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Anambra is a state located in the southeastern part of Nigeria. Its name is an anglicized version of the original 'Oma Mbala', the native name of the Anambra River. Anambra has its capital as Akwa. There are two biggest and commercial and industrial cities in this state which are Onitsha and Nnewi.
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The state has its theme as "Light Of The Nation". The state is bound by Delta to the west, Imo to the south, Enugu to the east and Kogi state to the north. The dominant ethnic group is Igbo. Anambra is the eighth most populated state in Nigeria and the second most densely populated state in Nigeria after Lagos State. The stretch of more than 45 km between Oba and Amorka contains a cluster of numerous thickly populated villages and small towns giving the area an estimated average density of 1,500â€2,000 persons per square kilometre.

Lagos, Abuja, Ogun, Imo, Anambra, Rivers are the most expensive states to live in Nigeria

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CBN Awka Nodu Okpuno
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦350,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦500,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦250,000 per year

maryland estate Amawbia
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦300,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦270,000 per year

Ziks Avenue Awka
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦400,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year

commissioner quarters
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦500,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦350,000 per year

umudim uru community nnewi
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦400,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦280,000 per year

Aguonye Awka
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦450,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦320,000 per year

nodu okpuno
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦200,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦350,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦170,000 per year

Government House
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦750,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦550,000 per year

Ifite
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦485,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year


Agu Awka Close To Immigration
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦300,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦500,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦200,000 per year

Odada
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦120,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦150,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦80,000 per year

Ngozika housing estate
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦500,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦450,000 per year

Uru Community Nnewi
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦250,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦320,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦150,000 per year

Kwata
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦350,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦450,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year

Onitsha
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is Source

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i dont guarantee this are the real price but estimate

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Anambra is a nice place, did my NYSC there

ubunja:
How A Woman Gold Digs You.


PROLOGUE.
Women love money. Like you love sex. The thrill and ecstasy you feel as a man holding a woman's nàkéd soft body in your hands, a woman feels holding your money, NOT holding your nàkéd hard body.

And so, as you scheme and think of ways to get more and more sex out of your woman, your woman schemes and thinks of ways to get more and more money out of you.

But as a man you can be shameless in your pursuit of more sex because male greed is celebrated. With titles like Stud. But female greed, in any form, is frowned upon. If a woman hungers for more sex she's a nymphomaniac. If she hungers for more babies she's a Baby Factory. And if she hungers for more money she's a Gold Digger. She's High Maintenance. She's Materialistic. All negative titles.

So in her pursuit of "the bag", a woman is forced to be extra cunning in her methodology. She must be very subtle. She must secure the Bag without securing any unsavory titles.

THE PROBLEM.
The biggest problem women face when digging a man for money is that they start out wrong:

At the earliest stages of a relationship, many a woman seeks to impress a new BF by not demanding money, hoping to appear low-maintenance. And virtuous. But when the relationship takes off it becomes difficult to shed that image. How can she start demanding money now when she initially presented herself as above it?

She started out wrong. In love, how you start matters. For both men and women.

So instead of flat-out asking for money, the woman is then forced to come up with elaborate, well thoughtout schemes to get her pretty little hands on her man's pretty little bag.

SCRIPTS & SCENARIOS

Women have gold digger groups on Social Media where they share "Scripts" (things to say) and "Scenarios" (plots to act out) to get what they want from men. And they really mean business.

This writeup will showcase just a few of these tricks and techniques so you get a general idea of the female cunning you're up against.

But keep in mind that the methods and procedures listed here are mainly for minor league gold diggers. The type you're most likely to cross paths with. Major league gold diggers, the type that target ministers, CEOs and billionaires, play a higher level game and you're less likely to cross paths with them, for they don't move in the circles you move in. And while small time gold diggers use skimpy provocative outfits to get a man's moola, big time gold diggers use a weapon of an entirely different nature: Femininity. Which is a woman's true power.

Now that we've that out of the way, let's get this show on the road...

YOUR WEAK POINTS.
When it comes to female manipulation, your Ego is your greatest weakness. Followed by your Libido.

Let's start with the libido. .

HOW WOMEN CUT YOU OFF SEX TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM YOU.
Men love sex. Every woman knows that from an early age. And so the easiest of a woman's schemes will centre around controlling your access to sex. If a woman wants something from you, if she really wants your attention, she closes her legs and cuts off the sex.

But NOT in the way you think. She does it indirectly.

Let's say your girl wants a new pair of shoes. She can't afford them and for whatever reason she can't ask her father for the money. So she has to trick and deceive you. Her BF.

Like this: She comes in one day distraught and very stressed. You ask what's bothering her. She tells you she and her sister/mother/cousin/best friend had a fight. Why? Because your GF asked for money for [insert any worthwhile cause here] but now she can't pay it back because of A B C. Now her relationship with said creditor/lender has hit rock bottom. And the relationship meant a lot to her. Now she's stressed and can't think straight. She has constant headaches and can't even sleep (she takes a panado in your presence to make the story more believable).

Then here comes the part where the sex cut happens---------------> Then she tells you she's so stressed and burdened that she CANT EVEN THINK OF SEX. LET ALONE GET TURNED ON.

And just like that she has cut off the sex. And you don't even see.
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ANALYSIS:
It's a wining manipulation.

Apparently, she has a problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life. She knows you won't give a crap about her problems unless they directly affect the One thing you want most from her: Her Pussy.

So she ties the pussy into the issue - She can't get wet. Meaning: No Sex For You buddy. Unless and until the problem is solved.

And because you really like that sweet kitten, it's a great stress reliever, and what's more, you're hooked on it, you resolve to do all in your power to solve her problem. If only to keep her legs open. If for no other reason than to get your daily dose of your pussy drug.

And so you ask her how much she owes. She tells you. It's not even a grievous amount. You dare not let an amount as small as a quarter of your salary get between you and your beloved kitten. And so you make an offer to settle her debt: "Okay, I'll give you the money"

Her reaction is instant! Her face lights up. She jumps on you and showers you with kisses and Thank Yous. And on that day, maybe after a long while, she actually initiates sex. (She's genuinely happy. She's getting a new pair of shoes soon.)

So, it will happen that after giving her the money for whatever she needed, she'll come one day with a new pair of shoes.

That's your money buddy.

HOW YOUR GIRL WILL PLAY THE GAME.
Obviously when your girl comes to you, it won't be about shoes. It will be about anything under the sun. Anything. But the pattern will be the same: A sob story and a financial problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life, that you're forced to solve for her by offering to help out, and a few days later she comes with something new. Maybe it's a new phone or a new hairstyle or a new pair of jeans.

When a girl tells you she's not in the mood for sex, or can't think of sex, after sharing her financial problems, that's her cutting you off sex to force you to solve her financial problems for her because of your love for sex.

When your girl constantly comes with something new after you help her with some money issue you've to realize it's no longer a coincidence. She's gold digging you.

THE LIMPING GIRL WITH THE BANDAGED FOOT.
Women are great actors. The best.

Don't put it past a woman to bandage her foot and come to you limping telling you she sprained her ankle just so you give her money to go to a doctor that she'll proceed to divert to get a new hairstyle.

How does she justify the deceit to herself?: "I'm doing it to be pretty for him".

Women fund their fancy frivolities by asking for money for legitimate causes then diverting the money to said fancy frivolities

Also be wary of the girl with the bandaged foot walking around limping. That's how women hide an STI infection. If you know you know.

THE LONG GAME.
Sometimes a woman's scheme is a long time in the making. Months even. Which makes it even the more believable in the end. Like the next scenario:

THE FAKE FUNERAL.
For example, a girl may tell you of a sick relative somewhere who progressively gets worse as each month passes until half a year later they pass away. And because she kept you updated over the months you don't even once suspect it's all a scheme. You promptly give her the money she needs to go pay her respects. Those few days you think she's in another state mourning her dearly departed, she's visiting her aunty in another suburb not far from where you live. And you're yet to give her more money. When she requests for the transport fare back home.

Fake Funerals are effective for the simple reasons that 1. You won't want to accompany her cause we all hate funerals and watching your girl cry is not easy; And 2. No one dares question and verify anything that's to do with funerals. It's taboo. Which makes the scenario appealing to utilize

The Fake Funeral can also be a Fake Accident, a Fake Illness or even a Fake Trip. Anything can be faked. But the common denominator in every Fake story is that YOU have to foot the bill for whatever is happening.

THE BROKE GIVER.
Sometimes a broke woman gets your money by falsely attributing her broke state to virtue.

When a woman loves telling you of her generosity to church and charity especially in connection with why she's always broke or why she can't afford this or that, it's her way of motivating you to assist her financially since her own finances are being channeled to the "greater good". eg "All my friends have new laptops. Wish I could get one too. But I can't get a new computer when there are children out there going to bed hungry. I find myself helping those less blessed".

And your heart then tells you, "Wow this girl is amazing! What a good heart she has! How much are new laptops anyways? Maybe I can surprise her with one!"

She's counting on that very dialogue you're having with yourself.

You can bet her friends don't have new laptops. And you can bet she ain't giving no cent to no hungry children.

THE SINGLE MOTHER.
Women are emotional manipulators.

Meaning a Single Mother will wait till you've emotionally bonded with her after weeks of nonstop sexual intercourse then drop the bombshell: "I have a kid".

By then you're too emotionally invested to pull out. So you start rationalizing the situation to yourself: "Ofcourse I never wanted to raise another man's kid... But this boy is handsome and well-behaved.... Didn't uncle Tobias also raise another man's child?... But this woman herself is beautiful. ... This can be my chance to have a gorgeous GF!"

And so you become Step Father. Your money raising another man's sperm product.

Whenever a woman waits until you've fvcked her to your heart's content then brings out her kids, just know it's a manipulation. A woman who means well will tell you upfront she has kids. But then again that would scare you off. So...

Now let's talk about your Ego...

WHAT IS THE MALE EGO?
Men are socially conditioned to hate sharing. To be territorial. Hence the virgin is more valuable than the slut as a wife. And cheating is the biggest deal breaker. While it takes the smallest thing to arouse jealousy.

Men are also conditioned to feel at their best providing for their women. Hence men are especially sensitive to broke shaming.

And so, Having a woman all for himself and providing for her, all on his own; is what makes a man feel like a "real man". This feeling is his Ego. It's strong as steel. It's the reason men go to war to die for their women. But it's also fragile. Something as simple as a woman having her own money shatters it. Because a man's sense of worth hinges on him being useful to his woman.

So Ego is simultaneously a man's greatest asset, and his greatest vulnerability.

As a vulnerability It makes him such a joy to manipulate.

HOW WOMEN PLAY WITH YOUR EGO TO GET YOUR MONEY.
Your Ego is your greatest enemy. And women know this. Everytime you hear women say, "Real men don't do A B C", just know a manipulation is loading...

Your woman targets your Ego in surprisingly easy ways: Does your woman have a lot of stuff that she claims is "borrowed", from friends and family?
If Yes. Then she's working your ego.

Many times if a woman can't directly ask for money for an item she comes to you with an item like it and makes an effort to let you know it's borrowed. It will start eating you up that your woman is using borrowed things, while you've cash to spare to get her those very things. That's your disloyal Ego setting you on the wrong path. Your ego whispers "a real man can't allow his woman to go begging other people for stuff".

Your girl is counting on you telling yourself that. Your Ego is how she gets things from you. Your Ego is her best friend.

But if your girl really wants to pull your strings and really work your ego; she mentions her Ex: "This phone was bought for me by my ex. I don't like using it. It keeps reminding me of him".

And that's the bait right there.

Your territorial nature is now used against you. Because you've a strong dislike of sharing your woman with any man past or present, never is your ego more rattled than at the mention of an Ex. Especially in connection with money and memories. It makes you feel inadequate. And jealous.

Your ego is now practically screaming at your ear to get her a new phone. Obviously one that will rival the one her Ex gave her. Like a puppet on strings you're making the moves your woman wants you to make.

HOW WOMEN USE MOODS TO GET THEIR WAY.
Men have been raised with the misguided belief that women's happiness is their responsibility. A man feels his job well done when his woman is happy. But it should be the other way round. WOMEN are the ones who were put on the Earth to be responsible for the happiness of men. Wasn't Eve made for Adam?

The modern Adam has been cruelly misinformed.

For if his woman asks for something and he denies her, all the woman has to do is to be sad and moody until he gives in. Nothing directly affects a man like his woman's moods. And sooner or later her constant sadness wears him down and he yields to her demands.

Women get moody to get their way.

Because a man enjoys coming home to a beautiful happy face he would sooner give in to his woman's demands than endure days of a sombre downcast face meeting him at the door. But it's all a manipulation.

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP ME.
Has a woman ever called you with a problem and said, "There's no one who can help me except you!" ? That was a lie designed to bait the Provider in you.

Women ALWAYS have men for different purposes to help them.

A woman has one man for rent, another for Dick, another for comfort, another for love, another for free labour etc. Trust me, she is NEVER out of options. She only acts like she's out of options to make you think you're her only option, not only in money but in sex and everything else. Which is a manipulation: If a woman doesn't ask you for money you start to think she's getting it somewhere. Probably getting fvcked for it. But if she asks you for money and really truly BEGS you for it, you tell yourself "truly this girl has no other men in her life...I'm the only one. Let me do my best to keep it that way". Boom!!!!

SOLUTIONS

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.
Many men willfully place themselves in the path of Gold Diggers. And then cry foul when the Gold Diggers start digging.

Why do you have that BMW as your WhatsApp profile pic? Why is your townhouse your Twitter profile pic? Why are you always uploading your dinner pics to Instagram with the high rate of starvation in Africa? Why are you always uploading your weekend gateways to Facebook? Don't you know other people live boring lives and especially women are looking for adventure? And while you're at it, explain how borrowing your friend's car to get a girl makes sense? Because look, if you use money to get women it's only natural that women will think you've money.

Okay you made mistakes and you've a Gold Digger on your hands now what? How do you keep your gold safe?

MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING FOR MONEY.
Your first line of defense in protecting yourself from a gold digger is using her First Impression against her. Because most women start out wrong by never demanding anything moneywise, that's your secret weapon.

In the early days of the relationship, a new GF is on her best behavior and is wary of setting herself in a bad light. So she gives you plenty of sex with minimal demands. Use that against her.

If you once fvcked a girl free, there's NO REASON to pay for sex going forward. Make her feel guilty about now asking for compensation: "Are you now selling?" "Are you now a prostitute?"
Make her feel ashamed of demanding money so she gets discouraged.

Do it right and she'll either backtrack with "I was joking!" or "Uhm, forget it". Then she'll go trouble her brothers and sisters and uncles and all the losers in her Friendzone for money. Just not you.

BE THE GUY SHE'S SCARED TO ASK.
Have a reputation of hating gold diggers.

Deliberately watch Gold Digger-themed TV Shows with her, only to be extremely disgusted so much that you pull the DVD or memory stick out in utter fury. Her mind is reading your hatred for gold diggers in any form. She'll think twice before making any outlandish financial requests.

BEAT HER TO THE PUNCH.
The moment a woman asks for money, is the moment you have a problem. Which is BIGGER than hers. Which you were about to tell her about.

A woman can understand why you can't help her when you tell her you have a bigger problem than hers.

Have you noticed that people have this annoying habit of telling you all their life problems when you ask for a helping hand? They'll start telling you about their unpaid rent, their unpaid tuition and their missed car payments. Why do people do that? BECAUSE IT WORKS. Instead of feeling angry that you got no assistance, you're left feeling sorry for the person that you even bothered him with your small problem when he had bigger problems of his own! It's a mental trick the person played on you. Use it on women. It works.

And it works even better if you can sense or predict a woman is about to ask for money, but before she does, you bombard her with your own problems. Maybe you hear from someone your GF broke her laptop. Before she comes to you with the sad news counter her with your own problems. That way you beat her to the punch. She can't ask for anything.

RECEIPTS RECEIPTS RECEIPTS.
An effective method to protect your money from fake scenarios and misuse by women is to insist on cash receipts. Yes receipts can be faked and yes not every service or product comes with a cash receipt. Still you can save yourself a lot of manipulation by demanding receipts.

But you've to be cunning about it. Your girl can't suspect anything. Also, emphasize to her that you don't mind the change. But you really need that receipt. In case you've to return whatever product she wants the money for.

NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY.
That doesn't make sense to women. It's like telling a 4 yr old you can't afford to buy a car. The little kid doesn't understand why other people your age are driving and you are not. He doesn't understand the economics, disappointments and unfairness of life.

Women struggle with the concept of Male Brokeness. In their little minds You're a man and You're supposed to have money. When you tell a woman you don't have money all she's hearing is You're lazy.

So, with women, your "I don't have money" must be linked to "Because I just paid for X and Y" or something like that. If you admit you don't have money quickly tell her where the money went. Even if it's a lie. All she needs to understand is THE MONEY WAS THERE, BUT IT WENT SOMEWHERE. That way she tells herself: "Oh well next time then!"

FINAL THOUGHTS

WHEN A WOMAN USES YOU TO "LEVEL UP".
Sometimes women gold dig you to use your money to improve themselves to impress better men than you. That's the ultimate in game.

Let's discuss it in a future Miseducation.


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ebonyggurl:
So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators?
Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.

From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics?

My question dear what's a lady usefulness in a relationship if all she can bring to the table is her pussy and parasitic nature?

akinade28:
The first thing is to accept who you are. Accept that you are introvert and there is nothing you can do about it, you can only try to improve on your weaknesses.
The fact is that both introverts and extroverts have their strengths and weaknesses.
Stop comparing your weaknesses as an introvert such as being timid, shy, quiet etc with an extrovert strength such being outspoken and bold, because you will always undermine and underestimate yourself. You will consider yourself to be a failure and have low esteem
If you work on your weaknesses, you will discover that you can be better at your job than those extrovert, you are comparing yourself with.
Though I understand the economic situation of the country and the high rate of unemployment but not all jobs are well suited for you, that's why you are struggling with it.
I think you should consider looking for a job that requires your intellectual skills not so much of interpersonal relationship skills because we as interverts are not as good as extroverts in this particular area, it's their strengthen, but our weakness.
But in the main time, you can try talking to people or making friends with people beneath you ( in term of age, maturity, academics) this might boost your level of confidence or social interactions before you meet people in your level or above you.
Please don't do drugs, you will only damage yourself the more

You said it all dear, most of the shortcomings he listed are not characteristics of an introvert, cause I'm an introvert, the op is suffering from low self esteem. You need to work on it.

AhlexOfficial:
Three trailers toling the Okpara/Sapele express road have crushed down two kids in, Okpara Water-side, Ethiope East Local Government Area, Delta State.

The accident occurred at about 12.05pm this afternoon as traders were trading on a market day of the community.

It was reported the two kids were hawking sachet water when the incident occurred.

An eyewitness who spoke in anonymity said; one of among the three trailers knocked down both kids in an attempt to cross over to the other side of the market.

The trailer belonging RANO Nigeria limited company with the number labeled RN/O3/045 was at a high speed when it knocked both kids down.

Report also had it that both victims of the accident came from the same parents and one died on the spot.

However, the other child was quickly rushed to a hospital close to the market.

But the outcome of the incident has thrown many and sympathizers in Okpara Water-side into mourning as some traders packed off their goods home.

https://www.gistablog.com/2019/09/one-dead-as-big-trailer-crushes-down.html

This is sad and painful, why will a parent allow such a young lad and the sibling to be hawking sachet water at such a tender age?

Fountainofyouth:
What of we that are okay with our small boobs and massive behind?

That is improper fraction, how can you be okay with that?

OBUKOMENA:
Very good points, bro. The urge for sex with her is gradually dying. Because of that, I stay 4-5 wks without nearing her cos it's going to be same style, same frustrating experience, no kissing, etc. Na the build-up of the urge dey make me go near her again. And guess what? I have a high libido. Imagine someone who had had sex only once before marrying at 37. Hmmm?

Though I'm yet to get married, issues about sex must be discussed by would be couple, in other to know if both are sexually compatible. Saying yes to no sex before marriage to me is a scam, a man that has high libido should also look for same lady and vice versa. Sex is very important in marriage. I will advise you sit her down and talk with her, that her action may lead you to commit adultery

Souqwaqif:
Good evening all,I and my wife are married,after a very long courtship.our first issue is just about 3years and I don't want her to emulate certain type of dressing from my wife is fond with of recent.after series of correction my wife would not change from dressing like a harlot to a married woman.parental intervention has not yielded anything.in fact recent discussion with the father on the way forward made her infuriated against me that I reported her to her father.while I reside elsewhere due to work and she off campus I called recently to ask how they are doing and she rained insult on me,I then cut the phone on her.Am thinking of dissolving the whole thing because she is always fond of not taking instructions from me for her own good and that of our little girl.Pls what step will be right for me.Only mature advise is appreciated.Thanks.

You should be calm and take it easy with her provided she's not promiscuous. But you said you dated her for a long period before marriage didn't she showed trait of not taking correction whenever you advised her on something?

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My post is very sensitive so please I will love you to delete any foolish comments because I am emotionally already and don’t want to add . I have attached a picture of my boyfriend, one of those guys is my boyfriend,I have dated him for 2 years, he takes care of me, pays my school fees and rent does everything for me that a Normal guy does for a women but I just realized today that he lied to me, and still lying to me.

My boyfriend told me that he works in the bank , every morning he will dress up on suit and go to work, come back in the evening. Sometimes I want to visit him in his office but he will say he is a contract staff and he is in marketing and hardly in the office, I believe him for 2 years of my life . Even when he proposed I accepted, not until yesterday my friend sent me this picture and one of the guys packing dustbin happen to be him,I refused to believe it, I had to zoom the picture, she actually sent me up to 3 but I don’t want to send you that because it reviled his face to avoid embarrassment.

My own boyfriend a dust bin packer , Jesus like he sits on top of dirt and pack it , Jesus and still comes to finger me and touch me. I felt really irritated and disgusted. Is it the same money he uses to take care of me,why did he lie? He is too cute and intelligent for this , I was embarrassed as my friends laughed at me , called me wife of a dust bin packer.

I cried my eyes out, even when he called never asked him anything but I want to end the relationship. Give him back his ring , but my heart is beating . What do I do ? I can’t marry a dust bin packer , never.

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Don't have any issue with the kind of work he does, provided he is not into crime and the job is paying his bills, what I'm against is why did he lied to you?

icankel:
Is really a pity wat South Africans are doing to Nigerians yet our government are not doing anything could it be because of bride they're taking from South African companies in Nigeria. Oh God wat type of leaders do we have in Nigeria. Nigeria can't have something like MTN, Shoprite, or DSTV yet were boasting to be giant of Africa. Maybe were only giant of Africa in corruption alone

We should leave God out of this, a country get the kind of leaders it deserves

yom2:
. Fools how does that solve the situation. Do u know how many Nigerians those companies employ? If you dont have competitive indegenious companies those moves are counter productive

You're right, Nigerians should picket their offices nation wide

LegendVibes:
Angry Nigerians on Twitter in reaction to killing of their fellow countrymen in xenophobic attacks launched by South Africans have vowed to boycott MTN, Shoprite, Stanbic, DSTV and other businesses in Nigeria owned by South Africans.

Recall Igbere TV reported earlier that properties includings cars which belong to Nigerians in the country, was set on fire by South Africans. Shops belonging to Nigerians was also looted by South Africans as captured in a viral video.

President of the Nigeria Union South Africa, Adetola Olubajo, had said that recent attacks began on Sunday morning in Jeppestown area of Johannesburg.

Mr Olubajo said in a statement on Monday that the mob “looted several shops that were around the vicinity suspected to be owned by foreign nationals.”

Reacting to the development, Nigerians have urged each other to take action against South Africans.

See their reactions below;

http://igberetvnews.com/958187/xenophobia-nigerians-vow-to-boycott-mtn-shoprite-other-south-african-businesses/

Nigerians should come out in their numbers and picket their offices nation wide. Enough is Enough

Dreambeat:
I think he should expect more of this as the season goes by.Italian football is the den of racism

That's the painful fact, bros you're apt

Efewestern:
There is no such word like "Ile Ibinu" in ancient Bini history, it was recently coined when the Edo and Yoruba supremacy battle started. "Ubinu" was the right word and it was used to describe the royal administrative centre of Edo kingdom. Ubinu was later corrupted to Bini by Portuguese speakers.

Apart from the Okpe clan of Urhobo who traces their origin to Ile-ife, the Urhobos have always maintained, from ancient time that they are from Bini, no one can even link Urhobo to Yoruba, you can do that with itsekiri, which is a direct offshoot of various Yoruba clans, not Urhobo.

Igbodomigodo is the first name given to the Bini empire, it was named by the first Ogiso, so Igbodomigodo = Bini, since we are referring to a people living in a given territory.

Bini and Yoruba shared a lot in common in the past, so its normal for both to steal some words from each other, reason for the Oba tittle I guest.

Ile ibinu is a word in ancient benin kingdom it means land of vexation. This word was used by the son of the oba that was hitherto banished from the kingdom.

obembet:
Waiting this man want enjoy for christ sake?

I'm surprise

chenzen:
it is the wisest and smartest thing to do.

make sure she has access to all your accounts... give her ur ATM pin code as well. Make sure u do that.

Dont let these financial institutions embezzle the proceeds of a man's sweat when his God calls him to the afterlife.

Out of selfishness and stingyness some men will rather abandon their billions to the bank than make their wives signatory to these fat accounts or even have access to it through the joint setup.

Thank me later.

Point of correction Wife only not girlfriend

franchasng:
Highly commendable if they can truly implement this which I doubt anyway.


Those praying for Nigeria to become their dream country, I am sorry to tell you that you are wasting your time and prayer, be selfish in your prayers for once, pray for your own personal success and family success, and stop wasting time flogging a dead lion because Nigeria will never become that your dream country and if you are not earning up to 200k naira as a single man or 150k naira as a single lady in Nigeria and 300k above as a married man or 200k naira monthly as a married lady, please for the sake of your kids born and unborn, do everything you can to leave Nigeria and migrate to any more promising country so that your children won't be caught up in the impending multiple economy and security crises + unemployment and hunger crises that will hit Nigeria in the next 20 years from today!

Don't say I didn't warn you because Nigeria has no future, the future of Nigeria look very scary and dark like total eclipse

It's quite unfortunate, Nigeria as a country does not make out plan for it future generation, take a vivid look at the population explosion and no commensurate plans. This is serious and nobody is talking about such a serious issues, in 2050 base on UN estimate Nigeria will overtake India in terms of population and our leaders are not thinking about the outcome,

maybachmusic:
how many fresh graduates in NIgeria will hold 400k cash 5 years after graduation?

and if you dont know what to do with 400k cause you live in banana Island

it can start a lot of SMES, and better than teaching for 12k and 15k slavery many graduates are in volved in these days

You list some of the SMES and come up with a business plan, I'm willing to invest in it provided is viable

egojiokwu:
His mumu no get part 2.

Some of us don't cheat but when something like this happens, then it means that local man is now given license to divorce or cheat instead of committing suicide.

My point though, if she's not willing to perform her duties in the other room, it's an opportunity to cheat on her right before her face and divorce her ASAP

Lee84:
The heart of man is terribly wicked. may God have mercy. Rest on little Angel

The heart of women not man/men

NaijaCelebrity:
Minister of Power, Saleh Mamman Begs Nigerians To Pray For Him To Succeed In His New Role

The newly-appointed Minister of Power, Saleh Mamman, has asked Nigerians to pray for him to succeed in his new role.

Mamman was announced as the new Power Minister when President Muhammadu Buhari inaugurated his second term cabinet in Abuja on Wednesday, August 21, 2019.

While speaking later during a reception organised in his honour by a committee of friends, the minister asked Nigerians to pray for him.

"What I need from Nigerians at this time is prayers. I have just been appointed Minister of Power, so I have nothing much to talk about or say than for Nigerians to pray for me to succeed," he said.

Mamman's assignment came as a surprise to some as the ministry was previously under the stewardship of former Lagos governor, Babatunde Fashola, who was reappointed and also sworn in for another stint in Buhari's cabinet on Wednesday.

Fashola was the Minister of Power, Works and Housing during Buhari's first term between 2015 and 2019. However, he returns only as the Minister of Works and Housing.

The Power Ministry holds a lot of political implications as the country has failed for decades to adequately supply electricity to its estimated population of 200 million people.

While the Buhari-led government has identified improving power supply as a key to improving economic growth, growth in the power industry has been sluggish with many parts of the country still deprived.

While delivering his remarks on Wednesday, Buhari urged the new ministers to work tirelessly for Nigerians to achieve a future where they can reach their full potential.




Source: https://gidifeed.com/minister-of-power-saleh-mamman-begs-nigerians-to-pray-for-him-to-succeed-in-his-new-role/

It's only in Nigeria you hear such statements from appointed public officer, they should pray for you to succeed, please don't drag prayer into this what you need to succeed is to do and make the right decision without compromising your conscience and office, God or prayer will not force you to do the right thing, you have your conscience that's already been given to you by God

Heavenschild:
That is why whenever I see a Learner I speed off Like as if I am running away from Nigeria

You're funny

XhosaNostra:
Don't blame the ladies you're dating for something you created yourself. Who introduced money early on in the...whatever you all had? It was you! You created the expectation by offering to give her money the 1st day you met her. Don't bait & switch now. 1st get to know a person before getting "benevolent" with your funds. Because doing so early, you're indirectly telling them that time is money & money is time. So why are you surprised that 1)she's out with her begging bowl & 2) she doesn't want to spend time with you? You taught her that she's doing you a favour, hence you wanted to buy her time. So either pay up or change how you conduct your relationships. A person that genuinely likes you won't need incentives to spend time with you, so stop rewarding people for doing fùck all.

You're right you need to get to know somebody first before been benevolent with your money, that's the right way to go even if they call call you broke or stingy

LillyVal:
Apart from saying "hello" how do you answer phone calls?

This guy says "tell me" and everytime I find it sexy

Talk to me

maybachmusic:
the FG can kill unemployment by squashing NYSC


and sending graduates on 3 months skill acquisition

and a 400k grant at the end

we can afford it, rather than sending someone on one year sufferhead and fling them back to poverty

but the useless senators dont make laws like this, cause all they want is sitting and standing allowances

and the president wont think in such direction, what he knows is RUGA

useless country with no future

What can #400,000 do in present day Nigeria? My question though

realestniggah:
Education is important.. But it really isn't everything.. They sold us lies as children.. They said we shall have our future secure if we went to school and did well.. Well reality has dawn on us.. High time today youth look into skilled and manual labor.. Lot of money to be made there

You're on point but even with the skills the business environment is not friendly at all. No infrastructure(light, water, roads) this makes entrepreneurship difficult.

alBHAGDADI:
Christianity in Nigeria and Africa is beginning to come under heavy attack, not just from people who are ungodly and most times closet Satanists, but from celebrities. They claim the reason why Africa is backward is because of religion. There are so many religions in Africa, but the one they are truly specific about is Christianity.

These people don't complain when other religions engage in mass murder for their god, nor when some of them demand human sacrifice by killing innocent passerbys in the middle of the night all in the name of a festival. But when people gather in a church to worship God, they get angry and claim that is the reason why Africa lacks steady electricity, food, technological development and is suffering from poverty.

When these people call for religion to be eradicated from Africa, what they actually want is for Christianity to leave. It is only Christianity that defines what religion is, and that annoys them because it speaks against their worldly ways.

James 1:27 (KJV)
27 Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.

As seen above, the religion God accepts is the one in which a person is encouraged to:

1.) Visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction.
2.) To keep himself unspotted from the world.

The above points in the definition of religion are an embodiment of Christianity. When these people say religion should be eradicated from Africa because they think it is mental slavery, what they actually want is for the fatherless and widows to suffer. No one will care about them because the one belief which encourages that has been destroyed.

But you say "celebrities do give gifts to orphans". Yes and that's because they upload the act on social media just to earn your praise and make you see them as good, whereas they are not. You really think they care about the orphans they help? They don't care. They only care about how the world perceives them. That's why they show it off when they do such good. They post it on social media because they want people to comment and praise them. Let's see what Jesus Christi said about such.

Matthew 6:1-4 (KJV)
6 Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.
2 Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.
3 But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:
4 That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.

These celebrities and ungodly people hate Christianity because the book by the religion contains words that judge them. The Bible exposes their wicked ways. They want to live however they like without anybody questioning them. They are angry that the light through Christianity has come to Africa. No more baby sacrifices, no more offerings to demons, no more living a wicked life. The light has condemned them.

John 3:19
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.

They hate the light of Christianity because it exposes their evil ways. It exposes the motive behind their actions.

John 3:20
“For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.”

We who don't do evil are not angry at the light. We love and welcome it. It has even made us better humans.

John 3:21
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

The above are the words of Jesus. The words judge evildoers, which means that they definitely hate Jesus as well. It's words like this that made the evildoers back then to kill Jesus. They couldn't stomach how he was exposing their evil heart. Those evildoers back then have their descendants today continuing from where their ancestors stopped. We are glad Jesus is risen and his word will never die.

The second point in the definition of religion says we should keep ourselves unspotted from the world. It simply means our ways should be different from the way the world does its own. It also means we shouldn't love the world. But these atheists, celebrities and evil people are always in comformation with the world. From the way they attack religion to their flamboyant show off on Instagram, we get to know that they love the world. This means they don't have the love of the father in them. They hate God.


1 John 2:15-17 (KJV)
15 Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
17 And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.

Despite them loving the world so much, you will never see them speak up against things positioned to destroy it. As long as those things are against Bible teachings, they will welcome them e.g homosexuality.

Romans 12:2 (KJV)
2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

The people who say Africa is backward because of the religion white men brought to the continent don't even know how foolish they sound. They say the Bible which the white man brought to Africa is the reason the continent is backward. How come the cars, phones, television, refrigerator etc all brought by the same white men are not making Africa backward? If we must throw the Bible away, then we must throw away all those other things the whites brought to our continent.

Some people even believe Africans who serve God fervently are not really doing so because their continent is not rich like China, an ungodly nation. Look, the Bible already stated that we should stay away from such people who think being rich means you are serving God, who think gain is godliness.

2 Timothy 6:5
5 Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself.

Being rich is not a sign that you are serving God. Don't be all about wealth and riches. As long as you have clothes and food to eat, that should be enough. Why try to gain the world when you brought nothing into it and will take nothing out?

2 Timothy 6:6-8
6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.
7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.

Do you know what will happen to those who are chasing after riches? They will do so many foolish things. This explains why Western Nations are encouraging homosexuality, abortion etc. This also explains why celebrities fall into depression all the time.

2 Timothy 6:9
9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition.

These evil people want Christians in Africa to chase after wealth because they know it will make us err from the Christian faith. That is why they keep ringing it in our ears that Africa is backward because of religion.

2 Timothy 6:10
10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

But as a Christian, you should run away from such people. Run away from the love of money and the love for the world. Follow after righteousness.

2 Timothy 6:11
11 But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness.

Christianity is not the one looting money at Federal Government and State level. Christianity is not the one embezzling money released for educational and technologcial development. Stop saying we should dump it. Blame your leaders, not Christianity.

These evildoers want us to go back to serving the God's in Egypt which didn't profit Africa in any reasonable sense.


Joshua 24:14-15 (KJV)
14 Now therefore fear the Lord, and serve him in sincerity and in truth: and put away the gods which your fathers served on the other side of the flood, and in Egypt; and serve ye the Lord.
15 And if it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

Note that our leaders are more product of the two major religion practise in Africa(Christianity and Islam) than politics we should be objective when coming up with right up. Not that I'm against religion but the way it is practise in Africa. If you've left the shore of Africa(Nigeria) you will understand. Africans has enslaved themselves because of religion they've refuse to be objective in their thinking and i stand to be corrected by this. The Europeans who brought Christianity to us does not practise it same way we do and they are progressing

Awol1:
You are leaving Edo assembly to the hands of ancestors to do what?

Africans will still amaze in this 21st century.

My suggestion to Obaseki is to not issue any new letter of inauguration to the Edo house of assembly.

Let the NASS take over the assembly.

From my knowledge, members of the national assembly cannot impeach Obaseki until after the elections.

Let Oshiomole bring on his war.

You've said it all, this is the same Edo state where the current National chairman of APC remove the roof of the state House of Assembly and sitting was done in government house why didn't the National Assembly took over then. OSHOIMOILE should be warned Edo is not Lagos state.

Loveisascam:
My experience dating a 28 years old stupid boy - Age and place of employment does not necessarily mean maturity.

I and my bf have been friends online before we finally decided to meet. After meeting, we mutually decided to start dating.

Unknown to me my bf had shared me with two of his friends to tempt me. Friend 1 chatted me up but I didn't give him any attention so he stopped all conversations with me. Friend two chatted me up too but somehow he was able to get my attention. I however clearly told him I had a boyfriend and was not interested in any romantic relationship with him. He told me he didn't have any issues with it but that we could still be friends.

I am a very sincere and open person and so I told my bf about my friendship with Friend two. I usually share screenshots of my conversations with Friend two with my bf. I did not hide any thing from him because I had no intentions to cheat. I was very transparent.

Little did I know that my bf on the other hand was also busy sharing everything that has transpired between us including very sensitive information like our sexual styles, the state of my vagina and even my financial status with his friend.

My bf told friend two to stop the game and leave me alone. Friend two refused. According to him, he realised I was not the slut my boyfriend painted me to be and thought I will be a great catch for a girlfriend.

To discourage him, my bf started slandering me to him.He even went to the extent of telling his friend that
the last time I visited, he didn't enjoy the sex because my vagina was wide and that I had probably slept with some people before meeting him.

I had told friend two that the next time I visit my bf, I will endeavour to make arrangement so we can see too since him and bf stay in the same location. However on visiting my bf, I changed my mind and rather told him to visit my base if he really wants us to meet. He agreed to come around. I told my bf about my plan to meet friend two but didn't tell him that friend two had agreed to come to my base.

Friend two told my bf of his plan to come and visit me in my base and that finally he is going to have his way with me. My bf tried to discourage him from coming but he refused.

My bf was then forced to confess what he had done but told me not to let his friend know he has told me.

I kept chatting and receiving calls from friend two without revealing to him that I knew what he was up to.

After 3 days, I decided to let friend two know that my bf told me about their game. He was shocked and started opening up all my bf told him about me.

He told me my bf never really loved me and that he was with me because he didn't have to spend. I didn't ask him for money and even when I come to visit, I don't ask for tp.

Friend two also told me that my bf said I will be useful in his plans to relocate to Canada as he will convince me he wants us to marry, and that I should support him relocate first and then later when he is stable he will come back to Nigeria so we can wed and then he can bring me over. Meanwhile his actual plan is to relocate to Canada and marry a white girl for citizenship. I would never have suspected this could be my bf plans because he works in an averagely good place where he earns averagely well.

Friend two then advised me never to reveal my financial status to any man and to be selfish when I love. He said he still genuinely wants to date me and that he is sorry.

I am not stupid though. Friend 2 and my bf are idiots. I cannot date any one of them. I have blocked both of them.

This experience has shattered me though. I will never ever trust any man again even the man I marry. I used to believe in the idea of shared finances in marriage but not anymore. No managing with any man.

Men are scum. Love is a scam. The so called bf is a nairalander and I know he makes sensible comments here to deceive innocent girls who don't actually know he is a fool and a scammer.

You cannot say men are scum cause of what you experienced with just one man, this has brought to the fore your myopic way of reasoning. I would have expected you to say sum men are scum, just as some ladies are scum

Islie:
President Muhammadu Buhari has cancelled all e-passport printing contracts abroad, saying that it will now be the sole responsibility of the Nigerian Security Printing & Minting Company (NSPMC).


Femi Adesina, special adviser to the president on media and publicity, made this known in a statement released on Thursday.



More to follow…



https://www.thecable.ng/breaking-fg-cancels-passport-printing-contracts-abroad

Do they have the capacity to print e passport?