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zuchyblink:
Is he not the son of the Senegalese Fadiga who also stole in the 2002 FIFA world Cup?

Yes he is

OrestesDante:




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When I started reading I thought all you is need is just a friend to cheer you up to move on, but when I saw

" I pay School fees..." I think you need to see a doctor.


Money you should have saved for yourself at least you can pride on something of your own but now you are losing both ways.

She is gone!
Money gone!!


Signed: Governor Pad


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When will guys learn, why Will you pay school fees for a girl who's not your wife? She nags and accuses you of cheating of which you're not and you kept calm. I spit on this thread

Ellatee256:
Hi everyone,
I'm 23 yrs and currently running my HND program.
I have a bf and we have been dating for almost a year.

We do almost everything together and we see each other every single day...
But now am irritated by him.

He comes to my hostel from his office everyday but now seeing him irritates me the more.
I just want a break but I don't want to hurt him.
This isn't the first time its happening to me,
I've had two boyfriends before I met my new bf and same thing happened with them.

Its just like I meet a guy I like..,we love each other and I get excited and then few months later I get irritated by them....

I told my elder sis about it and she dragged me to church saying I have spiritual problems but that's not the issue....

Sometimes I just want my time alone but my bf doesn't seem to understand that.
Have tried to ignore him and all but he doesn't get the message am passing........
He wants me to meet his mum but have been giving him excuses....

I don't know why I feel like this with only the guys I date cuz I don't feel that way with my friends and family in fact I want to be with them everyday but its different in my relationships...
I want to end things with my boyfriend without hurting him cuz I can't keep acting and I can't keep wasting his time.

I think I have a problem and I don't know what to do.
I don't want this to affect me when I get married cuz there won't be a break in marriage...
Pls kindly advice
Thanks

Kindly tell him how you feel(that his presence irritate you), stop wasting his time

Charleys:


This tax is directed towards Christian's. We all know Oyo is a Muslim state.

The Christian's need to pay for being there.

Please we should stop been senti

explosiveskull:
To me zoning is nonsense, I'd have preferred it goes on competency and merit even if it happens to be from one tribe I'd really not care just the problem that is to be tackled is to bringing good governance to the populace.
This is just my personal opinion and may not be conformable to other people's idea.

You're talking of competence, don't we have competent persons in every region? Indeed the end of this contraption called Nigeria is gradually coming to an end.

AbelAbdul:
Hello house. Some of you might be familiar with this username. I'm the guy who was on this platform months ago asking which of the cars to buy and start a transport business b/w toyota and honda.

Thanks to moderator who moved the topic to fp and i got the answer i needed.

I bought a vehicle 'bus 18seater' and kicked off the business. The business has been filled with pains and joy but i always keep my head up.

Two days ago the car failed break so i parked it by the road hoping to return the next day with a mechanic since it was night. Coming the next day, electric pole and fence fell on the bus and damaged it beyond repairs.

The cause of the accident is as a result of the gutter a construction company dug.

Should i sue d company? What should i do. Am confused and depressed. 60% of the money i used in buying the bus was a loan. I haven't paid it.

Pls lawyers in nl advice me.

Did you insure the car? That's why it's advisable to buy insurance policy to take care of eventualities especially car insurance policy(Not third party), but Nigerians see it as a waste of resources(money)

donbachi:
they don't cheat.cares for their wives....BUT...

But what please be explicit

LadySarah:
Might be Rhesus Factor issue.

You're right dear, this was what i suggest both of them should go for test at the hospital to confirm Rhesus compatibility, what most Nigerian intending couple does is just to confirm genotype compatibility neglecting the Rhesus compatibility also.

Yugoteey2k:
Please I Need some advice.

I meet her 2yrs ago at my villag., some one intrudused her to me. We exchange number and started talking. I made my intentions to her that am coming to her for marriage, I also told her that we needed to know each other very well before any thing. I also asked her if she is in any relationship and she said NO.
We started dating.
I wanted to see her people on Apirl this year and I asked her to come back home. She came back.
On that faithful day, a call came into my phone which I did not know the person, it was a guy , he was asking me my name and some questions which I answered. I told my girl what was going on if he know the person,she said no but łater said she used the person number to call me one day and why is the person call me .I said ok, May be the person might call back.
After so mins the guy called back and ask me If I know a girl called.....that my girlfriend I told him YES that she is my wife to be. The guy now told me that she have been playing games to both of us..that she told him that am his brother. That he have been dating her for 4yrs now , also both of them even made love before she came back to see me. The guy said a lot of things.
I later ask her to tell me the truth on what is going on, at the begining she denied but at the end she accepted.
I asked her to go home and promised her I will not tell any body. She went home crying and told her brother who later called me .
To cut the whole story shot.,she pleaded and promised it will not happen again that the guy was threaten to kill her if she leave him. That she was not doing all those things with her mind.
I later forgived her .

But the question is , should I still trust her again?

My candid advise is for you to let her go, she's an unrepentant liar and she can't change, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage though is painful please let her go

eTECTIV:
https://www.thecable.ng/video-boko-haram-occupying-8-out-of-10-lgas-in-northern-borno-says-apc-rep/amp

Didn't the federal government and the defence headquarters said they(Boko Haram) are not holding any territory in the north East that they have been completely decimated

TruthinAction:
That means you can accept to quit your job for a private business that keeps you closer to your home and kids?

I mean the lady not the man

Pettyprincess:
I will advice you to go for the second guy,you will definitely learn to love him
I think the first guy isn't serious about the relationship,this is the kind of guy that will keep on apologizing bt will never change nd make you loose a serious guy.Nw that you have seen a perfect guy you shouldn't let go of him or you might regret it!!!

You girls are saying she should forget about his first guy and go for the second, but don't you think this can lead to cheating in no distant time on the part of the girl since her heart is still with the first guy?
My advise to the girl in question if you know your heart is not with the second guy kindly let him go. There will be other girl who will love him, now i know most girls truely do not really know what they want. I spit on this thread

TruthinAction:
This question is for ladies. I asked this because the cheatings going on in most marriages from the women comes through the nature of work some of the women do. Hence, some men insist their wives stay at home why they make the money. How would you respond to a man you loved to settle down with if he tells you stay at home or at least work from home?

In present they world economy no reasonable middle class man will even want such, even if she's not working in a formal organisations setting, she can be doing her thing in an informal setting i mean business(self employed) which will give her ample opportunity to also take care of the home(kids)

Vincent88:
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me.

I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone.

Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please.

I will advise both of you go for blood group( Rhesus) check if you both are compatible so that whenever she's pregnant there's a treated she can be given to prevent miscarriages

zoba88:
A young man butchered his mother with a machete and ran into the bush on
Sunday morning 22nd September in Agbura community, Bayelsa State.

The victim who was already dressed and was ready for church service when the incident happened was taken unaware according to reports. The said young man is reported to be having mental challenges.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/man-butchers-his-mother-in-bayelsaruns.html?m=1

This is a despicable act, may God not allow us give birth to child that will take our life Amen

Darammliveth:
How on earth can you agree to a no sex relationship with a girl who is not a virgin anymore? Well the whole story looks fake to me because a sane man cannot tolerate such. Man pikin don suffer for punna hand o

I cannot condone such, the only ground i may(conditional statement) consider such is if she's a virgin apart from that it is a no no for me, when we talk of compatibility in marriage not only medical, financial, values and behavioural
compatibility. Sexual compatibility is also involved

binarymachine:
We fall in love and enter into relationships most of the time with the intention that we would like it to last a life time. We give our best to it, make sacrifices, endure, tolerate, fight for our partners and give our all just to make things work out and ensure that the love lasts forever. Sometimes in the end we are met with disappointments and our heart falls and shatter.

All the dreams, hope and fantasies we built around the person and the love seems to be going in vain right before our eyes and we can’t do anything about it. Worst of all, you realise someone’s else is taking over a spot you have worked for and you are helpless about it.

You take desperate steps to fix things, try to rekindle the love you used to share, turn deaf ears to your family and friend’s advices, push them away and try to please him or her just to see things move again but in the end you cry because it gets worse and you realise you are losing what you thought will end with “happy ever after”.

Dear, realise that everything happens for a reason and blessings sometimes come in disguise. Maybe it was never meant to be, maybe it was never going to work out, maybe destiny is dragging you out of a sinking ship. It will hurt real bad, it would be hard at first, but it could be for the best. Time heals all wounds.

Don’t try to wake a dead man. Cry, regret, feel sad, feel betrayed but move on. It is not your fault things went bad, It’s just what destiny is. Keep moving and show them that you are strong and your life does not start and end with them. What is in front will be better, today is gone but tomorrow will come and it will be brighter.

Source: http://flipmemes.com/2019/09/08/everything-happens-for-a-reason-move-on/

Exactly what I'm going through now for the last two months, have tried making it work but is not. It's painful how humans changes from more than friends to a total stranger

Muttee:
Ediozi Odi, a Nigerian human trafficking kingpin, has been sentenced to 129 years imprisonment in addition to 6 life sentences in Pretoria, South Africa. Underage victims are from poor homes and were promised a better life, but had no idea that they were entering his brothel - a house disguised as a barbershop.

Once inside, the girls were immediately forced to smoke highly addictive drugs manufactured and sold by Odi. Once the victims were exposed to the drug, they were immediately hooked and would do anything to get their hands on it. The girls, mostly aged 13 and 14, told the court that once high on the drugs, Odi himself raped them “to teach them the tools of the trade” as an initiation into the sex trade.

According to the report, the victims were locked up in the house for the duration of their stay, while Odi send his workers to prowl the streets for prospective clients. They were also locked up in a dungeon (pictured) under the floor of the house whenever the police raided.

The girls were paid for their prostitution by means of drugs and they hardly got any food. The brothel master took all their proceeds.

https://all-gists..com/2019/09/nigerian-human-trafficking-bags-6-life-sentences-and-an-additional-129-years-in-jail.html

His village people has picked his call

pocohantas:
She looks very hot tempered and vindictive.

If she still has this kind of look, despite the obvious mess she is in- I don't wanna imagine how the marriage was.

Temperamental people is a no no for me, hot temper ladies and gentlemen are time bomb

stephenduru:
According to the story shared by an online user, a masquerade killed a man in Orsu,Imo State.

He lamented why masquerades should be allowed to move with weapons.

Below is what he wrote....

'I have always said it and will continue to say it , I see no reason why masquerade should be roaming abt with weapons, guns, dagger, knife  etc.This happened in orsu around the udah/ihiteukwa axis..

Tradition will always be tradition BT it does not worth the life of anybody .. Our tradition need urgent measure cos its not the first time such an accident is happening.

Houses have been burnt down BT the dead will never rise again.

Evil guys hide under the name of tradition to carry out their evil deed.

Why dis now'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/masquerade-kills-man-in-orsuimo.html?m=1

When you think you've seen it all, Nigeria and Nigerians will never stop to amaze us

CotenantNIG:
Hi Guys

We continue with our series cost of rent around in Nigeria, Today we look at Anambra State
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Anambra is a state located in the southeastern part of Nigeria. Its name is an anglicized version of the original 'Oma Mbala', the native name of the Anambra River. Anambra has its capital as Akwa. There are two biggest and commercial and industrial cities in this state which are Onitsha and Nnewi.
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The state has its theme as "Light Of The Nation". The state is bound by Delta to the west, Imo to the south, Enugu to the east and Kogi state to the north. The dominant ethnic group is Igbo. Anambra is the eighth most populated state in Nigeria and the second most densely populated state in Nigeria after Lagos State. The stretch of more than 45 km between Oba and Amorka contains a cluster of numerous thickly populated villages and small towns giving the area an estimated average density of 1,500â€2,000 persons per square kilometre.

Lagos, Abuja, Ogun, Imo, Anambra, Rivers are the most expensive states to live in Nigeria

Dont forget On Cotenant You Can get shared apartments, Short Lets, Mini Flats and 1 bedroom apartments all across Nigeria

CBN Awka Nodu Okpuno
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦350,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦500,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦250,000 per year

maryland estate Amawbia
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦300,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦270,000 per year

Ziks Avenue Awka
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦400,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year

commissioner quarters
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦500,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦350,000 per year

umudim uru community nnewi
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦400,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦280,000 per year

Aguonye Awka
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦450,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦320,000 per year

nodu okpuno
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦200,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦350,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦170,000 per year

Government House
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦750,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦1,000,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦550,000 per year

Ifite
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦485,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦600,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year


Agu Awka Close To Immigration
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦300,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦500,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦200,000 per year

Odada
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦120,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦150,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦80,000 per year

Ngozika housing estate
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦500,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦800,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦450,000 per year

Uru Community Nnewi
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦250,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦320,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦150,000 per year

Kwata
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is ₦350,000 per year. The most expensive flat costs ₦450,000 per year while the cheapest cost ₦300,000 per year

Onitsha
The average price of 2 bedroom flats for rent is Source

Thank you

i dont guarantee this are the real price but estimate

Dont forget to add yours

Anambra is a nice place, did my NYSC there

ubunja:
How A Woman Gold Digs You.


PROLOGUE.
Women love money. Like you love sex. The thrill and ecstasy you feel as a man holding a woman's nàkéd soft body in your hands, a woman feels holding your money, NOT holding your nàkéd hard body.

And so, as you scheme and think of ways to get more and more sex out of your woman, your woman schemes and thinks of ways to get more and more money out of you.

But as a man you can be shameless in your pursuit of more sex because male greed is celebrated. With titles like Stud. But female greed, in any form, is frowned upon. If a woman hungers for more sex she's a nymphomaniac. If she hungers for more babies she's a Baby Factory. And if she hungers for more money she's a Gold Digger. She's High Maintenance. She's Materialistic. All negative titles.

So in her pursuit of "the bag", a woman is forced to be extra cunning in her methodology. She must be very subtle. She must secure the Bag without securing any unsavory titles.

THE PROBLEM.
The biggest problem women face when digging a man for money is that they start out wrong:

At the earliest stages of a relationship, many a woman seeks to impress a new BF by not demanding money, hoping to appear low-maintenance. And virtuous. But when the relationship takes off it becomes difficult to shed that image. How can she start demanding money now when she initially presented herself as above it?

She started out wrong. In love, how you start matters. For both men and women.

So instead of flat-out asking for money, the woman is then forced to come up with elaborate, well thoughtout schemes to get her pretty little hands on her man's pretty little bag.

SCRIPTS & SCENARIOS

Women have gold digger groups on Social Media where they share "Scripts" (things to say) and "Scenarios" (plots to act out) to get what they want from men. And they really mean business.

This writeup will showcase just a few of these tricks and techniques so you get a general idea of the female cunning you're up against.

But keep in mind that the methods and procedures listed here are mainly for minor league gold diggers. The type you're most likely to cross paths with. Major league gold diggers, the type that target ministers, CEOs and billionaires, play a higher level game and you're less likely to cross paths with them, for they don't move in the circles you move in. And while small time gold diggers use skimpy provocative outfits to get a man's moola, big time gold diggers use a weapon of an entirely different nature: Femininity. Which is a woman's true power.

Now that we've that out of the way, let's get this show on the road...

YOUR WEAK POINTS.
When it comes to female manipulation, your Ego is your greatest weakness. Followed by your Libido.

Let's start with the libido. .

HOW WOMEN CUT YOU OFF SEX TO GET WHAT THEY WANT FROM YOU.
Men love sex. Every woman knows that from an early age. And so the easiest of a woman's schemes will centre around controlling your access to sex. If a woman wants something from you, if she really wants your attention, she closes her legs and cuts off the sex.

But NOT in the way you think. She does it indirectly.

Let's say your girl wants a new pair of shoes. She can't afford them and for whatever reason she can't ask her father for the money. So she has to trick and deceive you. Her BF.

Like this: She comes in one day distraught and very stressed. You ask what's bothering her. She tells you she and her sister/mother/cousin/best friend had a fight. Why? Because your GF asked for money for [insert any worthwhile cause here] but now she can't pay it back because of A B C. Now her relationship with said creditor/lender has hit rock bottom. And the relationship meant a lot to her. Now she's stressed and can't think straight. She has constant headaches and can't even sleep (she takes a panado in your presence to make the story more believable).

Then here comes the part where the sex cut happens---------------> Then she tells you she's so stressed and burdened that she CANT EVEN THINK OF SEX. LET ALONE GET TURNED ON.

And just like that she has cut off the sex. And you don't even see.
Edit: Check Out The First Comment Below

ANALYSIS:
It's a wining manipulation.

Apparently, she has a problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life. She knows you won't give a crap about her problems unless they directly affect the One thing you want most from her: Her Pussy.

So she ties the pussy into the issue - She can't get wet. Meaning: No Sex For You buddy. Unless and until the problem is solved.

And because you really like that sweet kitten, it's a great stress reliever, and what's more, you're hooked on it, you resolve to do all in your power to solve her problem. If only to keep her legs open. If for no other reason than to get your daily dose of your pussy drug.

And so you ask her how much she owes. She tells you. It's not even a grievous amount. You dare not let an amount as small as a quarter of your salary get between you and your beloved kitten. And so you make an offer to settle her debt: "Okay, I'll give you the money"

Her reaction is instant! Her face lights up. She jumps on you and showers you with kisses and Thank Yous. And on that day, maybe after a long while, she actually initiates sex. (She's genuinely happy. She's getting a new pair of shoes soon.)

So, it will happen that after giving her the money for whatever she needed, she'll come one day with a new pair of shoes.

That's your money buddy.

HOW YOUR GIRL WILL PLAY THE GAME.
Obviously when your girl comes to you, it won't be about shoes. It will be about anything under the sun. Anything. But the pattern will be the same: A sob story and a financial problem that somehow ends up affecting your sex life, that you're forced to solve for her by offering to help out, and a few days later she comes with something new. Maybe it's a new phone or a new hairstyle or a new pair of jeans.

When a girl tells you she's not in the mood for sex, or can't think of sex, after sharing her financial problems, that's her cutting you off sex to force you to solve her financial problems for her because of your love for sex.

When your girl constantly comes with something new after you help her with some money issue you've to realize it's no longer a coincidence. She's gold digging you.

THE LIMPING GIRL WITH THE BANDAGED FOOT.
Women are great actors. The best.

Don't put it past a woman to bandage her foot and come to you limping telling you she sprained her ankle just so you give her money to go to a doctor that she'll proceed to divert to get a new hairstyle.

How does she justify the deceit to herself?: "I'm doing it to be pretty for him".

Women fund their fancy frivolities by asking for money for legitimate causes then diverting the money to said fancy frivolities

Also be wary of the girl with the bandaged foot walking around limping. That's how women hide an STI infection. If you know you know.

THE LONG GAME.
Sometimes a woman's scheme is a long time in the making. Months even. Which makes it even the more believable in the end. Like the next scenario:

THE FAKE FUNERAL.
For example, a girl may tell you of a sick relative somewhere who progressively gets worse as each month passes until half a year later they pass away. And because she kept you updated over the months you don't even once suspect it's all a scheme. You promptly give her the money she needs to go pay her respects. Those few days you think she's in another state mourning her dearly departed, she's visiting her aunty in another suburb not far from where you live. And you're yet to give her more money. When she requests for the transport fare back home.

Fake Funerals are effective for the simple reasons that 1. You won't want to accompany her cause we all hate funerals and watching your girl cry is not easy; And 2. No one dares question and verify anything that's to do with funerals. It's taboo. Which makes the scenario appealing to utilize

The Fake Funeral can also be a Fake Accident, a Fake Illness or even a Fake Trip. Anything can be faked. But the common denominator in every Fake story is that YOU have to foot the bill for whatever is happening.

THE BROKE GIVER.
Sometimes a broke woman gets your money by falsely attributing her broke state to virtue.

When a woman loves telling you of her generosity to church and charity especially in connection with why she's always broke or why she can't afford this or that, it's her way of motivating you to assist her financially since her own finances are being channeled to the "greater good". eg "All my friends have new laptops. Wish I could get one too. But I can't get a new computer when there are children out there going to bed hungry. I find myself helping those less blessed".

And your heart then tells you, "Wow this girl is amazing! What a good heart she has! How much are new laptops anyways? Maybe I can surprise her with one!"

She's counting on that very dialogue you're having with yourself.

You can bet her friends don't have new laptops. And you can bet she ain't giving no cent to no hungry children.

THE SINGLE MOTHER.
Women are emotional manipulators.

Meaning a Single Mother will wait till you've emotionally bonded with her after weeks of nonstop sexual intercourse then drop the bombshell: "I have a kid".

By then you're too emotionally invested to pull out. So you start rationalizing the situation to yourself: "Ofcourse I never wanted to raise another man's kid... But this boy is handsome and well-behaved.... Didn't uncle Tobias also raise another man's child?... But this woman herself is beautiful. ... This can be my chance to have a gorgeous GF!"

And so you become Step Father. Your money raising another man's sperm product.

Whenever a woman waits until you've fvcked her to your heart's content then brings out her kids, just know it's a manipulation. A woman who means well will tell you upfront she has kids. But then again that would scare you off. So...

Now let's talk about your Ego...

WHAT IS THE MALE EGO?
Men are socially conditioned to hate sharing. To be territorial. Hence the virgin is more valuable than the slut as a wife. And cheating is the biggest deal breaker. While it takes the smallest thing to arouse jealousy.

Men are also conditioned to feel at their best providing for their women. Hence men are especially sensitive to broke shaming.

And so, Having a woman all for himself and providing for her, all on his own; is what makes a man feel like a "real man". This feeling is his Ego. It's strong as steel. It's the reason men go to war to die for their women. But it's also fragile. Something as simple as a woman having her own money shatters it. Because a man's sense of worth hinges on him being useful to his woman.

So Ego is simultaneously a man's greatest asset, and his greatest vulnerability.

As a vulnerability It makes him such a joy to manipulate.

HOW WOMEN PLAY WITH YOUR EGO TO GET YOUR MONEY.
Your Ego is your greatest enemy. And women know this. Everytime you hear women say, "Real men don't do A B C", just know a manipulation is loading...

Your woman targets your Ego in surprisingly easy ways: Does your woman have a lot of stuff that she claims is "borrowed", from friends and family?
If Yes. Then she's working your ego.

Many times if a woman can't directly ask for money for an item she comes to you with an item like it and makes an effort to let you know it's borrowed. It will start eating you up that your woman is using borrowed things, while you've cash to spare to get her those very things. That's your disloyal Ego setting you on the wrong path. Your ego whispers "a real man can't allow his woman to go begging other people for stuff".

Your girl is counting on you telling yourself that. Your Ego is how she gets things from you. Your Ego is her best friend.

But if your girl really wants to pull your strings and really work your ego; she mentions her Ex: "This phone was bought for me by my ex. I don't like using it. It keeps reminding me of him".

And that's the bait right there.

Your territorial nature is now used against you. Because you've a strong dislike of sharing your woman with any man past or present, never is your ego more rattled than at the mention of an Ex. Especially in connection with money and memories. It makes you feel inadequate. And jealous.

Your ego is now practically screaming at your ear to get her a new phone. Obviously one that will rival the one her Ex gave her. Like a puppet on strings you're making the moves your woman wants you to make.

HOW WOMEN USE MOODS TO GET THEIR WAY.
Men have been raised with the misguided belief that women's happiness is their responsibility. A man feels his job well done when his woman is happy. But it should be the other way round. WOMEN are the ones who were put on the Earth to be responsible for the happiness of men. Wasn't Eve made for Adam?

The modern Adam has been cruelly misinformed.

For if his woman asks for something and he denies her, all the woman has to do is to be sad and moody until he gives in. Nothing directly affects a man like his woman's moods. And sooner or later her constant sadness wears him down and he yields to her demands.

Women get moody to get their way.

Because a man enjoys coming home to a beautiful happy face he would sooner give in to his woman's demands than endure days of a sombre downcast face meeting him at the door. But it's all a manipulation.

YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP ME.
Has a woman ever called you with a problem and said, "There's no one who can help me except you!" ? That was a lie designed to bait the Provider in you.

Women ALWAYS have men for different purposes to help them.

A woman has one man for rent, another for Dick, another for comfort, another for love, another for free labour etc. Trust me, she is NEVER out of options. She only acts like she's out of options to make you think you're her only option, not only in money but in sex and everything else. Which is a manipulation: If a woman doesn't ask you for money you start to think she's getting it somewhere. Probably getting fvcked for it. But if she asks you for money and really truly BEGS you for it, you tell yourself "truly this girl has no other men in her life...I'm the only one. Let me do my best to keep it that way". Boom!!!!

SOLUTIONS

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE.
Many men willfully place themselves in the path of Gold Diggers. And then cry foul when the Gold Diggers start digging.

Why do you have that BMW as your WhatsApp profile pic? Why is your townhouse your Twitter profile pic? Why are you always uploading your dinner pics to Instagram with the high rate of starvation in Africa? Why are you always uploading your weekend gateways to Facebook? Don't you know other people live boring lives and especially women are looking for adventure? And while you're at it, explain how borrowing your friend's car to get a girl makes sense? Because look, if you use money to get women it's only natural that women will think you've money.

Okay you made mistakes and you've a Gold Digger on your hands now what? How do you keep your gold safe?

MAKE HER FEEL GUILTY FOR ASKING FOR MONEY.
Your first line of defense in protecting yourself from a gold digger is using her First Impression against her. Because most women start out wrong by never demanding anything moneywise, that's your secret weapon.

In the early days of the relationship, a new GF is on her best behavior and is wary of setting herself in a bad light. So she gives you plenty of sex with minimal demands. Use that against her.

If you once fvcked a girl free, there's NO REASON to pay for sex going forward. Make her feel guilty about now asking for compensation: "Are you now selling?" "Are you now a prostitute?"
Make her feel ashamed of demanding money so she gets discouraged.

Do it right and she'll either backtrack with "I was joking!" or "Uhm, forget it". Then she'll go trouble her brothers and sisters and uncles and all the losers in her Friendzone for money. Just not you.

BE THE GUY SHE'S SCARED TO ASK.
Have a reputation of hating gold diggers.

Deliberately watch Gold Digger-themed TV Shows with her, only to be extremely disgusted so much that you pull the DVD or memory stick out in utter fury. Her mind is reading your hatred for gold diggers in any form. She'll think twice before making any outlandish financial requests.

BEAT HER TO THE PUNCH.
The moment a woman asks for money, is the moment you have a problem. Which is BIGGER than hers. Which you were about to tell her about.

A woman can understand why you can't help her when you tell her you have a bigger problem than hers.

Have you noticed that people have this annoying habit of telling you all their life problems when you ask for a helping hand? They'll start telling you about their unpaid rent, their unpaid tuition and their missed car payments. Why do people do that? BECAUSE IT WORKS. Instead of feeling angry that you got no assistance, you're left feeling sorry for the person that you even bothered him with your small problem when he had bigger problems of his own! It's a mental trick the person played on you. Use it on women. It works.

And it works even better if you can sense or predict a woman is about to ask for money, but before she does, you bombard her with your own problems. Maybe you hear from someone your GF broke her laptop. Before she comes to you with the sad news counter her with your own problems. That way you beat her to the punch. She can't ask for anything.

RECEIPTS RECEIPTS RECEIPTS.
An effective method to protect your money from fake scenarios and misuse by women is to insist on cash receipts. Yes receipts can be faked and yes not every service or product comes with a cash receipt. Still you can save yourself a lot of manipulation by demanding receipts.

But you've to be cunning about it. Your girl can't suspect anything. Also, emphasize to her that you don't mind the change. But you really need that receipt. In case you've to return whatever product she wants the money for.

NEVER TELL A WOMAN YOU DON'T HAVE MONEY.
That doesn't make sense to women. It's like telling a 4 yr old you can't afford to buy a car. The little kid doesn't understand why other people your age are driving and you are not. He doesn't understand the economics, disappointments and unfairness of life.

Women struggle with the concept of Male Brokeness. In their little minds You're a man and You're supposed to have money. When you tell a woman you don't have money all she's hearing is You're lazy.

So, with women, your "I don't have money" must be linked to "Because I just paid for X and Y" or something like that. If you admit you don't have money quickly tell her where the money went. Even if it's a lie. All she needs to understand is THE MONEY WAS THERE, BUT IT WENT SOMEWHERE. That way she tells herself: "Oh well next time then!"

FINAL THOUGHTS

WHEN A WOMAN USES YOU TO "LEVEL UP".
Sometimes women gold dig you to use your money to improve themselves to impress better men than you. That's the ultimate in game.

Let's discuss it in a future Miseducation.


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ebonyggurl:
So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators?
Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.

From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics?

My question dear what's a lady usefulness in a relationship if all she can bring to the table is her pussy and parasitic nature?

akinade28:
The first thing is to accept who you are. Accept that you are introvert and there is nothing you can do about it, you can only try to improve on your weaknesses.
The fact is that both introverts and extroverts have their strengths and weaknesses.
Stop comparing your weaknesses as an introvert such as being timid, shy, quiet etc with an extrovert strength such being outspoken and bold, because you will always undermine and underestimate yourself. You will consider yourself to be a failure and have low esteem
If you work on your weaknesses, you will discover that you can be better at your job than those extrovert, you are comparing yourself with.
Though I understand the economic situation of the country and the high rate of unemployment but not all jobs are well suited for you, that's why you are struggling with it.
I think you should consider looking for a job that requires your intellectual skills not so much of interpersonal relationship skills because we as interverts are not as good as extroverts in this particular area, it's their strengthen, but our weakness.
But in the main time, you can try talking to people or making friends with people beneath you ( in term of age, maturity, academics) this might boost your level of confidence or social interactions before you meet people in your level or above you.
Please don't do drugs, you will only damage yourself the more

You said it all dear, most of the shortcomings he listed are not characteristics of an introvert, cause I'm an introvert, the op is suffering from low self esteem. You need to work on it.

AhlexOfficial:
Three trailers toling the Okpara/Sapele express road have crushed down two kids in, Okpara Water-side, Ethiope East Local Government Area, Delta State.

The accident occurred at about 12.05pm this afternoon as traders were trading on a market day of the community.

It was reported the two kids were hawking sachet water when the incident occurred.

An eyewitness who spoke in anonymity said; one of among the three trailers knocked down both kids in an attempt to cross over to the other side of the market.

The trailer belonging RANO Nigeria limited company with the number labeled RN/O3/045 was at a high speed when it knocked both kids down.

Report also had it that both victims of the accident came from the same parents and one died on the spot.

However, the other child was quickly rushed to a hospital close to the market.

But the outcome of the incident has thrown many and sympathizers in Okpara Water-side into mourning as some traders packed off their goods home.

https://www.gistablog.com/2019/09/one-dead-as-big-trailer-crushes-down.html

This is sad and painful, why will a parent allow such a young lad and the sibling to be hawking sachet water at such a tender age?

Fountainofyouth:
What of we that are okay with our small boobs and massive behind?

That is improper fraction, how can you be okay with that?

OBUKOMENA:
Very good points, bro. The urge for sex with her is gradually dying. Because of that, I stay 4-5 wks without nearing her cos it's going to be same style, same frustrating experience, no kissing, etc. Na the build-up of the urge dey make me go near her again. And guess what? I have a high libido. Imagine someone who had had sex only once before marrying at 37. Hmmm?

Though I'm yet to get married, issues about sex must be discussed by would be couple, in other to know if both are sexually compatible. Saying yes to no sex before marriage to me is a scam, a man that has high libido should also look for same lady and vice versa. Sex is very important in marriage. I will advise you sit her down and talk with her, that her action may lead you to commit adultery

Souqwaqif:
Good evening all,I and my wife are married,after a very long courtship.our first issue is just about 3years and I don't want her to emulate certain type of dressing from my wife is fond with of recent.after series of correction my wife would not change from dressing like a harlot to a married woman.parental intervention has not yielded anything.in fact recent discussion with the father on the way forward made her infuriated against me that I reported her to her father.while I reside elsewhere due to work and she off campus I called recently to ask how they are doing and she rained insult on me,I then cut the phone on her.Am thinking of dissolving the whole thing because she is always fond of not taking instructions from me for her own good and that of our little girl.Pls what step will be right for me.Only mature advise is appreciated.Thanks.

You should be calm and take it easy with her provided she's not promiscuous. But you said you dated her for a long period before marriage didn't she showed trait of not taking correction whenever you advised her on something?

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My post is very sensitive so please I will love you to delete any foolish comments because I am emotionally already and don’t want to add . I have attached a picture of my boyfriend, one of those guys is my boyfriend,I have dated him for 2 years, he takes care of me, pays my school fees and rent does everything for me that a Normal guy does for a women but I just realized today that he lied to me, and still lying to me.

My boyfriend told me that he works in the bank , every morning he will dress up on suit and go to work, come back in the evening. Sometimes I want to visit him in his office but he will say he is a contract staff and he is in marketing and hardly in the office, I believe him for 2 years of my life . Even when he proposed I accepted, not until yesterday my friend sent me this picture and one of the guys packing dustbin happen to be him,I refused to believe it, I had to zoom the picture, she actually sent me up to 3 but I don’t want to send you that because it reviled his face to avoid embarrassment.

My own boyfriend a dust bin packer , Jesus like he sits on top of dirt and pack it , Jesus and still comes to finger me and touch me. I felt really irritated and disgusted. Is it the same money he uses to take care of me,why did he lie? He is too cute and intelligent for this , I was embarrassed as my friends laughed at me , called me wife of a dust bin packer.

I cried my eyes out, even when he called never asked him anything but I want to end the relationship. Give him back his ring , but my heart is beating . What do I do ? I can’t marry a dust bin packer , never.

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Don't have any issue with the kind of work he does, provided he is not into crime and the job is paying his bills, what I'm against is why did he lied to you?

icankel:
Is really a pity wat South Africans are doing to Nigerians yet our government are not doing anything could it be because of bride they're taking from South African companies in Nigeria. Oh God wat type of leaders do we have in Nigeria. Nigeria can't have something like MTN, Shoprite, or DSTV yet were boasting to be giant of Africa. Maybe were only giant of Africa in corruption alone

We should leave God out of this, a country get the kind of leaders it deserves

yom2:
. Fools how does that solve the situation. Do u know how many Nigerians those companies employ? If you dont have competitive indegenious companies those moves are counter productive

You're right, Nigerians should picket their offices nation wide