₦airaland Forum

Yinabim:
OP ! The truth is the girl is greedy and she has no feeling for you , she’s just in the relationship for the money , a girl that loves you will help you save n make future plans .

Lemme just tell u what will happen if u marry her
1) You will go broke
2)She will call you names in the house , telling u how useless n stupid you’ve been
3) U will develop a HBP
4)U will seek a divorce ( it will be too late then)
5) I pray you don’t die young .

You've said it all, one of the best advise i have read in Nairaland for a long while. Thanks dear

timelessaproko:
Source: http://timelessaproko.com/2019/10/14/life-check-frank-edoho-past-decision-now-having-a-toll-on-his-present-as-he-ages/

Biased write up, men and women changes okay

ZombieTAMER:
After collecting Egunje at the back yard



Who says Nigeria will be great again?

Who is that idiot

We are the architects of our own misfortune

These politicians are laughing at us... Using the poverty they created as a weapon

There is no hope

You've said all, the way things are there's no hope of a better Nigeria

Rednaxelot:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/10359059_img20191008wa0033_jpeg31790e55c3cafa4384b033151ffe7910The same Aba north where one will need a canoe to get to the secretariat from the main road.

These are obviously paid agents

I'm telling you, seeing things like these on social media i weep for Nigeria and Nigerians. Indeed there was a country

Kosiso12:
BREAKING!! Women Storm Aba in Support of Ikpeazu, Lampoon Anti-Govt Protesters (Happening Now)

By Wisdom Nwedene

Aba women, on Tuesday, stormed various streets in Abia State to show their support for Governor Okezie Ikpeazu.

Igbere TV correspondent monitoring the development said the protesters carried placards with inscription such as,

'Our Governor Is Working'.

'Aba Women Support Ikpeazu'

'Aba North Support Ikpeazu'.

The women also lampooned some women who had earlier stormed Aba protesting against the governor.

The women described them as ‘detractors’and cautioned them against working for the interest of the state.

Speaking with Igbere TV correspondent, one of the protesters, Ijeoma Obinna said Ikpeazu is working.

“Our governor is working and should be allowed to continue his good works. I want to tell you that the women who protested in the morning were paid to do such”, she added.



Igbere TV had reported that angry women numbering hundreds, on Tuesday, shutdown Aba over bad roads in Abia State.

The women issued 90 days ultimatum to Governor Okezie Ikpeazu to fix the bad roads.

Source : http://igberetvnews.com/1053855/breaking-women-storm-aba-support-ikpeazu-lampoon-anti-govt-protesters-happening-now/

Paid crowd, i weep for Nigeria and Nigerians

Gaggi:
The funny thing is that some married women in his church will rather listen to him than their husbands. Being a 'pastor' in Nigeria is an automatic pass to free sex. Women consider it a privilege to be knacked by a 'pastor'.

You're right, they(women) call them Daddy mean while most of them does not respect their husband at home. Believe any man of God or God of men at your own peril

Celebrityblog:
https://www.instagram.com/p/B3WNGLMnZh9/?igshid=rr3xe2q8emf1

http://www..com/2019/10/video-meet-pastor-marvelous-odalo.html?m=1

This is a despicable and condemnable act, religion has been turn to something else in Nigeria, most of these men of God or God of men are evil and fraudsters.

AfroKnight:
Lol. What a narrow, rigid and amusing line of thought!




There is no guarantee that the girl(s) you meet/date (or in your words, groom) in high school and university would marry you. As long as they have minds of their own, like normal human beings, they are capable of choosing whom they would marry. And you might not be on that list.

Perhaps you would drag them to the altar To fulfil your proper, calculated arrangement for marriage.

People change. Mindsets evolve. A down to earth girl who wasn’t materialistic years ago can become extremely materialistic tomorrow and still down to earth, to boot. Whose fault?

If you think long courtship/friendship is the key to lasting marriage, then you have a rude awakening awaiting you.

Sometimes, all it takes for a person to have a paradigm shift in values is a triggering event. One eureka moment and boom, “bad bîtch” level is unlocked!


The best advice I can give anyone is “marry a kind person, who actually likes you and wants you too.”

You've said it all, bar man give this young man a bottle of chilled Gulder.
The only thing that is constant in life is change for someone to say groom a girl from high school, university blah blah shows how myopic thinks

Jordanbelfort07:
this is how things should be
a woman is supposed to be begging a man for marriage and not the other way round.

You won't kill me with laugh!!! Udon minit

Showbby28:
Kenneth Udeh, Abuja

Senator representing Imo West, Senator Rochas Okorocha has advocated the reduction in the number of senators representing various states at the National Assembly, especially at the Senate.

Okorocha a former governor of Imo State elected on the platform of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) , made this known during Thursday’s plenary session.

He made the comments during his contribution to the Medium Term Expenditure Framework And Fiscal Strategy Paper submitted by the joint committee on finance and national planning.

He stressed that if the plan was implemented, it would help to reduce the cost of governance in the country, stating that it would further help the country maintain fiscal discipline.



He said: “This country must begin to make sacrifices; our country provides that we have three Senators, but what are the three Senators per state doing that one single senator from that state cannot do? With over 300 representatives from the states, each of them creates increased demands from the economic system.

“What we need to have under the present ugly economic situation is have a statutory representative one per state to reduce the cost of governance.

“Secondly, we need to fund the productive sector of our economy. Government is business. Our Senate must not operate our budget from an accountant’s perspective but an economic perspective

The Senate President, Ahmed Lawan, in his reaction, advised Sen. Okorocha to formulate a constitution-amendment bill to back up his contribution.

He said: “Your contribution can be translated into a bill; if you want a state to have only one senator, your contribution requires a constitutional amendment.

“You have the opportunity to present a bill to seek for the amendment of the relevant sections of the constitution that provides for three senators per state.
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/to-cut-cost-of-governance-okorocha-advocates-one-senator-per-state/

The issue is not one senator representing a state, the solution is a unicameral national Assembly, we don't need the house of senate. House of representatives is enough

zuchyblink:
Is he not the son of the Senegalese Fadiga who also stole in the 2002 FIFA world Cup?

Yes he is

OrestesDante:




∆


When I started reading I thought all you is need is just a friend to cheer you up to move on, but when I saw

" I pay School fees..." I think you need to see a doctor.


Money you should have saved for yourself at least you can pride on something of your own but now you are losing both ways.

She is gone!
Money gone!!


Signed: Governor Pad


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When will guys learn, why Will you pay school fees for a girl who's not your wife? She nags and accuses you of cheating of which you're not and you kept calm. I spit on this thread

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Kindly tell him how you feel(that his presence irritate you), stop wasting his time

Charleys:


This tax is directed towards Christian's. We all know Oyo is a Muslim state.

The Christian's need to pay for being there.

Please we should stop been senti

explosiveskull:
To me zoning is nonsense, I'd have preferred it goes on competency and merit even if it happens to be from one tribe I'd really not care just the problem that is to be tackled is to bringing good governance to the populace.
This is just my personal opinion and may not be conformable to other people's idea.

You're talking of competence, don't we have competent persons in every region? Indeed the end of this contraption called Nigeria is gradually coming to an end.

AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.

Did you insure the car? That's why it's advisable to buy insurance policy to take care of eventualities especially car insurance policy(Not third party), but Nigerians see it as a waste of resources(money)

donbachi:
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...

But what please be explicit

LadySarah:
Might be Rhesus Factor issue.

You're right dear, this was what i suggest both of them should go for test at the hospital to confirm Rhesus compatibility, what most Nigerian intending couple does is just to confirm genotype compatibility neglecting the Rhesus compatibility also.

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

My candid advise is for you to let her go, she's an unrepentant liar and she can't change, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage though is painful please let her go

eTECTIV:
https://www.thecable.ng/video-boko-haram-occupying-8-out-of-10-lgas-in-northern-borno-says-apc-rep/amp

Didn't the federal government and the defence headquarters said they(Boko Haram) are not holding any territory in the north East that they have been completely decimated

TruthinAction:
That means you can accept to quit your job for a private business that keeps you closer to your home and kids?

I mean the lady not the man

Pettyprincess:
I will advice you to go for the second guy,you will definitely learn to love him
I think the first guy isn't serious about the relationship,this is the kind of guy that will keep on apologizing bt will never change nd make you loose a serious guy.Nw that you have seen a perfect guy you shouldn't let go of him or you might regret it!!!

You girls are saying she should forget about his first guy and go for the second, but don't you think this can lead to cheating in no distant time on the part of the girl since her heart is still with the first guy?
My advise to the girl in question if you know your heart is not with the second guy kindly let him go. There will be other girl who will love him, now i know most girls truely do not really know what they want. I spit on this thread

TruthinAction:
This question is for ladies. I asked this because the cheatings going on in most marriages from the women comes through the nature of work some of the women do. Hence, some men insist their wives stay at home why they make the money. How would you respond to a man you loved to settle down with if he tells you stay at home or at least work from home?

In present they world economy no reasonable middle class man will even want such, even if she's not working in a formal organisations setting, she can be doing her thing in an informal setting i mean business(self employed) which will give her ample opportunity to also take care of the home(kids)

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

I will advise both of you go for blood group( Rhesus) check if you both are compatible so that whenever she's pregnant there's a treated she can be given to prevent miscarriages

zoba88:
A young man butchered his mother with a machete and ran into the bush on
Sunday morning 22nd September in Agbura community, Bayelsa State.

The victim who was already dressed and was ready for church service when the incident happened was taken unaware according to reports. The said young man is reported to be having mental challenges.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/man-butchers-his-mother-in-bayelsaruns.html?m=1

This is a despicable act, may God not allow us give birth to child that will take our life Amen

Darammliveth:
How on earth can you agree to a no sex relationship with a girl who is not a virgin anymore? Well the whole story looks fake to me because a sane man cannot tolerate such. Man pikin don suffer for punna hand o

I cannot condone such, the only ground i may(conditional statement) consider such is if she's a virgin apart from that it is a no no for me, when we talk of compatibility in marriage not only medical, financial, values and behavioural
compatibility. Sexual compatibility is also involved

binarymachine:
We fall in love and enter into relationships most of the time with the intention that we would like it to last a life time. We give our best to it, make sacrifices, endure, tolerate, fight for our partners and give our all just to make things work out and ensure that the love lasts forever. Sometimes in the end we are met with disappointments and our heart falls and shatter.

All the dreams, hope and fantasies we built around the person and the love seems to be going in vain right before our eyes and we can’t do anything about it. Worst of all, you realise someone’s else is taking over a spot you have worked for and you are helpless about it.

You take desperate steps to fix things, try to rekindle the love you used to share, turn deaf ears to your family and friend’s advices, push them away and try to please him or her just to see things move again but in the end you cry because it gets worse and you realise you are losing what you thought will end with “happy ever after”.

Dear, realise that everything happens for a reason and blessings sometimes come in disguise. Maybe it was never meant to be, maybe it was never going to work out, maybe destiny is dragging you out of a sinking ship. It will hurt real bad, it would be hard at first, but it could be for the best. Time heals all wounds.

Don’t try to wake a dead man. Cry, regret, feel sad, feel betrayed but move on. It is not your fault things went bad, It’s just what destiny is. Keep moving and show them that you are strong and your life does not start and end with them. What is in front will be better, today is gone but tomorrow will come and it will be brighter.

Source: http://flipmemes.com/2019/09/08/everything-happens-for-a-reason-move-on/

Exactly what I'm going through now for the last two months, have tried making it work but is not. It's painful how humans changes from more than friends to a total stranger

Muttee:
Ediozi Odi, a Nigerian human trafficking kingpin, has been sentenced to 129 years imprisonment in addition to 6 life sentences in Pretoria, South Africa. Underage victims are from poor homes and were promised a better life, but had no idea that they were entering his brothel - a house disguised as a barbershop.

Once inside, the girls were immediately forced to smoke highly addictive drugs manufactured and sold by Odi. Once the victims were exposed to the drug, they were immediately hooked and would do anything to get their hands on it. The girls, mostly aged 13 and 14, told the court that once high on the drugs, Odi himself raped them “to teach them the tools of the trade” as an initiation into the sex trade.

According to the report, the victims were locked up in the house for the duration of their stay, while Odi send his workers to prowl the streets for prospective clients. They were also locked up in a dungeon (pictured) under the floor of the house whenever the police raided.

The girls were paid for their prostitution by means of drugs and they hardly got any food. The brothel master took all their proceeds.

https://all-gists..com/2019/09/nigerian-human-trafficking-bags-6-life-sentences-and-an-additional-129-years-in-jail.html

His village people has picked his call

pocohantas:
She looks very hot tempered and vindictive.

If she still has this kind of look, despite the obvious mess she is in- I don't wanna imagine how the marriage was.

Temperamental people is a no no for me, hot temper ladies and gentlemen are time bomb

stephenduru:
According to the story shared by an online user, a masquerade killed a man in Orsu,Imo State.

He lamented why masquerades should be allowed to move with weapons.

Below is what he wrote....

'I have always said it and will continue to say it , I see no reason why masquerade should be roaming abt with weapons, guns, dagger, knife  etc.This happened in orsu around the udah/ihiteukwa axis..

Tradition will always be tradition BT it does not worth the life of anybody .. Our tradition need urgent measure cos its not the first time such an accident is happening.

Houses have been burnt down BT the dead will never rise again.

Evil guys hide under the name of tradition to carry out their evil deed.

Why dis now'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/masquerade-kills-man-in-orsuimo.html?m=1

When you think you've seen it all, Nigeria and Nigerians will never stop to amaze us