₦airaland Forum

Beverlyjean:
U have a right to demand , but if truly evidence is found in ur House without a warrant, then no judge or court will protect u

You shouldn't be searching for an evidence without a warrant in the first instance.
In a saner clime,you can resist till you are shown a warrant but not in naija.

I even heard that naija police can quickly do a warrant after searching and found no evidence.If you want to take it up, they'll just go to magistrate court to prepare the warrant.

Coldie:
For developed countries u can only be arrested if u have a certain quantity of drugs on you, not where u are a recreational user. These people and joblessness

Tf??

I'm 100 percent � certain you haven't been to developed countries before.

Beverlyjean:
Too much movies. U are waiting for warrant. Also tell police to get warrant b4 they evade a robbery suspect. As long as drugs were found, no need for warrant . U really don't know the law

Why did they break into the house to come and search without a search warrant??
You have every right to demand for a warrant before anything else.

OBALOLA55:
THE BOY NA CONFIRM SIMP BRUH, I DEY SHAME FOR AM

Which girl did he simp for?
Stop abusing the word "simp".

FaceTanke:
Zinoleesky is a girl

He was crying

That girl shouting in d video is a boy

That is the irony of drugs

You see those sticks in their hand,no be for decoration.The part where an officer was shouting "enter inside",did you see how he used stick to hit the guy?

If any law enforcement don burst you before,you go Understand why person fit cry.
The beatings no be here.

Dreytonisback:
I they run Dubai visa with flight ticket for affordable amount
Oh serious minded guys send me mail make we yan

If u dey run street I go connect u with confirm gees for there to share u update

If u be babe u dey run street too , I get connect

If u no dey do street , I no Sabi lie , I no get work for u there, so na only to carry y reach there but I no get any job for anybody

Send mail make we yan even face to face sef

Naija dey kill dreams so abeg japa

Why you sef never japa?

DoggoneDogg:
Kill her

All these flatinós and violence ehn.
Later, you'll be blaming Afonja for skull mining.

orohbiro:
You guys be insulting him but he is cashing out and living large I will gladly date him. Na dating a broke guy

Na your type Yahoo boys dey use.

Vinnie2000:
Ok, Ma.

You are too SIMPle a man.If she wants to insult,if you can't caution her let her be.This one that you're replying her like she's your aunty.

descarado:
One don't necessarily have to step down if they work together.
In the morning, as madam dey kitchen, oga fo dey prepare kids for school or vise versa. The problem is which naija man fit wake up very early to do that?

Children stay in school till parents come back for them these days. As usual, oga go dey do home work and stuffs while madam dey kitchen. It takes two darling.
Kids won't remain kids forever. Before uou know it, one is already 6 to 7 and can at least bring out school clothes or keep the young ones busy by playing with them while the parents do house chores.

I am a very busy woman, so is my husband. We have perfected how to maximise our time at home and still have quality time for ourselves or me time.
As long as you two are on board, those yrs will pass.

Our mother's didn't know better. I hope we get it right.

Succinctly put!
It actually takes two to tango.It never came across me this way.

By the way,I am shocked
Since I've been seeing your posts on NL,I thought it was a male behind the handle.

sanpipita:
Are you saying we don't have two career people marry and raise kids together? it's all about planning, parents being there doesn't mean kids won't lack, let people plan their lives well and I see, I don't need anyone to tell me when I need to stay with my kids especially if I have time or even make time for it while my wife works, it's just common sense

Yes planning is key.

descarado:
If you have a husband who will not think his pubic hairs will burn while doing housework and supportive family members, why will you not juggle the 2. Emphasis on family members. E get why.

Based on what I have noticed,it is difficult for both spouses to be full time career people.They will lack in some areas like taking care of kids.

Imagine a military man marrying a female banker.
Is it a soldier that will be away on courses,duties, deployments e.t.c that she will be looking for to do house work?
Is it a banker that has to wake up really early to beat traffic yet cook, prepare kids for school,do house work e.t.c?

One must step down from career.The husband being the sole provider won't want to do that.

sanpipita:
Financial security is important for everyone there's lots of bills to pay and things to do, the assist you talk about, how will the wife assist if she has no financial security? with the reality of things today, no serious person will think a wife sacrificing her career is way to go unless they are rich.

When we are to choose evil,we choose the lesser evil.That is why I said the wife can actually forgo her career.After all,we have full house wives who aren't earning.

If husband can't forgo his career for obvious reasons and wife too can't forgo hers,what then will happen to the kids at infancy?

abbey621:
It's not about being easy but practicable. A medical doctor can become disable, ill, lose his license etc, what would happen to the family if the wife had given up her career and became a stay at home mom? The problem with most of us is that we are not built for the long term, we tend to focus on the now now now and accept the fate of the future. Most whites have redundancy plans, they have life, disability and income insurance but average Nigerian man has none and still wants his wife to sit at home and play chief mrs........It works when they are wealthy but if they are average or just barely making it then you open yourself up to the fear of the unknown, the cruel game that life tends to play with us all. Nothing is guaranteed in life but don't handicap yourself by reducing your sources of income in a jungle like Nigeria.

I get your point.

Lack of planning is what makes the issue much of a problem.

Krismas:
Bro I don’t joke with death. The tin shock me o!

Hmm well, it's not a credible info though.
It's possible,hin dey play game.But I hope not.

sanpipita:
Is the career woman not bringing money to the home, is there a law that says the breadwinner shouldn't take care of the kids

I don't know the family system you have in mind.
As for me,financial responsibility of the home is borne by the husband.The wife can of course assist with finances too.But financial security of the husband is more important than that of the wife.

Husband and wife should jointly take care of the kids.But since the husband plays a big role in finances, you can't expect him to sacrifice career for taking care of the kids.

abbey621:
What happens when the banker wife loses her job? Will she not be forced to have more time for the kids?
What happens when the medical doctor loses his license or is too fatigued to be mobile? Would he not have more time for the kids?

There's always a balance and those who refuse to find it are usually humbled by life one way or another. A medical doctor can have his own practice and dictate his hours, a banker can build her experience and have her pick between banks, I'm sure not all bankers work till 10pm every day, make we no make excuses for the inexcusable!

Not everyone has the opportunity to find a balance easily.Sometimes,the balance might still not be convenient.

Not every doctor has the ability/resources to practice privately yet.
By the time a woman builds her banking experience and is able to pick between banks, she'll have been done with child birth.
You now see things don't always go as we want them to go.

Krismas:
I learnt he has died

Why would you say that??
Whack attempt at humor.

simhosting:
The line was linked to the guys own using the mtn app or web.

The guy got the OTP through.
1. From the owner
Or
2. XxxX

I cant explain XxxX in public forum

So why add it if you can't talk about it?

sanpipita:
I wonder when they will even ask men if they can pause their career for their kids sef

Some questions need not be asked.
So a woman will be the bread winner of the family or what??

BigDawsNet:
Carry on with your career
I believe she will get a maternity leave...

She always resume back to work as soon as possible...

So she'll be carry a baby to work?A baby that will be crying and distracting her?

empressSkincare:
I don't support women putting their career on hold cos of their children. There should be a way a balance can be made between the two.

*A medical doctor husband that can be called upon anytime even when not on duty.
*A banker wife that can get home by 10pm depending on the situation at work.
*The husband bearing the financial responsibility at home can't quit his job.

Which balance are we talking about other than the wife putting career on hold??

pocohantas:
Whatever works for her, the kids and her family.

In a place like Nigeria, it might be hard for her to get back into the system whenever she is done with childbearing.

There are husbands that make their wives feel safe. If one is blessed with a man like that, you can afford to make certain sacrifices and not feel like your very essence was taken from you.

Sadly at my last count there are just 5 of them in Nigeria.

You like vawulence

QuinModah:
Apologies! Just read from the beginning of the post therein lies your answer.

You prefer referring me back to the post to answering "Yes" or "No"?
Cool

HenryDion:
I will easily get tired of it if it's in large quantities. I love to change soup lol

Oh I get.

thinkmoney:
You don show through here waris OG. U no dey rest. Ma give you one pics. May God help u to be able to compare and contrast so u know opoor really

You or your elder bro

Worldlegend:
My friend is a serving corp member, she asked her pupil to draw human hand..

Checkout their performance below

The first one is her own
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Lies it's not your friend.These pictures have been circulating for sometime now and it's posted by different people.

HenryDion:
She comes four times a week to cook and store in the fridge. She lives on the next street, so it's very convenient for her.

Since you store in the fridge,you can let her come once a week and cook larger quantity that will last you for 1 week.You can even store for 2 weeks straight.
It's economical that way.

Scientheosopher:
I understand your fears. Yet, your writing is already a discredit. If you don't want a possible attention from the Nigerian Police in the first place, you shouldn't have written it. Or you don't know that from this, it's possible for a human right activist or the Commissioner of Police (If he wants a cheap popularity) to contact you?

You no get connection? This Police mata na one of the ways for you to get am. I no go tell how; reason am yourself. See, for Bible, after God punish Cain, hin tell God say people fit kill am because dem plenty. So God come talk say anybody wey kill Cain Him go avenge am x7. Naso everybody take commot hand for Cain mata! Some of the connections I have, I got them via problems.

If you can't tell us how,then there is no point mentioning it.

thinkmoney:
Ok. I might be older than u, OG. I am sure u gave checked my pics. That's about 15years ago.

So you took a picture in year 2007 and you uploaded it 10 years later.

Opor fun warisi

QuinModah:

I asked you a question and you ignored.Because I'm insignificant ba?