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Crime › Re: Policeman Kills Policewoman In Rivers State During lockdown Enforcement by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:04pm On Apr 24, 2020
inice:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/23/policeman-kills-policewoman-rivers-state-during-movement-restriction-enforcement
This is pathetic, killing your own colleague in the line of duty? Nigeria as a country has expired, it should be thrown into the bin of history
Crime › Re: Policeman Kills Policewoman In Rivers State During lockdown Enforcement by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:03pm On Apr 24, 2020
inice:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/04/23/policeman-kills-policewoman-rivers-state-during-movement-restriction-enforcement
This is pathetic, killing your own colleague in the line of duty? Nigeria as a country has expired
Food › Re: Next Cash And Carry Distributes Items To Agulu, Anambra State (photos) by AkhereOkaka(m): 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2020
Anambralstson:
Next cash and carry distributes food items to Agulu community in Aniocha local government
Agulu what a lovely place and nice set of people, did my NYSC in a community in Agulu(2011/2012), most Igbo communities(people) are very accommodating, could recall myself and some of my colleague use to wear our Corp member uniform to the market with a view to get discount from the traders. Indeed the Igbos are lovely set of people. IGBO AMAKA
Family › Re: Parents Loving One Of Their Children More Than The Others: Your Opinion by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:08am On Apr 22, 2020
sherylbakky:
The truth is, as long as our personalities differ as humans....Parent/parents will always love one child more than other/others.

What is not good is making it obvious to the extent that everyone including the sibling/siblings notice.

It's better to keep it to themselves and care equally for all the children.
You've said it all, cause if it is obvious it can lead to bad blood,
Family › Re: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by AkhereOkaka(m): 7:06am On Apr 21, 2020
Ironic:
D'fvq did I just read? Like, you'll send your kids on an errand, your wife will stop them and you won't do anything?

Like, you don't flog your kids?
You fvckin claiming Western pattern of raising kids by being a simp to them all to be tagged a modern dad?
You gotta be a typical African dad asap!

Bruv, the first thing you need to do now is to make them to be scared of you. Very necessary at this point.

Next time you send any of them message and he/she refuses because of your wife, flog the hell out of that one, if your wife tries to misbehave, flog her too with well-deserved uppercut and smackdown. If possible, stop eating her food because she's capable of doing something unexpected with what you eat.

They'll become scared of your recent behavior and adjust. Strict dads keep the best, calm and organized home.

What next? Your wife will try to manipulate them by using your new attitude towards them. Keep being strict towards them and still do your fatherly works towards them.

Trust me, you need to go very hard right now since your soft ways ain't working.

Mothers manipulations towards their kids against their dad can only function when they are tender, when they grow, they MUST know the truth and the mum will be at the loosing end.

If you don't have the mind to do what I've advised--Divorce your wife. You can't keep housing a demon who's quick to use your kids against you because she's closer to them.
You're on point, after going on your kneel to plead with her with a view to make things work she refuse, and she's using your kids against you. I'm sorry to say you're weakling how will a father send his kids on an errand and the mother will stop them from going. Involve her family and yours in this issue. If she refuse to change for the better divorce her Asap
Education › Re: Is Handwriting Genetic? by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:34pm On Apr 11, 2020
botrix:
I think so,my daughter's handwriting is like mine,so beautiful.
It is mine is like that of my Mum
Health › Re: Funke Akindele Arrested For Hosting Party Despite Lockdown by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:10pm On Apr 05, 2020
ademasta:
I just don't know how these so called celebrities think.

Little sacrifice to safe the world is now too hard for them to make undecided

Mtcheeeew
Some of them are dumb, imagine an Ambassador of Nigeria Centre For Disease Control or she did an advert for them on how to prevent Covid-19
Health › Re: Coronavirus: 4 New Cases In Lagos, Nigeria Confirmed By State Ministry Of Health by AkhereOkaka(m): 3:18pm On Mar 19, 2020
MelesZenawi:
West is a danger zone now ooo
West is not a danger zone, provided you follow the rules of personal hygiene and reduce social contact To it nearest minimum. Be more concern about your country with weak health system.
Travel › Re: Deji Yesufu: Coronavirus, Cancelled Flights In Berlin, Nigerian Saves Me by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:47am On Mar 16, 2020
mytime24:
coronavirus don cus bad market for our girls in italy angry
Their businesses(if you know you know) has been halted. Kindly remember Italy in your prayers and thoughts. Shout out from Milan Centrale Italy
Romance › Re: Man Proposes To His Girlfriend In Public And Gets The Biggest Embarrassment by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:52pm On Mar 02, 2020
made4naijamusic:
Man proposes to his girlfriend in public and gets the biggest embarrassment of his life

This young man got beaten in public by his girlfriend that he wants to calm down

Watch video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIRgP3QWCIA
What kind of none sense is this, why must you lay your filthy hands on him? If you don't want him reject his proposal and walk away.
Sports › Re: 12th Biennial Nigeria Police Games Opening Ceremony In Awka (photos) by AkhereOkaka(m): 4:11pm On Feb 29, 2020
Sammy07:
This should be Ekwueme Square correct me if I'm wrong tho
You're right
Politics › Re: Bayelsa: Supreme Court Hears Application For Review Of Judgment Sacking Lyon by AkhereOkaka(m): 1:24pm On Feb 26, 2020
priscaoge:
Interesting!!!!

We are waiting for the final outcome.

Nigeria and it’s Judicial System is like Zeeworld, they are Extraordinary Everyday
You've said it all,
Romance › Re: How Many Times Is Enough To Call Your Partner's Phone by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:46pm On Feb 09, 2020
ugolinze123:
Hi guys have been in this heated argument with her since morning cus i called twice and she was away from her phone and now shes annoyed that i was supposed to call atleast 4times before coming to conclusion on her not reachable.. So I decided to ask, How many times should be enough to ring one's phone? Me I think 2 times is enough to get the other person pick the call.
For me twice is ok
Crime › Re: Policeman Seen With POS, Asking A Passenger To Bring His ATM Card (video) by AkhereOkaka(m): 7:48pm On Jan 09, 2020
OnlineTv247:
Here is a video of a police officer seen with POS on a highway asking a passenger to bring his ATM Card.

Watch The Video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCWFF1TouGg
They've gone cashless Lol
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by AkhereOkaka(m): 1:25pm On Jan 01, 2020
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.
I realized this long ago and I've stop giving a fück about people.

If they denied you their daughter, look else where... women ain't gold, they're everywhere like MTN network.

You can never be accepted by all
You've said it all
Romance › Re: My Wife Is Emasculating Me by AkhereOkaka(m): 1:10pm On Jan 01, 2020
strungup79:
I'm always out of town looking for one job or business. I've just been unfortunate that all my efforts have yielded little or no fruit. It's almost as if there's a curse working against me.
Sorry for your predicament but why not seek spiritual help instead of assuming?
Travel › Re: Anambra Int'l Airport To Be Delivered In 15 Months Time Says APGA by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:32pm On Dec 26, 2019
[quote author=Blue3k2 post=85214351]Why building an airport when there's one in Enugu and Asaba? Misplaced priority
Family › Re: What Is Your Take On Your In-laws Living In Same House With You? by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:07pm On Dec 23, 2019
bukatyne:
Vividly?

Do people live vaguely before? tongue grin
Tell him dear, often times people uses words without knowing what it means
Family › Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by AkhereOkaka(m): 7:36pm On Dec 21, 2019
Unique357:
In brief, I am a male married with 2 children, my daughter is 8 and son is 5. I also have my niece 11 and a house help 15 staying with us.

On Monday I gave my wife Christmas shopping money to get foodstuffs, hers and children clothing including our house help.

Yesterday my wife went shopping, she bought clothes for herself, our children and nothing for the house help. She claimed that the girl doesn’t need any clothes for Christmas as long we feed and send her to school, the rest is her parents' duties. The girl in question is my wife's relative from the same village. This girl is so nice to our children, she is like a second mother to them despite her being just 15, I have never had any problem with her.

I was mad at her that I told her, if she cannot treat another woman's child well then she doesn’t deserve to be a mother, yes I did said some harsh words to her because of anger. She accused me of sleeping with the little girl which I told her she is mad and she couldn’t stop crying the whole night. This morning she didn’t make my breakfast and refused greeting me back.

Please house let me know if I overreacted
What she did is wrong, how does she expect the house help to feel when her kids put on Christmas clothes and she doesn't ? This is someone who takes care of your own kids. Sorry to say your wife is been childish and for accusing you of sleeping with a 15 years old house help is absurd, don't beg her? If i where to be in your shoes of which i can't be. Who's the man of the house if i may asked? I will insist if she doesn't buy the house help clothes our kids will not also wear theirs on christmas day simple or you can send the girl back to her parents let her be doing everything by herself and don't stop helping the girl with her education through her parents or relatives and do not let your wife know Some women are wicked
Politics › Re: Oshiomhole: I Did Not Teach Obaseki, Shaibu How To Lose Elections by AkhereOkaka(m): 7:07pm On Dec 15, 2019
Judeerons32:
Obaseki and Shuaibu are just dancing naked in the market square.
A governor who could not win his ward is that one a governor? Why is Obaseki afraid of primaries. If he is popular like he says he is let him go for primaries. Paper weight governor with social media electorate.
Obaseki is aware he won't get the party's(APC) ticket, he don't want to go down without a fight
Family › Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:51pm On Dec 15, 2019
daddytime:
Huh?

You miss road? grin
Thanks, kindly show me the way, would have expected you to come up with more potent argument, than making such comment
Family › Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by AkhereOkaka(m): 5:10pm On Dec 15, 2019
daddytime:
Judging by your narrative above, I support your moving on if it'd help restore your sanity, save you from further abuses, and eventual death, because, e better make person no get husband or wife than to get the one wey go make am dey fear to go house everyday.

However, I'd advise you never to keep the kids away from their father. How you intend to achieve that? I do not know...

Please, do not make the kids the dupe of daddy and mummy's failed relationship.

Stay safe and strong.
What correlation does Christianity has with been responsible in marriage? What do you mean by being a casual Christian? Religion and been responsible are two different thing. Please keep your advise to yourself, if a person( Man or Woman) is irresponsible it has nothing to do with religion. Why do we Africans ascribe religion to everything?
Properties › Re: Lagosians To Obtain Licence To Drill Borehole From 2020 by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:57am On Dec 07, 2019
dipoolowoo:
By Dipo Olowookere

Lagos State government has said by the first quarter of next year, it would begin to issue licences and permits before any borehole is drilled for water in any part of the state.

Executive Secretary of the Lagos State Water Regulatory Commission, Mrs Funke Femi Adepoju, while addressing stakeholders at a meeting, explained that this move was to safeguard residents of the metropolis.

The meeting was attended by members of the Manufacturers Association of Nigeria (MAN), Nigeria Employers Consultative Association (NECA), Financial Institutions, Association of Table Water Producers (ATWAP) and Association of Water Well Drilling Rig Owners Operators among others.

According to her, the exercise, which is to be launched by Governor Babajide Sanwo-Olu, is to regulate the process of water abstraction in the state.

Mrs Adepoju affirmed that licensing was a significant process in the regulation of any industry as the commission was determined to ensure its availability and sustainability to prevent the effect on unregulated water abstraction.

“What is paramount to government is how abstraction affects us as a people not just today but the future with emphases on pollution, contamination of water bodies, saline filtration into the system, over-abstraction and unregulated abstraction,” she stated.

While assuring that only registered companies captured in data will be issued a 2-year renewable license with unique and personalized number, the Executive Secretary explained that the commission was not established for a punitive purpose, but rather to establish standard in the water extraction industry in order to ensure that the health and safety of citizens are not compromised.

According to her, the essence of the engagement was to improve the relationship between stakeholders and government by developing ways to sanitize the industry, stressing that the agency has acquired mobile water test kits which are to be used in testing samples during operation and that approval for the acquisition of a standard laboratory for water testing is on the way.

https://businesspost.ng/general/lagosians-to-obtain-licence-to-drill-borehole-from-2020/
What kind of nonsense is this, whose duty it is to provide water? You've failed in your duty and you want them to obtain licence before drilling bore hole. Hope the licence will be free?
Politics › Re: Desecration Of Court: Group Asks CJN To Bar Judges From DSS Cases by AkhereOkaka(m): 9:24am On Dec 07, 2019
wolverine1987:
Please how much is bike from Nigeria to USA and the shortest route?
Was America built by humans(Americans)? why can't Nigerians rise up and demand the kind of system they deserve. Is either we are praying or saying God help us when we have refuse to do the right thing
Family › Re: His Wife Always Gets Angry Because He Leaves The Bed by AkhereOkaka(m): 2:27pm On Dec 02, 2019
GboyegaD:
And then it becomes she is disturbing her sleep. It is a marriage and not a covenant of doom. In marriage, the individuals are not glued and one party should not scheme on how to deprive the other of what s/he loves to do provided it is not hurting the party.
You have a point though
NYSC › Re: My Mum Sells Eggs - Corper Shows Off His Mother Who Trained Him In University by AkhereOkaka(m): 11:08am On Dec 02, 2019
Randy100:
This kinds of mother won't be existing in the nearest future.
You're absolutely right slay queen has taken over
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye: Smart Adeyemi Is Still My Political Wife by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:52am On Dec 02, 2019
oluwadare26:
Votes doesn't count in this country, nothing is working. Only God can come to our rescue.




Well as for the balon'd'or tonight



Like For Messi to win, Share for Virgil Van Dijk
Please God will not come to rescue any country, when it docile citizens refuse to rise up and demand for accountability from the system and it leaders. Nigerians are indeed funny set of people they will sit down and expect God to do everything for them
Family › Re: His Wife Always Gets Angry Because He Leaves The Bed by AkhereOkaka(m): 10:25am On Nov 29, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
He should buy another TV and put in his bedroom.
Simple, this shouldn't be an issue, since he loves watching Tv at night he should buy one and put in the bedroom.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by AkhereOkaka(m): 12:52pm On Nov 25, 2019
udemzyudex:
He said they have been dating for 2 good years and he has never for once receive any gift even if it's is small.

My guy even if you're earning #5k are you trying to tell me that you can't even buy something of #500 for you babe? Or she can't buy a gift or even save #100 every month to even buy him a gift?
Has nothing to do with what she's earning.
Absolutely apt a person that gas a given mindset will always give no matter how small it is, irrespective of his/her earnings
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by AkhereOkaka(m): 12:47pm On Nov 25, 2019
Starlight10:
you guys want a perfect woman but you ain't perfect. She is not cheating, they have good sex life, she has her job so not a liability. You want him to go out and end up with a cheating girl. Anyway let me mind my Bussines.
Perfection has nothing to do with the issues been espouse here, if i may ask you can you date such a guy that has that kind of attitude? what the Op is saying relationship should be give and take( no matter her little it is from her part). If he can cope with it let him wife her, if not he knows what to do. This kind of lady will have money with her even if there's an emergency which needs money she will tell the husband that she doesn't have. A friend of mine told me that was how her step Mum behave, she will hide groceries and tell the husband to bring money for groceries after he gave her the money she will keep the money and bring out the hidden groceries.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Extremely Stingy. Should I Be Worried? by AkhereOkaka(m): 12:30pm On Nov 25, 2019
majormofor:
You man, your dating yourself o... If a girl truly loves you she would buy something without telling you.
Best advice---"buy something for urself and let her know it's New and tell her, it's one of your female friends that bought it and you love it soooooo much..
Let see how we go from there. Her reaction should speak more
You're absolutely right, relationship should be give and take between partners involved, no matter how little it is. I once had an ex like that she told me my money is ours why her money is hers. I told her bluntly that such mentality is wrong. My advise to you count your teeth with your tongue, people hardly change even when they're married. If you know you can cope with such attitude wife her but if not you know what to do, he who wears the shoes knows where it pinches. Stop seeking validation here cause i know your instinct must have told you what to do why not follow it?

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