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humble1988:
Good evening all.
On 05/05/2020 I went to firstbank POS agent to withdrew #93000 with my zenith bank ATM card but the transaction was not successful. The error receipt that was Pos printed by the Pos machine was code 91. The pos agent told me that I should go and complain to my bank (zenith bank) which I did, in fact I have gone to bank like 15 times now filling error debit form but yet my money is not reverse. Pls what legal option can I explore or how can I copy CBN for the reversal of my money cox the last time I went to bank one of the staff told me that it will be difficult for zenith bank to reserse my money cox they can't trace that transaction again.

Call them out on all social media platforms. Especially twitter

ednut1:
Sorry to say this is a meaningless thread. You come home when you wish. Which one is duration.

lol. ok thanks for your input

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I need advice here.

exactly

Petyprincess:
The truth is your wife doesn't love you no more or never loved you!! Moreover why did you forced her into marriage with you? That's where the problem started.Nw the best way is to go your separate ways since the marriage is even early nd she's already gotten fed up with you,nw that you have no kids you still can still divorce nd let her continue her single life since that's what she always wanted!! If you dnt divorce she will keep on blaming you for forcing her into marriage when she wasn't ready.Its better divorcing that getting stalked in marriage that love isnt mutual!!

Sanquine:
In Jesus' voice: It is finished!! :>(

i swear bro. the sperm is really finished

bro u are not in this alone, I self-service every day. I’ve stopped feeling guilty about it.

crackhouse:
....but let truth be told, that girl was confused and don't know whether to plead or to leave. She was pleading but wasn't too serious about it, I am sure she was reasoning whether the guy is actually a yahoo boy or not when the officer was trying to arrest him and she don't actually know whether to defend the guy or to just keep her cool and watch things as it play out......

many would not be confused, many would run already

OZAOEKPE:
Lost my cousin on 1 August, was so painful as he stayed with us for just few months. My mum wished she had not gone to the village to bring him over, cause we never knew he was dying because the dad told us his medical history was fine and the hospital only saw normal sickness which we treated but he wasn't responding to treatments.

October 7, I lost a big aunty, she suffered pains all through the night. I heard she was saying words no one could understand all through before she died. She's the only child, the mother died last 2 years, no longer with her husband for over 7 years, left her son with her dad. You can imagine the agony of the father.

She died of cancer of the tissue, there is no cure. She cried of pains, can imagine the pains she would go through knowing she was going to die. Life is nothing

did the doctors give her a timeframe that she could live

WORLDREED:
I lost my 2 beloved blood brothers
Shit has killed me silently
People I was dreaming to hustle for so they have a taste of how sweet living can be.
This thread just opened my wound, Op u do well......

in the same year?

davidluv:
I lost my Fiance in March, the love of my life. For me, that shattered my 2019��[/color][color=#550000]

wat happened

Babaheekmat:
Leave am and do what? You got better job for me?

na advice
take am or leave am

i no get strength

Babaheekmat:
Am earning less than 20k. So, I won't marry abi.. I need wife too..

it depends on ur age bro. if you are young, leave am now

lilwetdick:
ok but lets be realistic, many men dont have that vision you have, many are comfortable in their position..only the risk taker become successful.

bro i support every thing you say. my own issue was just about the vision thing.

A person can only marry when earning 30k only when he is above 35. if you are between 25-34 and you wan go rush marry with 30k, that person must be stupid

lilwetdick:
a man with vision and focus wont be earning 30k. i believe in spousal support, both couples should work, combine income but 30k is nothing

how will this 30k earner pay for rent before they marry, who is bringing whom to the house, the man or the woman.

u spoilt everything from when you said a man with vision won’t earn 30k. I used to earn 30k from my teaching job before i moved to canada. i had vision then. If u say a man earning 30k should not get married, i understand but not that we didn’t have vision. please don’t make people earn that feel inferior. We all have our beginnings

6Milk:
2 weeks ago I had severe malaria and since then the left part of my neck has been paining me.
I have not been able to have upto 3 hours sleep since the pain began.
Please What could be wrong. Is it that I took a bad drug or something else

do hiv test

24kmagic:
You fit each other really well.

When you had a job, you insult her at will.

Now that you are out of job, she gives it back to you hot, hot!

Birds of a feather, they say flock together.

lol bitter truth

I have had this constant stomach pain for more than 3years. It is accompanied with bloating,burping.
Doctors think its in my head

Brightgem:
Advice someone will give your teenage daughters boyfriend in future even when he means well for her. Aymen. Since you are foolish.

lol
why are you so pained baby?
merry christmas love

issylarry:
Every1 is just viewing no one is ready to help,i think i v to remove dz off

help urself bro

its the reality of today
All man for himself

shokelvin:
My girl friend doesn't allow me to touched her for the past ten month without any excuse. What can I do. Four year relationship. Plz what can I do

touch another person

Jeweltz:
Good afternoon my fellow women,

This is going to be a long Post

Kindly be reminded that I don't need insultive commentaries as I'm already hurt by the narratives I'm about to share . I only need an advise. Google search lead me to this website few hours ago.

I have been into many relationship in the past with guys that their behaviour and way of life are nothing to write home about. The last straw that had the camel's back was the one that made me gave up on men to focus solely on my career. I was disvirgined at the age of 22 by a guy who I gave 100% love to.

It happened;

Sometimes around last year, a friend of mine was having her birthday. She was a colleague from work. I work in an audit firm in Lagos, VI( identity witheld). I didn't plan to spend the night there, but as it happened to be on a Saturday, I didn't have any objection when she asked me to spend the night in her place.

About 7pm in the evening, we decided to go out and chill which will be funded by her boyfriend. It was there I met this guy, which was a friend of the said boyfriend. Talks run into talks, he seemed like a perfect match for me and I was already getting used to him. I liked him.

Few days after,he asked me out which I found nice and cool.

Later, I got to know he has no job and has been into some side hustling all the while. I had no problem with this.

Months later , he started requesting money from me which he claimed went into settling some debts. There was a time I collected salary, said he needed 130k, it was so hard but I had to give him. All that I wanted is his happiness as he claimed he needed money for some hustles.

To cut the story short;

He told me his Love for Virgin girl and how he can Never marry a girl that's not a virgin. I asked him what if I'm not a virgin, he responded in the negative and I started getting nervous about us. I knew I'm not a virgin but ..........

He has been pestering me for sex, which I understand it's not a big deal. But the conversation we had about virginity has been making me scared of losing him. What if he dump after sex Just because I'm not a virgin. My mistake was that I had lied that I am Virgin. Didn't know why I had to .

I have resist all his attempts to have sex with me. Few days ago, I saw his chat with a girl which he's been going out. He had sex with her. I confronted him and he denied. This has make him to be ignoring me. He's not picking my calls, barely reply my text and if he ever, it's only one word and boring. But anytime he needs money from me, he call me.

Last week, he told me he needed money but I refused him. He started cursing me on the phone and vow to call it quit with me. he's still yet to respond to all my pleas.

Ladies in the house, what have I done wrong??

you be him client. continue

Lekside442:
Good evening nairalanders...I just need a little advice from you all..no insults please..and don’t mind my English....so we planned to meet today again..though we’ve being meeting before..she comes all the way from ondo to akure..so when she gets there..she called and I told her..she just have to wait for me..cuz it’s very hard to see motorcycle at this time of Christmas...she was then patient..so when I finally get there she said she has being waiting in the sun since..I then explained to her it’s very rare to get a bike this time....she then said okay..immediately we get there I get Something for her,a cold stone..after sometimes..she was then going through my phone....she saw one of my pictures and she asked when I snapped it I showed her the info which was Thursday...and her mood just changed..and she ask me to get my phone away from her...asked her what’s wrongshe didn’t respond..She then said she’s going back to ondo...I said I wanna give the bike man the TFare she said if I do she’s gonna tear it..saying all sort of things...I then just have to leave her to go..embarrassed me there and saying abusing words...and that’s how I leave her to go...please nairalanders what do you think I can do about this shit...I’m fed up of her unnecessary angers all the time.we've being dating and it’s almost 4months now...genuine advice please..I’d be very grateful...Thanks.

no one should kill your joy. Scatter her toto amd walk away