicting injuries on her privates.

There are two possible ways to eliminate her fear

1.Trying to convince her not to be afraid (easier said than done)
2. Introducing something that would involuntarily eliminate her fear.

I assume you have tried number 1, let's go to number two.
There are a few things that are greater than fear, but we would be sticking to the subject matter.
In this context and with the peculiarity of the situation, there is only one thing I believe can exceed that fear ...... Pleasure , Excessive Pleasure, when a human experiences excessive pleasure, the body releases pain killers and anti-stress chemicals.

So what should you do ?
You need a non-invasive pleasure mechanism, proven and tested , the most painless sexual activity. Guaranteed to give utmost pleasure .
You guessed it , O r a l Sex.

Its isn't just about putting your mouth there , you need to do it right (forgive me as I am about to go a bit raw).

You know your wife more than anyone, you know what turns her on, her pleasure spots. Use your mouth very well on those spots.
You need to understand that there is a mission here. O r g a s m
But there are some "hot spots" common among most women

1. The nipples
2.The clitoris

I would focus on number 2 ..
1.Make sure the bed is well made, clean sheets, turn on the AC , if you don't have one, turn on the fan and leave it running to cool the room. Make sure no one else except the both of you is in your home, she needs to be comfortable.

2.Ensure you both have a warm bath and wash each others privates before you commence.You wash hers, she washes yours.Try and start up a conversation about some funny experiences you've both had, how you met each other and fell in love , how much you love her, all while washing each others privates. You are psychologically manipulating/distracting her with this.When you are done, dry each others body and carry her to the bed.Careful, so you don't slip and fall oo, you can leave that part out, but women love it !. You can back her like a baby or carry her in your arms, whichever you are ok with. Make sure she is unclad, but put on a boxers short, this eliminates her fears of seeing an erect instrument.

3.Its important you place a pillow under her waist to elevate her lower region, it allows for easy access with your mouth and with your instrument, when its time for insertion. It also ensures you don't feel neck pain and can breathe well during the process.

4.Use your mouth on the clitoris till she "explodes", don't stop no matter how long it takes, but you have to be careful not to be too hard on it as you would get the opposite of the desired effect, you would give her pain instead of pleasure. You need to be gentle and firm(I know this sounds contradictory, I would explain), use your lips as they are soft tissue, that won't cause much bruising, suck on it, in and out, grab the whole of it (the clitoris--- I have attached an image for easy identification, its that slightly protruding part of her privates that looks like a mini peeeenis) with your lips and gently slide it out of your mouth, without it leaving your mouth completely, make sure your lips holds unto it(this is what stimulate it and gives pleasure), but not too tightly, you can use your tongue as support to put the clitoris in place, if the clitoris is slipping out of your mouth. Keep repeating this back and forth.

5.Now, its important to hold her, so you can feel the "rhythm" of her body, hold her sides, or her laps, start out slowly, but not to slowly, gradually increase your "sucking pace" as you notice the rhythm of her body starts to change . This method ensures you don't bruise her and you also don't get tired easily.It also ensures a natural flow and gradual increase in pleasure.It would get to a point you might have to go really fast, this clouds her brain with pleasure, do this only when the rhythm of her body tells you to do so, when she starts to slightly wriggle or when she asks you to increase your pace.

6. Do this till she "explodes", and wriggles in pleasure, most likely at this point you are also erect, its important you take advantage of this moment, because at this point, you have killed three birds with one stone. She is too climaxed to notice her fear, her body has released enough chemicals to considerably reduce pain and she is properly lubricated for relatively easy insertion.Don't waste time !!!. Slowly (not too slowly), insert, before she comes back to reality . Make sure the pillow is still under her it ensures her lower region is elevated, so you can see clearly for insertion , I assume from the beginning she is already lying flat on her back, spread her legs out gently, this also relaxes/expands the cavity of her privates.If you still find it a bit difficult to penetrate, manually use both hands to spread the outer privates open for easy access, glide in back and forth as you both copulate to produce a wonderful seed that would bear fruit in 9 months.

7. You might need to do this more than once to be successful at it .
8.The fact that you did all this doesn't mean she might not feel pain, it just reduces the pain, it also might totally eliminate it.
9.Once you start have it in mind that you must see it through till the end.
10.If she is in excessive pain, stop and repeat the same day or another day till you get it done.


NOTE: Please stop reporting her to people, apart from the fear she is feeling, reporting her or telling other people about it, is putting her under additional pressure and stress, its adding to her Psychological lock-down. Please don't be upset with her. Buy her gifts, make her feel loved, make her understand you aren't judging her or upset with her. I am sure this steps would work for you

NB: I am married by the way, in case anyone was wondering.

UPDATE !!!!! :

OP is making progress !!, I can't wait to chop naming ceremony rice

Beautiful

bigt2:
This is a quarantine stuff nah. Just practice coitus interrupts or better still put on your rain coat. Minimize the knacking too, so you don't come out of isolation looking all thin and weak

If the worst come to the worst, you name the baby Coroseyi or Corodamilola


I have spoken

coroseyi corodamilola Nigerians Sha chai

Righteousness89:
Hope it's not pre-recorded!
Hope it's Live!!


NoNoNoNoNo..
I am not so impressed...

His Excellency looks to Merely Reading a Book handed over to Him...

Infact His Excellency just finished Reading a book..

To be Sincere, I don't think this was live..

No Questions From Journalist!

This is Not Impressive at all at all at all..

There seems Something fishy about our Presidency! I can't really say but there is something fishy!

O LORD GOD who has the Secret of men, EXPOSE the Mystety in the Nigerian Seat of Power in The Name of JESUS..

Amen!!

How do I deal with a guy who's hot tempered and aggressive?

Everything should just get back to normal oo..cos I am getting bored . This shitty virus sucks mehn.WTF

Leo .speaks exactly

Save the last dance
Ige Adubi
Ori by muyiwa ademola
Super story( suara and toyin tomato)
Harry Potter season 1-3
Isakaba
Egg of life
Love and basketball
U got served
KKK(kodun kopo hope)
Iya oko bournvita

[b][/b]

NextD18:
Until you are legally married to a lady, she owes you no faithfulness.

[i][/i]Apart from virgin ladies, a lady's pussay is for the public, more like a tourist center for different preeeqs.

It's open for all, you just line up until it gets to your turn, then you fvck and leave, just like that, the pussay keeps going round for men until one decides to pay permanently for it.

That's just it.
So don't be troubled!!
And don't fight a nigga because of pussay.
Just move onto the next!

[speak for yourself bozo

ursullalinda:
Oyibo werey no be here......plenty physcos are roaming around them.

I'm telling you

Mariangeles:


Most times you type trash!
Life doesn't begin and end with sex!

I concur

richesbhc:
80% of Yoruba Population from Osun, Oyo, Ogun, Lagos and Kwara are Muslim. The remaining 20% either converted to Christian or their parents or grandparents converted to Christian or thier lineage could be traced to Ondo or Ekiti state.

ur so right

.

This is serious. God help us

Gaggi:
After the sex wears off what next? Very soon, you will begin to see the flaws and the attitude and then you will realize that you have made a mistake. My brother, let me tell you, the only guaranteed sex you will ever get from a woman is with a hooker.
Very soon, your girl will not provide sex on demand, they will be reasons why she can't have sex with you and then you start looking elsewhere. How long will you continue that?
Anyway, sometimes it does work out but most times you end up regretting. Stick with the woman you married. If you insist on looking for someone to satisfy you, please don't leave your wife for her.

PS:
I'm replying to this because this can be someone's reality. It's obvious the OP cooked up this story but nonetheless, some men out there are actually thinking of replacing their wives with side chicks. They should be careful.

well said.

Anyway man just chop.

Lagos na wa.

Liverpool weldone guys..u deserve the title this season.

It's theirs... hate it or love it.

Just like" you smell nice ma"

Nice one pastor

God is great.

Just like me and boo

Happy birthday cutie

Frankyboy1:
Stop the entitlement mentality, he doesn't owe the guy an obligation to pick his calls, if the guy is talented, let his gift speak for him, and God doesn't necessarily use those you know or those you expect something from to help your cause, he uses the most unexpected avenue to pick your call, so guy hustle your hustle and forget olamide, he ain't God and must not be your destiny helper

I concur.

donbachi:
Nigeria Is Now The Highest Producers Of Lies In Africa.

Na their time jawe.YNWA

I fell out of school