₦airaland Forum

gabbrri:
I will be so brief in explaining the skocker I received last week.. I have been suspecting my wife for a while now because of her attachment to her phone but I kept my cool trying to track what she has been up to,,
men my discovery was shocking, I got to know her password through my 5 years old son that is always with her phone. I checked her phone thoroughly but did not find anything only for me to check her thrash pictures on Google photos fellow nairalanders I saw a male colleague that always communicate her putting on my wife's gown in a hotel looking arrangements I confronted her on and she was confused on what to explain ... I post this here for people that completely trust their spouse to do the trusting with sense.. officially I am ending the year wifeless as I have demanded a refund of the dowry paid on her no going back I consider my decision a gain and not a loss congratulations to me for finding out what she has become on time

na man you be . Never forgive a cheating woman

victory36:
I don't even know why people are so crazed about 'starting a family'. Even someone who earns minimum wage wants to bring not just one child but children to suffer with him in poverty. So unfortunate

e Dey tire me. Person Dey earn 50k wan rush go born. Me wey I Dey earn good still Dey fear cus I know what it entails

Oluwashina72:
He's in a long distance relationship but his girl said she needs to be hanging out and he goes against it but she said it will be hard on her that he should try and reduce the strictness. Not that he stopped her from going to parties with friends but all her hanging out is based on her male friends who she said she has nothing to do with them.. And they still had 2yrs before they could still say they want to get married.. Advise please.. Is it proper for a girl to be so addicted to hanging out? She teach in a female boarding school in the east while the guy works in a private sector in the South

she is for the streets. Don’t let her deceive you

CJStarz:
I suspect a case of INCOMPLETE EVACUATION,hence the bleeding continued!
But hey,U were too much in a hurry to have undergone a D&C based on a scan report!
U would have allowed the pregnant progress!

I know of a lady who bled all through her pregnancy. A renowned gynaecologist advised her to undergo a D&C because the baby would be badly deformed if she decided to carry the pregnancy to term.
She refused and according to her,kept trusting God for a healthy baby.
She gave birth to a complete and wholesome bouncing baby boy.
They named him, Amazing.
Today, the boy,is now a medical doctor.
Dr. Amazing.
This is a true life story.

Not that I'm discouraging from adhering to a doctor's advice but always pray and seek God's own directive.

Back to your case!
U need a strong dosage of antibiotics and probably a second evacuation if need be.

I wish you a set of twins on your next try.
God be with you.

Shalom🙏

mtcheew

vicoson:
I have been married to an Igbo lady for 13 years. She is from Imo state. Her character is appalling. I have reported her several times to her family but they keep defending her. Some time in 2021, I intercepted an email correspondence between her and a pornography company demanding payment for a sample she performed. I confronted her immediately and she told me that someone introduced her into it but she gets someone else to perform those samples while she pays the person. I did not ask further questions. I just forwarded the messages to my inbox. The next moment, she wiped her phone clean and said nothing till we separated about 6 months later.

The problem now is that, after alerting her people for a peaceful dissolution of the marriage, it took them almost two weeks to inform me that I should seek a legal means of obtaining a divorce as Igbo customs and tradition forbids it. Please house, advise. We did not register the marriage in any court but wedded in a church after traditional marriage.

going by what you wrote, you were never married

luminouz:
It's still not ok. Unless her life is actively threatened by the foetus (ectopic pregnancy etc).

And Nigeria is not Canada. So focus on this case bro

you are just contradicting yourself

luminouz:
So are we talking legal or moral here?

Is it moral or legal to kill or both? Which one gets you jailed?

ok I get what you mean na. So if it is in a country like Canada where abortion is legal, it is ok to do it Abi?

luminouz:
Yes I do sir. Infact, I dey fuq well well. I love pussy!! But does that mean I have killed someone?

Will I go to jail for giving my girlfriend mad doggy that made her toes curl? Or will I go to jail for abortion, an illegal act under constitution?

Kindly answer me oga before I spit on that your yamayama bald head!!!

for the fact something is legal doesn’t make it moral. Is sleeping with another man’s wife illegal? No, is it moral, No.

luminouz:
Abeg, shut it. CHILD KILLER!!!

Let me ask you, do you have sex before marriage? Then you are no better o

searchlight:
I am in that shoes right now but i have been doing my findings. CVS is cool only if you or your partner isn't too religious to terminate the baby in case he has sickle cell.

I am going to proceed to marry her and we will be in the know of that fact together. The world has moved on from some people

did you later proceed

ezechi24:
Lols....she no collects any loan bro, na actually that guy buy am the motor, after enough weeping .....women

I swear. Na so my own tell me say na swap she swap her fone. I no know say na guy buy am for am

Massivedick:
I have a gf who resides in Lagos while I live overseas. I have seen her parents and done somethings. Planning to do a tourist visa for her as I have payed for documents to be gathered. She called me one day, to complain that a dealer who she bought a car from is delaying in delivering the car to her. I was aware of how she got money for this car(loan as she works). Then she gave me the contact of the dealer and I
Spoke to him. The dealer narrated his side of the story that my gf was to balance her 700k to
Pick up the car. To cut the story short, the dealer agreed to sell the car and refund her money as that’s what she wants.
The dealer said” you seem to be the only reasonable person in this girls life”. I was shocked and I had to ask him how many people have contacted him regarding
this. He said I am the third person. The question is could the 3 of us be dating her? One is a Major in the army, she got some military guys on the Major’s instruction to impound the car. The other guy is a married guy who I got his contact and did a background check on. I discovered that this same guy has sent 100k to her 3months back. And now same guy is helping her to get her car or money back. Investing time and money in a girl, for free?
I have confronted my gf and she claims they are friends. Please, are there still
Nice people in Lagos that invest time and money without wanting anything in return in this part of the world?
I even called this guy through a proxy(girl) and he was like” wrong number pls”. After mentioning my gf’s name that my gf’s phone was switched off and dunno her whereabouts. He was smart in answering as I perceived he was picking his words and didn’t admit anything or refute anything. Well, the dealer confirmed the guy drove my gf there severally and spent the whole day in his shop just for the car. Are there people who invest this same time in lagos and money as well(though one payment from the statement of account) available to me, without wanting anything in return? The military guy as well, who gets military guys in the country for jobs like this without anything in return?
Pardon my moniker, guys!😂

the way dem Dey Bleep her ehhhh? U no go believe am

afagha:
Good evening y'all,I'm here again o. Does gift deed have to be typed on an A4 paper? Does a lawyer have to draft it? Can it be done in a day?

when I did mine, na normal paper, I signed, the gifted signed and a witness. Took it to a court in Lagos and it was notarized.

SIXTEENTH:
Chill bro this her means of survival, if your windows are class you can slides them as usual and if you have a locked wardrobe you can as well shot them all because even if you confront her she is a well known woman around the neighborhood and she can as well sees you as an enemy of progress.
Consider the price of gas too and other raw materials she's using and even if you report her to any law enforcement agent, they might sideline her as well so please approach her with diplomacy and reasons with her on the way forward then watch her reaction first there you can know your way forward.
Best of luck.

what are you saying. Are you aware that it is detrimental to his lungs? Sentiments Dey make pple take rubbish. This is total pollution

subzheero:
Please how can l get an airbnb in kitchner Waterloo Ontario for family of 4,will arrive early next month

download d app

Hideaki:
Anything than Vancouver and Toronto avoid it for your mental sanity .

why? Those cities are expensive. I have been living in mAnitoba and I dy alright

AwokenVawulence:
So we and our fellow department mates heard a story where a guy gave money(20k) to a lady freely that he barely knew while a male close friend of his begged him for some money to lend(25k) only for him to decline saying he doesn't have anything,mind u the friend asked him before he gave the lady .
I said it doesn't make any sense for someone to do that and as I was stating my point this girl just cut in saying that he only had 20k not 25k that the friend requested but I told her that if the guy said he can offer him 20k that the friend would most likely accept,she got angry and started to say the girl needs the money more the guy that he too should follow his mates and work for money , then proceeded to insult me saying it's men like me that are the lazy kind and people should avoid, the worst was when she said that only gays would do that type of thing by giving a guy money instead of a lady . And to my surprise some supported(mostly the girls ) this shit, I just left them let them be, the thing dey pain me

una funny ooo. Na me get money, if I decide to throw it by the road side, no be una business

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

person wey go go Weda u like am or not.

topsam1:
How do i do that again please? I have sent a mail to you...

I have replied

Tozocalamity:
How should u react as a man and retain your dignity without appearing to be insecure when the woman u are courting suddenly began to answer lengty calls at nite . (Between 9pm to 12am), That ech time u try to speak with her on the fone she is one the call with a stranger . Its very becoming anoying to wait befor u can speak with your woman. I have asked her who the hell is she alwas speaking to, that im sure thats a man. She didnt deny. Acording to what she said. "That the guy is trying to woo her but that he is wasting his time" that she told him NO but that he wont back out but she seems to be enjoying the conversation. This is a woman that i decided am nt going to sleep with until after mariage. I dont want sum1 else to decieve her and taste it cos an nt going to accept her if that happens and i get to knw .

it’s the person that is sleeping with her that she is calling. You are the side guy

Nonexisting1:
What a fool.

a big one

topsam1:
Wetin you do bro?

baba reach me privately. Jesus assistants full here.

Caseless:
stop deceiving that guy. You want to collect money from him.

wat are you saying? Collect money from who? You should depict you illiteracy publicly. You never hear of PGD IVF? Abeg go and read

maasoap:
You are going down the wrong path. Your first and second kids might turn out to be SS

no worry. Work around go Dey

jattopeter:
Seems you are not seeing what people are saying here now . When I was in a serious relation, I took my Fiance to Hospital Lucky enough She was As while I am AA. I told her straight up had it been we were both AS AS i Will call it a quit .My Church cant even join a couple that are both AS AS. Some children were causing their there parent for bringing them to this world to suffer. A word is enough for the wise .Dont try is pls , Love will not be able so save you when the consequences of AS Marrying AS comes knocking. Shallom

oga. I no follow you talk

bdon123:
Baba na mind.but i wont support poor man to try am sha.if u dey make millions per month,then dont be scared. Also,na to born less kids to reduce d possibility. Ie 2 kids...max 3

we fit talk personally

bdon123:
I n my wife are AS n we hav 2 kids . which test did ur fada n mother do before marrying?

how una do am

Guyman01:
I hope he reads this, I have a friend with 2 SS kids, I don't want to explain what they are passing through because its really a very pathetic situation

dem born first SS kid, dem still get mind born another

Samsunny99:
Can you send me your contact details please

I replied to ur email. Reply again so I can send it there

Samsunny99:
Love sometimes can hurt,a friend of mine came to me telling me how he loved a girl so dearly but the issue is that they are both AS,
After finding out,he has really been sad about the turn of events,
What is your advice or word of encouragement for him

brother. Na dat shoe I currently Dey. There are options, she is willing to do them. But I am still giving it a thought as my family no Dey gree. You can contact me privately if you like

CandyOps:
A medical abortion is usually safe but then the cramps and bleeding may take longer days

My ex and I lost a baby too using medical abortion. It's not something I want to experience again. So if I'm fucking you raw them I'm open to having a baby with you.

It's that simple. The emotions involved in an abortion is too dense I can't even bang a chick without protection if I don't see her having my kid.

Then in case it happens, I mean we're all humans. I'll make sure I buy you the morning after pill. If you like drink am. If you like no drink am

hi
I would like to speak to you in private

Massivedick:
I am dating a lady and I don’t live in the country. I actually want to marry this lady. I understand that distance relationship is not easy. I just have a feeling that her boss might be sleeping with her because it’s common in workplaces. I have called her one day and I heard her boss speak to me. Well, I was like that’s fine. The other day, I called on a Sunday afternoon and she said she is with her boss, I didn’t ask location but she said to me later that it was regarding the email she sent her boss that she wants to change department, she wants to move away from sales which says is too hard for her.
And has to go see him in person.The boss spoke to me over the phone again and thanked me for making her a better person. Said to me again, “I will officially hand her over to you”. I don’t know what all these means so I was just friendly over the phone

To cut the story short, she just told me last week she has put in her resignation letter. I asked why, she said , her boss and management of her company are just interested in them doing sales to bring money to the organization but not interested in anything that concerning their welfare.
Well, I am just curious and I can’t find anything Or evidence in this whole thing. I need an advice, I want to get the boss’s number, and call and confront him, maybe his response will give an insight on what kind of relationship she has with my girl. Maybe I should just keep quiet since she has left the company. I am just not certain on anything. Mature advices please, no jokes.

the way Dey r knacking her ehhh, u won’t believe.