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Preshieben:
https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Good afternoon.. I know most of y'all have seen and commented on this thread plus this particular thread is not getting the views and facts it should... mostly bashers plus it's an old thread

I have seen most comments blaming the men for prostitution and I think it's an actual fact., I mean that's true to some extent.

Meanwhile, I think girls from poor home should be allowed to do whatever they want to do to survive while in campus without condemning them.. I'll have to explain this..
While in school, I've seen poor religious and decent girls drop out of school just because they don't want to get involved in it and I have also seen girls with numerous sugar daddies graduate with flying colors and even working through connections they got from those men.

I think prostitution is really bad when you have the vital things to survive and you're into it because you want to slay or when you have a supportive parent that are capable, but you're not satisfied with what they provide for you.

As a girl from a poor home, I knew what I passed through in school till I decided to have sugar daddies after 4 failed attempts of starting a petty businesses, things became alot easier ... Currently, I'm doing so fine and earning money on my own without sugar daddies..

Please leave these girls alone, times are hard so Is life

me too. I don’t think it’s bad. But when it’s time for marriage, don’t tell me to forget the past. Cus I no fit take am .

kyber:
I met this girl who I helped gained admission and we started this relationship stuff though, so after 3months she gained admission and we started hanging out. She comes to my place and we do little stuff, but one thing I observed is that whenever we are Romancing,she asks me to suck her nipples then after few minutes she just snaps out of it.then we kiss same thing happens,her breast is even small.

But when I tell her to suck my nipples or deek she always refuse. She told me with time she will do it but it’s been 3 months now and she still acts the same way.

Few days ago she told me she’s not sexually attracted to me but she likes me. Like I don’t understand!!

Then she confessed to me that she gave another guy head in school and even sucked his breast, I was so pained and emotionally heart broken.

Please what should I do ?

do nothing. Leave her alone. Go wit ur dignity

Smartjeezy:
That frog voice always acting smart.
I like am before but him dey over do now.
We all voted for obi during the presidential election but things have changed now. Don't cause problem for lagosians because of your greediness. Leave Yoruba people alone and stop seeing them as a weak. Yoruba are good people but some unscrupulous element want to take them for a fool. Let me relocate my family to somewhere else before this time bomb explode. (Obi go shock by Saturday).

I can bet my life, you never voted for obi

dayooye:
only few people are really making sense here, a lot are damn ignorant. i am in the same situation with your brother, got to know about the AS thing after 3 years of courtship, we were kinda devastated and it was as if the relationship has come to an abrupt end. despite our grief at that moment we decided to seek medical help, got more informed and we indeed found out there is a way out. I sat down with both families and briefed them, everything boils down to MONEY. I am capable of handling the financial burden of either IVF or PGD and we are willing to take it to the next level as soon as she through with her NYSC. just as AA and AA marriage doesn't in any way equals to HAPPINESS, AS and AS marriage is not equal to DOOM. the key is to be well informed and make a sound decision.

hi, I know ds was years ago but did u guys later get married?

OkoYibo:
Too many ignorant folks blinded by false religion and propelled by 19th-century information are just disgracing themselves on this thread.

Your brother doesn't need faith, he needs sound, professional, unbiased advice.

They can raise 5M to feed strangers at their weddings but can't raise 1.5M for IVF to ensure their unborn children are safe. Foetus Test at LUTH Sickle Cell Centre is almost 300K, they can't do that but can use the money for iphone instead of detecting the genotype of your unborn kid.

I'm AS, my wife is AS, we used a mix of faith and science. Let your bro try the test at LUTH if he can handle the consequences of an SS foetus. If not, he can try IVF.

Whatever he does, he must not gamble.

hi I sent you an email

Esoresor:
I for example can not date or marry an average man because i won’t be able to cope, so I ask does that makes me a bad woman? What if I have other very good qualities? Why do men see women who wants to be with only rich men as bad or leeches while ignoring her other very good qualities?

its not bad at all my dear. But first ask yourself, what do you have to offer a Rich man.

Testiebobo:
Have always being thinking dat, wat if am ready to settle with someone as a couple. And I know the risk of getting married to a wrong person, especially someone with HIV/AIDS. Is it bad if I ask such person for an HIV test? Won't it be like an embarassment? SO WHAT DO U THINK?

even me and my babe Dey do am regularly

1Battery:
It has been been almost 2 years since we broke up now just because she wanted to marry and time and age was telling on her ,so I understood.
Ever since then we've not met because I deleted and blocked her ,not until last month I bumped into her in a shopping so we decided to have some chit chat, she was now telling me how she misses me that even up till now she can't get me off her mind that she doesn't know the type of love or likeness she had for ,I simply told her that was in the past she should move on I can't have anything with her again,
She felt bad and was like she doesn't wants to let me go ,I had to stand up and leave her there for her to call me the following day and tell me she wants to have my kid that I should get her pregnant.
I dunno what to do cause I still have feelings for her she has always been there for me ,I still miss her I just don't know if I should take the risk of her having my kid.

now imagine dat was your wife and her ex.

Failure2019:
Trade day pay big time abroad


My guy way be plumber for Strasbourg day cash out £80,000 per week

your guy Dey lie

irumole1975:
Seriously, I've stopped reading the hype of these guys abroad because they're making some of us feel less achieved.

One was talking about a project of #250M hotel completed in Nigeria and I don't even know if na this same abroad I dey with them too. Also talked about him being here for just two years or so and he's bought a condo home, build many hostels for student in Nigeria and on his way to complete a #250Million hotel in Nigeria also.

I been here in this abroad and I can't even boast of $10k USD. It's well Sha. I just hope they're not lying with all these things they're saying.

lol no be only you oooo. I Dey confuse if na same one I dey

woginid967:
Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

which one be sfs

udeh3:
How many months pregnancy? They can actually do a test to know the genotype of the child, though, very expensive and risky. Risky in the sense, it can affect the child. If the child is SS, I'm afraid, they can just flush the child

I'm AS and I've passed through this situation before. Never allow emotions to overtake you in choosing a life partner. In the face of reality, emotions will disappear.

Best advice, is for them to see a medical practitioner

can you explain when u said u passed through sane situation before

KGD10:
They know who's competent, not the useless incompetent Ipob terrorist chinedu!

sometimes, I try to imagine what people like you look like in real life

oldienavie:
I am a single man in my early 30s, I used to have a girlfriend some couple years ago .
She cheated on me, I didnt break up with her but the relationship just kinda died and she moved on .

She started dating another guy but I was also sleeping with her occasionally cos she liked me, anyway, the guy found out and he decided he was not going to marry her, but somehow she got pregnant for the guy.
I was already out of the country when she got pregnant for him.

The guy wanted her to abort but she wouldn't, she has a beautiful daughter now, she is not doing so bad as she works with one of the top banks as she is very comfortable.
Because of the trauma she suffered during pregnancy, she became close to me as the boyfriend totally abandoned her and the guy has not set eyes on the daughter till today, the daughter is now 6 years old.

I have been out of the country for 7 years and I am due to be back in Nigeria in a few weeks time, I am going back to purposely to look for a wife, we are going to be in the same city .

We currently talk everyday and it has been like that since more than 6 years ago, she is not dating anyone at the moment and she also knows I am coming to look for a wife.

Its almost certain that we are going to get back to having sex as its just obvious despite that we have never discussed that, its hard to really stay away from her but not impossible I am thinking there is nothing wrong having her as a Friend With Benefit pending when I get a wife that I want to marry and then discharge her.

Will it be possible to be Friend With Benefit with her and easily discharge her when I find another woman I want to marry without issues ? I love her and would have considered marrying her if not for the history that we shared, we have now become the best of friends, but I am just confused if resuming sex with her will not make it difficult to keep her away from me when I find another woman.

You know women can be very emotional .

person cheat on u, u wan still marry am

Timibraun0010:
Were you not making and paying for your hair before you met him?
Cos he's rich, he should automatically inherit your bills

good question. Was she not making hair before the guy

Ammmy:
I'm dating this guy who's very rich but he doesn't give me money. We do hang out and he can spend up to 50k straight up on drinks and stuffs but to give me money is a problem. He expects me to pay for my hair with my money, shop and get my needs myself. He likes me paying my bills. Time spent with him is very awesome. I love him so much but this stingy side of him wants to make me quit the relationship. I hardly demand money from my man but recently I asked him for money to make my hair and he said he doesn't have. I'm very confused. Should I quit?

NOTE: please I don't need opinion of alpha males. I need sincere and genuine opinions

quit because he no Dey giv u money? But is he your father?

justyhere:
I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy.

Last week, I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone.

They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her.

But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage.

What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.

tell her anonymously

EriMma1:
I don't pity you. That is how you people end up getting into trouble. That same big sac that other men too will be chasing after, tomorrow you'll say she's cheating on you.

Men like you are dogs and should be treated like one.

Go for the big bum and leave her for a man who'll appreciate her the way she is before you carry disease give the mumu self wey gree open legs for you.

there are good loyal girl with big bum bum

Goodlady:
As long as you update my account with money, I ll cope. Who needs to see face to face when seeing your man too much ll lead to monitoring. You can be hustling for our future in Lagos or Aba while I chill in Abuja.
I ll wait for your love. Just do the needful stated above.

because you wil have someone around servicing you na

interim4:
Lol, as the matter be now like this, she still dey tell me sey she wan go shrine go swear, sey make i arrange for the parol myself, but that once she finishes it, she will finally say goodbye to the relationship, that she cant go that far to exonerate herself and continue with the relationship, u dey see as far again some of them can go to prove shiit? She also stated that she will make sure that she includes my name that if she didnt do it and i am accusing her wrongly, may bla bla happen to me more reason why i have it sealed that she was guilty.

no mind am. When I found out about my ex gf, I was down for 2 months. I couldn’t believe it cus this girl made it seem like she’s a saint. No mind dem, dem sabi lie

interim4:
Bro am just here for a 9months course. And am going back to Nija, not settling down here, I engaged her but not officially just to give her re-assurance. Its not like i am always worried if she would cheat or not, shes always accountable, tells me all the places she goes, send videos and pictures and always making sure we are in touch until she leaves, i do the same, its called respect accompanied with accountability, so what happened that night just took me by surprise. Now i have received a heap of message from her now defending herself. please guys permit me to post the transcript here, fear women ooo, i know it might seem childish doing this, but i want yall to see how far a woman can go to deny shit they do:


Well in as much as I do not want to say anything concerning what transpired that led to breaking up the relationship, some things still have to be said,

Firstly, I obviously do not have anything to exonerate myself concerning the sound you heard that led to a breakup, but am sure you have done your findings, Now this is what I have to say,

If truly someone was there that night you heard a sound, Let the ground swallow me up and Let God almighty take my life but if not and you felt in your heart that this is the best way to treat me, then I leave you to God like I always say, you can’t plant rice and harvest beans, whatever you sow you shall reap it in double folds, God will use the fact that I am using one mind with you and reward me, and I just hope you are as faithful as you claimed, didn’t know this is how fragile the relationship is, na see finish dey worry you, but it’s ok, na me fuckup for that aspect, E go be ben, God pass any man.

I first name and last name, if another man has seen my unclothedness or if I have had Sex with another man since i started dating you my first and last name, I curse myself and my whole generation today with psalm 35 and seal it up with the blood of Jesus Christ
I will rather leave you, than to cheat on my partner, it has never happened and it will never happen,
You told me to stand up once and you were laughing about it, I didn’t even take it seriously cos God sees my heart, all I tried to avoid that night was for you putting unnecessary fear in me, as I was already getting scared at what u said
The windows and curtains were opened, so the sound could’ve even been from outside, my eyes reaction was just a mere coincidence, I would never in this world hurt you or cheat on you or even having a side guy, as long as we are still together, I am stuck with you and you alone,
I do not have the effrontery to even dare bring a male visitor into our home, I am not that loosedneither am I a wicked person.
All I have always requested from you is your love to always keep me thriving at my own end, that’s all

I love u so much ben,I will never do such a thing and am sure u know it

And have d effrontery to bring a guy into our home?
Why would u ever think I will have such mind to do such a thing
A place that i just moved in and everyone knows I am a married woman here
Something I didn’t do at our previous place where It wasn’t even announced that I am engaged to you, so u think I will have the effrontery to do that here
It’s ok ben to think whatever u want to think towards me
God almighty knows how extremely faithful and loyal I am to you ben, I don’t talk to any guy or start up any conversation with any guy, I literally cut of all means of communication with all my male friends, even my female friends that invite me out, I usually declined the ones that I know you wouldn’t be convenient with,
I prefer to stay at home lonely, than start going to place I know u wouldn’t like, I stay home most of the times and still I even get attacked by even single thing, oh I called u twice what were u doing? Oh I heard a sound and wasn’t like there was a sound of a door slamming or opening afterwards, I turned the camera to the other side, both the toilet door and the room door was still closed and it wasn’t like they were opened, but still yet no trust at all,
But if tables were to turn it will be a different story entirely,
How on earth is it even possible to bring a man inside our house to come and Bleep me inside our house…is that even possible? Oh ben, I am not hurt at the fact that you’re breaking up, what hurt me the most and make my cry is the choice of words u use on me and you thinking I am prostitute or a cheap slut, that will stoop so low to bring a guy to come Bleep me where I stay, even when I was staying in the hostel where guys were allowed to even stay over, I didn’t try such a thing, not to talk of when I am fully committed to you.
Ben i will always pray to God to make u experience everything you do to me, the way you accuse me wrongly and hurt me with your hurtful choice of words, thinking you are saying the right thing, God will look for a perfect way to repay u back in full.
My loyalty has always been taken for granted, so I just want u to experience it and know how hurtful it feels when someone lie on you constantly, constantly keep accusing you wrongly of cheating and won’t believe anything that comes out from your mouth, God almighty will make you ben experience it.

let me tell u something. I am based in Canada too, gf a girl I was dating for four years, wen I came to Nigeria, this girl swore on her life dat if any other man has seen her pant, make she die. I remember dat day in d hotel, she was crying. Guess wat, 6 people don see d pant while I Dey away. 6 na d ones I confirm oooo. Lol. Bros free those write ups, I can bet she Dey cheat

JackDaAlienz:
Guys, I'm starting to regret dating this girl, she is about to spoil major bag
I'm talking thousands of dollars
Millions of Naira!!!

I have been dating this girl for 1 year now, she was invited for seminar and big people attended, big people from Europe, asia at intercontinental hotel in Lagos. During the meeting, one of the cooperate guy started crushing on her and was trying to woo her.
She said she doesn't like Chinese guys( the guy is Asian) I told her to play along and get money gifts from the man then split the money 40/60.
She started insulting me saying do I think she is cheap girl or olosho??

Did I say anything wrong?
I told her to sleep with the man with condom and ask him for 10k dollars because the man really loaded, he funds research and grants of about $170k and he like my girl
she is jobless and economy hard yet I still give her and spend my hard earned money on her. So how is it wrong that she can't reason together let's make big money from the rich cooperate guy.
Was I wrong?

funny man. Your babe we go don codedly Dey run the package on her own. She no wan just involve u

interim4:
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.

bro she Dey cheat. Just do something. Do not tell her when you’re coming back to the country . Or give her a far date. Just surprise her, and when you see her, check her phone immediately. If she hesitates to give you her fone, know say dem Dey knack am. Even after checking the phone and you find nothing, make sure she stays with you for a couple of hours to observe her phone calls and chat. This way, even if she deletes her chats regularly, you will still figure out cus the other guy go Dey chat or call am.

SPiderman23:
Dont know how to go about this. or how to start this write up with this delima i am in. i opened a new account to post this, cos i want to be anonymous. i will keep this as short as possible.i am turning 36 years old this year.

i started the dating and relationship thing late in life, cos i was struggling and fighting for life. my first real relationship lasted for 2 years, it ended in 2018, it was the hottest breakfast i would never wish my enemy cos i cried like a baby back then( i had high hopes with the relationship and was planing to get married to her). i was in a relationship with this "christian lady" back then.. she showed me shege, i found out that she was involve with 2 married men that has finished her "kpekus" she did several abortions for them. the relationship ended

After what happened in my previous relationship, i decided to stay off the relationship and dating scene for a while. but due to family and friends pressure to settledown and born.. i gave love another chance. This one also lasted 2 years. This ex was everything a man would wished for in a woman. beautiful, Great cook, kind, and she "knacks" like a pornster..her skill in the other room was top notch. But the relationship ended. the circumstance and situation of the heartbreak and hurt was so bad and terrible than my previous Ex. i didnt cry blood cos i was not emotional stronger after going through what the other ex did and make me go through.. so this relationship ended on a very bad and hurtful note, it was worse than the first

Again the pressure from friends and family started again. its always am not getting younger, all my friends have 2 or 3 kids, you're comfortable, you can take care of yourself and your wife and kids.. blah blah blah

Then i met this new girl last year, our relationship is around 4 months old. but i am already tired and considering quitting the relationship.. she's a good cook, a very kind lady too. but in the real sense of it, she is not my spec physically, and sexually we are just not on per, and recently i found out that this girl might/could be a Bisexual. i am strongly of the opinion that she is or have been a bisexual while in school or still being in the act.. i have put it to her but she denied it.. but i am 97% sure and certain she is a Bisexual.. We are just not on the wave length sexually.. Now what is really giving me serious problem is that she seems to be ready to settledown too. i am really looking into procreating, having a child this year due to my age (Cos it looks and feels like, every relationships i go into, i always seems to get terrible girls than the previous bad ones i had.. its always like i have them from bad to worse, and then to worst, if i leave this girl, what do i know i am going to see out there again? ) i dont want to be 40 and just having my first child. so i am seriously battling with the thoughts of ending the relationship before we gets too deep into it.. Alot of people says she is fine, but to me and deep down, this lady is not my spec, i dont want to make a decision that i will regret in the future. some says i am having a hard time with her due to what i have been through in my past relationships.



Does it make sense ending this relationship now? or still keeping her around cos she is also serious about settledown and me wanting a child.. pls dont question me about love if i love her or not.. The love inside of me died in 2018 when i had my first heartbreak. i believe the real true love is always between parents and their children. in the real sense of it and me being a realist. there's no real and true love out there.. "Everybody just dey manage everybody"


Pls pardon any grammatical error here, i just hope i am able to pass my message and concern across. i am really not just in the right sense today.. What's the probability that if i end the relationship with this girl. the next girl is not going to be worse and worst than all the previous ladies i have been with in the past...

And yes i dont mind having baby mama if i cant get a good girl to settledown with.

Firstly, dnt marry hu no match you. Two, what happened with the second girl, why una break up

Phoneselller:
iPhone 14+ plus
Locked 128GB
Brand new sealed

@330,000

u thief am?

Bahdguyishere:
If you participated in Endsars protest and you are supporting Obi because he's on the side of the youth then you are deceiving yourself.
When the panel was setup to look into what happened when Obi was the Governor in Anambra State. He went to court and refused to attend the panel despite all the bad things he committed when he was the Governor of Anambra State.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/11/26/endsars-dismiss-petition-against-me-obi-urges-panel/

dis a tiki or tinubu attend

Omihanifa:
Truth be told, 100k per semester (3-4 months) is quite small judging from the way things are expensive now in the country.but he needs to learn how to manage sha.

Food is expensive
Gas is expensive
Transport is expensive

wait, that means average man children no go go school na bcus I know an average man won’t give their child 10k weekly

Berrityga:
So guys see me see matter oo, my head dey boil now but I don go buy Ghana loud and cachet squadron to take cool my temper. So there is this girl I just met though we've known each other since last year and we saw just once, this year I Want to take things to another level with her, she is working class oo, I invited her to come over to the island my place to be precised, this girl told me that I should send her transport, I asked her if she is not working that why would she ask me for transport, she replied rudely that I'm I the one that gave her job or I'm I the one that is paying her, that other guys that pay for uber do there ask the girl if she is working first. Omo!! She even went ahead to tell me that I shouldn't send her 2k or 3k that she wouldn't come. Guys why do Nigerian girls have the olosho vibes all over them. Why will a working class girl be expecting a guy to foot her transportation? This matter carry matter so make we reason ham!.

tell her to book d bolt, pay when she arrives. Knack her den free am

LarochelE:
I don't know what I've done wrong. When I met my woman in 2020,she had a child. She told me the whole story behind the boy and her ex. We started dating nonetheless, even though the story she told later prove to be false. But I loved her and the boy respected me and follow my lead.

However, things started going really bad since last year. Sex becomes an heavy duty. About two months ago, she told me we should put a brake to sex and focus on raising her child if I truly love her. Why will I keep spending but then you let me realize I can't access your vagina? And you don't want me to find sex elsewhere. Despite all my begging for sex everytime she always refuse. I told her best friend about this and she told me to be patience with her. But I'm tired. All my earnings, I used most to take care of her, and we've not even married yet

This morning, she told she wants to change the school her son is attending and gave me the bills. But because she Just next my house and denied me sex, I was angry.

Now, she blocked me for voicing out. I have called to beg, she isn't hearing any of it.

I'm just confused at this point

I for insult you but let me just keep my cool. How can you be so gullible? How did u let it get to this stage.I know u might love her so much but you need to have a rethink of this relationship. So many red flags.

ednut1:
land in a cheap province in Canada with your family, then you proceed to Uk after activating your PR. Then keep applying for jobs from the UK and move after. Or do softlanding in Canada, activate your PR and return the family to Nigeria while only you proceeds to UK.

perfect ans. No go lose both

letstalksense:
I have this lady I'm looking forward to get married to. We met like 3 months now. We are both from Christian background and we both love God.
I'm not asking her for sex and anything of such. I'm Just looking for a good woman I can settle down with.
We get into deep talk and she told me how she has sex with just 2 guys all her life. And that was after her ex broke her heart.
But promised she has repeat from that. And don't have any sexual engagement with those 2 guys anymore.
Then I told her I still love her despite her action.

BUT I told her she has to delete the contacts of those 2 guys she had sex with and the ex. So she won't have anything doing with them again. But she refused and told me, I didn't trust her. That she is just in friendship with them and have nothing doing with any of them.

Now, my fear is, will she be cheating or have anything doing with those guys if I eventually got married to her?
This is already already bring misunderstanding between the both of us.

I hate cheating and don't cheat either. So I don't like any situation that may bring these exs into our relationship.

But she is not letting them go. Claiming they have been helping her one way and the other, encouraging her in business (she is hard working though). She told me, she got nothing sexual with any of them anymore and will never do. That she has repeated from such. They are just friends now. That I should have to trust her.

Please I don't know if I should trust her truly or I should quit the relationship?

Please what can you advise me? Please mature advise. Thanks

trust me they are more than two guys. She won’t tell you all

seunmsg:
CBN is simply trying to be clever by half since they know the governors are already ahead of them. If Banks are still collecting the old notes, then business can still collect them as legitimate means of exchange and then proceed to deposit same in banks.

This kind of policy summersault is what happens when you try to implement an illegal decision despite the order of the Supreme Court and the very obvious hardship that citizens are facing. Kudos to the courageous governors who have ordered their residents to continue to accept the old notes as means of exchange. They are the heroes this period. Big shame on all those who are supporting the suffering that Buhari and Emefiele are inflicting on Nigerians simply because of politics. After the election, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu will reverse the inhuman policy.

so u stilldey consider same party wey put us in same mess